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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Telling someone to reply is like showing a red rag to a bull
While you think you may fit someones requirements they may not agree with you and you just have to accept that not everyone will reply to your messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Telling someone to reply is like showing a red rag to a bull
While you think you may fit someones requirements they may not agree with you and you just have to accept that not everyone will reply to your messages "
What that lady said!
....also, you'll find it is not only the west midlands women that don't reply to every message they get..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Telling someone to reply is like showing a red rag to a bull
While you think you may fit someones requirements they may not agree with you and you just have to accept that not everyone will reply to your
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here here ! |
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"Just had caramalised cherry tomatoes with balsamic reduction served on toasted Ciabatta for lunch.....
Don't know if that helps to answer the Op's question...
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oh that sounds nice, can i have share  |
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It's not about being ignorant, it's about choice - no-one HAS to reply to your (unsolicited!) message, it's entirely up to them.
And if they are receiving maybe dozens of them a day, after a while I suspect the messages start to feel a bit like 'junk mail' or spam emails - you might take a quick glance, but unless something really catches your eye, you may well be inclined to just 'bin the lot'.
If you don't get a reply, I think you can safely take that as a 'No thanks' - do you really need them to spell it out for you?
Not having a go, but I think you need to grow a slightly thicker skin, and not let it bother you. And for the record, I've met some fantastic West Mids ladies from here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm one of those ignorant West Midlands women because I've looked at your profile and saw that you messaged me 5 months ago and I didn't reply.
I don't remember the message or why I didn't reply, maybe I had a lot of messages that day, maybe I'd had messages from guys with a nice avatar that caught my attention, but for whatever reason I didn't reply, we didn't correspond and we didn't meet. I'm sorry if you found it offensive, it wasn't personal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had caramalised cherry tomatoes with balsamic reduction served on toasted Ciabatta for lunch.....
Don't know if that helps to answer the Op's question...
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Please send the recipe, sounds scrummy xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I never tell people to reply, in the body of the text I just say something to the effect of .. please, all I ask is that you could reply even if just to say thanks but no thanks.
10 messages sent today... zero replies despite most being read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Taken directly from FAB's own FAQ....
"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!"
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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"Taken directly from FAB's own FAQ....
"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!"
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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you applying to be a mod??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the OP.
This may help you understand why some females do not reply, for the record I do...but sometimes wonder why I bother.
I received a hi, how are you type message, yesterday, I replied that I was good and wished him a nice day. He asked why I bothered replying when I was obviously not interested, I explained, I replied as I have manners but also added he messaged me although he lived miles away, he called me an asshole and blocked me!
You have to laugh.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taken directly from FAB's own FAQ....
"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!"
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
you applying to be a mod??? "
I would be lethal... I would only allow "would you" threads   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for the record, I dont recall ever messaging you... and definitely not today"
No as I said it was 5 months ago. I have gold membership so when I clicked on your profile it told me so and of course it didn't say I'd replied so I obviously didn't. Don't take things personally, there are a number of reasons people don't reply but that doesn't mean they are ignorant or have huge egos.
I understand its frustrating but keep positive and don't take it to heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we agree with the several comments regarding the number of ads received by ladies and couples.
I suspect you hit the nail on the head when you said you'd sent ten messages today! What if you'd had ten replies, all wanting to meet?
Can we suggest you go less for quantity of messages, and more for quality of messages, and content. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?"
I see ya haven't read the tips and tricks section in the left hand column this explains why not everyone replies
My girl fa instance can have over 70 mail plus a day
Do you really expect her ta answer everyone??
Would you?
And before you say yes to that think of the time it would take you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sorry my mistake. Perhaps I was born and brought up at a time when manners meant something. Having said that I get zero response when I hold doors open for people or allow them to pass through ahead of me. Maybe it's a sign of the times |
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"sorry my mistake. Perhaps I was born and brought up at a time when manners meant something. Having said that I get zero response when I hold doors open for people or allow them to pass through ahead of me. Maybe it's a sign of the times"
having manners is a very admirable quality but surely you have been alive long enough to understand that you cant force your ideals onto everyone i know i certainly have!!
this tread wasnt started as a comment on the demise of society, it was started by a single guy aving a whinge because no one replied to him!!
