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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After much fun and debauchery over the years I am now looking for something much more!
I'm going to see if fab can bring me a lover a girlfriend and a swinging partner all in one!
What are the odds? |
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I know what you mean op. I am in a similar situation, however i am not actively advertising the fact that i am looking for someone. If it happens it happens.
Where else do you find someone with these 'interests'
You might have more success on a dating web site but might end up with more 'vanilla' sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean op. I am in a similar situation, however i am not actively advertising the fact that i am looking for someone. If it happens it happens.
Where else do you find someone with these 'interests'
You might have more success on a dating web site but might end up with more 'vanilla' sex"
I know this is the lifestyle I want, which doesn't mean millions of meets but the opportunity to be with someone an a level no secrets or desires you can't express... let's see.. here's hoping |
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This is quite refreshing as I've seen a lot of singles saying that if they had a partner they wouldn't swing or be prepared to share their partner. Good luck OP and I hope you find what you are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is quite refreshing as I've seen a lot of singles saying that if they had a partner they wouldn't swing or be prepared to share their partner. Good luck OP and I hope you find what you are looking for."
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this is the lifestyle I want, which doesn't mean millions of meets but the opportunity to be with someone an a level no secrets or desires you can't express... let's see.. here's hoping"
Awwww it can be done! This quote is pete me I all over!
In the meantime, I'll be your interim girlfriend
Ruby xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this is the lifestyle I want, which doesn't mean millions of meets but the opportunity to be with someone an a level no secrets or desires you can't express... let's see.. here's hoping
Awwww it can be done! This quote is pete me I all over!
In the meantime, I'll be your interim girlfriend
Ruby xxx"
Besides imagine the foursome... this is your two fault anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this is the lifestyle I want, which doesn't mean millions of meets but the opportunity to be with someone an a level no secrets or desires you can't express... let's see.. here's hoping
Awwww it can be done! This quote is pete me I all over!
In the meantime, I'll be your interim girlfriend
Ruby xxx
Besides imagine the foursome... this is your two fault anyway"
Awww we made you go soppy
Roo xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this is the lifestyle I want, which doesn't mean millions of meets but the opportunity to be with someone an a level no secrets or desires you can't express... let's see.. here's hoping
Awwww it can be done! This quote is pete me I all over!
In the meantime, I'll be your interim girlfriend
Ruby xxx
Besides imagine the foursome... this is your two fault anyway
Awww we made you go soppy
Roo xx"
Well I know this is the lifestyle I now just need a friend and lover with the same mindset |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We met on pof and, after chatting and of course some fuckery we found out we had similar sexual interests. I think it may be easier the older you get to choose a lifestyle that is not "the norm""
I do think age is a factor.. I look at the majority of couples here and they seem to have met after kids have left home etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this is the lifestyle I want, which doesn't mean millions of meets but the opportunity to be with someone an a level no secrets or desires you can't express... let's see.. here's hoping
Awwww it can be done! This quote is pete me I all over!
In the meantime, I'll be your interim girlfriend
Ruby xxx
Besides imagine the foursome... this is your two fault anyway
Awww we made you go soppy
Roo xx
Well I know this is the lifestyle I now just need a friend and lover with the same mindset"
You do!
We met at work, and It didn't take us long through a bit of friendly banter to find out we were into similar things so I got my claws into him sharpish and didn't let go!
Ruby xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this is the lifestyle I want, which doesn't mean millions of meets but the opportunity to be with someone an a level no secrets or desires you can't express... let's see.. here's hoping
Awwww it can be done! This quote is pete me I all over!
In the meantime, I'll be your interim girlfriend
Ruby xxx
Besides imagine the foursome... this is your two fault anyway
Awww we made you go soppy
Roo xx
Well I know this is the lifestyle I now just need a friend and lover with the same mindset
You do!
We met at work, and It didn't take us long through a bit of friendly banter to find out we were into similar things so I got my claws into him sharpish and didn't let go!
Ruby xx
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And...The filth always wins!
Ruby xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im looking for the same but the chances of finding him are slim so I'm not holding my breath but if anyone is interested and not a million miles away get in touch. |
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I dont think you can force things like this. We met on here but neither of us was looking ... this evolved because of a number of shared interests outside of fab and swinging but a mutual philosophy on life and outlook on sex .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After much fun and debauchery over the years I am now looking for something much more!
I'm going to see if fab can bring me a lover a girlfriend and a swinging partner all in one!
What are the odds?"
Me too..i'd like a lover/boyfriend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll add myself to the list of people wanting a boyfriend to swing with. I'm on a couple of dating sites and it's not easy, on one hand you don't want to announce your preferences in the first conversation, but on the other, how soon is too soon? At least meeting through here you both know where you stand from the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After much fun and debauchery over the years I am now looking for something much more!
I'm going to see if fab can bring me a lover a girlfriend and a swinging partner all in one!
What are the odds?" I was lucky enough to find all in my gorgeous wife. We met in vanilla circumstances and learned we had much in common sexually !!! Mr Classy |
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"We met on pof and, after chatting and of course some fuckery we found out we had similar sexual interests. I think it may be easier the older you get to choose a lifestyle that is not "the norm"
I do think age is a factor.. I look at the majority of couples here and they seem to have met after kids have left home etc "
Its hard with young children, it may also take a while to devide "vanilla" is not for you. He has a young child and mine are grown up. I was not looking for a husband, as you get older you want different things I find. |
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"After much fun and debauchery over the years I am now looking for something much more!
I'm going to see if fab can bring me a lover a girlfriend and a swinging partner all in one!
What are the odds?"
In this aspect I think men are more fortunate than women on here! Although there are far more men than women on the site - a higher percentage of the women seem to be looking for the same as you (judging by comments I've seen in threads like this over the years!)
As fab is nationwide - the problem I've experienced is largely geography - finding someone close enough who I completely click with and 'fancy the pants' off! Sadly far more difficult than merely finding a decent one-off shag! |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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OP best of luck. Someone is out there for you. Met my partner at a swinging club. We now live together and have not indulged in swinging for the last 3 years. But now feel the time is right to introduce it back into our lives.
For us it was better to get to know each other first before introducing anyone else into the equation. |
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"A relationship where honesty is key and no desire is kept secret would be the perfect marriage for most I'd imagine x "
Yes even though I want a monogamous relationship and hope to find someone the same, 'no desire kept secret' is an excellent approach and I think could be more easily found on here where there are less taboos. So many married couples are unable, afraid it seems, to discuss the way they feel or come up with solutions when problems arise, and so one ends up on here. I can certainly talk about sex with my fwb's much more openly than I ever could with my ex. |
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I've had approaches for a relationship where the person put less effort in than for a one off shag. Let's hope guys realise it takes more than saying 'I'm looking for the same and local' to get interest. |
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As someone recently broke off from a relationship im not against another not straight away but will let things happen naturally this time not actively seek someone out or go on the expensive dating sites. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"This is quite refreshing as I've seen a lot of singles saying that if they had a partner they wouldn't swing or be prepared to share their partner. Good luck OP and I hope you find what you are looking for."
I used to feel this way, if I were to enter in to a relationship, I'd want it to be entirely exclusive. But now I'm not so sure. I guess it would depend on the person and the circumstances.
I'm definitely more of a "never say never" person these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm please to read this as i thought I was the only one lol. I like to think of it like playing sport as and when for a bit fun and exercise with people that feel the same but being sexual nature.
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