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What brought you here?
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By *_and_J99 OP Man
over a year ago
Cirencester |
Hi, I'm sure this has probably been asked before but I'm curious as to how people got into this scene. And those in couples was it a mutual thing or if not how was it put to you by your other halves?
For me, I had never thought of swinging and had no idea how big the scene was till I met D. Our paths would cross due to our careers and one day he was telling a colleague about a club he had been to and was describing some rather hot sexual acts which instantly had me intrigued! A fair while later we got together and he took me to chams for the first time ( which is still my favourite club  ) D still laughs now saying how I went in with tunnel vision  but it was such a eye opener! And as they say the rest is history!
But I'm keen to hear how others got here!
J xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my experience I met a friend from another dating site and I met up with her and she had a house party (vanilla) to start with and as the drinks was flowing we all started to get naked and play, I was nervous at first but felt relaxed and the next day she showed me this site in her phone and told me to join, she told me about a few club's near her and near me and we went to a few together and it was an eye opener and I've never looked back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met my man, as things progressed with us, we discussed fantasies. Tried a Mfm first liked it, then found out about this site joined and moved onto to full swapping with other couples. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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like someone else said it's free.
i also thought i'd be having a lot of sex with one highly sexed guy as other sites were like that and it was easy to find someone to couple up with for sex and friendship, not sure why i'm still here but i'm interested in clubs and socialising right now so trying that out.
doubt i'll ever become a swinger as bringing another woman into sex doesn't interest me. |
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I was told about this place years ago by a older lady I was having some fun with and we would go on cam for couples it really opened my eyes to a whole new world 
I got caught up in life as we do and wanted to spark a bit of fun back in my life and then thought of this place and here I am. Still fairly new here but enjoying it mostly |
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By *_and_J99 OP Man
over a year ago
Cirencester |
"I was on a different site and someone told me about fab,joined as a single woman and met Jack here.We decided to swing together ,that was 16 months ago.
Miss"
That's brilliant that u met here and are now a couple, do you still play separately or just as a couple now?
J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We split up due to me playing away then found out she had 2 one night stands with the same guy, When we got back together I asked her about them and it turned me on so as time went on we was out drinking and I seen him so went over asked him lol then I asked him to come have a drink with us which he done. Afterward ma that night he came back with us and we both enjoyed her so it went from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was looking for a particular type of hammock and ended up here
Did u end up finding a hammock in the end
J xx"
I didn't. This is so much more interesting. |
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I was on AWC and when it went bust I looked for a new place to go.
Not the same here, I used to like the Cam/chat rooms and Forum there. Was fun Made me laugh every day.
There were not the same filters on the Forums as here. So was often no holds barred stuff. There were some terrific arguments.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember it got mentioned on a completely unrelated forum I was on. They weren't saying very nice things about the place but still I signed up out of curiosity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guy I was dating at the time turned out to be married. Using a Good old google search I also found him on this site and several others.
Dumped him and joined myself. Not looked back !
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That is sooo funny cheaters get no where just loose what they had |
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Oh gosh ... well I got on here after seeing " fab ...something " on my at the time boyfriend s laptop ( it was only a glance ) .
I googled it and fabswingers came up .
I set up in 2011 this profile as fake profile to set him up a Honey Trap .
Caught him and kicked him out of my life and hid my profile until 2015 when I actually made Flower a Real .  |
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We'd been talking about fantasies, initially me having the opportunity to be with another woman.
Though it quickly expanded to more than that.
Fab was part of the research for clubs, as we decided that was the way to go for us.
We still mostly meet at clubs.
Nita
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"I was on a different site and someone told me about fab,joined as a single woman and met Jack here.We decided to swing together ,that was 16 months ago.
Miss
That's brilliant that u met here and are now a couple, do you still play separately or just as a couple now?
J x"
Just together at the moment xx |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
broke up with my ex and saw how quickly she moved on and thought this swinging thing if if it can work for her it can work for me. (clearly not knowing or understanding f to m ratio) |
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