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Missing out by not saying something..
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"Anyone ever wished they'd said something to a certain someone at a swingers club? There was a beautiful man last night that we so should've spoke to and invited to join us, but I bottled it  "
Yes, lots of times ... my self confidence is near zilch and I also find it hard to gauge others' interest. It's a good job people sometimes speak to me first! |
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Hubby was encouraging me to speak with him, but he was (in my mind) out of my (our) league
Ah well, maybe we will see him again?
It's strange, the only time I felt happy to say hi is in our way out the door lol |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone ever wished they'd said something to a certain someone at a swingers club? There was a beautiful man last night that we so should've spoke to and invited to join us, but I bottled it
Yes, lots of times ... my self confidence is near zilch and I also find it hard to gauge others' interest. It's a good job people sometimes speak to me first!"
its your shyness and femininity that makes you so attractive though xx |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"More than a few times, it's surprisingly easy to say hello to people in day to day but we find it remarkably hard to do it as soon as the potential for sex is on the cards!"
i dont go to a social thinking about having sex, maybe thats the difference...
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"More than a few times, it's surprisingly easy to say hello to people in day to day but we find it remarkably hard to do it as soon as the potential for sex is on the cards!i dont go to a social thinking about having sex, maybe thats the difference..."
Was the question not about club visits?
I wouldn't go to a social and stare blankly at the drink the other person is holding for 2 hours until we nod heads at each other and leave. Rather presumptuous there my dear  |
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"More than a few times, it's surprisingly easy to say hello to people in day to day but we find it remarkably hard to do it as soon as the potential for sex is on the cards!"
Sometimes I wonder how on earth we've managed to continue as a species, and not died out. Lol |
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"More than a few times, it's surprisingly easy to say hello to people in day to day but we find it remarkably hard to do it as soon as the potential for sex is on the cards!i dont go to a social thinking about having sex, maybe thats the difference..."
Quite agree. |
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"More than a few times, it's surprisingly easy to say hello to people in day to day but we find it remarkably hard to do it as soon as the potential for sex is on the cards!i dont go to a social thinking about having sex, maybe thats the difference...
Quite agree. "
Yes, exactly this. |
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"Anyone ever wished they'd said something to a certain someone at a swingers club? There was a beautiful man last night that we so should've spoke to and invited to join us, but I bottled it
Yes, lots of times ... my self confidence is near zilch and I also find it hard to gauge others' interest. It's a good job people sometimes speak to me first!its your shyness and femininity that makes you so attractive though xx"
Aww thanks lovely  x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"More than a few times, it's surprisingly easy to say hello to people in day to day but we find it remarkably hard to do it as soon as the potential for sex is on the cards!i dont go to a social thinking about having sex, maybe thats the difference...
Was the question not about club visits?
I wouldn't go to a social and stare blankly at the drink the other person is holding for 2 hours until we nod heads at each other and leave. Rather presumptuous there my dear "
is it? i think its the same thing..i dont got to a club expecting sex either unless im going with a person i know...and im not 'your dear'. i dont have any issues in my approach to socials or club visits and ive done my fair share on my own...'baby' |
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"Anyone ever wished they'd said something to a certain someone at a swingers club? There was a beautiful man last night that we so should've spoke to and invited to join us, but I bottled it
Yes, lots of times ... my self confidence is near zilch and I also find it hard to gauge others' interest. It's a good job people sometimes speak to me first!its your shyness and femininity that makes you so attractive though xx"
I do like this is a woman
But then I also like it if they make themselves known and introduce themselves |
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