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"Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" Can't say I have, although I rarely see FF couples as being something men are looking for, probably because they know its unlikely to happen.  | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" Yes...lots of male profiles say they are not interested in men. | |||
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"because they're disease ridden of course . I like bisexual men however "...nice to ...but of course it's free choices for everyone as regards preferred play partners ... .. | |||
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"because they're disease ridden of course . I like bisexual men however ...nice to ...but of course it's free choices for everyone as regards preferred play partners ... .. "Of course is it. | |||
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"Plenty of male and female profiles state this. And couples. So? Why is that offensive. If people are straight that's their preference. I can't understand the need of people to feel wanted by everyone "I didn't say it was offensive...just puzzling | |||
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"I'd say it was just another preference, not to be taken personally. Would you meet someone who took part in activites you wouldn't touch with a barge pole? " Yes...why not? Just because someone likes to do something you don't doesn't mean they have do that activity all the time | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. " Because I know, on the whole.. Most of you are pretty decent people and | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" It's their profile, their rules.
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"I have read regularly on fab this type of comment suggesting often that behind it the only explanation is homophobic intolerance. In some cases that might be true but more likely by far it is simple preference. Bi guys simply don't excite us for instance. I just cannot understand this need to interpret preference as intolerance all the time. Having said that as a short fat and hairy Glaswegian if that ever gets protected in law I will sue. Lol " If you saw a guy you liked, how do you know, just by looking at him, if he is bi or not? | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? It's their profile, their rules.
I see plenty of male profiles that say "no men" "To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles | |||
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"So we aren't allowed to debate or give our opinion on anything?" Simple answer...No! | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? It's their profile, their rules.
I see plenty of male profiles that say "no men"
To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles "No I can honestly say I've never seen that. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. " There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end | |||
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"We don't of course but we then don't have any fantasies about bi or gay guys and what they get up to. Straight guys yes. So if we know a guy is bi it kind of deflates our enthusiasm. " I find it really interesting because I can't tell a guy is bi of straight by looking and so if a bi guy just focuses on the women in a meet, how could you tell? Just because a guy is bi, doesn't mean another man always has to be involved. I am saying that as the partner of a very openly bi guy | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? It's their profile, their rules.
I see plenty of male profiles that say "no men"
To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles "Ah, got it. I think, as unpalatable as it might be men are far less likely to turn a bisexual woman down than they would a bisexual man. | |||
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"Some women can't cope unless they are the centre of attention. Thus the thought that a man, any man, might have thoughts about another man is too much for them to cope with " That's not my experience at all, but I don't want to meet bi men and it's no one's business but my own. | |||
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"I have no problem with meeting bi men, although I wonder if they would get maximum enjoyment out of meeting a single woman." Just because I like fish and chips doesn't mean I don't get maximum enjoyment eating steak | |||
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"I'd say it was just another preference, not to be taken personally. Would you meet someone who took part in activites you wouldn't touch with a barge pole? Yes...why not? Just because someone likes to do something you don't doesn't mean they have do that activity all the time " It would have no influence on your desicision to meet them no? If they was into something you was against? Your a good man! | |||
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"I have no problem with meeting bi men, although I wonder if they would get maximum enjoyment out of meeting a single woman." What about bi men in relationships with women? Or bi women who meet men? Just curious, as its an interesting though. | |||
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"I have no problem with meeting bi men, although I wonder if they would get maximum enjoyment out of meeting a single woman. Just because I like fish and chips doesn't mean I don't get maximum enjoyment eating steak" I don't meet men who eat steak | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? It's their profile, their rules.
I see plenty of male profiles that say "no men" "I see plenty of men's profiles which say 'no single men' yet some of those men fab my pics, send me winks and contact me and I meet some of them. If people put things in their profiles because they don't want to give the wrong impression or spoil their chances with others then that's up to them. | |||
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"I have no problem with meeting bi men, although I wonder if they would get maximum enjoyment out of meeting a single woman. What about bi men in relationships with women? Or bi women who meet men? Just curious, as its an interesting though. " I would suspect that in those cases there were other arrangements made, or quite a lot of repressed feelings. Anyway, as said above, just because a guy is bi, doesn't mean he has to be bi all the time. So answered my own point there. | |||
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"I have read regularly on fab this type of comment suggesting often that behind it the only explanation is homophobic intolerance. In some cases that might be true but more likely by far it is simple preference. Bi guys simply don't excite us for instance. I just cannot understand this need to interpret preference as intolerance all the time. Having said that as a short fat and hairy Glaswegian if that ever gets protected in law I will sue. Lol If you saw a guy you liked, how do you know, just by looking at him, if he is bi or not?" In the same way a straight guy could go to a BB gangbang every month & then tell you he's checked & protects while your sucking him off. There's no guarantee's someone is straight same as there's no guarantee someone's Bi, on here anything can & no doubt does get said by some to get a meet. By the way, i'm curious, but not about guys.. S | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? It's their profile, their rules.
