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Not walked away or even felt we had to. The advantage of socials in advance and failing that some good sanity checking before meeting. That said, we would if needed walk away. This game is about free will and desire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said im going to the gents in a pub and I never returned.
Cowardly I know
Thats was a long time ago and only happened the once."
Didn't you walk over a river to style it out jesus? |
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"I said im going to the gents in a pub and I never returned.
Cowardly I know
Thats was a long time ago and only happened the once.
Didn't you walk over a river to style it out jesus?"
No but I gave some fish and bread out in the pub before I left ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Have you ever gone to a meet and said no thanks and walked away. I don't mean a social, but a meeting for sex?
Would you do a sympathy shag or BJ??
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yes I've walked away from sex in the early days when i used to arrange myself some role play fun
I've always been a total nightmare who cant be brought by anything even sex if I'm not feeling it I'm not doing it end of story . |
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"Have you ever gone to a meet and said no thanks and walked away. I don't mean a social, but a meeting for sex?
Would you do a sympathy shag or BJ?? " that's why I like a few social meets first, I would never get intimate with someone I had no connection with |
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Never done it myself or had it done to me but I think I would just say something has come up, Family/work emergency and I would hope she would do something similar rather then just leave me sitting there |
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I 'took one for the team' once for a bi MMMF with my FWB to save face. One was fine, other was just wrong in every aspect.
We started, it was even worse. He started waffling on about windscreen wipers and how funny he thought he was. I had to be the bad person, call a break and tell him it wasn't working while the other two cowered in another room. Felt such a bitch.
So no, I won't do sympathy shags ever again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I 'took one for the team' once for a bi MMMF with my FWB to save face. One was fine, other was just wrong in every aspect.
We started, it was even worse. He started waffling on about windscreen wipers and how funny he thought he was. I had to be the bad person, call a break and tell him it wasn't working while the other two cowered in another room. Felt such a bitch.
So no, I won't do sympathy shags ever again. "
This made me laugh. Windscreen wipers!!
I'd never do the sympathy shag either |
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Yes.
A long time ago my old partner and I walked away from playing with a couple. They'd neglected to tell us they'd got kids at home. A young baby and a 5 year old lad they locked in his room in anticipation of play. ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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We have only done it once.......if guys didn't lie then it would not be necessary to walk away I had to face him and tell him it wasn't happening, we didn't just do a runner....!
She did do a sympathy BJ recently, we didn't ask the questions beforehand so it was not his fault......although anyone who has erection problems should think about meeting people for sex!! ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a couple once and the female half didn't want to take it further - she thought I looked too young! I took it as a compliment, we all had a few drinks and a good laugh anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done once, but only because she looked nothing like her photos and made literally no effort with her appearance. Was highly awkward, but I can't do sympathy shags |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met socially and mutually decided it wasn't going to go any further.
I wish I had walked away once though. Went straight to her house - she was nothing like her pic (I can see why she preferred sex in the dark - so did I on this occasion!)
I still love spontaneity and as a consequence have to accept that it won't always be perfect. I'd never walk away from a girl that was expecting sex, that would be really cruel - but I might be a little hasty in my performance
It is the only time I can think of where I have 'performed' rather than enjoyed what we were doing. |
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"Does anyone really do sympathy shags?"
Sue has, only a couple of times though.
Both times in a club.The guys didn't do a thing for her but they were "nice" and didn't make an arse of themselves like some single guys can so she gave them a shag by way of a thank you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I drove passed after one look at him .
Oh that's baaaaaad..... "
Well he shouldnt of sent me pics that weren't him or were many years old . lol Plus was 4 inches shorter . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes.
A long time ago my old partner and I walked away from playing with a couple. They'd neglected to tell us they'd got kids at home. A young baby and a 5 year old lad they locked in his room in anticipation of play. "
I had similar happen to me many moons ago- just wait til kids go to bed in next room then we can play! Drank coffee and made excuses. ![](/icons/s/neutral.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met a guy from another site and he was amazing looking. He showed up to meet though in his work clothes and smelling strongly of sweat. I just couldn't play with him. He apologised and said if he had went home to get a shower first his wife would be suspicious. I told him I couldn't possibly play and had to walk away. Took some abuse off him after to and had to block him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes but no fault of the people i was meeting - just on the way there i wasnt feeling it - one i had met previously so i knew it was going to be half good at worst - i stayed a short while and chatted then left them to it - no hard feelings on any side and will meet again at a later date |
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By (user no longer on site)
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yep we have walked away a few times mainly because of guys/couples lying about there age by a big margin and looking nothing like the pics they send ie saying they are 48 and when you meet they look 68 dont know why they do it..its the same with guys who say oh i have a massive 8 inch cock only to find the must have measured form there asshole again why lol gets you nowhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone really do sympathy shags?
Sue has, only a couple of times though.
Both times in a club.The guys didn't do a thing for her but they were "nice" and didn't make an arse of themselves like some single guys can so she gave them a shag by way of a thank you.
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I'd rather have a wank then a sympathy shag.
Did you tell the guys you don't do it for me before you fucked them?
Didn't they have any self respect |
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"Have you ever gone to a meet and said no thanks and walked away. I don't mean a social, but a meeting for sex?
Would you do a sympathy shag or BJ?? "
. I'd probably stick around for a social. I'll share s conversation with anyone. Unless your a nob. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Does anyone really do sympathy shags?
Sue has, only a couple of times though.
Both times in a club.The guys didn't do a thing for her but they were "nice" and didn't make an arse of themselves like some single guys can so she gave them a shag by way of a thank you.
I'd rather have a wank then a sympathy shag.
Did you tell the guys you don't do it for me before you fucked them?
Didn't they have any self respect "
Don't think she wanted to spoil it for them.
Nothing wrong with putting a smile on someones face. |
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