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Time waster

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was supposed to meet a woman today at hers, but for the 2nd time now just before we are due to meet she's gone quiet, she's not answering text messages and hasn't been online, I've spoken to her on the phone so I know she's real lol. Is she a time waster? Thoughts and opinions please

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Well. Possibly there was a genuine reason but it's still common decency to let someone know. Infuriating isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe she hasn't woken up yet, it's is Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Almost certainly! First time can happen, second time block. We all have problems from time to time but quick phone call is common courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe she's just not that into you. Chin up and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea it's possible but 2 times in a row the exact same thing, maybe I'm just being cynical

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe she hasn't woken up yet, it's is Sunday."

I messaged her yesterday just to confirm but no answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe she hasn't woken up yet, it's is Sunday.

I messaged her yesterday just to confirm but no answer "

Oh well, have a wank & Sunday lunch instead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was supposed to meet a woman today at hers, but for the 2nd time now just before we are due to meet she's gone quiet, she's not answering text messages and hasn't been online, I've spoken to her on the phone so I know she's real lol. Is she a time waster? Thoughts and opinions please "

why on earth would you have given someone a second chance who did that to you previously? did she give a feasible explanation last time? some people have absolutely no intention of ever meeting but like to be chased, some think it's a great idea when they're chatting but get cold feet when faced with the reality of meeting strangers off the internet for sex...the other possibility wound be that unless you've actually spoken on the phone...she may very well be a he and has shot his load chatting...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe she hasn't woken up yet, it's is Sunday.

I messaged her yesterday just to confirm but no answer

Oh well, have a wank & Sunday lunch instead

Thanks for the advice

but it's a bit early for lunch

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By *o1978Woman over a year ago

maidstone

Chin up and move on. She's clearly a time waster and is leading you on. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give her chance to wake up eh? Unless you're supposed to be meeting now?

If it's bugging you that much, call her and ask. Simples.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"Maybe she hasn't woken up yet, it's is Sunday.

I messaged her yesterday just to confirm but no answer "

From that point I would have been assuming that it was probably not going to happen. She may be in a really bad point in her life, with catastrophes around.

You did your bit but I would now move on, as she's unsuitable due to reliability. If she gets in touch, I'd suggest meeting at a club, where you've got alternatives, if she fails to show - if you'd consider her for another attempt. But the lack of contact would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you dont hear from her today before your supposed to be meeting ?

You have your answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would presume she was just messing you about and stop contacting her.

Once maybe, but twice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Calm down mate, I'll send her round when I'm done with her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be for a variety of reasons.

Keep it polite, message wise & wait to hear, rather than chasing.

have a wank & make lunch.

Wash hands though

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

Perhaps hubby sprained his ankle and isn't going football today?

Just thought I'd give the usual (married, cheating) response if the sexes were swapped.

Twice though, we'd take that as not happening probably just sitting at home needing to feel wanted but not having enough confidence to follow it through to a meet.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"I would presume she was just messaging you about and stop contacting her.

Once maybe, but twice? "

FTFY

New Fab term maybe?

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By *icplshropsCouple over a year ago

Rock

Perhaps unusual for her to be meeting on Mothers Day?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As the saying goes ..... fool me once , shame on you. Fool me twice , shame on me

Walk away op and find someone else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends whether she has honest, real reasons for not being available.

Only you can know what she has told you and if you think it is genuine.

Dont think it's helpful to post on forums about it, but if you think she is time-wasting, report and block.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a single woman and I've been let down four or five times in a row now. I really feel like just giving up. Latest meet was today and he just vanished. Fed up dot com.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a single woman and I've been let down four or five times in a row now. I really feel like just giving up. Latest meet was today and he just vanished. Fed up dot com.

Sorry to hear that but im sure you will have plenty of offers from guys wanting to help you feel better

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS over a year ago

Larne

Or a tease lol

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By *andi_shopWoman over a year ago

rotherham

Maybe a fantasist, yes she's a real person and even a woman but definitely not up for meeting

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