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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's seems a common problem on here that so many ladies 'pretend' to be bi, or bi curious, either to please their man, or to attract a single fem, or other reasons.
Why bother?
It's a whole different ball game when women are genuinely bi, the fem on fem play is in an entirely different league. |
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"It's seems a common problem on here that so many ladies 'pretend' to be bi, or bi curious, either to please their man, or to attract a single fem, or other reasons.
Why bother?
It's a whole different ball game when women are genuinely bi, the fem on fem play is in an entirely different league."
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I'm very bi curious and have been wanting to be with a woman for ages but haven't yet popped my bi cherry ??- but I'm really hoping to find a lovely lady to be with very soon.
I'd also like to find one who would be open to having an FFM with me and my man as again the thought of that makes me so horny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's seems a common problem on here that so many ladies 'pretend' to be bi, or bi curious, either to please their man, or to attract a single fem, or other reasons.
Why bother?
It's a whole different ball game when women are genuinely bi, the fem on fem play is in an entirely different league."
Oooohhhhh I like this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree. I have played with women in the past, only at d*unken swinging parties though. I soon realised I'd not meet a woman one on one, so have gone back straight  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm mostly gay. I won't play with women who won't play one on one with me - which solves the 'are they just doing it for their partner?' question."
I like your way of thinking |
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I haven't had many female sexual partners. I didn't know if I'd "be any good" and all that jazz. I play with couples and single ladies. I was genuinely worried about my performance, one of my first female partners explained something to me....
Said I have no need to be worried or shy. Fact was the enjoyment I was feeling was genuine and that made a massive difference.
I was doing what I was doing because I wanted to, not because "my man wanted me to".
That's one of the bonuses about being a single female. I do things because I want to.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I haven't had many female sexual partners. I didn't know if I'd "be any good" and all that jazz. I play with couples and single ladies. I was genuinely worried about my performance, one of my first female partners explained something to me....
Said I have no need to be worried or shy. Fact was the enjoyment I was feeling was genuine and that made a massive difference.
I was doing what I was doing because I wanted to, not because "my man wanted me to".
That's one of the bonuses about being a single female. I do things because I want to. "
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's seems a common problem on here that so many ladies 'pretend' to be bi, or bi curious, either to please their man, or to attract a single fem, or other reasons.
Why bother?
It's a whole different ball game when women are genuinely bi, the fem on fem play is in an entirely different league."
I'd hardly call it a problem, if it bothers you just steer clear of those profiles or those who you think are not genuine bifems, although how you can tell, I have no idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think all the women I've met have been 'pretend bi'. They were all in couples so clearly just doing it for the man. 
You don't find out till it's too late though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what you mean. There are a lot of women on here who describe themselves as bi but do it 'because my man likes to see it' . I am bisexual, I like men and women equally and have been in relationships with both. It's hard to find the genuine ones though!
K xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im practically gay - but not quite "
I'm impractically gay, in that it's nigh on impossible to find a nice lady who doesn't want their partner to join in or watch.
My first sexual partner was a lady, I blame her for my desires. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think all the women I've met have been 'pretend bi'. They were all in couples so clearly just doing it for the man.
You don't find out till it's too late though."
Being on a couple doesn't make a man or woman "pretend bi"
That's the most uneducated thing we have ever read.
Seems somewhat more likely that Gay women are "pretend bi" to increase there chances..... |
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No pretending here x love the sensuality of kissing another woman, being gentle and sensous together before slowly exploring pain thresholds etc, love seeing a woman's body for the first time exploring her breasts, how sensitive her nipples may be etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm totally bi (H here)
Feel sorry for ladies who are doing it for there man, S has never been a watcher either, I'd rather a lady admit they were straight rather than being egged on to play with me by there partner, making it uncomfortable for me and her and always results in us backing off from the play, this happens a lot in clubs in open play so we don't bother playing in those situations!