Look at your profile, no picture etc to draw people in. wy should people make the effort if you dont? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry my mistake. Perhaps I was born and brought up at a time when manners meant something. Having said that I get zero response when I hold doors open for people or allow them to pass through ahead of me. Maybe it's a sign of the times"
As Soapy said, his partener gets around 70 messages a day. If she responded to ALL of them having checked ALL of the senders profiles and sent a quick "thanks, but no thanks" at a high speed (roughly two minutes each).... that'll be 2 hours 20 minutes of her day gone... and I'd so completely wasted trying to keep folk she is effectively rejecting 'happy'....
.....if every single one of us replied with a quick 'polite' "no thanks".... the next whinging level will be met...
"Why does everyone reject me? blah blah blah..."  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the sense of entitlement expressed by some people staggering! It's as if because THEY think they meet a set criteria they are OWED a response.
Can you imagine if you agreed to meet one of these individuals for a social meet, they'd expect a shag because you agreed to meet them.
Funny, it's always the ones with bland profiles who can't accommodate that have the biggest sense of entitlement: you can see what they really think about the women on this site!  |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"sorry my mistake. Perhaps I was born and brought up at a time when manners meant something. Having said that I get zero response when I hold doors open for people or allow them to pass through ahead of me. Maybe it's a sign of the times"
when your local takeaway unsolicitedly puts a new menu through your letterbox, do you have the manners to phone them and say you do not want to order anything??
NO?? What a surprise... that's exactly how it is when sending/receiving mail on here!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Call me ignorant too, I have stopped killing myself to reply to all the messages, not just those from single men but couples too.
I aint in west mids most of the time, (am some of the time though) and am sick of one liners, people who are no where near my age preferences, location or those looking for webcam - photos - filming or phone sex, as my profile clearly states I am not.
I am on here to enjoy myself, not to do a full time job.
I got moaned at for sending reply's. The guys got a message and thought I was interested, then to read it and find I am not, I was called a tease!!!
SO am I tease or ignorant!?!
You decide, I have real things to be doing |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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swaggers into the room... drops my pants.. right gagging wumin folks.. 'get your gums round this beauty'...... you know no one else is gonna ask ya, so be fucking thankfull......
OP.. note this is how to treat em....
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disclaimer... sorry ladies, only for dramatic effect.. hope he doesn't read this far down. and this is the only cock I have  |
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?"
Not replying is not rude or ignorant,it even says so in the FAQ.i do not reply to the junk mail sent through my letter box.
However after such a rude post i think you might find it is not just west midlands women who are ignoring you.
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By *j_markCouple
over a year ago
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www.fabswingers.com/faq
There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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"www.fabswingers.com/faq
There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
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too late - Frock off beat you to it hahaha |
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?"
To be honest don't really understand why people get upset about no replies...it means the are not interested. Fancy checking up on your sent mail anyway. Wouldn't even occur to us. 
Mistress x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"swaggers into the room... drops my pants.. right gagging wumin folks.. 'get your gums round this beauty'...... you know no one else is gonna ask ya, so be fucking thankfull......
OP.. note this is how to treat em....
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disclaimer... sorry ladies, only for dramatic effect.. hope he doesn't read this far down. and this is the only cock I have "
You nearly carried it off, but sadly pet, that was more flounce than swagger! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"swaggers into the room... drops my pants.. right gagging wumin folks.. 'get your gums round this beauty'...... you know no one else is gonna ask ya, so be fucking thankfull......
OP.. note this is how to treat em....
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disclaimer... sorry ladies, only for dramatic effect.. hope he doesn't read this far down. and this is the only cock I have
You nearly carried it off, but sadly pet, that was more flounce than swagger! "
I is chuffed ,a flounce is one up nearer a man than mincing...
cheers Sassy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?
