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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must get the half that isn't intelligent then...just had 3 in a row asking to chat/meet...all 30ish....and I state in capitals in my profile I dont meet anyone under 50.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles "
Men read by pictures. and when your pic are that good, there is no reason to read i guess. we suffer the same fate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles "
thing to do is not judge everyone as the same.
some guys will just _iew your pictures and send a message regardless.
but not all are like that, but if you wish to put us all into the same bracket then your going to miss out on meeting someone who is nice,genuine and whowould like to get to know more about you than just asking for sex straight away.
i maybe a single guy and i cannot control the actions of others.
but at the same time just because im single doesnt mean i like being made to feel the same or as bad as others.
lately on these forums their has been lots of single male bashing and im sorry to see that you may have added to it.
im disapointed you feel this way about someone like me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles
thing to do is not judge everyone as the same.
some guys will just _iew your pictures and send a message regardless.
but not all are like that, but if you wish to put us all into the same bracket then your going to miss out on meeting someone who is nice,genuine and whowould like to get to know more about you than just asking for sex straight away.
i maybe a single guy and i cannot control the actions of others.
but at the same time just because im single doesnt mean i like being made to feel the same or as bad as others.
lately on these forums their has been lots of single male bashing and im sorry to see that you may have added to it.
im disapointed you feel this way about someone like me.
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"Guys reading profiles... ha ha ha ha
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very disappointing. sorry you think this way about me. "
It is of course a tongue in cheek generalisation. Not a personal slight. If you do then good for you, you are probably more successful on here. Some cant multitask... and have their hands busy elsewhere (just a suspicion of mine lol).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles
thing to do is not judge everyone as the same.
some guys will just _iew your pictures and send a message regardless.
but not all are like that, but if you wish to put us all into the same bracket then your going to miss out on meeting someone who is nice,genuine and whowould like to get to know more about you than just asking for sex straight away.
i maybe a single guy and i cannot control the actions of others.
but at the same time just because im single doesnt mean i like being made to feel the same or as bad as others.
lately on these forums their has been lots of single male bashing and im sorry to see that you may have added to it.
im disapointed you feel this way about someone like me.
1 out of 20 might read before messaging "
sorry but i I resent your implication that i cannot read or am unable to communicate to a lady correctly.
people i meet will tell you different.
just because im a single guy makes no difference.
i should be treated with the same respect as i show others and not branded the same as others who to not know how to behave respectfully.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"1 out of 20 might read before messaging
sorry but i I resent your implication that i cannot read or am unable to communicate to a lady correctly.
people i meet will tell you different.
just because im a single guy makes no difference.
i should be treated with the same respect as i show others and not branded the same as others who to not know how to behave respectfully.
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Single Guys Fight Back - The Movie!
Unfortunately guys who read an entire profile are rare, so you can't blame people for being a bit ranty. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"1 out of 20 might read before messaging
sorry but i I resent your implication that i cannot read or am unable to communicate to a lady correctly.
people i meet will tell you different.
just because im a single guy makes no difference.
i should be treated with the same respect as i show others and not branded the same as others who to not know how to behave respectfully.
Single Guys Fight Back - The Movie!
Unfortunately guys who read an entire profile are rare, so you can't blame people for being a bit ranty."
The statement is only true if the OP's suggestion that a user's inability to read or pay attention to a profile is a symptom exclusive to the single male - I'm inclined to agree with the responder as I've had my fare share from the other side of the looking glass. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"there's only a handful of guys that do take the time to read profiles and guess the rest need to go back to reading class lol  "
i only have a few male friends on here and they are the one that have taking the time to fully read my profile and send a full message not a quick copy and paste one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol talk about single guys not reading profiles...I had a few cpls befriending me only to discover i was a single male.....SHOCKKKKKkkkkkkkkk!-ah well i got to perv the wifes/gf fanny hahhaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not a case of fighting back.
you all think and repeatedly moan that we are all the same.
and that is not true.
all i see is people trying to alienate a section of the swinging community via the forums.
if someone has a problem with a guy block him. dont go on thinking all are the same.
its a poor attitude and just shows me who the site bullies are.
the community is for everyone.all religious backgrounds,colours and sexes.
but some of you have a serious problem and enjoy taking it out on people like me when you dont even know me or how i behave towards women.
and i dont see the problem is standing up for myself. im just saying how i see it.