Nothing beats full in bi play.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am very Bi. Have never done it for my husband. He is rarely around when I play with other women.
I love to pleasure a woman, but I also do love cock too
Shame I don't get more offers from single ladies  xx |
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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago
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Not always a case of pretending but genuine curiosity. I used to put that on my joint profile but then after a couple of encounters decided I wasn't that into ladies so went back to straight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think all the women I've met have been 'pretend bi'. They were all in couples so clearly just doing it for the man.
You don't find out till it's too late though.
Being on a couple doesn't make a man or woman "pretend bi"
That's the most uneducated thing we have ever read.
Seems somewhat more likely that Gay women are "pretend bi" to increase there chances..... "
You misunderstood. I didn't say all women in couples are pretend bi. I said the ones I met were.
The women were pretending to be bi so their man could watch. |
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I'm definitely very Bi it is frustrating when you meet and the lady is doing it for the husband, but thankfully that's only happened a couple of times. You get used to being able to tell if they are genuinely Bi from their profile and their verifications.
I love the ladies nights, pure girl on girl play with other bi ladies who are doing it because they want it
Bun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really know how to define myself really. I've never been with a woman so I am definitely straight but I am bi-curious which is why I'm one here (to hopefully have my first time with another female) but I've had no luck so far  x |
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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire East |
I genuinely wonder if I'm gay sometimes. In fact playing as a couple with my fiance is difficult because most men just don't do it for me. I'm almost always focused on the fem of the couple.
But then I see Brad Pitt and remember I'm actually bisexual |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am hoping to attend some ladies only parties and have some one to one meets. Any party recommendations and invites much appreciated!
K xx"
Oh you see, yet another person south of me. Damn shame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am hoping to attend some ladies only parties and have some one to one meets. Any party recommendations and invites much appreciated!
K xx"
I'd love to know of any here in the south west x |
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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago
durham |
I am most definitely bi. I did consider just being with women as I find I am more attracted to women then I am men but I still like a cock every now and then.
I would like to try a relationship with a woman though so I don't know very confused tbh.
All I know is I love women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been bi for as long as I can remember and I had a girlfriend before I ever went out with boys, so I only meet women to please myself and no one else... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deffo bi, couldn't see myself having an emotional relationship with another girl though. However, the shared physical intimacy is something that is wholly different than being with a guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im practically gay - but not quite
I'm impractically gay, in that it's nigh on impossible to find a nice lady who doesn't want their partner to join in or watch.
My first sexual partner was a lady, I blame her for my desires. "
you are on my list of ladies i want to meet - one day i will bump into you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bi curious at the moment so haven't had my first experience to say whether I'm bi or not if that makes sense. It was absolutely my choice to persue this though although it is also something my man would like to see and get enjoyment from
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd definitely class myself as bisexual if I haven't found my partner so young and if he wasn't my soul mate I'd probably in a relationship with a lady right with maybe a guy on the side cos I'm just greedy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there's a lot of snobbery amongst women on fab. I was really amused the first time I came across the term "very" bi on here, it doesn't make much sense to me. You either like fucking women or you don't, you like the idea of trying it or you don't. It's not a competition. Unfortunately there's lots of women who feel pressured into all kinds of things, not just sexually, to please their partners. That's their business, not mine. A woman can be curious but end up loving it, we all had a first time once. |
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"I think there's a lot of snobbery amongst women on fab. I was really amused the first time I came across the term "very" bi on here, it doesn't make much sense to me. You either like fucking women or you don't, you like the idea of trying it or you don't. It's not a competition. Unfortunately there's lots of women who feel pressured into all kinds of things, not just sexually, to please their partners. That's their business, not mine. A woman can be curious but end up loving it, we all had a first time once. "
 I often describe myself as very bi, but I'm certainly not a snob and not trying to compete with anyone! I just word it that way so as people know that I am definitely bi, I'm trying to convey the fact that I love both giving and receiving pleasure to a woman, and that I enjoy playing with double dildos and a strap on if she wants to.