To be honest don't really understand why people get upset about no replies...it means the are not interested. Fancy checking up on your sent mail anyway. Wouldn't even occur to us.
Mistress x"
Because you have a life! |
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?
To be honest don't really understand why people get upset about no replies...it means the are not interested. Fancy checking up on your sent mail anyway. Wouldn't even occur to us.
Mistress x"
i didnt know u cud...how ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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for those who bothered to ask me about the situation privately, I thank you. Those people now understand the situation. For those who only offered stupid, crass comments on here without asking, you proved some of my points... the days of well mannered people are sadly a thing of the past |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for those who bothered to ask me about the situation privately, I thank you. Those people now understand the situation. For those who only offered stupid, crass comments on here without asking, you proved some of my points... the days of well mannered people are sadly a thing of the past"
Why should anyone have to ask? If you post an ignorant and frankly, rude message on the forums - people are going to respond in ways you might not like, much like people don't like or agree with your _iew. |
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?
UTo be honest don't really understand why people get upset about no replies...it means the are not interested. Fancy checking up on your sent mail anyway. Wouldn't even occur to us.
Mistress x
i didnt know u cud...how ?"
Just click on sent mail.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't you just love it when people message you in private in response to a forum message!! Perhaps frightened of others joining in the response? "
Pathetic if it's a message that is aimed at having a 'pop'.
Let me put 2 and 2 together to get..... errrrrrrrrm 4????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't you just love it when people message you in private in response to a forum message!! Perhaps frightened of others joining in the response?
Pathetic if it's a message that is aimed at having a 'pop'.
Let me put 2 and 2 together to get..... errrrrrrrrm 4????? "
I love nothing better than a foursome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for those who bothered to ask me about the situation privately, I thank you."
Why not thank those people that have messaged you privately.... errr, privately? It's more personal in my honest opinion.... and loaded with manners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alice for a very very short period of time had her own profile here and in that short time you would not believe the amour of messages she received every day
There was just no way she could reply to everyone even if it was just a short thanks but no thanks message
And the occasions they she did reply all that happened was another message was sent back saying why?
And then there was the abusive messages sent in return of the reply
So was just not worth it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when your local takeaway unsolicitedly puts a new menu through your letterbox, do you have the manners to phone them and say you do not want to order anything??
NO?? What a surprise... that's exactly how it is when sending/receiving mail on here!!!!"
Best response I have ever seen on here!
Excuse me while I steal it for myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alice for a very very short period of time had her own profile here and in that short time you would not believe the amour of messages she received every day
There was just no way she could reply to everyone even if it was just a short thanks but no thanks message
And the occasions they she did reply all that happened was another message was sent back saying why?
And then there was the abusive messages sent in return of the reply
So was just not worth it "
It seriously isn't worth it.
I keep reverting back to using my 'vanilla world' manners and answering every message we get only to feel like I am running an admin operation during my leisure time.
....I only want messages from our friends, I only want messages from folk that fit our criteria (that I find attractive and share the right chemistry) I enjoy the odd banter messages from fellow forumites but I do not want messages from those that expect me to respond because in their _iew, it's rude if you do not resond....
Do some of you guys not realise that your enemy is your competition?... Stop wasting your time whinging and moaning and spend your time selling your finer points.
Have you ever watched a nature programme where there are loads of males trying to impress one female? Does the male with the best show get picked by the female and subsequently laid?
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?"
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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For someone who has been on this site for over a year, you aint savvy, are you???
When Mrs R had a single fem profile, she got so much mail that we spent hours at the weekend replying to everyone!
Soon got wise... We then started replying to those that fitted the profile wants but still took hours. Eventually we stopped replying altogether unless we really thought she might like to meet the person/couple!
We never had that problem with our couples profile, untill we removed the single guy block! Way too much mail from single guys and we couldn't cope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had caramalised cherry tomatoes with balsamic reduction served on toasted Ciabatta for lunch.....