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"atm my profile clearly say i'll block any one that trys adding me as a friend with out asking or i'll block them and i'm blocking about 15 ppl aday "
Guess how many couples (that I've never had contact with) I delete when they try adding me as friend?
and when I point this out via a status message (after usually the 5th one) guess how many try it on? Double the number. Yet not one of them will progress with a "Hello" email (clearly too much hassle am guessing - why should they? I'm a single male: I should be grateful they sent me a friend invite afterall!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about "
no because you can miss out on some gems of guys then like ones that you wouldn't normally message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about "
should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about
no because you can miss out on some gems of guys then like ones that you wouldn't normally message "
then why are you moaning? |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about
no because you can miss out on some gems of guys then like ones that you wouldn't normally message "
Alas, you can't have it both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about
no because you can miss out on some gems of guys then like ones that you wouldn't normally message
Alas, you can't have it both ways."
exactly you either want the guys messaging you or you don't
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about
should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch"
but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sorry but some of you are really unhappy.
if you dont want single guys a part of the community then you should join a site just for couples.
some of you are really nasty trying to ethnic cleanse singles off here by making them feel worthless and constantly making the target of your own personal problems.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always thought guys tried adding as friends when there was a private gallery to perv i mean _iew.
Having just sneaked a peek at your profile myself, I can see why they get distracted from reading the profile lol but I do like to read the profile myself, gives you a little insight into the person if written well.
That's just me though lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So what is the point of this thread?
you don't want men messaging but oh really you do
can't possibly use the filters incase you miss out but start a thread moaning about men messaging you
you want it all and still want to moan
good on ya  |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"sorry but some of you are really unhappy.
if you dont want single guys a part of the community then you should join a site just for couples.
some of you are really nasty trying to ethnic cleanse singles off here by making them feel worthless and constantly making the target of your own personal problems.
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Funny thing is I know of a (paid) swing site that intentionally holds its annual site socials at a venue on a night that's couples only - despite the fact the single guys pay one and half times more than a couple,.. and for no extra benefits or features on the site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well you might be one of the nice ones here but there are far to many ass holes on here who just keep sending the same message over and over or get abusive if they dont get the reply they want |
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"sorry but some of you are really unhappy.
if you dont want single guys a part of the community then you should join a site just for couples.
some of you are really nasty trying to ethnic cleanse singles off here by making them feel worthless and constantly making the target of your own personal problems.
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Often couple bashing too on here but we dont take it to heart. We know that not everyone is guilty of the same sins (well not the same ones as Raisealaff anyway). Single guys are brill. We are only on here to meet them. Try not to take things so much to heart!
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about
should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch
but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine "
So how do you know who the real gems are?
1) by letting all guys message you
2) supposedly going through each and every email you receive
3) deciding which one (on the strength of the initial email) "might" be a "gem"?
Might it not be easier to:
1) set your filters on
2) go to a social (see meets thread)
3) chat to peopel and see who proves themselves as gems in person.
Or is that too obvious? Maybe its just me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always thought guys tried adding as friends when there was a private gallery to perv i mean _iew.
Having just sneaked a peek at your profile myself, I can see why they get distracted from reading the profile lol but I do like to read the profile myself, gives you a little insight into the person if written well.
That's just me though lol
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so did i thats why i put all my pics a public but it didnt stop the adds |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"some of you are really nasty trying to ethnic cleanse singles off here by making them feel worthless and constantly making the target of your own personal problems.
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I don't think that word means what you think it means. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about
should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch
but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine
So how do you know who the real gems are?
1) by letting all guys message you
2) supposedly going through each and every email you receive
3) deciding which one (on the strength of the initial email) "might" be a "gem"?