I would hate to think that any one thought I was a snob or competing with them, that couldn't be further than the truth! I love to play with any ladies, experienced or otherwise, so long as she wants to that is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very bi curious and have been wanting to be with a woman for ages but haven't yet popped my bi cherry ??- but I'm really hoping to find a lovely lady to be with very soon.
I'd also like to find one who would be open to having an FFM with me and my man as again the thought of that makes me so horny! "
This is me also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there's a lot of snobbery amongst women on fab. I was really amused the first time I came across the term "very" bi on here, it doesn't make much sense to me. You either like fucking women or you don't, you like the idea of trying it or you don't. It's not a competition. Unfortunately there's lots of women who feel pressured into all kinds of things, not just sexually, to please their partners. That's their business, not mine. A woman can be curious but end up loving it, we all had a first time once.
I often describe myself as very bi, but I'm certainly not a snob and not trying to compete with anyone! I just word it that way so as people know that I am definitely bi, I'm trying to convey the fact that I love both giving and receiving pleasure to a woman, and that I enjoy playing with double dildos and a strap on if she wants to.
I would hate to think that any one thought I was a snob or competing with them, that couldn't be further than the truth! I love to play with any ladies, experienced or otherwise, so long as she wants to that is! "
When someone says they are 'very bi' I usually just roll my eyes and think to myself that they don't really get it.
Each to their own. You're either bisexual/pansexual or you aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd definitely class myself as bisexual if I haven't found my partner so young and if he wasn't my soul mate I'd probably in a relationship with a lady right with maybe a guy on the side cos I'm just greedy "
You know, your sexuality isn't about who you're currently in a relationship with, but rather who you're sexually attracted to. |
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When someone says they are 'very bi' I usually just roll my eyes and think to myself that they don't really get it.
Each to their own. You're either bisexual/pansexual or you aren't."
Perhaps you roll your eyes because you are quickly judgemental of others opinions on their own sexuality?
As is often mentioned, sexuality is a spectrum, not black and white. Other people will realise bisexuality can border from just curious, through like to dabble to like it lots. The word 'very' conveys that meaning and is useful and used by many people.
MrB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd definitely class myself as bisexual if I haven't found my partner so young and if he wasn't my soul mate I'd probably in a relationship with a lady right with maybe a guy on the side cos I'm just greedy
You know, your sexuality isn't about who you're currently in a relationship with, but rather who you're sexually attracted to."
I know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'Pretend to be bi' vs 'genuinely bi' is a funny concept. If a woman likes bi-sexual play then she likes it. If she's part of a couple and will only play as such then that shouldn't surprise anyone. It may, though, surprise some to learn that most women in couples are not compliant bimbos who can't think for themselves. Show a bit of respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so am I Bi or straight? No doubt in my mind that I love Henry and I love our sex life. I have often thought about girls in the past but like many I have never really talked about it. Our relationship has evolved and we have played with other couples and had a 3sum. I love being with other girls ( I only fab pics of girls no interest in guys) but wouldn't be able to pick the other guy out in a line up afterwards as that is more his thing... but it does turn me on as I know he is getting turned on by it |
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What can get frustrating - and this is just my personal opinion is when another woman tells you that she is bisexual when in fact she turns out to be bi-lazy. In other words, she will lie there and let you pleasure her in every way but does not reciprocate. Having been bisexual since I was 16 and now 48 I'm expecting the whole girl on girl experience, where both get to fully release. xxx Any genuine bi women read this thread and near me to hook up, get in touch. Iknow what I'm doing xxx  |
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It's all about body language, it's easy to tell when someone is doing something just for thier partner, be it girl non girl or girl on guy.
If I don't think the lady is interested then I stop playing and wiggles only plays with women if she has an attraction to them.
