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over a year ago
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My wife gets turned on in bed when I talk about another male watching us play and maybe her wanking him off. Shall I arrange for this to happen or remain pillow talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife gets turned on in bed when I talk about another male watching us play and maybe her wanking him off. Shall I arrange for this to happen or remain pillow talk. "
or maybe leave it all in your imagination  |
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Ask her outright and find a non pushy guy who won't mind if she changes her mind part way through. It really has to be her idea though and not just doing it because you want her too |
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So you quite obviously haven't discussed swinging with her, & presumably she has no idea you have a single male profile on here. Why don't you discuss with her what she wants, tell her about Fab & suggest you have a couples profile on here?
You might be surprised at her response, but if you're going behind her back & asking for others opinion on a public forum, that's asking for trouble. |
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"So you quite obviously haven't discussed swinging with her, & presumably she has no idea you have a single male profile on here. Why don't you discuss with her what she wants, tell her about Fab & suggest you have a couples profile on here?
You might be surprised at her response, but if you're going behind her back & asking for others opinion on a public forum, that's asking for trouble. "
Ask her what she would like, and tell her what you would like. It's better to discuss wants and limits before taking it further. I'd also suggest a trip to a club on a quietish night, might be a way to start, inviting a total stranger around to your home could be quite scary for both of you. It's far easier to make excuses and leave a club than boot out a horny stranger if either of you gets cold feet. |
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"So you quite obviously haven't discussed swinging with her, & presumably she has no idea you have a single male profile on here. Why don't you discuss with her what she wants, tell her about Fab & suggest you have a couples profile on here?
You might be surprised at her response, but if you're going behind her back & asking for others opinion on a public forum, that's asking for trouble.
Ask her what she would like, and tell her what you would like. It's better to discuss wants and limits before taking it further. I'd also suggest a trip to a club on a quietish night, might be a way to start, inviting a total stranger around to your home could be quite scary for both of you. It's far easier to make excuses and leave a club than boot out a horny stranger if either of you gets cold feet. "
Thanks for the advice. Might suggest a club |
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"So you quite obviously haven't discussed swinging with her, & presumably she has no idea you have a single male profile on here. Why don't you discuss with her what she wants, tell her about Fab & suggest you have a couples profile on here?
You might be surprised at her response, but if you're going behind her back & asking for others opinion on a public forum, that's asking for trouble. "
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