I see plenty of male profiles that say "no men"
I see plenty of men's profiles which say 'no single men' yet some of those men fab my pics, send me winks and contact me and I meet some of them. If people put things in their profiles because they don't want to give the wrong impression or spoil their chances with others then that's up to them."I agree | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end" No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. " The thing is, and what you have failed to grasp, or incite, is that this thread has some good debate on it. No-one is taking anything personally and it is good discussion, so far. No bashing is going on | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? It's their profile, their rules.
I see plenty of male profiles that say "no men"
I see plenty of men's profiles which say 'no single men' yet some of those men fab my pics, send me winks and contact me and I meet some of them. If people put things in their profiles because they don't want to give the wrong impression or spoil their chances with others then that's up to them."There are also plenty of bisexual men that send straight guys lots of unwanted attention and are very aggressive and persistent with it. I didn't want to block anyone as I don't like censorship. But men forced my hand. It's a case of being a mental turn off and I come on here to be turned on. | |||
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" I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. " Try not bringing it up all the time; this is the third time in as many days I've seen you complaining about it! | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? It's their profile, their rules.
I see plenty of male profiles that say "no men"
I see plenty of men's profiles which say 'no single men' yet some of those men fab my pics, send me winks and contact me and I meet some of them. If people put things in their profiles because they don't want to give the wrong impression or spoil their chances with others then that's up to them.
There are also plenty of bisexual men that send straight guys lots of unwanted attention and are very aggressive and persistent with it. I didn't want to block anyone as I don't like censorship. But men forced my hand.
It's a case of being a mental turn off and I come on here to be turned on.
"I don't think you should target bi men like this as there are plenty of men or women who send messages to profiles where it isn't a fit or the recipient isn't interested. How do you know, for example, if all of the couples you have met have straight men in them? | |||
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" I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. Try not bringing it up all the time; this is the third time in as many days I've seen you complaining about it! "  | |||
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" I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. Try not bringing it up all the time; this is the third time in as many days I've seen you complaining about it! " | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. " But...what question did I ask? Because you answered a totally different one it seems | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. The thing is, and what you have failed to grasp, or incite, is that this thread has some good debate on it. No-one is taking anything personally and it is good discussion, so far. No bashing is going on" Good, I'm glad no bashing is going on. But you're coming close to being rude. How have I failed to grasp anything? I didn't say the discussion was bad. Just asking the OP, why he asked the question,when I suspect he knows the answer. It's almost a bi weekly topic that often ends in tears. There often seems an undertone on these threads that if you aren't bisexually friendly in bed, it's a reflection of your views in everyday life. Many, many people don't have a homophobic bone in their body, but are made out as villains on here because they find bisexuality as a sexual turn off. I'm not accusing the OP of any of that, or inciting it. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. But...what question did I ask? Because you answered a totally different one it seems" You're right, I didn't answer your question and replied with my own, apologies. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. The thing is, and what you have failed to grasp, or incite, is that this thread has some good debate on it. No-one is taking anything personally and it is good discussion, so far. No bashing is going on Good, I'm glad no bashing is going on. But you're coming close to being rude. How have I failed to grasp anything? I didn't say the discussion was bad. Just asking the OP, why he asked the question,when I suspect he knows the answer. It's almost a bi weekly topic that often ends in tears. There often seems an undertone on these threads that if you aren't bisexually friendly in bed, it's a reflection of your views in everyday life. Many, many people don't have a homophobic bone in their body, but are made out as villains on here because they find bisexuality as a sexual turn off. I'm not accusing the OP of any of that, or inciting it. " I think you have a different agenda to the OP, who is just putting something out there for debate. Most other people of the thread are open for debate ... if you have been on the forums as long as I have you will know that every topic comes up every week or so and most end in tears. That doesn't mean I isn't going to come up again and again and again .... | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. But...what question did I ask? Because you answered a totally different one it seems You're right, I didn't answer your question and replied with my own, apologies. " My original post was intended to mean... Any women seen any male profiles that state "no bi/bi curious women" | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. But...what question did I ask? Because you answered a totally different one it seems You're right, I didn't answer your question and replied with my own, apologies. " | |||
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"2 men going at it does nothing for me So why would I meet a bi guy when all I would be thinking is he's shagged another guy Its a preference like everyone has Get over it Stop moaning who dosnt meet you and start looking for who would " He wasn't moaning, he was asking about profiles .... | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. But...what question did I ask? Because you answered a totally different one it seems You're right, I didn't answer your question and replied with my own, apologies. My original post was intended to mean... Any women seen any male profiles that state "no bi/bi curious women" " LOL I know.. I accidentally steered it off in another direction. Again, sorry. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. But...what question did I ask? Because you answered a totally different one it seems You're right, I didn't answer your question and replied with my own, apologies. My original post was intended to mean... Any women seen any male profiles that state "no bi/bi curious women" " No, & I guess part of it is that to some women putting they are bi is a good thing and shows their "Swingyness" for want of a better term, a guy doing the same treated the same? I think not. S | |||
