Hmmm it's only a minority but I get what you're saying
I always try to be honest and polite but some do seem to think that it's their right to meet if they have messaged
It's a shame because most guys appreciate an honest answer ... I normally say 'thanks for your message, you're not really what I'm looking for but hope you find lots of naughty fun'
9/10 times a reply of 'thank you and you'
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"My profile does state I'm not looking for messages from single guys - and that I will find guys myself.. any messages will be deleted.."
Oh well... use your filters then..
Problem solved  |
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By *ander_XMan
over a year ago
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It shouldn't ever happen but, given how often it seems to no matter how politely a wonam says 'thanks but no thanks', it's obviously just one of those things that's a part of the fab experience and will never change.
Another part of the fab experience is that women have their pick of men, so it's not all bad for you. |
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over a year ago
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect... "
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do  |
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over a year ago
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect... "
In the real world maybe. Sadly the relative anonymity the internet affords people, gives some licence to act the cnut. |
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over a year ago
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect...
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do "
You are missing the point. I like messages off single guys (even tho my profile says I don't want them) and I do reply and chat to many
But when my inbox reaches the late 100s - I will bulk delete messages from guys.
I don't expect to then get a barrage of messages telling me I'm fat, and how I'm going to get r*ped by him and his mates because I'm a fat dirty slag.... |
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It shouldn't ever happen but, given how often it seems to no matter how politely a wonam says 'thanks but no thanks', it's obviously just one of those things that's a part of the fab experience and will never change.
Another part of the fab experience is that women have their pick of men, so it's not all bad for you."
I agree with the first part however the second part is incorrect  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"It's not just guys."
Agreed, only happened the once so far though from a single female.
Nice message sent, fit all criteria, to receive back
"You've got to be joking haven't you? Minging!".
Couldn't be arsed to respond, block, move on.
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect...
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do
You are missing the point. I like messages off single guys (even tho my profile says I don't want them) and I do reply and chat to many
But when my inbox reaches the late 100s - I will bulk delete messages from guys.
I don't expect to then get a barrage of messages telling me I'm fat, and how I'm going to get r*ped by him and his mates because I'm a fat dirty slag.... "
Then you are contradicting your profile, just block single men and stop moaning about 'unwanted' messages  |
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect...
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do
You are missing the point. I like messages off single guys (even tho my profile says I don't want them) and I do reply and chat to many
But when my inbox reaches the late 100s - I will bulk delete messages from guys.
I don't expect to then get a barrage of messages telling me I'm fat, and how I'm going to get r*ped by him and his mates because I'm a fat dirty slag.... "
I'm missing nothing..
You complain about getting messages off men yet you don't filter them out.. |
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By *ander_XMan
over a year ago
Greater Manchester |
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It shouldn't ever happen but, given how often it seems to no matter how politely a wonam says 'thanks but no thanks', it's obviously just one of those things that's a part of the fab experience and will never change.
Another part of the fab experience is that women have their pick of men, so it's not all bad for you.
I agree with the first part however the second part is incorrect "
Well obviously I didn't mean any and every man, I was speaking in general terms.
I've said thanks but no thanks to a lot of women and couples but I've never had any abuse back. |
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over a year ago
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect...
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do
You are missing the point. I like messages off single guys (even tho my profile says I don't want them) and I do reply and chat to many
But when my inbox reaches the late 100s - I will bulk delete messages from guys.
I don't expect to then get a barrage of messages telling me I'm fat, and how I'm going to get r*ped by him and his mates because I'm a fat dirty slag....
I'm missing nothing..
You complain about getting messages off men yet you don't filter them out.. "
Oh you are. I'm complaining about abusive messages.  |
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It shouldn't ever happen but, given how often it seems to no matter how politely a wonam says 'thanks but no thanks', it's obviously just one of those things that's a part of the fab experience and will never change.
Another part of the fab experience is that women have their pick of men, so it's not all bad for you.
I agree with the first part however the second part is incorrect
Well obviously I didn't mean any and every man, I was speaking in general terms.
I've said thanks but no thanks to a lot of women and couples but I've never had any abuse back."
Fair point, unfortunately I have had a few instances of abuse from females and couples after I said no thanks.  |
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"... start being offensive when they realise you not interested in meeting / chatting to them....
