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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you ever feel a bit horrible, about not replying to messages, that obviously haven't read your profile at all....but they've made the effort to send a decent nice message? These men are only human after all, I'm only human after all, don't put your blame on me. |
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All the time !
I wish it was possible to reply even to say 'thanks but not my type' but as soon as you reply it opens a convo and I feel even worse then
Most men on here do understand that us ladies get 100's a day and are not offended at our lack of replies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they send a nice message I usually reply. If it's something dumb or disrespectful I don't reply.
I used to reply to everyone no matter what. Now I'm just a heartless bitch. Sometimes I feel bad but then I realise they just had a lucky escape.  |
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By *norksterMan
over a year ago
Darlington and beyond |
Think we expect it tbh, or should do, we're either too young, too old, too hairy, too small, not your type, or just don't fit, so it's got to be expected as I bet the girls are way outnumbered by the guys on here and with the message count, they all can't get a reply..  |
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As a single guy you should realise you're part of a group that far outnumbers all the other groups on here, and therefore the single ladies and couples are all likely to be inundated with messages. Unless they're doing this as a full-time job there's no way they could reply to everything. Anyone who doesn't realise this is being seriously unrealistic with their expectations. It's nothing personal. We're big boys, we can take it. Or we should be able to. |
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By *otlegs80Couple
over a year ago
lancashire |
Find it hard to ignore any decent message. Even if we're not interested, I hate doing it but yes it then opens up a conversation and you always get the odd few that just cant take no for an answer and then have ro be blocked, that includes couples sometimes.. makes me feel like a right bitch. Its harder in a couple cos we both have to like both of the other couple too  |
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