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"We don't of course but we then don't have any fantasies about bi or gay guys and what they get up to. Straight guys yes. So if we know a guy is bi it kind of deflates our enthusiasm. I find it really interesting because I can't tell a guy is bi of straight by looking and so if a bi guy just focuses on the women in a meet, how could you tell? Just because a guy is bi, doesn't mean another man always has to be involved. I am saying that as the partner of a very openly bi guy" This is my way of thinking too. | |||
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"He was asking why some don't meet bi guys And as others have mentioned this isn't the 1st time he has done so.. So...ask once..great Ask twice .erm... Ask more than once wtf?" Read the OP again. He's asking whether women have ever seen a male profile stating 'no bi women'. Very few seem to be responding to the actual question here. | |||
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"He was asking why some don't meet bi guys And as others have mentioned this isn't the 1st time he has done so.. So...ask once..great Ask twice .erm... Ask more than once wtf?" He was asking if anyone has seen any male profiles saying no bi women actually | |||
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"He was asking why some don't meet bi guys And as others have mentioned this isn't the 1st time he has done so.. So...ask once..great Ask twice .erm... Ask more than once wtf? He was asking if anyone has seen any male profiles saying no bi women actually" I am sure the OP also knows the answer to that one as well. Lots of men are not interested in people's sexual activity/history and for most,bi.curious women would be a turn on. However you look at it, this can be seen as double standards. | |||
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"He was asking why some don't meet bi guys And as others have mentioned this isn't the 1st time he has done so.. So...ask once..great Ask twice .erm... Ask more than once wtf? Read the OP again. He's asking whether women have ever seen a male profile stating 'no bi women'. Very few seem to be responding to the actual question here." and why do you think he was asking? Being a bit guy himself? As I said previously..this is not the 1st time he has asked this? | |||
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"He was asking why some don't meet bi guys And as others have mentioned this isn't the 1st time he has done so.." Wow...firstly, that statement was actually directed at someone responding in a similar way not to the original question... And secondly that wasn't what I was asking at all... | |||
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"He was asking why some don't meet bi guys And as others have mentioned this isn't the 1st time he has done so.. So...ask once..great Ask twice .erm... Ask more than once wtf? Read the OP again. He's asking whether women have ever seen a male profile stating 'no bi women'. Very few seem to be responding to the actual question here.and why do you think he was asking? Being a bit guy himself? As I said previously..this is not the 1st time he has asked this?" He is genuinely puzzled by it. Do you think he is touting for a meet? If so, couldn't everyone who posted be accused of that? | |||
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"He was asking why some don't meet bi guys And as others have mentioned this isn't the 1st time he has done so.. So...ask once..great Ask twice .erm... Ask more than once wtf? He was asking if anyone has seen any male profiles saying no bi women actually" Or was he asking if any women have seen any mens profiles that said no to bi? The plot thickens! | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" Its not my thing but same could be said for men not liking fat women, or tall or short women etc? | |||
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I wouldn't be offended if someone didn't want to fuck me because of those things!
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"Ok sorry Yes I have saw many profiles stating this My own "Thanks for letting us know | |||
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"What I find "puzzling" is why people can't accept other people's preferences. I'm bi, mixed race, fat and grumpy
I wouldn't be offended if someone didn't want to fuck me because of those things!
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"Ok sorry Yes I have saw many profiles stating this My own
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"He was asking why some don't meet bi guys And as others have mentioned this isn't the 1st time he has done so.. So...ask once..great Ask twice .erm... Ask more than once wtf? He was asking if anyone has seen any male profiles saying no bi women actually Or was he asking if any women have seen any mens profiles that said no to bi? The plot thickens! "Thats exactly what I was asking...nail on the head time right there | |||
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"He was saying, whilst lots of women say no bi men, has anyone seen any men's profiles that say no bi women? " No I haven't seen any - but then I mainly read mens profiles. | |||
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"He was saying, whilst lots of women say no bi men, has anyone seen any men's profiles that say no bi women? No I haven't seen any - but then I mainly read mens profiles. " You are the person to ask then, as you do only read men's profiles .... as that is what he was asking | |||
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"So what is the point of this thread OP - if someone says yes they have seen it on a woman's profile - then what? It's just another one of those threads to have a go at people that disagree or don't finger your preferences attractive Yawn!" It was intended to be seen as "have any women seen a male profile that states no bi/bi curious women?" I might start a thread that asks "does anyone read the original post before jumping in feet first with an argument to a different question... | |||
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"Ha! Where's my happy meal!
Fussy eater/happy meal? "LawandOrder/Fake News? | |||
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"So what is the point of this thread OP - if someone says yes they have seen it on a woman's profile - then what? It's just another one of those threads to have a go at people that disagree or don't finger your preferences attractive Yawn! It was intended to be seen as "have any women seen a male profile that states no bi/bi curious women?" I might start a thread that asks "does anyone read the original post before jumping in feet first with an argument to a different question..." But what can you get from that question? A yes or a no  | |||
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"Ha! Where's my happy meal!
