I've been here a short time and the time has come for me to put some real effort into finding a nice couple to chat/meet with as it always been on my to list ! Any advice will be really appreciated |
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Always address the man and the woman unless they make it clear that its just one of them chatting.
If they start setting up hoops and wanting you to jump through them, walk away.
Make sure your preferences and requirements are taken into account.
Chat about your and their boundaries beforehand.
Enjoy!  |
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"Always address the man and the woman unless they make it clear that its just one of them chatting.
If they start setting up hoops and wanting you to jump through them, walk away.
Make sure your preferences and requirements are taken into account.
Chat about your and their boundaries beforehand.
Enjoy! "
I'm hoping I can find more of a soft relaxing first meet no pressure no expectations, so boundaries have to be discussed I don't want sex to be just expected I want it to just happen naturally if that's where the night takes us !
I still need to have that excitement and spark !! |
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We swap face pics very early on. Then, if we all like each other, ask if they really need their socials to be totally vanilla or are happy to try a more flirtatious date-like approach. This really separates people who think our way from those who don't. The former immediately say "Ooo a date sounds fun and kinky can we try that" whilst the latter usually get arsey with us "I would never let my partner sit with someone else. How ridiculous of you" kind of stuff. I don't know how this applies to you but seeing as we're probably quite similar in outlook I thought it might help  |
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When you do get a meet, you should;
Dress the part, as though it's a regular date, don't turn up in work jeans/joggers etc.
Arrive on time
Avoid 'smothering' the lady. You're there to help, not monopolize.
Be yourself & be honest. |
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