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Doing things u hate to please
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over a year ago
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"Girls/guys do u do thing sex wise u hate to please others if so what and why? "
I don't hate it but I don't love being face fucked . But in the right moment I will do it |
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over a year ago
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I have spent a lot of time, money and effort dressing up in lingerie, putting make up on and painting my nails, to please men.
I don't do it any more as the rewards didn't warrant it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don't.
And I wouldn't expect someone to do it just for my benefit either.
I'd get no enjoyment from know someones only doing it to please me.
But then again I'm a giver not one of the takers in life.
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"I have spent a lot of time, money and effort dressing up in lingerie, putting make up on and painting my nails, to please men.
I don't do it any more as the rewards didn't warrant it. "
I do all that but it's for me not men! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"wouldn't do anything i hate but if i had a committed guy and he wanted a 3sum with 2 women i'd do that for him.
for anyone else we'd have to have compatible likes to even meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Girls/guys do u do thing sex wise u hate to please others if so what and why? "
No... not something I "hate" and I wouldn't have sex with someone who wanted to put me in that situation. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"wouldn't do anything i hate but if i had a committed guy and he wanted a 3sum with 2 women i'd do that for him.
for anyone else we'd have to have compatible likes to even meet. "
only coz i love 3sums so much so would love to see someone else enjoying one, it wouldn't be that much of a sacrifice really.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It depends - I'd probably not do anything I'd 'hate' or would do unwillingly.
But I might 'take one for the team' and do something I wasn't particularly bothered about or was slightly reluctant to if my partner *really* wanted to.
Relationships are about give and take so if it made them happy and it was something that I could tolerate then I might, if it made them happy, depending on the circumstances.
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"I have spent a lot of time, money and effort dressing up in lingerie, putting make up on and painting my nails, to please men.
I don't do it any more as the rewards didn't warrant it. "
I do all that but not to please a man though
My make up and nails is a daily routine for me whether I'm meeting or not |
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Absolutely not. I'm in a marriage where we are happy to explore but we each have our own boundaries. I would never expect my husband to do something he hated and I've been very vocal previously about things I wasn't happy with. |
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If it was something I knew I hated (i.e. previous experience had demonstrated that) then no, and would not expect that from someone else either.
If it was not something I had tried, then I would be willing to negotiate!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Absolutely not. I'm in a marriage where we are happy to explore but we each have our own boundaries. I would never expect my husband to do something he hated and I've been very vocal previously about things I wasn't happy with. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. If I cared for someone and they suggested something outside my comfort zone then I'd try it, but if I know I already hate it then no way, and I'd expect them to respect my decision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Girls/guys do u do thing sex wise u hate to please others if so what and why? "
I would never allow myself to be playing with someone who would expect me to do something I hate.
I've trusted someone to introduce me to things I may have felt a little wary of, and continue to do so. However, if I end up deciding it's not for me, he respects that completely and moves on to the next little adventure we can explore together.
I'd like to think he'd allow me the same, if only I could find something the loveable tart hasn't already tried  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Girls/guys do u do thing sex wise u hate to please others if so what and why? "
I might be persuaded to try something I'm not sure will do much for me because for some things you never know until you try but I would never do anything that I hate or that would essentially make me lose my self respect to please anyone else and I wouldn't continue in any kind of relationship where I was made to feel like I had to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No and i wouldnt be with anyone who expected to do things I "hate".
I would do things that weren't high up on my list of turn ons if they were into it though. |
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