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So where is the best place to go to meet other swingers? And Not a club. Wife is not into this. Somewhere we can accidentally bump into other Cpls. Accidentally of course. And perhaps begin a very gentle introduction and tempt her. It needs to be softly softly catchee pussy or cock I guess. Name the hot places to go in the UK. I have few days leave soon in Apr and might want a break somewhere at a good hotel where the secret opportunities may arise. Not an openly dedicated swinger’s hotel ? but somewhere that is not so obvious would be an ideal opportunity to test the water. Maybe try somewhere abroad later in the year. Where do all the mature swingers meet outside of clubs?
I may be interested on solo project with other Cpls, but that would need to very discreet. I would like to find a gentle non pushy slowly does it couple. A couple that may want a mature guy to share in their experimentation with each other or maybe curious side. Maybe they want to explore cuckolding? We would all be newbies or nearly newbies together.
Love to hear your ideas. Somewhere that could be an ideal opportunity .1st South of England Pubs restaurants or hotels guest houses then widening the search from there.
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There aren't really any places like this. Sometimes a couple will approach people outside of clubs but it's usually if they've picked up on a certain vibe or the couple look as if they're open to it e.g. eye contact has been made etc.
I have to say that we wouldn't want any part of trying to get someone to play if they were unaware of what was going on.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I have to say that we wouldn't want any part of trying to get someone to play if they were unaware of what was going on."
Unbelievably creepy, and very unfair on all parties involved. |
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So you want to meet swingers in a non swinger venue without pre-arranging it, who need to figure out that you're trying to trick your wife and help you seduce her at which point you're wife hopefully will decide swinging is for her after all and jump into bed with them.
All the swingers are at the swingers venues and your wife will just go apoplectic when she figures out you've actually been trying to trick her into having sex with someone else when she's said she doesn't want to. That's assuming you've spoken to her about it at all.
Here's the thing....
You're dreaming, what you want doesn't exist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Assuming that she knows nothing about this it's really quite creepy to try and coerce someone like that. Maybe ytu talking to her?
And to answer your question, to try and randomly meet other swingers outside of clubs or organised socials will be virtually impossible;le |
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Oh dear ... a little bit of communication can go along way maybe just talk to her rather than indirectly forcing it on her,it's not for everyone and there might be somethings she's worried about surly if something is going help help her dip her toes in it would be her partner by her side 
Having said that good luck (I think)  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Oh dear OP this hasn't gone as wel as you hoped has it? Did you really think your not so cunning plan would work? Especially as your profile talks about nothing but you wanting to meet others and doesn't even mention your poor wife!! |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Oh no, the car has just broken down. How lucky are we that we have broken down outside this swingers establishment. Maybe we should both go inside dear and see if they have a telephone which we could use." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Oh no, the car has just broken down. How lucky are we that we have broken down outside this swingers establishment. Maybe we should both go inside dear and see if they have a telephone which we could use." "
Pmsfl absolutely love it ha ha nice work  |
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OP your profile finishes with 'As I say "If you don’t ask you will never know".'
Maybe it's more simple than you think - ask your bloody wife instead of trying to trick her? Maybe leave your laptop open on your profile and see what she says. Although I suspect she'll not focus on the swingers bit but the veri a year ago suggesting you've cheated on her. Top guy
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Oh no, the car has just broken down. How lucky are we that we have broken down outside this swingers establishment. Maybe we should both go inside dear and see if they have a telephone which we could use." "
You know this may work if they are dressed as Brad and Janet from the Rocky Horror show. |
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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
..and there is your answer..The Rocky Horror Show! A sexually charged atmosphere, men dressed as women, 'straight' couples...etc etc, even a KitKat for a buffet..maybe the catalyst to a new life. |
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OP this trick would have three people pissed off. The swinger couple who realised you had brought your unwilling wife, and more seriously your wife herself when she discovers what you have done.
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So according to your profile, you want to meet, talk, discuss, experiment ?
