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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey everyone,
Do you ever look at other peoples fetishes and think "WTF??". By this I mean things like the whole dom/sub thing, or the being tied and whipped, piss and scat, etc etc etc. I remember many years ago i went to the gay sauna in Luton (on my own, Mr here) and a guy in the hot tub took a fancy to me, but wanted to lick my armpit!!
I couldnt do the whole whip/slap stuff as i would be like "do that again and I'll nut you".
There seems to be a kink or fetish for everything these days. Its like seeing women in socks, i am like "Wow, sexy" but a guy in socks I'm like "take your socks off you weirdo".
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There are lots of fetishes I don't personally 'get' but then I'm sure there are some of mine that others would be equally baffled by. In short, so long as it's legal and consensual, what does it matter ....
My job (don't ask) means I've been made aware of fetishes I'd never have imagined ..... cake farting anyone ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has something that makes them tick.
Kinks or fetishs shouldn't be shamed.
I'm sure I have a few that would make people raise a few eyebrows   "
Definitely agree with you sexyspecs, the vast majority of people do have kinks and fethishs, however on a few will act on the as they feel they will be judges and ridiculed for them.
Safe to say I also do have a few kinks and fetishes that some would consider "weird" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are lots of fetishes I don't personally 'get' but then I'm sure there are some of mine that others would be equally baffled by. In short, so long as it's legal and consensual, what does it matter ....
My job (don't ask) means I've been made aware of fetishes I'd never have imagined ..... cake farting anyone ? "
Oh.... |
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Don't knock it til you've tried it.
Some fetishes are so way out that they're difficult to imagine but at the other end of the spectrum, well what guy doesn't appreciate a lady in stockings and suspenders.
What lady doesn't like a hard parcel in tight briefs (got that one from Sue btw!).
Not all fetishes involve whips, chains and pee.
Each to their own. We all have different sexual proclivities.
There's websites full of stuff most people probably have never heard of let alone indulging in.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are lots of fetishes I don't personally 'get' but then I'm sure there are some of mine that others would be equally baffled by. In short, so long as it's legal and consensual, what does it matter ....
My job (don't ask) means I've been made aware of fetishes I'd never have imagined ..... cake farting anyone ? "
Cake farting? That does sound very interesting  |
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"There are lots of fetishes I don't personally 'get' but then I'm sure there are some of mine that others would be equally baffled by. In short, so long as it's legal and consensual, what does it matter ....
My job (don't ask) means I've been made aware of fetishes I'd never have imagined ..... cake farting anyone ?
Oh.... "
Gawd, I didn't mean to imply I've actually *tried* it ha ha |
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"Men that crossdress i just dont get it  "
My Fetish is in my name and I have tried to understand when and why I started to fetishise over one garment. Possibly just as simple as seeing an actress on TV or those clothes catalogues my Mother used to get, and instead of going to the bras to get satisfaction from, I actually went to the nightwear.
Whenever someone talks about a Fetish over clothes I 'get it' because I know how an image or the actual clothes can make me feel. However it doesn't make me understanding of other people's desires towards objects or body parts etc... just as confused  |
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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature."
That would be lovely .. I love my hair being played with |
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature."
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You? |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?"
Of course not no!
Your point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are lots of fetishes I don't personally 'get' but then I'm sure there are some of mine that others would be equally baffled by. In short, so long as it's legal and consensual, what does it matter ....
My job (don't ask) means I've been made aware of fetishes I'd never have imagined ..... cake farting anyone ?
It would be a complete waste of cake haha!
Oh....
Gawd, I didn't mean to imply I've actually *tried* it ha ha "
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I find it fascinating!! what people like and how they came to find out... some fetishes I can kind of understand, some are weird to me but how wonderful for people to know what they enjoy and do it!! |
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Of course not no!
Your point?"
My point is, when is someone else's kink harmless and of an adult nature? Who's guidance are we following? Some kink involves consented harm. |
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"I find it fascinating!! what people like and how they came to find out... some fetishes I can kind of understand, some are weird to me but how wonderful for people to know what they enjoy and do it!!"
