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Swinging and sites alot like Bingo ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not quiet the analogy I would have used but yes, it's a great past time from the "real world". Also its much more fun to yell "I'm coming rather than "house".  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think swinging is just like Bingo and sports ... bit like a hobbie and just a way of chilling escaping normal everyday life? "
ive always considered sex as a hobby and swinging has been my a development of that....
perhaps fabs should develop a series of cards to collect or a ranking list!!! x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it is a hobby. Having to update my cv I wonder if I should put it in as I have learnt some new skills lol."
i am learning new skills to add to my hobbie all the time , lol |
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yes it is a hobby.. and its like bingo as in you never know what numbers your going to get..
we have become more confident in new situations,, and job interviews dont faze me anymore.. lol
if you can sit naked infront of strangers you have just had fun with... a bunch of suits is nothing to be scared of.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It has about the same odd's as bingo I suppose, plus when you're the winner everyone else in the game complains its not them. "
see it is like bingo , lol xx just never know if on to a winner , lol  |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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Aww Game, I am sure you have lots of winners
Yep, I agree. For us it is a hobby and a nice escape from the "real world".
We have chosen to put quite a lot of effort into our hobby and it is working well for us.
We hope that goes for the rest of Fab'ers too.
Jane x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am noticing more and more there is a group of people who swing as a way of building self esteem. The fact that someone wants them is a boost and builds up fragile egos. I am not saying this is wrong but it isn't an ideal reason for swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am noticing more and more there is a group of people who swing as a way of building self esteem. The fact that someone wants them is a boost and builds up fragile egos. I am not saying this is wrong but it isn't an ideal reason for swinging."
yes some will do this .... i am sure as away of making themselfs feel better ..... and if it helps why not . Lifes far to short .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am noticing more and more there is a group of people who swing as a way of building self esteem. The fact that someone wants them is a boost and builds up fragile egos. I am not saying this is wrong but it isn't an ideal reason for swinging."
I just love ur gub.....really does amaze me what u view as ego-from the basis of a website/page. the very fact you have to dictate a response from people that may be negative enforces the idea that maybe u get off on appearing to say intelligently mean things-Of couyse if u have a swingers degree...i stand corrected lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am noticing more and more there is a group of people who swing as a way of building self esteem. The fact that someone wants them is a boost and builds up fragile egos. I am not saying this is wrong but it isn't an ideal reason for swinging."
you notice quite a lot of things? do you psychoanalayse their profiles or is it their forum posts? well i suppose i shouldnt really question an expert on the knowledge of fragile egos and for that reason im out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging is definitely a hobby for me, the whole caboodle, meets, clubs, forums etc.
I've learnt a lot of new skills, confidence, patience, empathy, understanding. Whilst sex is a great part of it, had wonderful sexual experiences, its also given me the ability to widen my social group, have a greater understanding of sexuality in general, and given me confidence and acceptance of my own looks, body etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am noticing more and more there is a group of people who swing as a way of building self esteem. The fact that someone wants them is a boost and builds up fragile egos. I am not saying this is wrong but it isn't an ideal reason for swinging."
I don't think its anything to do with fragile egos, well maybe for some. The majority of people within their working lives are confident and do not have low self esteem.
Swinging strips the layers off, literally. We can all hide behind layers of make up and clothes but when stripped down to the basics then we are almost vulnerable and you have to shake off that vulnerability and stand proud and accept what you are. I don't have a problem sharing my views at work or in my social life.
I am a fairly confident person. Like everyone there are parts of myself I'm uncomfortable with, I have lumps and bumps, saggy stretchmarky tummy that I wish I didn't have. I always feel vulnerable standing at the edge of the jacuzzi, I clasp my towel around me as a last piece of armour. But I force myself to drop the towel and get in, completely naked to strangers and the vulnerability subsides. I'm working up to walking naked between the two jacuzzis at Chams.
Most people feel vulnerable naked but conquer this and its this aspect that I've grown in confidence from, so for me acceptance of myself and others is a very good reason to swing
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