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To many guys to go round?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Think about it. If all the single men on Fab who were serious about meeting were given a chance, how busy would the ladies actually be (ladies being single or part of a couple? With the huge quantity of single men on a Fab, is it actually realistic for all to get a meet?

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

I would like a line of them mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is a cock fest for the women lol.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan over a year ago

collier row

"Think about it. If all the single men on Fab who were serious about meeting were given a chance, how busy would the ladies actually be (ladies being single or part of a couple? With the huge quantity of single men on a Fab, is it actually realistic for all to get a meet? "

I think a lot of single guys who use the forums are more probable to meet, I really don't get the guys that have all the talk but no walk. It's really weird.

I guess it's you can never know about someone's intentions until you ask for a meet.

I mean I've even met straight guys that don't want to swap verifications to keep their straight image on Fab.

As usual women are far more reliable than men it seems.

You damn logical machines you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like a line of them mmmmm"

yes right only the sexy ones hehe

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By *ndigo40Woman over a year ago

secret town

"It is a cock fest for the women lol."

And most men on here

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

I think a lot of single guys who use the forums are more probable to meet, I really don't get the guys that have all the talk but no walk. It's really weird.

I guess it's you can never know about someone's intentions until you ask for a meet.

I mean I've even met straight guys that don't want to swap verifications to keep their straight image on Fab.

As usual women are far more reliable than men it seems.

You damn logical machines you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends if you have a timescale ?

A month no

6 month no

A year no

20 years probably not

Theres not enough women to go around.

Even if the women were meeting a new guy every night it would probably take years to get through all the guys in here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is a cock fest for the women lol.

And most men on here "
That is right too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Depends if you have a timescale ?

A month no

6 month no

A year no

20 years probably not

Theres not enough women to go around.

Even if the women were meeting a new guy every night it would probably take years to get through all the guys in here."

Timescales are only relevant if one is queuing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chances of that would never happen, being honest ladies is there anything on my profile that puts you off?

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

There are a huge number of guys, but are they all looking to meet really? I know lots do, also there are threads where people have organised parties and gang bangs and only 1/4 actually turn up.

I know it must be hard for the genuine ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a tough world for women here

If joe bloggs from that place can't get a meet, I don't really loose too much sleep over it.

As for a queueing system....I wouldn't wanna be the gay at the end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends if you have a timescale ?

A month no

6 month no

A year no

20 years probably not

Theres not enough women to go around.

Even if the women were meeting a new guy every night it would probably take years to get through all the guys in here.

Timescales are only relevant if one is queuing. "

Time is revelent

And yes guys are queuing up to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Chances of that would never happen, being honest ladies is there anything on my profile that puts you off?"

Yep your youthful age and inexperience on the swing scene would put us off. But those factors will change with time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Depends if you have a timescale ?

A month no

6 month no

A year no

20 years probably not

Theres not enough women to go around.

Even if the women were meeting a new guy every night it would probably take years to get through all the guys in here.

Timescales are only relevant if one is queuing.

Time is revelent

And yes guys are queuing up to get a meet."

Well if there is a queue, then women and couples are not playing fair. Men are being allowed to jump queues, and some men stay permanent at the back of the queue.

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By *ilk_TrayMan over a year ago

South

I think a lot of single guys who use the forums are more probable to meet, I really don't get the guys that have all the talk but no walk. It's really weird.

I guess it's you can never know about someone's intentions until you ask for a meet.

I mean I've even met straight guys that don't want to swap verifications to keep their straight image on Fab.

As usual women are far more reliable than men it seems.

You damn logical machines you

Lots of single guys on here who are very successful without ever using the forums.

Being active on the club scene can help increase your chances but it's not a guarantee, same as being on Fabs itself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends if you have a timescale ?

A month no

6 month no

A year no

20 years probably not

Theres not enough women to go around.

Even if the women were meeting a new guy every night it would probably take years to get through all the guys in here.

Timescales are only relevant if one is queuing.

Time is revelent

And yes guys are queuing up to get a meet.