Might it not be easier to:
1) set your filters on
2) go to a social (see meets thread)
3) chat to peopel and see who proves themselves as gems in person.
Or is that too obvious? Maybe its just me."
as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"To the OP if you don't want single guys messaging you then set your filters to block them from doing it until you want to change it or meet them again
Its so easy and then you will have nothing to moan about
should add that your male friends will still be able to message you with the block in place,it just stops all the others that you don't want to conatct you getting in touch
but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine
So how do you know who the real gems are?
1) by letting all guys message you
2) supposedly going through each and every email you receive
3) deciding which one (on the strength of the initial email) "might" be a "gem"?
Might it not be easier to:
1) set your filters on
2) go to a social (see meets thread)
3) chat to peopel and see who proves themselves as gems in person.
Or is that too obvious? Maybe its just me.
as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply "
Then, seeing as you're taking the time and effort, you've got nothing to complain about: you've by choice adopted a "come one come all" approach. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching "
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from? |
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply "
as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply
as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant "
"as a single guy" what are you talking about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply
as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant "
i know this is a heated debate but that was a little personally mate.
i see where your coming from but unnecessary.
things in life happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?"
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply
as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant "
I got the joke |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply
as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant
I got the joke "
yes lol.
well im done now.
so disapointing some of you see guys like me in a bad way. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way "
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply
as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant
I got the joke "
some don't realise what they have written hehe  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply
as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant
I got the joke "
well i dont and i dont like ppl making jokes about me |
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"i know this is a heated debate but that was a little personally mate.
i see where your coming from but unnecessary.
things in life happen."
you got me wrong, just beginning to wonder if OP is infact a bloke. Would a female refer to herself as a single guy?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane."
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here |
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Op yes, boys will be boys and add or mail inappropriately of course. We all get it but learn that its part and parcel of the process and you can either live with it or not. The fact that some of them dont make any attempt to read the profile is a good indicator that they are probably just on here for a cyber thrill or two and not really looking to meet.... after all they arent really trying very hard are they? If this really does bother you do what some do and put a password way down in your profile which they have to use as a title for the message and if its not headed up with it simply delete or dont bother opening or block - your choice. I just ignore adds I dont like but you could just block delete if you wanted. Its only one button to push so easy peasy. If you make life easier for you on here you will maybe feel less testy towards the very people you are trying to hear from. I know its frustrating when time is limited. We have had the same when away. Hundreds of messages to sort through and invites and not wanting to spend our leisure time doing it. Bear with them and its worth it. Some fantastic single guys out there who can read and even converse! Hope this helps, otherwise Ill just shut up. lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i know this is a heated debate but that was a little personally mate.
i see where your coming from but unnecessary.
things in life happen.
you got me wrong, just beginning to wonder if OP is infact a bloke. Would a female refer to herself as a single guy?? "
seei thought you was talking about me thats all so sorry about that |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane.
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here "
Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane.
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here
Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?"
no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it just me or dose it seem that single guys on here seem to forget how to read when then look at profiles "
think it is a technical problem with the location of their brain. |
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane.
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here
Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?"
Oh now that is a spiffing idea!
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane.
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here
Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?
no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that "
Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane.
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here
Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?
no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that
Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol
Mistress x"
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane.
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here
Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?
no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that
Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol
Mistress x
i think it would help ppl alot more to fine just the type of ppl they are looking for "
In which case, 2 points:
1) Use the advanced search function and specify exactly what you want
2) As the emphasis is on what you want so also must the effort be yours - you do the searching rather than wait for them to contact you. Then block everyone else. |
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane.
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here
Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?
no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that
Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol
Mistress x
i think it would help ppl alot more to fine just the type of ppl they are looking for
In which case, 2 points:
1) Use the advanced search function and specify exactly what you want
2) As the emphasis is on what you want so also must the effort be yours - you do the searching rather than wait for them to contact you. Then block everyone else."
that is what i do any how when looking just wish i could set fitters to in a simler way |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching
Ok, let me phrase it this way:
Me: "Why do so many bi-guys keep contacting me?"