Don't know if that helps to answer the Op's question...
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This is now a lunch-time discussion thread. *hijack!*
I had cheese and salami and tomato soup -.-
then I took some of those rice krispee bar thingies and toasted them in the oven, to be eaten over a cup of coffee. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?"
No not ignorant, just picky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well so many people on here use copied and pasted messages .... so for all the lucky ones that get loads of mail , it would not hurt to use a copied and pasted message to reply to people they have no interest in .... after all we are all on here looking for the same thing .... FUN ....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would be lethal... I would only allow "would you" threads
Isn't using the same word more than once in a sentence bad form, bad grammar?
Now, if i could just interest you in some "wood" "
Now would I be interested in some wood?
If only I knew how to respond as I am only guilty of responding to 'would' before now
.....so wood I?... well, wood you?.... I would only if the wood on offer is something I would do.... oh feckkit, I've confused meself 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well so many people on here use copied and pasted messages .... so for all the lucky ones that get loads of mail , it would not hurt to use a copied and pasted message to reply to people they have no interest in .... after all we are all on here looking for the same thing .... FUN ......."
Yep 'fun'.... why bother giving a response to a copy and pasted message? Bin it like you do with a leaflet the sender has posted to all of your next door neighbours
.....have you ever rang you local pizza takeaway to say "no thanks" when they post a leaflet through your letterbox? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What's great with this site is we have a block option to stop unwanted messages.... y'know the ones that come from fellow users having a private pop at something that they do not like reading in response to their initial moan/whinge
This is an open forum... respond openly, even if it's a sly dig |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's great with this site is we have a block option to stop unwanted messages.... y'know the ones that come from fellow users having a private pop at something that they do not like reading in response to their initial moan/whinge
This is an open forum... respond openly, even if it's a sly dig"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me ignorant too, I have stopped killing myself to reply to all the messages, not just those from single men but couples too.
I aint in west mids most of the time, (am some of the time though) and am sick of one liners, people who are no where near my age preferences, location or those looking for webcam - photos - filming or phone sex, as my profile clearly states I am not.
I am on here to enjoy myself, not to do a full time job.
I got moaned at for sending reply's. The guys got a message and thought I was interested, then to read it and find I am not, I was called a tease!!!
SO am I tease or ignorant!?!
You decide, I have real things to be doing "
Very well said indeed - totally agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for those who bothered to ask me about the situation privately, I thank you. Those people now understand the situation. For those who only offered stupid, crass comments on here without asking, you proved some of my points... the days of well mannered people are sadly a thing of the past
Why should anyone have to ask? If you post an ignorant and frankly, rude message on the forums - people are going to respond in ways you might not like, much like people don't like or agree with your _iew."
+ 1 In other words, no-one's here to kiss ass |
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I've never understood why people (mainly seems to be blokes) care so much about getting a response. Why does it matter. Really. Why?
So you e-mail 10 women/couples and get nothing back. You e-mail 10 women/couples and get 10 "no thanks".
What's the difference?
Tell me honestly, if you got, say, 50 messages a day every day, would you reply to them all, or pick and choose which ones to reply to? Maybe you have more free time than some people |
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over a year ago
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"my my... such vitriol over an observation and question!"
You had your question answered.... you didn't like the response, even admin responded with the same answer I gave you.... you are not one to be sated... exception granted when your own beliefs/expectations if they ever (I doubt it) met.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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far as I am concerned if you dont get a reply get over it !!!!
Jeez if I had a shag for all the non reply's I had I would probably be in a home now !!!! dribbling from the mouth and down below lol.
As for women from the west mids mmm every one I have met has been great.
