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over a year ago
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I've met a few guys on here which were great but I can't help but doubt myself that I'm giving them a everything they want. Not to mention that I some times don't feel as famine as I think I could when I'm having sex.
I'm thinking of meeting a female (which I'll be honest might end up being an escort but needs must) to, for want of a better word, teach me how to be feel more like a women and make sure I've left a guy satisfied. |
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"I've met a few guys on here which were great but I can't help but doubt myself that I'm giving them a everything they want. Not to mention that I some times don't feel as famine as I think I could when I'm having sex.
I'm thinking of meeting a female (which I'll be honest might end up being an escort but needs must) to, for want of a better word, teach me how to be feel more like a women and make sure I've left a guy satisfied."
What are the guys saying to you? Do they seem happy?
In what aspects do you feel you need to feel more like a woman and how do you know you don't? By that I mean that I don't think there's just one way to be a woman, you might need to be a little more specific.  |
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The best advice I can think of to offer you is to be the person you are and not who you think will be most pleasing for the guys you are meeting.
The men who meet TV/TS and cross dressers are well aware that if you were not born female you may not look as feminine as someone who was. If they wanted to they could choose to meet someone like me who was born female but they have chosen to meet you so obviously something about you does it for them.
Many TV/TS are beautiful and far more glamorous than ladies anyway. For example I can't wear make up because I'm allergic to it, I can't wear high heels because I can't walk in them and I'm crap at doing my hair so just brush it and leave it. I am far from glamorous but I don't change to please others. My profile and pictures are accurate and show me just as I am and I meet those who like me just this way. |
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"I've met a few guys on here which were great but I can't help but doubt myself that I'm giving them a everything they want. Not to mention that I some times don't feel as famine as I think I could when I'm having sex.
I'm thinking of meeting a female (which I'll be honest might end up being an escort but needs must) to, for want of a better word, teach me how to be feel more like a women and make sure I've left a guy satisfied.
What are the guys saying to you? Do they seem happy?
In what aspects do you feel you need to feel more like a woman and how do you know you don't? By that I mean that I don't think there's just one way to be a woman, you might need to be a little more specific. "
Thanks for the response and sorry for the late reply.
There's a few things which I've kind of muddled though but havnt actually leant properly.
For example I've brought so much lingerie only to find it doesn't quite fit or look right. It's not that I can just try it on in the store and any help as to what style knickers/bras to get which are comfortable (bearing in mind I've got a cock), really famine but look really sexy.
Sucking cock is another (you did ask for specifics.lol). Most girls seem to learn this from friends etc but I havnt get worked up the courage to ask me female friends tips on how best to give a guy a bj.
Sexual positions is a other. I've only ever had sex whilst I've been bent over as my face isn't very fem. However I'd love to wrap my legs around a guy and feeling him in me. I've seen girl do this and hold there heels down but I'm not sure if this makes it feel better for them or him.
I could go on but I won't. Lol. |
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"I've met a few guys on here which were great but I can't help but doubt myself that I'm giving them a everything they want. Not to mention that I some times don't feel as famine as I think I could when I'm having sex.
I'm thinking of meeting a female (which I'll be honest might end up being an escort but needs must) to, for want of a better word, teach me how to be feel more like a women and make sure I've left a guy satisfied.
What are the guys saying to you? Do they seem happy?
In what aspects do you feel you need to feel more like a woman and how do you know you don't? By that I mean that I don't think there's just one way to be a woman, you might need to be a little more specific.
Thanks for the response and sorry for the late reply.
There's a few things which I've kind of muddled though but havnt actually leant properly.
For example I've brought so much lingerie only to find it doesn't quite fit or look right. It's not that I can just try it on in the store and any help as to what style knickers/bras to get which are comfortable (bearing in mind I've got a cock), really famine but look really sexy.
Sucking cock is another (you did ask for specifics.lol). Most girls seem to learn this from friends etc but I havnt get worked up the courage to ask me female friends tips on how best to give a guy a bj.