Fussy eater/happy meal?
LawandOrder/Fake News? "I don't get involved in fake news and we are more about the TV show than real life. But it could all actually make a good new fun thread .... not that I do those ..... | |||
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"So what is the point of this thread OP - if someone says yes they have seen it on a woman's profile - then what? It's just another one of those threads to have a go at people that disagree or don't finger your preferences attractive Yawn! It was intended to be seen as "have any women seen a male profile that states no bi/bi curious women?" I might start a thread that asks "does anyone read the original post before jumping in feet first with an argument to a different question... But what can you get from that question? A yes or a no "90 ish people thought it was interesting enough worth posting a reply to though.... | |||
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"If a woman has no interest in bi male play, why would she choose a bi male? Like it or not bi men carry more risk of std. " Statistically, over 40s do too?? | |||
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"So what is the point of this thread OP - if someone says yes they have seen it on a woman's profile - then what? It's just another one of those threads to have a go at people that disagree or don't finger your preferences attractive Yawn! It was intended to be seen as "have any women seen a male profile that states no bi/bi curious women?" I might start a thread that asks "does anyone read the original post before jumping in feet first with an argument to a different question... But what can you get from that question? A yes or a no "Well it seems so far it's provoked a lively discussion (albeit not the one intended) | |||
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"So what is the point of this thread OP - if someone says yes they have seen it on a woman's profile - then what? It's just another one of those threads to have a go at people that disagree or don't finger your preferences attractive Yawn! It was intended to be seen as "have any women seen a male profile that states no bi/bi curious women?" I might start a thread that asks "does anyone read the original post before jumping in feet first with an argument to a different question... But what can you get from that question? A yes or a no "There has never, in the annals of Fab history, ever before been a post that could be answered with a yes/no answer without further debate. Ever. | |||
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" Like it or not bi men carry more risk of std. " More risk than the general population but not more risk than people who play with other promiscuous groups...... Like swingers  | |||
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"So what is the point of this thread OP - if someone says yes they have seen it on a woman's profile - then what? It's just another one of those threads to have a go at people that disagree or don't finger your preferences attractive Yawn! It was intended to be seen as "have any women seen a male profile that states no bi/bi curious women?" I might start a thread that asks "does anyone read the original post before jumping in feet first with an argument to a different question..." Good point OP. People (myself included  *holds hands up* ) have focussed on the bi men aspect.
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" 90 ish people thought it was interesting enough worth posting a reply to though.... For the sake of accuracy i posted twice... Just sayin "You are the 'ish' | |||
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" Like it or not bi men carry more risk of std. More risk than the general population but not more risk than people who play with other promiscuous groups...... Like swingers "I am never convinced by such statistics when so many 'straight' guys lie about their sexual status ,in order to have their end away with women on here who don't want bi men! | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" Could be many reasons but one is that Bi men who engage in anal sex are more likely to catch STIs then men who do not engage in anal sex. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Could be many reasons but one is that Bi men who engage in anal sex are more likely to catch STIs then men who do not engage in anal sex. " We have done and dusted this one due to reporting protocols etc. However, this is not what the OP asked ..... again | |||
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" Like it or not bi men carry more risk of std. More risk than the general population but not more risk than people who play with other promiscuous groups...... Like swingers
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"I'd say it was just another preference, not to be taken personally. Would you meet someone who took part in activites you wouldn't touch with a barge pole? " This
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" Like it or not bi men carry more risk of std. More risk than the general population but not more risk than people who play with other promiscuous groups...... Like swingers
I am never convinced by such statistics when so many 'straight' guys lie about their sexual status
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" Like it or not bi men carry more risk of std. More risk than the general population but not more risk than people who play with other promiscuous groups...... Like swingers
I am never convinced by such statistics when so many 'straight' guys lie about their sexual status
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" in fantasy land I always thought I'd like to see guys playing together, in reality it wasn't for me, rather than getting a thrill I felt nauseous, decided then it wasn't for me and I stick to it, no offence intended to anyone, personal preference | |||
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" Like it or not bi men carry more risk of std. More risk than the general population but not more risk than people who play with other promiscuous groups...... Like swingers
I am never convinced by such statistics when so many 'straight' guys lie about their sexual status
,in order to have their end away with women on here who don't want bi men! "Yes at least be honest and respect what other people want. To that end you know where you stand at least with the woman stating "no bi guys". We all have preferences on our profiles. Why won't you meet single men OP? | |||
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"Yes it's very strange that men like the idea of bi women a lot more than women seem to like the idea of bi men (I assume that's the gist of you were getting at OP?) But then they do say that men are from Mars and women are from Venus so maybe not try and judge one against the other because they are a completely different beast lol " | |||