Move on
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over a year ago
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I had a pretty busy day today. I woke up to discover that three takeaway menus had been pushed through the door. I managed to ring round them in fifteen minutes flat (practise makes perfect) to say I wasn't in the mood for a kebab at eight in the morning, but thanks for considering me as suitable to eat their food anyway. Then I sat down to eat breakfast over reading my emails before spending under two hours replying to advertisements even if just to say their products were not really for me, and yes I was positive that I didn't want to take out a second mortgage on my home, but hey, thanks for the offer guys! After which I went out for a brief stroll before writing replies to a few junk mail letters stating that I was amazed that I had won the Latvian national lottery, what were the odds etc, but really there must be some more deserving folk out there. Then of course work, followed by a couple more hours of email replies, before popping round a local Jehovah's witnesses house to politely return his watchtower saying thanks, but its not really my cup of tea.
I may have less free time than Rose West now does, but my Momma raised me to have manners..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I certainly replied "at length" to these little gems. To clarify the situation I took full measurements of my penis while both erect and unaroused (although why your length when unaroused matters I'm not sure) and sent them back to all emails of this type in dossier format.
Have you seen my private gallery? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
" I certainly replied "at length" to these little gems. To clarify the situation I took full measurements of my penis while both erect and unaroused (although why your length when unaroused matters I'm not sure) and sent them back to all emails of this type in dossier format.
Have you seen my private gallery? "
No, but it sounds like every factory that sells fake viagra has! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I certainly replied "at length" to these little gems. To clarify the situation I took full measurements of my penis while both erect and unaroused (although why your length when unaroused matters I'm not sure) and sent them back to all emails of this type in dossier format.
Have you seen my private gallery?
No, but it sounds like every factory that sells fake viagra has! "
I thought it would help in their inquiries if I enclosed a variety of colour copies depicting myself complete with erection, indeed in the midst of a nice hard orgasm in one shot so they could make their own minds up about whther I needed their services. Fair's fair... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
" I certainly replied "at length" to these little gems. To clarify the situation I took full measurements of my penis while both erect and unaroused (although why your length when unaroused matters I'm not sure) and sent them back to all emails of this type in dossier format.
Have you seen my private gallery?
No, but it sounds like every factory that sells fake viagra has!
I thought it would help in their inquiries if I enclosed a variety of colour copies depicting myself complete with erection, indeed in the midst of a nice hard orgasm in one shot so they could make their own minds up about whther I needed their services. Fair's fair... "
Lucky them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I certainly replied "at length" to these little gems. To clarify the situation I took full measurements of my penis while both erect and unaroused (although why your length when unaroused matters I'm not sure) and sent them back to all emails of this type in dossier format.
Have you seen my private gallery?
No, but it sounds like every factory that sells fake viagra has!
I thought it would help in their inquiries if I enclosed a variety of colour copies depicting myself complete with erection, indeed in the midst of a nice hard orgasm in one shot so they could make their own minds up about whther I needed their services. Fair's fair...
Lucky them!"
I'm sure upon opening my extremely revealing dossier they thought, "See if everyone of our potential customers sent such clear clarification we'd know where we stand and it does our market research for us. What a nice guy"... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
" I certainly replied "at length" to these little gems. To clarify the situation I took full measurements of my penis while both erect and unaroused (although why your length when unaroused matters I'm not sure) and sent them back to all emails of this type in dossier format.
Have you seen my private gallery?
No, but it sounds like every factory that sells fake viagra has!
I thought it would help in their inquiries if I enclosed a variety of colour copies depicting myself complete with erection, indeed in the midst of a nice hard orgasm in one shot so they could make their own minds up about whther I needed their services. Fair's fair...
Lucky them!
I'm sure upon opening my extremely revealing dossier they thought, "See if everyone of our potential customers sent such clear clarification we'd know where we stand and it does our market research for us. What a nice guy"..."
Yes, you did them a public service. |
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"when your local takeaway unsolicitedly puts a new menu through your letterbox, do you have the manners to phone them and say you do not want to order anything??
NO?? What a surprise... that's exactly how it is when sending/receiving mail on here!!!!
Best response I have ever seen on here!
