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Do all men go weak for stockings and heals?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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Hang on, your meets request it?  "
Yep I think I've yet to have one who hasn't. In fact I think men are obsessed with stockings and heels. |
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By *yronutMan
over a year ago
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Stockings and suspenders are so much more attractive than pantyhose /tights... Passion killers to my mind. A nice pair of heels, not necessarily stilettos but enough to give a lovely turn to a sexy leg.  |
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
Mrs
Hang on, your meets request it?
Yep I think I've yet to have one who hasn't. In fact I think men are obsessed with stockings and heels."
Good grief! I wouldn't meet anyone who expected anything. I'm not a mail order bonk.
I do wear them but only if I choose to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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Hang on, your meets request it?
Yep I think I've yet to have one who hasn't. In fact I think men are obsessed with stockings and heels.
Good grief! I wouldn't meet anyone who expected anything. I'm not a mail order bonk.
I do wear them but only if I choose to"
I love them but I wouldn't demand someone to wear them.
Then again if they don't wear them then I could hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best invention in the history of mankind...
Well, miniskirt as well...
...and tight leggings...
(Oh my Gosh. I'm obsessed with sex...  )"
Or women's clothing? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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Hang on, your meets request it?
Yep I think I've yet to have one who hasn't. In fact I think men are obsessed with stockings and heels.
Good grief! I wouldn't meet anyone who expected anything. I'm not a mail order bonk.
I do wear them but only if I choose to"
I don't think it's expected, but men always ask for stockings and heels from me, and I enjoy pleasing my playmates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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Hang on, your meets request it?
Yep I think I've yet to have one who hasn't. In fact I think men are obsessed with stockings and heels.
Good grief! I wouldn't meet anyone who expected anything. I'm not a mail order bonk.
I do wear them but only if I choose to"
This!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love the look on women. It is very sexy.
However I would never request a meet to wear it.
I would want the lady to be comfortable when we meet."
I feel inc_edible sexy when I give a man what he wants, not uncomfortable in the least  |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
Where the streets have no name |
"The best invention in the history of mankind...
Well, miniskirt as well...
...and tight leggings...
(Oh my Gosh. I'm obsessed with sex... )
Or women's clothing? "
Of course!! .. as far there is a woman wearing them.... 
I don't see my hairy legs in stockings  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anything I find stockings, suspenders, tights, etc a bit of a turn off. Given the choice of brushing up against a woman's soft skin or horrible synthetic fabric I'll pick the former every time. I like knee high socks though. I'm also rather indifferent to heels, although again knee high boots are sexy. |
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"I love the look on women. It is very sexy.
However I would never request a meet to wear it.
I would want the lady to be comfortable when we meet.
I feel inc_edible sexy when I give a man what he wants, not uncomfortable in the least "
that's great. Love that attitude. If you asked me how I wanted you to dress I would include stockings, suspenders and heels |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
Mrs "
not me personally i prefer just skin. but I am sca_ed I might just be the only one.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sexiest thing is a woman who is feeling good and confident. If wearing lingerie helps with that then I'm all for it."
I dress up primarily for myself as I love the feel and look of sexy underwear and I feel confident. I also enjoy seeing my playmates' reactions when they remove my dress. |
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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Oh yes, other requests? Well patterned stockings and a pleated skirt, short of course. Alternatively an all in one body stocking... |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
Mrs
not me personally i prefer just skin. but I am sca_ed I might just be the only one. "
I prefer just skin |
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Hell, yeah! But then being more than a bit partial to lovely legs, heels and stockings are almost always going to be a satisfying addition. Mind you, there are some legs I have been privileged to see that are utterly delicious as they are - naked, smooth, toned and lightly bronzed. Makes me all animal  |
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Tina vonteese standard uniform when flirting !
I defy any one not to be excited about the discovery of what lies under the dress or skirt .
when they run thier eyes up from my heels to my hem and seethe lace tops and the outline of the suspender straps. ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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oh yessssssssssss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heels like these?
