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Condoms or Bareback
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My thoughts are always condoms. Even with a regular meet, you don't 100% know how they're playing with others.
Just my opinion and know everyone is different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would prefer a world where you didn't have to worry about diseases and pregnancy and it's safe to play bareback.
However in the real world it's got to be condoms! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess"
Type this topic in search pal.
Theres loads of opinions on it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess"
Always condoms, I prefer two methods of birth control at any time. Pregnancy would be life-altering. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess
No it doesn't, condoms all the way......even between u two?"
No, but we have been together for over 20 years  |
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It occurs to me that whilst this subject is frequently debated upon by all forumites and frequently at that, some seem to go with the crowd and common opinion.
I think there are more people out there who are willing to play bareback than would admit to such.
For me myself, painting myself in a corner here, with a new partner I would wrap it up.....if they became more than that, then yes I'd play bare.
Let the fabs use commence.... |
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I really don't mind condoms at all. I use Mates Skyns and they're fantastic.
Obviously we go bare with each other, we've been together long enough! But, we always use condoms on meets.
- Miss SP xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personaly i have a real problem with condoms, i find them difficult to use, fidgety and there is always the risk of them splitting.
A far better alternative is a cock sleeve, far easier to put on, far safer, as there is much less chance of splitting, and as they come in different shapes and sizes, far more fun!
Worth checking out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personaly i have a real problem with condoms, i find them difficult to use, fidgety and there is always the risk of them splitting.
A far better alternative is a cock sleeve, far easier to put on, far safer, as there is much less chance of splitting, and as they come in different shapes and sizes, far more fun!
Worth checking out. "
from what I can see, they aren't recommended as an alternative to condoms either for contraception or to offer safer sex... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your thoughts on the matter. I think it depends on who you playing with I guess"
With 28 years together under our belts we don't worry at home, but when playing they are an absolute must.
We will admit we have been very stupid once in our early swinging life, and the realization and the waiting for GUM results scared the crap out of us.
Fortunately we learnt from our mistake and we always come prepared with a supply of condoms now and get our regular tests done still.
You can never be too careful, even with protection, as nothing is 100% guaranteed in life.
Our last tests were just over a week ago and the all clears came through Friday.
Still hate the HIV one, even though it's the one you don't have to wait on results for. Even that 30 seconds wait is nerve-racking, despite knowing we don't take unwarranted risks. |
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At my age: mostve the people I play with are in that same archaic age bracket,& we're pretty far from pregnancy & don't play often enough to warrant vigilance concerning strange infectious diseases! So: it's "Condoms til tested" & results are verified on paper thinking for me... Then: if they're willing/wanting we can go bare! I am surgically safe B.T.W. for those whose genetic engineering allows such a occurrence anyway! But, I do especially like/& need to go bare for oral! Ya Don't put suntan oil OVER yer raincoat at the beach  ! Any archaeologists out there wanting to play I Do have my current and recent test results on hand, I do!  |
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"It occurs to me that whilst this subject is frequently debated upon by all forumites and frequently at that, some seem to go with the crowd and common opinion.
I think there are more people out there who are willing to play bareback than would admit to such.
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Absolutely. What people say and what they do are two entirely different things.
I like bareback, my profile says so
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Seconded- sex can be great, diseases never.
"My thoughts are always condoms. Even with a regular meet, you don't 100% know how they're playing with others.
Just my opinion and know everyone is different."
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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago
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I find condoms are just not safe enough, so I prefer to have sex from 20 feet away, with me (alone) in an hermetically sealed enclosure ... or was that when the nice people in white suits come to take me back because I forgot to take my happy pills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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but only if you have the relevant H&S qualifications....
always baffles me that so many insist on condoms but smoke like chimneys.... but perhaps that isn't classed as a health risk anymore lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself prefer bare back for pure feel and pleasure, (also am allergic!) but safe play always comes first and tbh it depends on the couple your playing, also the pregnancy risk. I don't use pill etc.. but have been comfortable with couples when he's been snipped and we have built trust in play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only bare sometimes with my fwb, both of us always use condoms with others and still get checked every 3 months, just a habit I got into after joining fab...plus the clinic have skyns condoms lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My thoughts are always condoms. Even with a regular meet, you don't 100% know how they're playing with others.
Just my opinion and know everyone is different."
this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't use condoms for years as I was in a sexless long term relationship and when I did get active again found that I kept breaking them even the extra safe"
Sounds like you need to either:
- Use more lube.
- Learn to put them on properly.
- Get a size that fits right. |
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