Just a thaught, why not try all of the above with your wife, rather than tricking her into a situation that might ruin your marriage, you never know she might actually like the idea , but if she doesn't, you can carry on as you are with your little secret life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you mention she's not into a club,so presumably you have discussed this....so if she's perfectly fine about meeting another way,why not on here?...why would your profile not make any mention of her if youre trying to make out she's somehow up for swinging? if you know she's not,which is what it sounds like to me ,then what you are suggesting is downright abusive, and as another poster said, wouldnt go down too well with a couple you manged to con into meeting an unaware,unwilling woman either....can you not see how wrong that is? |
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"So where is the best place to go to meet other swingers? And Not a club. Wife is not into this. Somewhere we can accidentally bump into other Cpls. Accidentally of course. And perhaps begin a very gentle introduction and tempt her. It needs to be softly softly catchee pussy or cock I guess. Name the hot places to go in the UK. I have few days leave soon in Apr and might want a break somewhere at a good hotel where the secret opportunities may arise. Not an openly dedicated swinger’s hotel ? but somewhere that is not so obvious would be an ideal opportunity to test the water. Maybe try somewhere abroad later in the year. Where do all the mature swingers meet outside of clubs?
I may be interested on solo project with other Cpls, but that would need to very discreet. I would like to find a gentle non pushy slowly does it couple. A couple that may want a mature guy to share in their experimentation with each other or maybe curious side. Maybe they want to explore cuckolding? We would all be newbies or nearly newbies together.
Love to hear your ideas. Somewhere that could be an ideal opportunity .1st South of England Pubs restaurants or hotels guest houses then widening the search from there.
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Just talk to your wife ffs  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So where is the best place to go to meet other swingers? And Not a club. Wife is not into this. Somewhere we can accidentally bump into other Cpls. Accidentally of course. And perhaps begin a very gentle introduction and tempt her. It needs to be softly softly catchee pussy or cock I guess. Name the hot places to go in the UK. I have few days leave soon in Apr and might want a break somewhere at a good hotel where the secret opportunities may arise. Not an openly dedicated swinger’s hotel ? but somewhere that is not so obvious would be an ideal opportunity to test the water. Maybe try somewhere abroad later in the year. Where do all the mature swingers meet outside of clubs?
I may be interested on solo project with other Cpls, but that would need to very discreet. I would like to find a gentle non pushy slowly does it couple. A couple that may want a mature guy to share in their experimentation with each other or maybe curious side. Maybe they want to explore cuckolding? We would all be newbies or nearly newbies together.
Love to hear your ideas. Somewhere that could be an ideal opportunity .1st South of England Pubs restaurants or hotels guest houses then widening the search from there.
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Have you considered issues of consent?
Like... ASKING YOUR WIFE IF SHE CONSENTS TO THIS KIND OF SHIT? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So where is the best place to go to meet other swingers? And Not a club. Wife is not into this. Somewhere we can accidentally bump into other Cpls. Accidentally of course. And perhaps begin a very gentle introduction and tempt her. It needs to be softly softly catchee pussy or cock I guess. Name the hot places to go in the UK. I have few days leave soon in Apr and might want a break somewhere at a good hotel where the secret opportunities may arise. Not an openly dedicated swinger’s hotel ? but somewhere that is not so obvious would be an ideal opportunity to test the water. Maybe try somewhere abroad later in the year. Where do all the mature swingers meet outside of clubs?
I may be interested on solo project with other Cpls, but that would need to very discreet. I would like to find a gentle non pushy slowly does it couple. A couple that may want a mature guy to share in their experimentation with each other or maybe curious side. Maybe they want to explore cuckolding? We would all be newbies or nearly newbies together.
Love to hear your ideas. Somewhere that could be an ideal opportunity .1st South of England Pubs restaurants or hotels guest houses then widening the search from there.
Have you considered issues of consent?
Like... ASKING YOUR WIFE IF SHE CONSENTS TO THIS KIND OF SHIT?"
why ask when you can try to manipulate |
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