Quite possibly. To be honest, from what I can see in the picture you look like you may have a very fine pair of legs to match them. "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they make the person wearing them feel more sexy then yes....but it's the person who is sexy not their underwear, this only enhances how sexy a person is or is feeling |
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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Definite hands up.....I love seeing women in a while array of sexy lingerie....be it stockings and suspenders, to teddies, bodices and corsets...all very yummy in my book |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the look on women. It is very sexy.
However I would never request a meet to wear it.
I would want the lady to be comfortable when we meet.
I feel inc_edible sexy when I give a man what he wants, not uncomfortable in the least "
What about giving a man what he wants and you don't?
You feel sexy in lingerie and attract men who like this look. It is not for everyone, many dont care much and some genuinely prefer the natural? look. Though I will agree that a fair few of those that like it have a full-blown fetish for it - but it's never acknowledged? as one, and it is not ridiculed like feet and whatnot because it is so prevalent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the only part of swinging for us were I am allowed to have a rule - we won't play or have a 3sum unless Velma is in her stockings and heels.
When we had a regular male visitor, we didn't always have sex, but if Velma appea_ed in her stockings then it was the signal she wanted it to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The feeling of nylon cove_ed skin makes me cringe. It's actually a turn off. So playmates wearing nylons, Basques and quite a lot of lingerie does nothing for me.
Give me birthday suits any day of the week! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love the look on women. It is very sexy.
However I would never request a meet to wear it.
I would want the lady to be comfortable when we meet.
I feel inc_edible sexy when I give a man what he wants, not uncomfortable in the least
What about giving a man what he wants and you don't?
You feel sexy in lingerie and attract men who like this look. It is not for everyone, many dont care much and some genuinely prefer the natural? look. Though I will agree that a fair few of those that like it have a full-blown fetish for it - but it's never acknowledged? as one, and it is not ridiculed like feet and whatnot because it is so prevalent."
When we started in this lifestyle, I was probably more natural in my style. But men consistently expressed their enthusiasm for certain clothing, so I gave it a go and found I enjoyed the reaction. Dressing for men's pleasure is now part of the fun for me. Admittedly there was one guy who did like the natural look and asked me to send him photos of me in ordinary clothes and ordinary underwear. I didn't feel sexy though in my everyday clothes, so I didn't get quite the same enjoyment pleasing him. |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
Mrs "
I think just about everyone male and female love some kind of hosiery and heels but it's the person that's wearing them that counts. |
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By *ike2lick2muchMan
over a year ago
Wales/Pembrokeshire/Cardiganshire |
Definite & huge YES, YES, YES!
When in a club/party, women that have taken the time and effort to dress up sexily get my undivided attention over and above those who have not.....
I always say, It's like having a beautiful looking Xmas tree...but then when you dress it up....wow!!
Don't you stop ladies..........xx |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
Mrs
not me personally i prefer just skin. but I am sca_ed I might just be the only one.
I prefer just skin "
Im not the only over yaay lol.
there's something about stockings and heels that just doesn't do it for me, they are just merely clothes. Compa_ed to being naked you can see form, the light hitting the skin, the women's form.
what makes you prefer skin over stocking and heels? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
Mrs "
No. Not all men go weak for it. Not all men like it. At least three of my regular partners don't care for it at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
Mrs
No. Not all men go weak for it. Not all men like it. At least three of my regular partners don't care for it at all."
I don't wear high high heels and stockings either, and I've never had a problem having men interested. |
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Think it's down to the person I do like it . Plus it's nice that said person is making an effort wants to dress for u or feels sexy in stockings and suspenders anything that puts a smile on your face is good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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Nope. My ex had no interest in either and nice underwear was lost on him. It's a novelty to now be with someone who likes all of the above. Bloody expensive though!
Ruby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't, not that I don't find them attractive, but I wouldn't say that they makes a woman sexier per se.