Excuse me while I steal it for myself "
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" I had a pretty busy day today. I woke up to discover that three takeaway menus had been pushed through the door. I managed to ring round them in fifteen minutes flat (practise makes perfect) to say I wasn't in the mood for a kebab at eight in the morning, but thanks for considering me as suitable to eat their food anyway. Then I sat down to eat breakfast over reading my emails before spending under two hours replying to advertisements even if just to say their products were not really for me, and yes I was positive that I didn't want to take out a second on my home, but hey, thanks for the offer guys! After which I went out for a brief stroll before writing replies to a few junk mail letters stating that I was amazed that I had won the Latvian national lottery, what were the odds etc, but really there must be some more deserving folk out there. Then of course work, followed by a couple more hours of email replies, before popping round a local Jehovah's witnesses house to politely return his watchtower saying thanks, but its not really my cup of tea.
I may have less free time than Rose West now does, but my Momma raised me to have manners....."
Now thatss how to use the forum to get a shag! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with jem lol.
I also use the forums to head off emails fom people I see are not on my personal wavelenght and dont want to have emails from :D
was surprised and a little impressed this thread is still going,
For the record, I get those, please donate to.... charity bags through my door most mornings and if I can, I return them to whoever is posting them through the doors, and say see 'I recycle'!! I wouldnt dream of ringing or emailing them though, maybe I too need a male in the house to do all that stuffs (erm on second thoughts Not!!) hehe |
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" I had a pretty busy day today. I woke up to discover that three takeaway menus had been pushed through the door. I managed to ring round them in fifteen minutes flat (practise makes perfect) to say I wasn't in the mood for a kebab at eight in the morning, but thanks for considering me as suitable to eat their food anyway. Then I sat down to eat breakfast over reading my emails before spending under two hours replying to advertisements even if just to say their products were not really for me, and yes I was positive that I didn't want to take out a second on my home, but hey, thanks for the offer guys! After which I went out for a brief stroll before writing replies to a few junk mail letters stating that I was amazed that I had won the Latvian national lottery, what were the odds etc, but really there must be some more deserving folk out there. Then of course work, followed by a couple more hours of email replies, before popping round a local Jehovah's witnesses house to politely return his watchtower saying thanks, but its not really my cup of tea.
I may have less free time than Rose West now does, but my Momma raised me to have manners.....
Now thatss how to use the forum to get a shag! "
Well in the midst of all my duties in the name of having manners I occassionally get an hour or more free...how better to spend it than indulging in pleasures of the flesh? |
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" I had a pretty busy day today. I woke up to discover that three takeaway menus had been pushed through the door. I managed to ring round them in fifteen minutes flat (practise makes perfect) to say I wasn't in the mood for a kebab at eight in the morning, but thanks for considering me as suitable to eat their food anyway. Then I sat down to eat breakfast over reading my emails before spending under two hours replying to advertisements even if just to say their products were not really for me, and yes I was positive that I didn't want to take out a second on my home, but hey, thanks for the offer guys! After which I went out for a brief stroll before writing replies to a few junk mail letters stating that I was amazed that I had won the Latvian national lottery, what were the odds etc, but really there must be some more deserving folk out there. Then of course work, followed by a couple more hours of email replies, before popping round a local Jehovah's witnesses house to politely return his watchtower saying thanks, but its not really my cup of tea.
I may have less free time than Rose West now does, but my Momma raised me to have manners.....
Now thatss how to use the forum to get a shag!
Well in the midst of all my duties in the name of having manners I occassionally get an hour or more free...how better to spend it than indulging in pleasures of the flesh? "
Now that's what I'm talkin about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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were also ignorant lol as we look at the profile and if we dont like what we see , we block and delete as some tend to forget and mail again the following week and sometimes a reply of no ty just opens up an excuse for an insulting reply, this way what we cant see doesnt bother us |
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" I had a pretty busy day today. I woke up to discover that three takeaway menus had been pushed through the door. I managed to ring round them in fifteen minutes flat (practise makes perfect) to say I wasn't in the mood for a kebab at eight in the morning, but thanks for considering me as suitable to eat their food anyway. Then I sat down to eat breakfast over reading my emails before spending under two hours replying to advertisements even if just to say their products were not really for me, and yes I was positive that I didn't want to take out a second on my home, but hey, thanks for the offer guys! After which I went out for a brief stroll before writing replies to a few junk mail letters stating that I was amazed that I had won the Latvian national lottery, what were the odds etc, but really there must be some more deserving folk out there. Then of course work, followed by a couple more hours of email replies, before popping round a local Jehovah's witnesses house to politely return his watchtower saying thanks, but its not really my cup of tea.
