FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > You want meets? dont site support
You want meets? dont site support
Jump to: Newest in thread
Might be playing devils advocate here but the key to getting meets i find is by not site supporting
This means you always have an open mind and dont overthink as you cant see who views your profile, cant see nearby users and generally makes you use the tools much better.
You dont get caught up uploading frequent photos for likes which can take you off the actual task at hand
Does anyone agree with this or am I just way off the mark here
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets."
This.
I've let mine lapse, but when I do have it, its mostly for the fact that my inbox is "threaded" so I can remember what conversations I have been having.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets."
My thoughts exactly, the additional tools can be a burden in my opinion |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets.
This.
I've let mine lapse, but when I do have it, its mostly for the fact that my inbox is "threaded" so I can remember what conversations I have been having...."
That, and being able to enlarge photos, is why I support the site. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Quite a few people won't accept messages from non site members so probably not increasing your chances but i do get what you mean OP.
Eye on the prize and all that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I'd disagree.
As above, site supporter is just handy, you keep a message thread visible and a few other handy things. Few quid a month to make a site we use a lot easier.
That's it. On balance, I would say it increases chances of meeting because of the message thread thing, so you can keep track of arrangements and what people have already told you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Quite a few people won't accept messages from non site members so probably not increasing your chances but i do get what you mean OP.
Eye on the prize and all that."
I honestly think if a lady likes the look of you whether or not you are a site supporter is irrelevant she will reply
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
I haven't renewed mine for a while. I will at some point soon just to use the notes feature. Its handy when organising an event. Other times though I don't think it makes much difference to me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I haven't renewed mine for a while. I will at some point soon just to use the notes feature. Its handy when organising an event. Other times though I don't think it makes much difference to me"
I can imagine for the msg threads must be required as you get bombarded
For me though dont know about other guys but am rarely speaking to more than 3 or 4 women at a time so i can remember past msgs |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Mitch, you're in the UK and you're black. You already have a 10x advantage over white guys just because that's the trend now. Your experience doesn't count as proof of anything either  "
Lol dont no if thats just tongue n cheek but if you really believe that your way off the mark
There are alot of women who only go with white men the same as there are alot of women that like black guys |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We don't generally notice if someone is a site supporter or not, we do notice if people have a interesting profile been at least photo verified as well
getting a message off someone who can have a conversation and doesn't pay to use the site is better than a "hi how are you can we fuck?" Message from someone who has a gold membership -b |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We don't generally notice if someone is a site supporter or not, we do notice if people have a interesting profile been at least photo verified as well
getting a message off someone who can have a conversation and doesn't pay to use the site is better than a "hi how are you can we fuck?" Message from someone who has a gold membership -b "
My point is exactly and i find it stops me from overthinking things i.e if a lady looks at my profile but doesnt msg or wink |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Mitch, you're in the UK and you're black. You already have a 10x advantage over white guys just because that's the trend now. Your experience doesn't count as proof of anything either "
Lol you can't be serious....this is fab! In the real world you have a point but on here....noooo way! I can't even get a reply |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Men who feel they are struggling to get meets my best advise would be to not site support
"
I really think ill try it like this, watching views messes with your head and especially silly seeing as everyone has the option of turning that off |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Men who feel they are struggling to get meets my best advise would be to not site support
I really think ill try it like this, watching views messes with your head and especially silly seeing as everyone has the option of turning that off"
Try it, it changes your whole mindset and approach i reckon
I really want to know if there is anyone who has tried this already and found it worked for them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I think the people who assume that supporting the site will increase their meets are missing the point. The supporter fee is to support the site. that's all. The additional features can be useful but don't actually increase the frequency of meets.
This.
I've let mine lapse, but when I do have it, its mostly for the fact that my inbox is "threaded" so I can remember what conversations I have been having...."
 agreed. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago
Chester |
I love the message history but I also believe in supporting sites that I use. Providing any website is not free and as I don't want flashing ads and popups everywhere, I'm more than happy to pay. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
or just dont look at whose looked at you and whose fabbed you - its worth the fiver for the notes doodar and to sort out messages without keeping the whole damn lot - keep just the last read in the thread |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