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Yes same with women too !
Unfortunately offensive behaviour isn't gender specific |
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over a year ago
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect...
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do
You are missing the point. I like messages off single guys (even tho my profile says I don't want them) and I do reply and chat to many
But when my inbox reaches the late 100s - I will bulk delete messages from guys.
I don't expect to then get a barrage of messages telling me I'm fat, and how I'm going to get r*ped by him and his mates because I'm a fat dirty slag....
I'm missing nothing..
You complain about getting messages off men yet you don't filter them out..
Oh you are. I'm complaining about abusive messages. "
Yes but you say you are only looking for women and couples and if you want men you will find them, but you don't filter them out! So maybe if you did that in the first place you wouldnt get any messages let alone abusive ones ...
But it's probably too late now anyway |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect...
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do
You are missing the point. I like messages off single guys (even tho my profile says I don't want them) and I do reply and chat to many
But when my inbox reaches the late 100s - I will bulk delete messages from guys.
I don't expect to then get a barrage of messages telling me I'm fat, and how I'm going to get r*ped by him and his mates because I'm a fat dirty slag.... "
Do you not see that you are possibly the type to piss off other women on here? "Do not message" on profile, but not blocked & when they do message you instead of telling them to go forth, you chat to them.
Now, that's fine for you but these same guys will now message other females who also have "Do not message" on their profiles & probably get told to fuck off thereby continuing the "Why are single guys aholes?" & "Why are women up their own bums?" Type of mentality
The other thing I fail to understand is you are happy to chat to someone who quite patently couldn't even be bothered to read your profile or believes they are so special it doesn't apply to them
Basically either block them & go look yourself or maybe put the fact you like chatting to guys but won't be meeting any on your profile. Then at least its accurate.
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By *ander_XMan
over a year ago
Greater Manchester |
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It shouldn't ever happen but, given how often it seems to no matter how politely a wonam says 'thanks but no thanks', it's obviously just one of those things that's a part of the fab experience and will never change.
Another part of the fab experience is that women have their pick of men, so it's not all bad for you.
I agree with the first part however the second part is incorrect
Well obviously I didn't mean any and every man, I was speaking in general terms.
I've said thanks but no thanks to a lot of women and couples but I've never had any abuse back.
Fair point, unfortunately I have had a few instances of abuse from females and couples after I said no thanks. "
I've experienced a lot of things on this site in 5 years of being a member, including a man setting up a couples profile to contact me and offer me £1000 for him to massage and pleasure me. I said "no thanks" btw, and he wasn't abusive, nor has anyone else been.
Your experience is unfortunate but it is not the norm for men, it is for women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect...
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do
You are missing the point. I like messages off single guys (even tho my profile says I don't want them) and I do reply and chat to many
But when my inbox reaches the late 100s - I will bulk delete messages from guys.
I don't expect to then get a barrage of messages telling me I'm fat, and how I'm going to get r*ped by him and his mates because I'm a fat dirty slag.... "
Wtf!! Does this really happen?? What is wrong with some people?? Honestly |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
Where the streets have no name |
"... start being offensive when they realise you not interested in meeting / chatting to them....
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I understand what you mean, but believe me, being offensive without aparent reasons is not an exclusivity of men  |
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over a year ago
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"So block single guys, problem solved
I think I might have too...
I like to think respect equals respect...
Not on here...
Can't really understand when people complain about something that is down to something they didn't do
You are missing the point. I like messages off single guys (even tho my profile says I don't want them) and I do reply and chat to many
But when my inbox reaches the late 100s - I will bulk delete messages from guys.
I don't expect to then get a barrage of messages telling me I'm fat, and how I'm going to get r*ped by him and his mates because I'm a fat dirty slag....
Wtf!! Does this really happen?? What is wrong with some people?? Honestly"
Indeed it does. I get quite a few because I'm obese, which oddly, I am aware of.
I've had messages from guys to say I shouldn't be on the site, or I'm a fat slagging and ugly.
One guy proceeded to tell me on the forums that I should be shot dead by the Taliban. I told him he was a cunt. Guess who got a forum ban? Me!
I am well aware not many will be attracted to ladies my size, I have no issues with that. However I'll only lose weight on my terms, not when society thinks I should. |
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