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
not far from you.. |
"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Of course not no!
Your point?
My point is, when is someone else's kink harmless and of an adult nature? Who's guidance are we following? Some kink involves consented harm."
Agreed. I consent to inflicted harm onto myself when in "sub space" with my Dominant frequently. You have read my meaning & understanding to the whole post wrong. Crossed wires or so to speak.. |
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Of course not no!
Your point?
My point is, when is someone else's kink harmless and of an adult nature? Who's guidance are we following? Some kink involves consented harm.
Agreed. I consent to inflicted harm onto myself when in "sub space" with my Dominant frequently. You have read my meaning & understanding to the whole post wrong. Crossed wires or so to speak.."
I beg to differ not crossed wires on my behalf, I just read the words that you used, 'harmless and of adult nature.' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?"
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult. |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult."
That's how I read it too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently talking to someone who appears to have very different tastes to mine...i look at it all as a learning experience.
The toilet stuff does leave me a little unsettled though, definitely a WTF moment when someone asks you to take a dump on them as i've read on here...
On that note, imagine being someone who's into all this typeof stuff, must be a nightmare trying to get someone to indulge with them...
I'm going to wash my hands now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I first joined and I'm still fairly new I was shocked if I'm honest at some profiles some verifications and definitely some pictures !!
Now nothing would shock me on here !! "
I'm exactly the same...nothing shocks me anymore! I want my innocence back ffs |
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult."
My instinct is to agree but I'm not sure it's quite that simple. What if one of the consenting adults has been drinking? |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
My instinct is to agree but I'm not sure it's quite that simple. What if one of the consenting adults has been drinking?"
I think that's classed as non consenting because they're under the influence therefore unable to give consent. Same as not being of sound mind.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends on the person looking in
like my fetish is pegging others may think that's wired but to me it's not because it's my thing
But the whole water sports I don't get but to someone who enjoys it doesn't think it's wired |
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
My instinct is to agree but I'm not sure it's quite that simple. What if one of the consenting adults has been drinking?
I think that's classed as non consenting because they're under the influence therefore unable to give consent. Same as not being of sound mind.
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..... So relying on other participants being aware that they are not fit to consent. How about a group of adults all consenting to an illegal activity? |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen |
"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
My instinct is to agree but I'm not sure it's quite that simple. What if one of the consenting adults has been drinking?
I think that's classed as non consenting because they're under the influence therefore unable to give consent. Same as not being of sound mind.
..... So relying on other participants being aware that they are not fit to consent. How about a group of adults all consenting to an illegal activity?"
I don't think the poster meant illegal activities are fine as long as everyone agrees. I think by harmless and consenting she was saying as long as it's legal and everyone is willing, then there's no harm in whatever fetish you choose so why should you be judged on it. I can't actually speak for her but that's how I read the comment. |
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
My instinct is to agree but I'm not sure it's quite that simple. What if one of the consenting adults has been drinking?
I think that's classed as non consenting because they're under the influence therefore unable to give consent. Same as not being of sound mind.
..... So relying on other participants being aware that they are not fit to consent. How about a group of adults all consenting to an illegal activity?
I don't think the poster meant illegal activities are fine as long as everyone agrees. I think by harmless and consenting she was saying as long as it's legal and everyone is willing, then there's no harm in whatever fetish you choose so why should you be judged on it. I can't actually speak for her but that's how I read the comment. "
If that's what OP meant then I'm in agreement. I wasn't keen on the suggestion that people's kinks need to abide by some arbitrary rule book dependant upon taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it depends on the person looking in
like my fetish is pegging others may think that's wired but to me it's not because it's my thing
But the whole water sports I don't get but to someone who enjoys it doesn't think it's wired "
See now this is my kink lol
I only have to watch pee porn and I cum in secones. .
