Hi, I've not been to a club before and I would really like to see what it's all about. However i'm not sure if I could bottle going in by myself or if I would fit in as a younger guy, maybe someone with a little experience could reassure me.  |
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Hi hun. I offer pretty much the same advice to anyone visiting a club for the first time regardless of if they are a couple, single male or single female.
Go with no expectations of anything happening, if you do get to play that's a bonus.
A swingers club isn't that far removed from a ordinary pub or nightclub. The only difference is that there is likely to be a bit more nudity and somewhere in the building there will be people having sex.
Be warm and friendly and mingle. Chat to people just like you would in a pub or nightclub.
Check out the club website before you go. Some clubs do have age restrictions as well as having some nights where they don't admit single males. It's best to know before you turn up so you don't have a wasted trip.
Some clubs have an alcohol license but some are bring your own booze. Even though you will be nervous try not to drink too much, being pissed isn't sexy.
Most important of all is to just relax and enjoy yourself.
The hardest part is actually walking through the door for the first time, we have all been there. Just try not to worry too much. |
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"Hi, I've not been to a club before and I would really like to see what it's all about. However i'm not sure if I could bottle going in by myself or if I would fit in as a younger guy, maybe someone with a little experience could reassure me. "
Sure you would be fine we was nervous as hell first time but was really surprised and loved it x |
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"Hi hun. I offer pretty much the same advice to anyone visiting a club for the first time regardless of if they are a couple, single male or single female.
Go with no expectations of anything happening, if you do get to play that's a bonus.
A swingers club isn't that far removed from a ordinary pub or nightclub. The only difference is that there is likely to be a bit more nudity and somewhere in the building there will be people having sex.
Be warm and friendly and mingle. Chat to people just like you would in a pub or nightclub.
Check out the club website before you go. Some clubs do have age restrictions as well as having some nights where they don't admit single males. It's best to know before you turn up so you don't have a wasted trip.
Some clubs have an alcohol license but some are bring your own booze. Even though you will be nervous try not to drink too much, being pissed isn't sexy.
Most important of all is to just relax and enjoy yourself.
The hardest part is actually walking through the door for the first time, we have all been there. Just try not to worry too much. "
Thanks so much for the honest advice.. I'll definitely take it into account, thanks so much x |
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Think the advice given is solid really and I'm in a similar boat but very green/vanilla sexually so it will be a slow process.
Debating a relatively local day time club to start things off and going from there. Good luck OP and let us know how you get on ?? |
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"Hi, I've not been to a club before and I would really like to see what it's all about. However i'm not sure if I could bottle going in by myself or if I would fit in as a younger guy, maybe someone with a little experience could reassure me.
Sure you would be fine we was nervous as hell first time but was really surprised and loved it x"
thanks for the advice X |
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