Well if there is a queue, then women and couples are not playing fair. Men are being allowed to jump queues, and some men stay permanent at the back of the queue. "

Such is life.

Its like dating of pulling in a night club.

Some guys will get lucky every night they go and some will get lucky once a month and others once a year etc etc.

Some people will always be at the back of the queue for lots of different reasons.

And when the ratios of females to males are so low in a particular environment then your odds of getting "lucky" decrease even further.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think a lot of single guys who use the forums are more probable to meet, I really don't get the guys that have all the talk but no walk. It's really weird.

I guess it's you can never know about someone's intentions until you ask for a meet.

I mean I've even met straight guys that don't want to swap verifications to keep their straight image on Fab.

As usual women are far more reliable than men it seems.

You damn logical machines you

Lots of single guys on here who are very successful without ever using the forums.

Being active on the club scene can help increase your chances but it's not a guarantee, same as being on Fabs itself "

Exactly there are indeed men who do very well. They probably exist in about equal number to the couples and ladies available, and rest find it hard to get anything meaningful because they are surplus. Just a thought.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan over a year ago

collier row

I think a lot of single guys who use the forums are more probable to meet, I really don't get the guys that have all the talk but no walk. It's really weird.

I guess it's you can never know about someone's intentions until you ask for a meet.

I mean I've even met straight guys that don't want to swap verifications to keep their straight image on Fab.

As usual women are far more reliable than men it seems.

You damn logical machines you

Lots of single guys on here who are very successful without ever using the forums.

Being active on the club scene can help increase your chances but it's not a guarantee, same as being on Fabs itself "

I think you are invoking the 'not all' fallacy lol I clearly said more probable ??

I don't doubt for a second that there's successful guys that don't use the forums, not sure why you stated an obvious point.

My point was that guys that frequent the forums are more likely to meet as they wouldn't want their forum buddies thinking they are person that messes others around.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

I think they should all line up and then we cab give them all 'mini meets'

Bitesize version and stamp the ones we like- you know like the way a farmer marks cattle lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not just bus us in and go Noah's ark ie 2 by 2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think a lot of single guys who use the forums are more probable to meet, I really don't get the guys that have all the talk but no walk. It's really weird.

I guess it's you can never know about someone's intentions until you ask for a meet.

I mean I've even met straight guys that don't want to swap verifications to keep their straight image on Fab.

As usual women are far more reliable than men it seems.

You damn logical machines you

Lots of single guys on here who are very successful without ever using the forums.

Being active on the club scene can help increase your chances but it's not a guarantee, same as being on Fabs itself

Well youve already answered your own question then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think a lot of single guys who use the forums are more probable to meet, I really don't get the guys that have all the talk but no walk. It's really weird.

I guess it's you can never know about someone's intentions until you ask for a meet.

I mean I've even met straight guys that don't want to swap verifications to keep their straight image on Fab.

As usual women are far more reliable than men it seems.

You damn logical machines you

Lots of single guys on here who are very successful without ever using the forums.

Being active on the club scene can help increase your chances but it's not a guarantee, same as being on Fabs itself

Well youve already answered your own question then

Yeah I know the answers to all my questions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im no one's surplus anything I'm a man with a plan

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think a lot of single guys who use the forums are more probable to meet, I really don't get the guys that have all the talk but no walk. It's really weird.

I guess it's you can never know about someone's intentions until you ask for a meet.

I mean I've even met straight guys that don't want to swap verifications to keep their straight image on Fab.

As usual women are far more reliable than men it seems.

You damn logical machines you

Lots of single guys on here who are very successful without ever using the forums.

Being active on the club scene can help increase your chances but it's not a guarantee, same as being on Fabs itself

I think you are invoking the 'not all' fallacy lol I clearly said more probable ??

I don't doubt for a second that there's successful guys that don't use the forums, not sure why you stated an obvious point.

My point was that guys that frequent the forums are more likely to meet as they wouldn't want their forum buddies thinking they are person that messes others around.