Love it! Mad how one persons mmmmm is another person's yuk lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it depends on the person looking in
like my fetish is pegging others may think that's wired but to me it's not because it's my thing
But the whole water sports I don't get but to someone who enjoys it doesn't think it's wired
See now this is my kink lol
I only have to watch pee porn and I cum in secones. .
Love it! Mad how one persons mmmmm is another person's yuk lol xx"
I think accepting this is the only way to understand I will never judge anyone for there kinks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is how dumb I am.
An ex wanted a corpse cold vampire, zombie kinda experience.
So I lay in a bath full of water and ice cubes till I couldn't feel my nose, dabbed my self dry. Lay on the bed while he had his wicked way with me while playing dead kennedys really really loud.
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"I think it depends on the person looking in
like my fetish is pegging others may think that's wired but to me it's not because it's my thing
But the whole water sports I don't get but to someone who enjoys it doesn't think it's wired
See now this is my kink lol
I only have to watch pee porn and I cum in secones. .
Love it! Mad how one persons mmmmm is another person's yuk lol xx"
u the pissee or the pisser? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
My instinct is to agree but I'm not sure it's quite that simple. What if one of the consenting adults has been drinking?
I think that's classed as non consenting because they're under the influence therefore unable to give consent. Same as not being of sound mind.
..... So relying on other participants being aware that they are not fit to consent. How about a group of adults all consenting to an illegal activity?
I don't think the poster meant illegal activities are fine as long as everyone agrees. I think by harmless and consenting she was saying as long as it's legal and everyone is willing, then there's no harm in whatever fetish you choose so why should you be judged on it. I can't actually speak for her but that's how I read the comment. "
There was a case a few years back of some guys being prosecuted for assaulting each other after filming themselves nailing each others scrotums to planks and similar things.
If they were all consenting to it all it's highly unlikely that any of them would have complained to the police,so filming it was their downfall there.
Just the fact that it was considered illegal doesn't necessarily make it wrong,does it? as long as there was no coercion involved,isn't that just a matter of taste? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Or the guy who got a sexual kick out of getting someone else to kill him and eat him. It's hard to square that by saying he had the freedom of choice to want that to happen to him. The killer/cannibal was obviously done for murder. |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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"Once a guy (Dom)who I met from here just wanted me to watch a movie with him while he brushed & stroked my hair.
We all our kinks but that's fine as long as their harmless & of an Adult nature.
Who sets the rules to decide if they are harmless and of an adult nature? You?
Everything is fine as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
My instinct is to agree but I'm not sure it's quite that simple. What if one of the consenting adults has been drinking?
I think that's classed as non consenting because they're under the influence therefore unable to give consent. Same as not being of sound mind.
..... So relying on other participants being aware that they are not fit to consent. How about a group of adults all consenting to an illegal activity?
I don't think the poster meant illegal activities are fine as long as everyone agrees. I think by harmless and consenting she was saying as long as it's legal and everyone is willing, then there's no harm in whatever fetish you choose so why should you be judged on it. I can't actually speak for her but that's how I read the comment.
There was a case a few years back of some guys being prosecuted for assaulting each other after filming themselves nailing each others scrotums to planks and similar things.
If they were all consenting to it all it's highly unlikely that any of them would have complained to the police,so filming it was their downfall there.
Just the fact that it was considered illegal doesn't necessarily make it wrong,does it? as long as there was no coercion involved,isn't that just a matter of taste?"
Absolutely right. I don't know the laws regarding violence if it's consensual, I was thinking more along the lines of limited consent or coercion. Taking advantage of someone. I get what you're saying though |
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"I think it depends on the person looking in
like my fetish is pegging others may think that's wired but to me it's not because it's my thing
But the whole water sports I don't get but to someone who enjoys it doesn't think it's wired
See now this is my kink lol
I only have to watch pee porn and I cum in secones. .
Love it! Mad how one persons mmmmm is another person's yuk lol xx"
Peeing has always been a yuk for me. Up until recently. Let's just say I've been warming to it.
Him. |
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