Sexual positions is a other. I've only ever had sex whilst I've been bent over as my face isn't very fem. However I'd love to wrap my legs around a guy and feeling him in me. I've seen girl do this and hold there heels down but I'm not sure if this makes it feel better for them or him.
I could go on but I won't. Lol."
Lingerie one is quite easy, mail order and try on at home. If you need to be discreet about it could you get it sent to a friend? I'm no expert but aren't there specialist suppliers for cd/tv underwear? You could also look out for knickers that are fuller at the front, they usually have a kind of frill at the leg making the fabric a bit looser or feel if the fabric is a bit stretchy.How are you measuring yourself for bras? What kind of lingerie do you like?
I didn't learn how to suck cock from my female friends, I learned from my husband, by watching his reaction to what I was doing and by asking him how he liked it. All men are different
The same with positions, ask the guy.
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"I've met a few guys on here which were great but I can't help but doubt myself that I'm giving them a everything they want. Not to mention that I some times don't feel as famine as I think I could when I'm having sex.
I'm thinking of meeting a female (which I'll be honest might end up being an escort but needs must) to, for want of a better word, teach me how to be feel more like a women and make sure I've left a guy satisfied.
What are the guys saying to you? Do they seem happy?
In what aspects do you feel you need to feel more like a woman and how do you know you don't? By that I mean that I don't think there's just one way to be a woman, you might need to be a little more specific.
Thanks for the response and sorry for the late reply.
There's a few things which I've kind of muddled though but havnt actually leant properly.
For example I've brought so much lingerie only to find it doesn't quite fit or look right. It's not that I can just try it on in the store and any help as to what style knickers/bras to get which are comfortable (bearing in mind I've got a cock), really famine but look really sexy.
Sucking cock is another (you did ask for specifics.lol). Most girls seem to learn this from friends etc but I havnt get worked up the courage to ask me female friends tips on how best to give a guy a bj.
Sexual positions is a other. I've only ever had sex whilst I've been bent over as my face isn't very fem. However I'd love to wrap my legs around a guy and feeling him in me. I've seen girl do this and hold there heels down but I'm not sure if this makes it feel better for them or him.
I could go on but I won't. Lol."
Bloody hell, who has learnt how to suck cock from their friends???? |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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underwear, measure yourself as if you are a woman and then get your sizes right from that.
google how to measure for bras, corsets, and other lingerie and work it out from this.
i don't really have any advice on how to be feminine as i don't enjoy feeling feminine myself. i'm not manly either, i'm just not feminine. |
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"underwear, measure yourself as if you are a woman and then get your sizes right from that.
google how to measure for bras, corsets, and other lingerie and work it out from this.
i don't really have any advice on how to be feminine as i don't enjoy feeling feminine myself. i'm not manly either, i'm just not feminine."
I am another of those women who isn't feminine, can't give make up tips or any other that the general populous associate with 'what women do or are like' |
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Good fitting lingerie can be very hard to find, i think the last well fitting and really comfortable bra i owned was in my teens before my boobs got so big  .
Mail order is a good idea. Most supermarkets do really nice lingerie ranges and there is always primark. Keep all the labels and price tags on until after you have tried on and return if not suitable. I work in a supermarket clothing department and can honestly say i have never considered a man buying lingerie was shopping for anyone other than his partner.
If you want to find out some new bj techniques google it. I've done it to see if there was anything new i could try! There is a world of information out there if you look for it. Pay attention to the responses you are getting, that will tell you if you are doing it right for that particular guy (everyone's different). I don't think i have ever discussed bj techniques with any of my friends, i just learned as i went along.
I like a variety of positions but have to say i do like to be able to look at someone's face while fucking. If it matters to you discuss it before you get as far as the bedroom. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"underwear, measure yourself as if you are a woman and then get your sizes right from that.
google how to measure for bras, corsets, and other lingerie and work it out from this.
i don't really have any advice on how to be feminine as i don't enjoy feeling feminine myself. i'm not manly either, i'm just not feminine.
I am another of those women who isn't feminine, can't give make up tips or any other that the general populous associate with 'what women do or are like' "
yeah, and as i don't follow gender stereotypes so it's hard to work out what is feminine also. |
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