??"

I don't think forums have anything to do with whether people meet. Plenty of people have said they use Fab for the forums and aren't meeting. Loads of forumites have hidden profiles which I always interpret that they aren't actively looking. I think the clubs are the best place to find people who meet. But that's digressing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Amazing how come if there are to many single guys ,how come when we post a meet we get very little response other than from dreamers lol

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By *xploringThisWorldMan over a year ago

collier row

"Amazing how come if there are to many single guys ,how come when we post a meet we get very little response other than from dreamers lol"

I think people say this a lot but I personaly don't know any couples that struggle to get meets. . .they are all bewildered as to why couples say this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Amazing how come if there are to many single guys ,how come when we post a meet we get very little response other than from dreamers lol

I think people say this a lot but I personaly don't know any couples that struggle to get meets. . .they are all bewildered as to why couples say this.

That's an interesting one. If we were to suddenly decide on a particular day that we wanted a meet that night, I don't believe we would find a man who meets our requirements. All the men we know we have got to know over time. It took us 2 years to build connections and find out who the reliable sexy guys were who understood what we wanted. However I know we could instantly find a man for fuck and go. And we could probably quite easily find a man who I don't fancy. Our regular guys we hold onto and don't take them for granted, because we believe they are hard to replace.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan over a year ago

collier row

"Amazing how come if there are to many single guys ,how come when we post a meet we get very little response other than from dreamers lol

I think people say this a lot but I personaly don't know any couples that struggle to get meets. . .they are all bewildered as to why couples say this.

A wise sentiment no doubt, not taking guys for granted.

I guess couples can have their cake and eat it if they wanted to.

Sounds like you have found yourself a nice tight little circle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Amazing how come if there are to many single guys ,how come when we post a meet we get very little response other than from dreamers lol

I think people say this a lot but I personaly don't know any couples that struggle to get meets. . .they are all bewildered as to why couples say this.

I get the feeling you are on the look out for new guy ? Or am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Amazing how come if there are to many single guys ,how come when we post a meet we get very little response other than from dreamers lol

I think people say this a lot but I personaly don't know any couples that struggle to get meets. . .they are all bewildered as to why couples say this.

I get the feeling you are on the look out for new guy ? Or am I wrong?

We've always been aware that despite the vast quantity of men on Fab, on occasions when there has been a lull, an instant replacement is unlikely. But if we were looking for a quick fuck we could probably find that fairly easily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've no idea but it could be fun trying with the genuine ones, but then again I'm very fussy. The majority wouldn't meet my standards.

If I followed my own rules and excluded the men who had no verifications, the men who have their profiles hidden, and the men whose profile texts are pathetic, then that would thin the numbers down.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Think about it. If all the single men on Fab who were serious about meeting"

That wouldn't make any difference if they were still jerks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was talking to a woman on fab recently and she gave me her perspective. She said a typical search of single men yields pages upon pages of cock profiles with only about 5% without a cock shot. Of those a huge number only have a couple lines of crap text. The upshot is that for her finding a single man she might find interesting takes hours of profile trawling. That is, it's as frustrating for her as it is for men who get their messages bulk deleted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can honestly say that I could easily meet at least 2 or 3 guys daily for sex or social if I said yes to meet requests but I am aware that there is an abundance of single guys on fab as my pics are average

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would like a line of them mmmmm"

Me too.

Roll on Friday

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By *ndigo40Woman over a year ago

secret town

"It is a cock fest for the women lol.

And most men on here That is right too"

I rather go with Trump than some of the men on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was talking to a woman on fab recently and she gave me her perspective. She said a typical search of single men yields pages upon pages of cock profiles with only about 5% without a cock shot. Of those a huge number only have a couple lines of crap text. The upshot is that for her finding a single man she might find interesting takes hours of profile trawling. That is, it's as frustrating for her as it is for men who get their messages bulk deleted."

It's only once we did a local search. It was like trawling through a sea of cocks. Maybe I don't understand how this game works - I guess I was supposed to choose a cock