I may have less free time than Rose West now does, but my Momma raised me to have manners.....
Now thatss how to use the forum to get a shag!
Well in the midst of all my duties in the name of having manners I occassionally get an hour or more free...how better to spend it than indulging in pleasures of the flesh?
Now that's what I'm talkin about "
Thank you. I see you're also a lady who enjoys being pleasured in the sun too....Madam,you have exquisite tastes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reply or deleted, it's a no!
Just on of those things. I'm a fan of "message ping-pong" because I like to know who I'm dealing with. So even if you do get a reply, you might like what you see but you might not like that person. So take your time and message people who you think you can get on with, not just because you match their requirements.
You're here to have fun too! lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?"
yep we all ignorant fuckers
Id move if i was you, you get a better class of women everywhere else anyway |
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" I had a pretty busy day today. I woke up to discover that three takeaway menus had been pushed through the door. I managed to ring round them in fifteen minutes flat (practise makes perfect) to say I wasn't in the mood for a kebab at eight in the morning, but thanks for considering me as suitable to eat their food anyway. Then I sat down to eat breakfast over reading my emails before spending under two hours replying to advertisements even if just to say their products were not really for me, and yes I was positive that I didn't want to take out a second on my home, but hey, thanks for the offer guys! After which I went out for a brief stroll before writing replies to a few junk mail letters stating that I was amazed that I had won the Latvian national lottery, what were the odds etc, but really there must be some more deserving folk out there. Then of course work, followed by a couple more hours of email replies, before popping round a local Jehovah's witnesses house to politely return his watchtower saying thanks, but its not really my cup of tea.
I may have less free time than Rose West now does, but my Momma raised me to have manners.....
Now thatss how to use the forum to get a shag!
Well in the midst of all my duties in the name of having manners I occassionally get an hour or more free...how better to spend it than indulging in pleasures of the flesh? "
No better way,but alas i shall not be meeting for the next 14 months as i send a personal message of apology to every single male on the site i have failed to acknowledge the existence of. |
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" I had a pretty busy day today. I woke up to discover that three takeaway menus had been pushed through the door. I managed to ring round them in fifteen minutes flat (practise makes perfect) to say I wasn't in the mood for a kebab at eight in the morning, but thanks for considering me as suitable to eat their food anyway. Then I sat down to eat breakfast over reading my emails before spending under two hours replying to advertisements even if just to say their products were not really for me, and yes I was positive that I didn't want to take out a second on my home, but hey, thanks for the offer guys! After which I went out for a brief stroll before writing replies to a few junk mail letters stating that I was amazed that I had won the Latvian national lottery, what were the odds etc, but really there must be some more deserving folk out there. Then of course work, followed by a couple more hours of email replies, before popping round a local Jehovah's witnesses house to politely return his watchtower saying thanks, but its not really my cup of tea.
I may have less free time than Rose West now does, but my Momma raised me to have manners.....
Now thatss how to use the forum to get a shag!
Well in the midst of all my duties in the name of having manners I occassionally get an hour or more free...how better to spend it than indulging in pleasures of the flesh?
No better way,but alas i shall not be meeting for the next 14 months as i send a personal message of apology to every single male on the site i have failed to acknowledge the existence of."
but u said would meet me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being polite cost nothink any message i get i always send back no matter who it is "
i get 50+ messages most days, if i go in the chat room and go on cam i can easy top 100 messages
would you still reply to every single message if you got that amount?
