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meeting with out a pic
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yes.quite often.find it part of the fun.after all nice pics doesnt always mean nice people."
i agree with you there a 100% and all ways had a fantsay of meeting some one that idont know what they look like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its very rare for me to do, suppose im generally safer as a single man than a single fem?-all I need really is the phone contact for when where and where im going.Like I say its VERY rare I do.Met a few that dont even like pics on the net of them...but sometimes I go on veries or word of mouth from a nice network of friends. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Deffo not, at the end of the day as someone posted once, they may have a great personality but its not a personality you are going to shag is it. There has to be SOME attraction, no way could i play with someone i didnt find some attraction to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"never asked for a face pic, nsa fun on here , every guy has been great x guess we are different x "
never seen ur face trish...its normally having to much action around it! heheheheh xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no i wont meet without a face pic or a phone call if the person is genuine should not be a problem....i have my mug shot on here so its only fair i see the person that wants a meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, never. I won't meet without a pic and 99% of the time I won't meet without a vanilla meet for coffee first either to be sure we click. All rights reserved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, never. I won't meet without a pic and 99% of the time I won't meet without a vanilla meet for coffee first either to be sure we click. All rights reserved. "
all rights reserved of course.Coffee meet at mine or theirs, see what happens...shag on couch or bed...hey presto!-all rights reserved and all copyrighted images posted on fab with consent of any individual or party shagging me during the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all rights reserved of course.Coffee meet at mine or theirs, see what happens...shag on couch or bed...hey presto!-all rights reserved and all copyrighted images posted on fab with consent of any individual or party shagging me during the meet."
I only do coffee on neutral territory - a nice cafe or bar. I don't want assumptions to be made. It *has* happened.
I also don't do shag photos - I keep that strictly for within a relationship.
YMMV. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all rights reserved of course.Coffee meet at mine or theirs, see what happens...shag on couch or bed...hey presto!-all rights reserved and all copyrighted images posted on fab with consent of any individual or party shagging me during the meet.
I only do coffee on neutral territory - a nice cafe or bar. I don't want assumptions to be made. It *has* happened.
I also don't do shag photos - I keep that strictly for within a relationship.
YMMV. "
just different variable types of meets, I like pics...some i meet dont lol-besides...I can only have so many lol-never liked the term neutral lol, I can meet and discuss where the meet is going, its never happened obviously id be possibly a bit dissapointed at not having a sexual encounter, but Iam a big boy and can handle the rejection, and as a self confessed "I like my swinging lifestyle" type of person...i wont jepeordise my next meet by fucking one up cos I didnt get shagged lol-annnnyway i like a wee drink alot of times during a meet, whiskey in my coffees great lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Often
I will have spoken on the phone though.
A picture means nothing. I meet people I like, or rather those I have made some sort of connection with from chat, emails and calls.
Theres been one or two its stayed with just coffee but thats life. I wouldnt be expecting to take it forward with everyone I met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a few people without seeing their faces but always spoken on the phone before meeting. We understand their privacy reasons. Most been ok but some not. Its a 50/50 gamble but do prefer to see a face shot if honest x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"need 2 see face or its a no no meet:
not here for a blind date as I dont no who you are meeting"
well it shouldnt be essential should it????- most people who ARE going to meet are actually going to be likely what they say they are, being too cynical can sometimes really make fab life a bit harder, a phone call is good enough before and for when ur about tomeet.Its hardly likely that even with a picture that it counts to automatic fuck status lol.And If the person(s) arent ur thing, swingers should be reasonable and say, sorry i dont think this is going to work.Thats just my opinion and I hate pointing out i have met some based on their verifies alone(with that obligitory phone contact for my thoughts)and had some brilliant hot times |
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We have a limited amount of time we want to spend on finding new friends so why spend it on someone who cant even be bothered to exchange pics with you to cut down on the chances of disappointment? Just doesnt make sense. Plus.... the carnation or financial times is soooo seventies luvvy.
Mistress x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have a limited amount of time we want to spend on finding new friends so why spend it on someone who cant even be bothered to exchange pics with you to cut down on the chances of disappointment? Just doesnt make sense. Plus.... the carnation or financial times is soooo seventies luvvy.
Mistress x"
how about a vibrator in hand instead of a flower or paper  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yep - done it. also had a meet where to this day i dont know what he looks like as was blidfolded the whole time"
Hehe. Love it glad I not only one to have done that hehe. Had a 'daddy' who liked me to not know who the m in the mmf was but knew him for years so trusted him to not pick those I wudnt want if I cud see ( as in yunger than him not as in looks )
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"Not a chance. So many describe themselves as "Average" when it should be "Ample" or "Professional" and they look like Bikers.
Only a pic will do "
Wouldn't it be amazing if Kenny Roberts, Fast Freddy Spencer, Kevin Schwantz or a multitude of other top sports stars were members on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes we went to a party on saturday and we didnt know what the hosts looked like!had a good time xxx"
lol id never thought of that senario and ive been to lots of parties where the others there i havn't had photos, but in one to ones or MMF meets then always ask for them. and like lots on here have had only 2 disapointments due to pics bit older and alot better looking than in flesh
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to admit this actually turns me on. I like the idea of chatting to someone and then meeting and not knowing what the person is going to look like, however I don't think I would actually do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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living in Ireland and not the UK, I find people really dont want to be found out at all, and so over here they are more inclined not to show a pic
that being said, I have met great ones who would not show a pic
also, some really ugly ones who described themselves as sexy and I walked away
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