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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that. |
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"Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that. "
what sort of fun are you offering her?
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Might work.
Or you could say good morning tomorrow and the next couple of days. Then add how are you today, then get chatting and give her your number.
Good luck, let us know how it goes.
In The Metro they have a section where people publish ads about things like thie. E.g. "I saw you outside Smiths drinking a coffee wearing a yellow scarf. I'm they guy in the blue jacket who always looks at you. Drink?" |
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over a year ago
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Yeah I'll talk to her tomorrow judge it from that. Then another morning give her my number. I'm not looming g a relationship just fun... maybe she's on here lol changed my status |
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"Yeah I'll talk to her tomorrow judge it from that. Then another morning give her my number. I'm not looming g a relationship just fun... maybe she's on here lol changed my status "
As long as you're clear that you just want sex, so there's no misunderstanding. She might be looking for the same.
I'll stop looking for hats now.... |
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"And why not tell her something more... gentle?
Maybe that is what she expects from you, rather than "fancy some fun?""
To be fair if a guy just wanted some fun with me I'd rather know. It saves confusion and wrong assumptions. I could go into or not, it knowing exactly what to expect. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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I think there is nothing more flattering than someone I have not spoken to just giving me their number or asking for mine. Although the attraction has not always been reciprocal, I have had some incredible nights on the back on this. But I have also changed my commute routes/times to avoid people as well.
Life is about taking risks though isn't it? "If you want it. Go for it. Take a risk. Play it safe and you will die wondering." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't approach her assuming she's signed up to a site like this as that could end bad very quickly.
Day 1 a little smile, day 2 a good morning, day 3...providing you've had encoraging responses so far...go for the kill 'fancy a fuck' !!!
Just make sure one of your mates is filming the slap that ensues  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that. "
As you walk past her next time, let her pass by then call her back. Excuse me, you dropped this... hand her a note with your phone number and name on. Smile and walk away  |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that.
As you walk past her next time, let her pass by then call her back. Excuse me, you dropped this... hand her a note with your phone number and name on. Smile and walk away "
You have done this before. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She wasn't there this morning....will try again tomorrow morning lol. The k I'm just gonna walk past her, smoke, then turn as she passes, say you dropped something, n give her paper with my number on it lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She wasn't there this morning....will try again tomorrow morning lol. The k I'm just gonna walk past her, smoke, then turn as she passes, say you dropped something, n give her paper with my number on it lol. "
maybe she changed her route so she wouldn't get stared at by strange men?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see her most mornings. Very confident I'll see her again soon. I'm just gonna be blunt and give her my number and say text me. Might not say for fun at the start but if she texts I'll be sure to tell her. |
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"I see her most mornings. Very confident I'll see her again soon. I'm just gonna be blunt and give her my number and say text me. Might not say for fun at the start but if she texts I'll be sure to tell her. "
So what if she replies saying shall we go for a drink then,you going to say well really I just gave you my number just to see if you wanted sex. |
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"Just gonna hand her a note with my name number and 'fun?' On it. And say text me lol "
In my pre swinging days I didn't know fun meant sex.
She might well be keen to have nsa sex but if you're ambiguous about what you're after there's potential for you to have to change your route to work.
Just be up front with her, you wouldn't ask for a latte in Costa if you wanted a cappuccino...would you? |
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I wouldn't over complicate things at the beginning. Just give her your number. If she replies you can then make things clear.
Are you after a one off? Fwb? "
I think he needs to be very clear from the note what he wants. If I received that and I really fancied him and thought there may be more it and then found out it was just for sex I may feel a little put out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Need advice. Walk past this lady every morning on way to work. We often exchange looks. Am contemplating stopping her tomorrow morning and just be like here's my number, if you fancy some fun.... leave it as open ended as that.
As you walk past her next time, let her pass by then call her back. Excuse me, you dropped this... hand her a note with your phone number and name on. Smile and walk away
You have done this before. "
Of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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While part of me would be unimpressed with a guy I'd seen around passing me a note with his number suggesting just fun I tend to agree that not being clear from the get go would be worse. Wonder how this will turn out! |
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