Personally find all this constant fab straight and fake bi ladies stuff kinda boring. Just accept how people are. |
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"It's seems a common problem on here that so many ladies 'pretend' to be bi, or bi curious, either to please their man, or to attract a single fem, or other reasons.
Why bother?
It's a whole different ball game when women are genuinely bi, the fem on fem play is in an entirely different league."
I say thanks to the OP for posting huni x I only post on threads that are of interest to me. I agree experienced bisexual play is totally different. xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What can get frustrating - and this is just my personal opinion is when another woman tells you that she is bisexual when in fact she turns out to be bi-lazy. In other words, she will lie there and let you pleasure her in every way but does not reciprocate. Having been bisexual since I was 16 and now 48 I'm expecting the whole girl on girl experience, where both get to fully release. xxx Any genuine bi women read this thread and near me to hook up, get in touch. Iknow what I'm doing xxx "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all about body language, it's easy to tell when someone is doing something just for thier partner, be it girl non girl or girl on guy.
If I don't think the lady is interested then I stop playing and wiggles only plays with women if she has an attraction to them.
Personally find all this constant fab straight and fake bi ladies stuff kinda boring. Just accept how people are."
I agree about body language and I don't like labels either.
I have no issues with genuinely bi curious women that aren't sure and want to try. Everyone was curious at some point- we were all 'bi virgins'.
I just don't like the disinterest from women pretending to be bi purely to statisfy their partner. If they don't fancy me that's ok. But if they are just doing it for their partner and they're really just straight then the disinterest can sometimes border on disgust... and that's really crap for both her and for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm mostly gay. I won't play with women who won't play one on one with me - which solves the 'are they just doing it for their partner?' question."
Couldn't agree more...
This is exactly the way I feel... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm hoping to find some one to one meets too but don't really want to start a singles profile
K xx"
dont have to - just say on your profile that you meet single ladies alone as well - youre not hiding anything - |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I think all the women I've met have been 'pretend bi'. They were all in couples so clearly just doing it for the man.
You don't find out till it's too late though.
Being on a couple doesn't make a man or woman "pretend bi"
That's the most uneducated thing we have ever read.
Seems somewhat more likely that Gay women are "pretend bi" to increase there chances.....
You misunderstood. I didn't say all women in couples are pretend bi. I said the ones I met were.
The women were pretending to be bi so their man could watch. "
Easy way round that, "No watching, you play or you can bugger off" you'll then also find the females that won't allow hubby to fuck another female.
How bi is H? Well how's more girlfriends than boyfriends sound?
S |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies only evening at the Townhouse this Thursday.
Down south yet again
its in the northwest not down south"
It's very much still south of where I am. |
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I make no secret my play with women has been limited but I've loved it.
I don't think I could be with a guy if he was pressuring me to meet women for his own gratification but as I'm single I love that I can enjoy a meet and it be about me and her. I couldn't give up men though so I'll just be greedy and take both |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
My guy gets great pleasure from seeing me enjoy myself, and I guess a lot of other guys in couples feel the same way. So while it's true that he does like me playing with other women, it's only because that is what I like to do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My guy gets great pleasure from seeing me enjoy myself, and I guess a lot of other guys in couples feel the same way. So while it's true that he does like me playing with other women, it's only because that is what I like to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think all the women I've met have been 'pretend bi'. They were all in couples so clearly just doing it for the man.
You don't find out till it's too late though.
Being on a couple doesn't make a man or woman "pretend bi"
That's the most uneducated thing we have ever read.
Seems somewhat more likely that Gay women are "pretend bi" to increase there chances.....
You misunderstood. I didn't say all women in couples are pretend bi. I said the ones I met were.
The women were pretending to be bi so their man could watch.
Easy way round that, "No watching, you play or you can bugger off" you'll then also find the females that won't allow hubby to fuck another female.
How bi is H? Well how's more girlfriends than boyfriends sound?
S"
Good idea, thank you. |
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