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"Yes it's very strange that men like the idea of bi women a lot more than women seem to like the idea of bi men (I assume that's the gist of you were getting at OP?) But then they do say that men are from Mars and women are from Venus so maybe not try and judge one against the other because they are a completely different beast lol "I think this is entirely what he was getting at .... | |||
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"I think it's probably preference for couples, for example I wouldn't meet a bi man with my partner because he's straight so doesn't want any mm play. But having said that if we were sure that a bi guy wasn't interested in playing with him and was going to stick to any ground rules we set out then that would be fine. I don't understand it from single women, I don't see what difference someone's sexual preference makes. No guys have turned me down because I'm bi, cause it doesn't make any difference to how I play with them or how safely I play. And for me it's the same, I don't care if a guy's straight or bi, as long as they're safe and respectful." You don't have to understand it. Just accept it's a turn off for some single women - as it is for me. | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise!" Whereas all your posts were completely on-topic? | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Whereas all your posts were completely on-topic?" Were they? Thanks for noticing | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise!" Bothered. | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise!" Sounds like you have an issue... It's an open thread, where anyone can comment. Respectfully, but you appear to be a little annoyed
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"Yes it's very strange that men like the idea of bi women a lot more than women seem to like the idea of bi men (I assume that's the gist of you were getting at OP?) But then they do say that men are from Mars and women are from Venus so maybe not try and judge one against the other because they are a completely different beast lol "That's exactly the gist of it...I was simply wondering if anyone had seen a guy with "no bi women" on his profile | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Whereas all your posts were completely on-topic? Were they? Thanks for noticing" My sentence ended with a question mark.... The single ladies posted from their perspective and you posted from yours. Both are equally valid in a forum. | |||
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I respect you like to meet bi men and TV. Doesn't bother me at all. So don't let my PREFERENCES bother you. Ok "Not annoyed in the slightest. Thanks for checking out my profile and commenting on it. We socialise rather than meet though. Just a preference. | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Whereas all your posts were completely on-topic? Were they? Thanks for noticing My sentence ended with a question mark.... The single ladies posted from their perspective and you posted from yours. Both are equally valid in a forum." My perspective is that the thread has been diverted to 'why we don't meet bi men' .... equally valid, surely? | |||
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I respect you like to meet bi men and TV. Doesn't bother me at all. So don't let my PREFERENCES bother you. Ok
Not annoyed in the slightest. Thanks for checking out my profile and commenting on it. We socialise rather than meet though. Just a preference. "Everyone has them
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Sounds like you have an issue... It's an open thread, where anyone can comment. Respectfully, but you appear to be a little annoyed
I respect you like to meet bi men and TV. Doesn't bother me at all. So don't let my PREFERENCES bother you. Ok
Not annoyed in the slightest. Thanks for checking out my profile and commenting on it. We socialise rather than meet though. Just a preference.
Everyone has them
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Bothered. Nah we're not
Exactly and that's a problem on here. People have a tendency to whine about any group(s) which exclude them. "No whining seen on this thread ..... I have a single fem profile too, so .... am I whining about myself? | |||
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"To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles "I have never seen a single man profile here say no to bi women but I have come across this on dating site profiles. My conclusion is that bi men are too promiscuous for casual fucking and bi women are promiscuous enough for casual fucking but may be too promiscuous for dating
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"To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles
I have never seen a single man profile here say no to bi women but I have come across this on dating site profiles. My conclusion is that bi men are too promiscuous for casual fucking and bi women are promiscuous enough for casual fucking but may be too promiscuous for dating
Personally I feel that it is ok to play the preference card when arranging threesomes/moresomes. Not so much when meeting one-on-one."Why would any bi person ne more promiscuous than a straight one? | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Bothered. Nah we're not
Exactly and that's a problem on here. People have a tendency to whine about any group(s) which exclude them.
No whining seen on this thread ..... I have a single fem profile too, so .... am I whining about myself?"No whining seen and yet you're asking me if you're whining? My comment wasn't aimed at any one in particular, so it's interesting you've picked up on it. | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Bothered. Nah we're not
Exactly and that's a problem on here. People have a tendency to whine about any group(s) which exclude them.
No whining seen on this thread ..... I have a single fem profile too, so .... am I whining about myself?
No whining seen and yet you're asking me if you're whining?
My comment wasn't aimed at any one in particular, so it's interesting you've picked up on it."C'mon guys. Group hugs! But only hugs, ok.... | |||
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"To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles
I have never seen a single man profile here say no to bi women but I have come across this on dating site profiles. My conclusion is that bi men are too promiscuous for casual fucking and bi women are promiscuous enough for casual fucking but may be too promiscuous for dating
Personally I feel that it is ok to play the preference card when arranging threesomes/moresomes. Not so much when meeting one-on-one.
