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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have only done a couple of separate room sessions but REALLY enjoyed it!
Hubby has watched me through the mirrored window of the couples room in Newport - he REALLY enjoyed that, and I loved that I knew he was watching but could not see him!
Have also played behind a closed door separately, thats really exciting as sometimes you can hear the other one enjoying themselves and your imagination can REALLY go to work!
Also, its really sexy to discuss it afterwards!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol you silly devil................. join in.... oh you have lol xxx  "
No I'm just going to listen to the moans of pleasure and sulk...while wanking lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first couple we ever met played in separate rooms, we knew no different then. But several years down the line and a lot more experienced we know that it's not for us. We enjoy seeing each other having fun rather than just hearing it, but each to their own, be very boring if we all liked the same.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol you silly devil................. join in.... oh you have lol xxx
No I'm just going to listen to the moans of pleasure and sulk...while wanking lol"
mmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol you silly devil................. join in.... oh you have lol xxx
No I'm just going to listen to the moans of pleasure and sulk...while wanking lolmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!! "
could have at least came in for a sympathetic bj sakes!!!-wahhhwahhhhwahhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer seperate room play, in fact it's one of our main preferences, and is listed in our main profile text.
We will do same room too, and don't have any hangups about it. Suppose it's just that we are not into watching each other really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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... and to take it a step further, we've even talked about seperate houses. That's me going to her, and him coming to ours.
It hasn't gone any farther than talking about it at the moment, but we do have friends who have the same fantasy, so who knows? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... and to take it a step further, we've even talked about seperate houses. That's me going to her, and him coming to ours.
It hasn't gone any farther than talking about it at the moment, but we do have friends who have the same fantasy, so who knows? "
and shag to eachother over msn lol |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
"yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe "
This intrigues me. What is it you feel you can do or let yourself do in a room away from your partner?
There is obviously something that you feel you can express in a seperate room away from your partner that I am missing. What is it that you don't want your partner to be a part of?
I'm not being critical here, I'm just missing the point really. If you are going to have seperate room sex, why not the whole hog and have seperate meetings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe
This intrigues me. What is it you feel you can do or let yourself do in a room away from your partner?
There is obviously something that you feel you can express in a seperate room away from your partner that I am missing. What is it that you don't want your partner to be a part of?
I'm not being critical here, I'm just missing the point really. If you are going to have seperate room sex, why not the whole hog and have seperate meetings? "
The way we see it, it's just the same as people needing the security of having their partner present while they play. Some of us have the confidence to play in seperate rooms. The question can be asked of same room preferences.
It really is just another preference, but can well understand that some people may look for an ulterior motive behind it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeahh when I was a cpl I never played away or her, we could be in the same house at parties but in different rooms....actually I preferred that lol...as she didnt like watching me get to the actual fucking...very frustrating that was lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally we find seperate room fun is more 'open relationship' than swinging....we prefer to see whats going on and enjoy watching one another....however....if we got to know a couple we liked and they insisted on seperate room fun then its a possiblity, and maybe we'd enjoy it....it just hasnt come our way as of yet.....x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe
This intrigues me. What is it you feel you can do or let yourself do in a room away from your partner?
There is obviously something that you feel you can express in a seperate room away from your partner that I am missing. What is it that you don't want your partner to be a part of?
I'm not being critical here, I'm just missing the point really. If you are going to have seperate room sex, why not the whole hog and have seperate meetings? "
It's nothing at all we wouldn't do in same room, however we have found and i say we as i know some peeps have very good sme room fun........ but we have had same room funa and got totally fed up with cpls having issues with each other and not trusting each other.... so that was the main reason we decided sep rooms.... in our opinion anad its only ours as i say, if a cpl can trust each other to play in sep rooms there are no isses. Any cpl with problems regarding jealousy would never agree to sep room to begin with.. so basically what i am saying is it cuts out finding out half way through play that the other cpl has issues with themsleves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes.. since we started doing sep room , we found we enjoy much more now .............. hehehehe
This intrigues me. What is it you feel you can do or let yourself do in a room away from your partner?
There is obviously something that you feel you can express in a seperate room away from your partner that I am missing. What is it that you don't want your partner to be a part of?
I'm not being critical here, I'm just missing the point really. If you are going to have seperate room sex, why not the whole hog and have seperate meetings? "
We also have had occasionally sep meetings too lol....... we trust each other fully.... you couldnt do sep rooms or sep meets if you didnt, and yes we love each other without question, have a fantastic sex life and marriage too xx |
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no probs against separate room but we get the buzz off watching each other and playing together. But like has aready been said we are all different. As long as both parties are happy and trust each other and consenting, swinging can be all things to all people. We for one love it  |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Same room fun for us has nothing to do with security, its all about enjoying watching your partner and their pleasure. If we was in a club or a house party, we would consider seperate room, if the mood and the other ppl was right. All would depend on the night its not something we would ask for in a private meet. We just like watching eachother. x everyone plays differently x |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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I think we've done the lot same room seperate room , seperate house, meet on our own and eeven a weekend away the four of us where it was seperate room for the whole weekend ..... Was all gr8 fun .... If it feels rite and good go for it aslong as everyone feels the same way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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buncha cheats the lotoya.....bloody couples thinking they can do what they want with no repercussions....sakes.... hehehehhee
On a serious note.. I if in a seperate room always communicate with my (partner of the time) by phone, or a cans with string on at each end...I loved hearing her get fucked...hated hearing her and the others whispering,"Think we can get rid of him"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either really, whichever presents its self or is practical at the time.
We often go walkabout separately at a party, it's a great turn on to walk into a room and find Trace having sex, more so if she doesn't realise I'm there.  R
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We prefer separate room as can concentrate on the person you are playing with..
Sarah gets pretty annoyed to be going down on a guy then look up to find he's getting more turned on by what his woman is up to than what Sarah is doing to him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The adjective frubbly and the noun frubbles are sometimes used, in the poly community in the United Kingdom and the United States, to describe the feeling ...
Polyamorous views on jealousy ... - Formal definitions - Related terms
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compersion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The adjective frubbly and the noun frubbles are sometimes used, in the poly community in the United Kingdom and the United States, to describe the feeling ...
Polyamorous views on jealousy ... - Formal definitions - Related terms
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compersion "
well you learn something new everyday thanks x |
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"The adjective frubbly and the noun frubbles are sometimes used, in the poly community in the United Kingdom and the United States, to describe the feeling ...
Polyamorous views on jealousy ... - Formal definitions - Related terms
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compersion "
none the wiser  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love compersion.. but dislike seperate rooms... but then we dont swap with couples either.. So guess its each to their own..
I'd love for instance to find a nice girl for Master and do most of the communication... be very much involved on the lead up..and then be happy to just watch her enjoy his touch, and him to take enjoyment from her... Knowing full well it doesnt matter who she is..
Same With Master... after I have had a guy, guys, whether its been a time were Master has joined in.. or just sat and watched.. Im always ravished after...
I dont think it would be the same if it was seperate rooms...
Katie. x |
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