Its easy to reply to all your mail even your a single guy and get 3 or 4 a week
its not ignorance, i dont reply to all my mail simply because i do not have time to go thro all them every time i log on, and if i did, how fooking boring would it be? i dont come on to get bored tralling thro mail |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well so many people on here use copied and pasted messages .... so for all the lucky ones that get loads of mail , it would not hurt to use a copied and pasted message to reply to people they have no interest in .... after all we are all on here looking for the same thing .... FUN ......."
Yes that makes perfect sense: take time away from having fun to write to people you have no intention of meeting that don't meet your criteria!
I wish you well with your pen pals: I'll pass thanks! |
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By *oublouWoman
over a year ago
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I used to reply at 1st but then I got the whole why not? and why be on swinging site if your not interested. As I told him yes we had things in common but he didn't attract me, then that started a whole other story, so just hit the block button. |
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" I had a pretty busy day today. I woke up to discover that three takeaway menus had been pushed through the door. I managed to ring round them in fifteen minutes flat (practise makes perfect) to say I wasn't in the mood for a kebab at eight in the morning, but thanks for considering me as suitable to eat their food anyway. Then I sat down to eat breakfast over reading my emails before spending under two hours replying to advertisements even if just to say their products were not really for me, and yes I was positive that I didn't want to take out a second on my home, but hey, thanks for the offer guys! After which I went out for a brief stroll before writing replies to a few junk mail letters stating that I was amazed that I had won the Latvian national lottery, what were the odds etc, but really there must be some more deserving folk out there. Then of course work, followed by a couple more hours of email replies, before popping round a local Jehovah's witnesses house to politely return his watchtower saying thanks, but its not really my cup of tea.
I may have less free time than Rose West now does, but my Momma raised me to have manners.....
Now thatss how to use the forum to get a shag!
Well in the midst of all my duties in the name of having manners I occassionally get an hour or more free...how better to spend it than indulging in pleasures of the flesh?
No better way,but alas i shall not be meeting for the next 14 months as i send a personal message of apology to every single male on the site i have failed to acknowledge the existence of.
but u said would meet me "
Your not a single male |
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By (user no longer on site)
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swinging1s the game so you just gotta take it as it comes not everyone is going be to your liking and vice versa.and to be honest most people don't have the time to check all their mail..swinging is an extension of their NOT their whole life so you can understand why not much time would be invested in people that they don't fancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To the original op I suggest the chatrooms as it's easier to show wat u look like on cam then if u see the eye come on u and then go u know they ain't interested, if it stays on ya then start a conversation! I do agree that single men on ere r all lumped into same category ie wankers lol just carry on been polite as it proves u got respect n that's a good thing, some people on ere thinkvtge world revolves around them that's their failure |
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"To the OP.
This may help you understand why some females do not reply, for the record I do...but sometimes wonder why I bother.
I received a hi, how are you type message, yesterday, I replied that I was good and wished him a nice day. He asked why I bothered replying when I was obviously not interested, I explained, I replied as I have manners but also added he messaged me although he lived miles away, he called me an asshole and blocked me!
You have to laugh.... "
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"Is it just West Midland women who are ignorant?
Each time I contact single women on here I ask that they reply, even if its just to say thanks, but no thanks, but over 95% just delete my message without so much as an acknowledgement.
Before you ask, I always check to make sure I fit the requirements regarding age, race, etc etc and I am very polite.
Are all women so up themselves that they feel too superior to need to show show manners?"
expecting a lady to reply after you've all but told them to isn't going to get you very far as you are finding.
Just because you feel you meet their requirements isn't always enough and there must be attraction.
do you buy the first shirt,trousers you see that fit or do you search for the ones you like. simple terms I know but hey.
you also say you're not pushy so does expecting/asking someone to reply fit that description?
although you are at least honest about your sexual preferences which is a plus but remember these may put a lot off.
would also help to have a pic available that doesn't come with a friends only catch.
I also think that you've just screwed your chances of meeting any others especially if they read the forums by the tone you've used here.
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