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. " You say read and respect people's profile and rights to hold an opinion wether he likes it or not. Doesn't the same apply to threads op is entitled to ask what he likes on here | |||
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"So what is the point of this thread OP - if someone says yes they have seen it on a woman's profile - then what? It's just another one of those threads to have a go at people that disagree or don't finger your preferences attractive Yawn! It was intended to be seen as "have any women seen a male profile that states no bi/bi curious women?" I might start a thread that asks "does anyone read the original post before jumping in feet first with an argument to a different question... But what can you get from that question? A yes or a no "Same could be said to you. What are you going to get out of your questions you keep asking the op bugger all really yet you keep asking lol. Forum are for everyone to use as people say you don't like a profile or what's on it pass it by. Same with the forum rooms if you don't like or understand why the thread as been done pass on by simple really | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Instead of wondering why? When the answer is pretty obvious. Why don't you just accept it and move on? This isn't going to turn into another bisexual is best, if you're not bi or bi friendly then you're automatically homophobic thread... Is it? I got A LOT of flak for saying I didn't like men fabbing my photos. As well as the flak I got lots more fabs by men determined to upset and annoyed me. There could be any number of reasons, but hey would a email list them on here? Opening herself up to attacks by the straight bashers! Funny how the bullied often become the bully. But just to entertain you, as if you didn't already have a clue.. How's about.. a) They've grown up in a household, family or culture where homosexuality is frowned upon. b) They may actually be homophobic. c) They find it a mental turn off sexually. d) Concerns about the number of sexual partners a bisexual male may have and whether he plays safe. That last one... Ooooh, you'll all erupt on me for that one I'm sure. It's a valid concern. No more relevant to men or women, straight, bi or gay. But us a view people hold. Personally I dont. But you know all this, so why are you asking the question? Are you looking for a squabble? Don't feel hard done by and just move on. Please read and respect people's profiles and rights to hold an opinion. Whether you like it or not. Stop allowing sex to turn you all into inconsiderate pricks. There are two ends of the stick sir, and you have grabbed the wrong end No.. I read your post. And answered with a question of my own, albeit long winded. Which you did not answer. Why do you feel the need to ask the question? I've seen you're a semi regular poster on the forum, so you know the answers people will give. So again.. Why ask? If you were new, or new to formum, I'd have ignored this. But...what question did I ask? Because you answered a totally different one it seems You're right, I didn't answer your question and replied with my own, apologies. My original post was intended to mean... Any women seen any male profiles that state "no bi/bi curious women" " Nope - and I very much doubt there ever will be! After 3 years on fab I've quite literally lost count of the number of men who've,sometimes even before our first meeting, said 'I'd love to fuck you and one of your mates together!' It doesn't impress me much tbh! I think most guys see bisexuality in women on fab as a very definite advantage - as if the friendship progresses it opens up other avenues (meeting bi-fem couples together etc) When I'm meeting a guy, whether bi or straight, I'm thinking about he and I on our (hopefully great) meet - not an 'end game'! I know I digressed slightly - but I do think that's why guys would never discount bi women! That and many guys find watching women playing a turn-on! (Just as I find watching hot guys together a turn on!) x | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Bothered. Nah we're not
Exactly and that's a problem on here. People have a tendency to whine about any group(s) which exclude them.
No whining seen on this thread ..... I have a single fem profile too, so .... am I whining about myself?
No whining seen and yet you're asking me if you're whining?
My comment wasn't aimed at any one in particular, so it's interesting you've picked up on it.
C'mon guys. Group hugs!
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? It's even funnier when the female is also bi herself."
Straight women can like bi men
Bi women can like straight men
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"Yes it's very strange that men like the idea of bi women a lot more than women seem to like the idea of bi men (I assume that's the gist of you were getting at OP?) But then they do say that men are from Mars and women are from Venus so maybe not try and judge one against the other because they are a completely different beast lol
That's exactly the gist of it...I was simply wondering if anyone had seen a guy with "no bi women" on his profile "This trans girl had it on her profile for a while but I then had a rewrite and took it off because I'm not actually bothered what others do when they're not with me. I was just taking a stand. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" Bloody hell keep seeing these why don't people like threads? Let me think about it? Maybe it's because they don't want to meet them? Is that ok with you | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Bloody hell keep seeing these why don't people like threads? Let me think about it? Maybe it's because they don't want to meet them? Is that ok with you" Nope. I want everyone to ADORE me | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles? Bloody hell keep seeing these why don't people like threads? Let me think about it? Maybe it's because they don't want to meet them? Is that ok with you" Did you read past the first paragraph and understand the question? Maybe that's why you keep seeing the same posts | |||
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"To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles
I have never seen a single man profile here say no to bi women but I have come across this on dating site profiles. My conclusion is that bi men are too promiscuous for casual fucking and bi women are promiscuous enough for casual fucking but may be too promiscuous for dating
Personally I feel that it is ok to play the preference card when arranging threesomes/moresomes. Not so much when meeting one-on-one.
Why would any bi person ne more promiscuous than a straight one?