I think that flat shoes and nice lacey lingeries are subtle therefore sexier imo though. |
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I wear hold up's to meets as a matter of course because I have 221,465 thread veins (sexy huh?). I also ONLY wear matching lingerie ever - it's something I'm OCD about - ergo it's a given that I'd wear them on a meet anyway!
I expect to meet the guy I see on his pics, so I totally understand that - As I wear lingerie on most of my pics - then that's what they expect to see! If my pics were all just of me naked etc - then I guess that's what they'd expect! I endeavour to provide the 'Peachy' they see on my pictures - though I do like to get naked later on (NOTHING feels sexier than skin on skin )
The only exception to this is if I'm meeting someone straight after college etc - when I just look 'normal' ie not fully made up with hair down etc. I'll always warn guys of this beforehand though and make sure they're happy with it! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the look of stockings and suspenders but I find the hold ups ping out of the clips and roll down my leg when I move. Stockings and suspenders during a meet just stress me out. I think I've got the sizing wrong and need bigger hold ups   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are great for a tease if the lady enjoys wearing them. But for a meet I prefer naked and I don't mind admitting that I actually find the feel of a bit of leg stubble mildly arousing....is that just me too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nice when a man makes a effort and dress nice .lol and I don't mean in heels and stockings .Just some don't and If the women has made a effort. I think a man should dress smart, first impression sticks . |
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By *aggersMan
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
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Doesn't do it for me but sexy French underwear now your talking |
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By *aggersMan
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"It's nice when a man makes a effort and dress nice .lol and I don't mean in heels and stockings .Just some don't and If the women has made a effort. I think a man should dress smart, first impression sticks . "
Surely a guy wouldn't turn up to a meet dressed like Eminem does that even happen ? I like to look good and smell great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's nice when a man makes a effort and dress nice .lol and I don't mean in heels and stockings .Just some don't and If the women has made a effort. I think a man should dress smart, first impression sticks .
Well I think it's a north east thing .but on two occasions I had a social with 2 different men .one was cove_ed in dog hair and the other dressed like Eminem.lol
Surely a guy wouldn't turn up to a meet dressed like Eminem does that even happen ? I like to look good and smell great "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are great for a tease if the lady enjoys wearing them. But for a meet I prefer naked and I don't mind admitting that I actually find the feel of a bit of leg stubble mildly arousing....is that just me too?"
No, that's not just you. I've met a few men who like body hair on a woman. It makes life so much easier |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not against either particularly but I'm not really for them either.
Striped knee-high socks would be my preference "
Knee high socks have a certain appeal to them don't they? I imagine the wearer to have attitude (which I like). |
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Yeah I think stockings and heels are very important on a woman but I won't go weak just for that cause me and my friend we like very beautiful women and that's why we swing but we noticed the beautiful women are very picky and watch the women we go with, once we go with a very beautiful woman other very beautiful women within the scene want us, I don't know how comfortable those heels are, although I agree they give an exotic look, I prefer nice exotic flat shoes with a very short skirt and a nice top, with the hair looking nice either short or long, lets experiment in a party scene and see which appearance wins, am sure the flat shoe ladies with nice jewellery and short skirts will win cause it gives this look of an accomplished business woman but thats just my opinion, what do you think guys? |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"It's nice when a man makes a effort and dress nice .lol and I don't mean in heels and stockings .Just some don't and If the women has made a effort. I think a man should dress smart, first impression sticks .
Well I think it's a north east thing .but on two occasions I had a social with 2 different men .one was cove_ed in dog hair and the other dressed like Eminem.lol
Surely a guy wouldn't turn up to a meet dressed like Eminem does that even happen ? I like to look good and smell great "
he is probably some chavy guy who thought he looked dappa with overly expensive jogging bottoms. |
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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago
Wrexham |
"I'm not against either particularly but I'm not really for them either.
Striped knee-high socks would be my preference
Knee high socks have a certain appeal to them don't they? I imagine the wearer to have attitude (which I like). "
Indeed! They come across as effortlessly sexy in my mind.