It is a common prejudice."Because the assumption is you are fucking twice as many maybe? Rather than the same amount spread over the different sexes. S | |||
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"I'd say it was just another preference, not to be taken personally. Would you meet someone who took part in activites you wouldn't touch with a barge pole? This
Nothing more, nothing less
What are these activities? Prey tell .... "Bisexual sex. Maybe they're prejudiced, maybe they're not. Who cares. Can LGBT STOP forcing people to partake in their sexual orientation. The levels of entitlement I am seeing from many on here are starting to disgust me. I see plenty of "no bi men" profiles. Some have even messaged me. Most dont like partaking in it. The same way people dont like it when others partake in bareback sex. I wonder what would happen if someone is idiotic as the OP started asking whats up with people who dont like bareback...that they're clearly prejudiced for not taking part in it. Wonder how well that would go down.... | |||
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Bothered. Nah we're not
Exactly and that's a problem on here. People have a tendency to whine about any group(s) which exclude them.
No whining seen on this thread ..... I have a single fem profile too, so .... am I whining about myself?
No whining seen and yet you're asking me if you're whining?
My comment wasn't aimed at any one in particular, so it's interesting you've picked up on it.
C'mon guys. Group hugs!
But only hugs, ok....
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"Single women hijack a thread making it all about them, when the OP was asking about men ... if any are turned off by bi women. Quelle surprise! Bothered. Nah we're not
Exactly and that's a problem on here. People have a tendency to whine about any group(s) which exclude them.
No whining seen on this thread ..... I have a single fem profile too, so .... am I whining about myself?
No whining seen and yet you're asking me if you're whining?
My comment wasn't aimed at any one in particular, so it's interesting you've picked up on it.
C'mon guys. Group hugs!
But only hugs, ok....
After you then...
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"To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles
I have never seen a single man profile here say no to bi women but I have come across this on dating site profiles. My conclusion is that bi men are too promiscuous for casual fucking and bi women are promiscuous enough for casual fucking but may be too promiscuous for dating
Personally I feel that it is ok to play the preference card when arranging threesomes/moresomes. Not so much when meeting one-on-one.
Why would any bi person ne more promiscuous than a straight one?"Gay people ARE promiscuous...would not be much of a stretch to assume that bisexual people are too: "In 1948, Kinsey observed that long-term homosexual relationships were notably few. Now, more than fifty years later, long-term gay male relationships may be more common, but the fact remains that they are typically not monogamous. In one recent study of gay male couples, 41.3% had open sexual agreements with some conditions or restrictions, and 10% had open sexual agreements with no restrictions on sex with outside partners. One-fifth of participants (21.9%) reported breaking their agreement in the preceding 12 months, and 13.2% of the sample reported having unprotected anal intercourse in the preceding three months with an outside partner of unknown or discordant HIV-status (1). This study follows the classic research of McWhirter and Mattison, reported in The Male Couple (1984), which found that not a single male pair was able to maintain fidelity in their relationship for more than five years. Outside affairs, the researchers found, were not damaging to the relationship’s endurance, but were in fact essential to it. “The single most important factor that keeps couples together past the ten-year mark is the lack of possessiveness they feel,” says the authors (p. 256)." Its just...reality really. I know bisexual people and all were more promiscuous than their straight counterparts. There were a variety of reasons for that but I, for one, cant really stand the idea that gay/bi people, on one hand, claim that bisexuality is super normal and then on the other whine and complain when people opt out of playing with them. Cant remember the last time I saw a thread about why people dont play with hairy/bald people. | |||
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"I see plenty of "no bi men" profiles. Some have even messaged me. Most dont like partaking in it. The same way people dont like it when others partake in bareback sex. I wonder what would happen if someone is idiotic as the OP started asking whats up with people who dont like bareback" Not as idiotic as someone who didn't understand the original post and then makes a point about it
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"To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles
I have never seen a single man profile here say no to bi women but I have come across this on dating site profiles. My conclusion is that bi men are too promiscuous for casual fucking and bi women are promiscuous enough for casual fucking but may be too promiscuous for dating
Personally I feel that it is ok to play the preference card when arranging threesomes/moresomes. Not so much when meeting one-on-one.
Why would any bi person ne more promiscuous than a straight one?
Gay people ARE promiscuous...would not be much of a stretch to assume that bisexual people are too:
In 1948, Kinsey observed that long-term homosexual relationships were notably few. Now, more than fifty years later, long-term gay male relationships may be more common, but the fact remains that they are typically not monogamous.
In one recent study of gay male couples, 41.3% had open sexual agreements with some conditions or restrictions, and 10% had open sexual agreements with no restrictions on sex with outside partners. One-fifth of participants (21.9%) reported breaking their agreement in the preceding 12 months, and 13.2% of the sample reported having unprotected anal intercourse in the preceding three months with an outside partner of unknown or discordant HIV-status (1).
This study follows the classic research of McWhirter and Mattison, reported in The Male Couple (1984), which found that not a single male pair was able to maintain fidelity in their relationship for more than five years. Outside affairs, the researchers found, were not damaging to the relationship’s endurance, but were in fact essential to it. “The single most important factor that keeps couples together past the ten-year mark is the lack of possessiveness they feel,” says the authors (p. 256).
Its just...reality really. I know bisexual people and all were more promiscuous than their straight counterparts. There were a variety of reasons for that but I, for one, cant really stand the idea that gay/bi people, on one hand, claim that bisexuality is super normal and then on the other whine and complain when people opt out of playing with them.
Cant remember the last time I saw a thread about why people dont play with hairy/bald people. "To an extent I agree, however I know a fair few promiscuous straights too. Personally, I don't want to suck a cock that's potentially been in another man's arsehole. Personal preference and I really couldn't give two hoots if anyone has a problem with that. | |||
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"On more that one occasion I've seen on women's profiles "no bi/bi curious men" Always puzzled me why...any women seen something similar on male profiles?" For me its because I dont find it a turn on.. sexually they arent for me...so as fab is about sexual fantasy then no point. Yup if I don't know then it doesnt bother me but once/if I do then that is it.. instantly lose all interest. | |||
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"Big jump, gay relationships to bi relationships. I wonder what the statistics are like on swinging couples and promiscuity though. Are swinging couples more promiscuous that couples who don't swing, for example? " You're sitting there with a straight face asking whether couples who partake in agreed extramarital sexual activities are more promiscuous than monogamous relationships. Its like asking whether someone who just ate is hungrier than a starving child. I dont I have ever seen such a glaring dearth in logic. | |||
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"Big jump, gay relationships to bi relationships. I wonder what the statistics are like on swinging couples and promiscuity though. Are swinging couples more promiscuous that couples who don't swing, for example? You're sitting there with a straight face asking whether couples who partake in agreed extramarital sexual activities are more promiscuous than monogamous relationships. Its like asking whether someone who just ate is hungrier than a starving child. I dont I have ever seen such a glaring dearth in logic. "I am using it to illustrate the one you used ... to illustrate your dearth in logic. | |||
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"To be honest I actually meant "no bi/bi curious women" on male profiles
I have never seen a single man profile here say no to bi women but I have come across this on dating site profiles. My conclusion is that bi men are too promiscuous for casual fucking and bi women are promiscuous enough for casual fucking but may be too promiscuous for dating
Personally I feel that it is ok to play the preference card when arranging threesomes/moresomes. Not so much when meeting one-on-one.
Why would any bi person ne more promiscuous than a straight one?
Gay people ARE promiscuous...would not be much of a stretch to assume that bisexual people are too:
In 1948, Kinsey observed that long-term homosexual relationships were notably few. Now, more than fifty years later, long-term gay male relationships may be more common, but the fact remains that they are typically not monogamous.
In one recent study of gay male couples, 41.3% had open sexual agreements with some conditions or restrictions, and 10% had open sexual agreements with no restrictions on sex with outside partners. One-fifth of participants (21.9%) reported breaking their agreement in the preceding 12 months, and 13.2% of the sample reported having unprotected anal intercourse in the preceding three months with an outside partner of unknown or discordant HIV-status (1).
This study follows the classic research of McWhirter and Mattison, reported in The Male Couple (1984), which found that not a single male pair was able to maintain fidelity in their relationship for more than five years. Outside affairs, the researchers found, were not damaging to the relationship’s endurance, but were in fact essential to it. “The single most important factor that keeps couples together past the ten-year mark is the lack of possessiveness they feel,” says the authors (p. 256).
Its just...reality really. I know bisexual people and all were more promiscuous than their straight counterparts. There were a variety of reasons for that but I, for one, cant really stand the idea that gay/bi people, on one hand, claim that bisexuality is super normal and then on the other whine and complain when people opt out of playing with them.
Cant remember the last time I saw a thread about why people dont play with hairy/bald people.
To an extent I agree, however I know a fair few promiscuous straights too.
Personally, I don't want to suck a cock that's potentially been in another man's arsehole. Personal preference and I really couldn't give two hoots if anyone has a problem with that."What about a cock that has been in a woman's arsehole? | |||
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"I see plenty of "no bi men" profiles. Some have even messaged me. Most dont like partaking in it. The same way people dont like it when others partake in bareback sex. I wonder what would happen if someone is idiotic as the OP started asking whats up with people who dont like bareback Not as idiotic as someone who didn't understand the original post and then makes a point about it
I was asking if women had seen many male profiles stating no bi/bi curious women...a point that has been discussed throughout this thread as well as misunderstood as you did"Stop being passive aggressive, entitled people do it a lot and its incredibly irritating. Its been stated that you have made this thread multiple times and its not really a stretch to figure out that you're really just a little outraged that women on here dont want to play with bi men. You can dress it up all you like but your persistence gives it away. | |||
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