I should also proof-read my posts a little better. The glaring repetition of "either" will irk me now. |
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"Guilty, but I'd never dare ask a meet to wear something specific"
One of the advantages of meeting people regular is you can request very politely of course certain things e.g. We prefer black lingerie to other colours so we can request that if there is a choice to be had .Also it's lovely when a couple ask before a meeting do we have any preferences and they get major Brownie points for that.
We can't believe the number of photos on here of ladies with lovely lingerie and stockings but bare feet .That just seems wrong a bit like Christmas with decorations but without a tree . |
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"I'm not against either particularly but I'm not really for them either.
Striped knee-high socks would be my preference
Knee high socks have a certain appeal to them don't they? I imagine the wearer to have attitude (which I like). "
We both love knee high socks too. I particularly like them when I can't be bothe_ed to shave my legs. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"Guilty, but I'd never dare ask a meet to wear something specific
One of the advantages of meeting people regular is you can request very politely of course certain things e.g. We prefer black lingerie to other colours so we can request that if there is a choice to be had .Also it's lovely when a couple ask before a meeting do we have any preferences and they get major Brownie points for that.
We can't believe the number of photos on here of ladies with lovely lingerie and stockings but bare feet .That just seems wrong a bit like Christmas with decorations but without a tree ."
Not for those with a foot fetish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stockings, suspender and heels; fuck yes. Fish nets don't really do anything for me when a woman wears them. Can't beat the way stockings feel on a woman's legs though. Love the sound of them rubbing too! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Not all men. The ones I've met have always appea_ed happy to see me however I come packaged. The dressing up is up to me although I do like to surprise them by making a mental note of something they've mentioned in passing they find sexy. Much more fun choosing an outfit that way. For me, anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love how horny and hot wearing black stockings and suspender belt makes me feel! Though I don't wear heels I'm 5ft 10in tall! X "
Get ya heels on sexy lady ..I'm 6'3 so that's not a problem |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do wonder what it is that makes so many men consistently react to those 2 items of clothing. Something I wasn't aware of until I joined the swing scene. But wow really do get a kick out of the reaction, and the sense of power it gives me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The holy grail is stockings suspenders and suede heels"
I had the pleasure of playing with a sexy lady, wearing exactly these items of clothing last Saturday. Best looking woman in the club that night IMO. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I've yet to have a meet where the above wasn't requested. Hands up if this makes your heart flutter. And any other requests?
Mrs
Hang on, your meets request it?
Yep I think I've yet to have one who hasn't. In fact I think men are obsessed with stockings and heels."
Mine do too! I love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh, I like a nice tight and short dress/skirt which rides up her arse, and tights with heels as well. Prefer stockings but just love hosiery in general. Very feminine and accentuating of a woman's figure. |
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Love heels and stockings, and maybe the suspender belt as well.
I've been searching for a scientific reason, why myself and other men love stockings so much, but can't explain it. Maybe it's been fetishised for over 100 years, like world war 1 pinups, and now it's become standard sexy gear.
Maybe it's the easy access thing, where the lady looks cove_ed until you uncover the stocking tops and belt framing her pussy and ass.
The heels do give the legs a sexier shape, so the science of anatomy explains that.
Any other requests? Thigh high boots. So sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love heels and stockings, and maybe the suspender belt as well.
I've been searching for a scientific reason, why myself and other men love stockings so much, but can't explain it. Maybe it's been fetishised for over 100 years, like world war 1 pinups, and now it's become standard sexy gear.
Maybe it's the easy access thing, where the lady looks cove_ed until you uncover the stocking tops and belt framing her pussy and ass.
The heels do give the legs a sexier shape, so the science of anatomy explains that.
Any other requests? Thigh high boots. So sexy."
I wonder if stockings became sexy when they ceased to be normal every ungarments after tights were invented. Tights can certainly be cumbersome - can imagine that what made life easier for women, may not have been a popular invention for men. |
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