Responder: "you know Fabs has added the feature to block who you want?
Me: "I don't want to - some of them are genuinly friendly and nice people".
See where am coming from?
thats a mus better way of putting it and i agree with it that way
Simply put - you will never get "just the guys you hope to stay in touch with" message you and the others telepathically know not to contact you. Nice wish, but it won't happen.
You either block all and find other ways of reaching out, or you block none in full knowledge you have nothing to complain about. There's no middle lane.
i think it would be more help full if the filter had more detail to them and not just on singles but for all types of ppl here
Errr... and how do you propose to further filter "single male": Just the ones "I" want?
no things like age,body type height and area they come from things like that
Yep. I have had similar ideas unfortunately not taken up by the management lol
Mistress x
i think it would help ppl alot more to fine just the type of ppl they are looking for
In which case, 2 points:
1) Use the advanced search function and specify exactly what you want
2) As the emphasis is on what you want so also must the effort be yours - you do the searching rather than wait for them to contact you. Then block everyone else.
that is what i do any how when looking just wish i could set fitters to in a simler way "
Then...... block single males. Job done! |
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"at no point was i complaining i was mealy asking others if they agree with me on this but too many guys see it as bitching "
It does look like you're complaining, especially as this is your second thread along similar lines in as many days.
If men are remessaging you and not reading your profile why start threads to increase the hit rate?!! Seems like attention seeking to me!
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"as a single guys you wouldnt believe the number of messages i get each day but i do go thought them all and the one that have turely read my profile and sent the right type of message with get a reply
as a single guy how did you manage to get pregnant "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Op... maybe you should proof read your own profile and see what everyone else is seeing.
I am seeing an open invite for every man and woman on here to message you! I do not want to dissect your profile... but seriously think some of it needs attention because it is wreaking of "I'm gonna sleep with the lot of you when I'm good and ready".
Sorry mods if you think I have 'nit picked' but the op is moaning about floods of mail. I am just trying to point out that folk are reading the profile and thinking something along the lines of "cor blimey, she'll give out to anyone... I must message her"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"atm my profile clearly say i'll block any one that trys adding me as a friend with out asking or i'll block them and i'm blocking about 15 ppl aday "
Understandable, thats a lazy assed move i hate too, xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are finding guys friendly and have met some really nice guys here. yes we get 20 year olds messaging us but we just no thanks and good luck and move on. its easy to do without moaning. saves time too and we have some lovely friends in the guys we meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just single ladies that get unwanted attention, we all get it. I've read your profile and seen your pic's, but that doesn't mean I want to message you. |
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if you are young (and in some peoples eyes) pretty then you are unfortunately going to receive unwanted attention.
add to that mix some candid pics and an open invite to all and sundry except overweight people, that attention will magnify even further.
i am not in a position to tell anyone how to manage their profile but maybe the unwanted attention is as a result of how you portray yourself in pictures and more importantly, in words ?
as the poster above states when offering you similar advice, this is by no means a personal attack.
it is just the way I see things
if u put your head above the parapet then the chances are the odd arrow will hit you
if u stand on the castle walls saying 'i'm here, come get me' then that's just what people will do & you'll get hit by arrows from all angles |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
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my profile states no married or attached men, no under 40s and local to me but yet still get messages from the married/attached, men under 40 and ones not local to me........... so yes quite a few cant read  |
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"my profile states no married or attached men, no under 40s and local to me but yet still get messages from the married/attached, men under 40 and ones not local to me........... so yes quite a few cant read "
You are local to some, Scotland is next to England |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"but you still miss out on new nice guys getting in touch if i'd done in the first place i wouldnt have ever meet a guy who is now a close friend of mine "
So not all guys then. I find it so frustrating that people make single guys out to be knuckle dragging morons. Yes there are plenty about. But there are also pleny of couples and single women who behave like prima donnas or can't read a profile either.
Just do what the rest of us do, delete them and accept that it's part of being a member on a free site - you get your chancers who don't understand how it works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that i am suspicious but it wouldn't surprise me if this wasn't a profile set up by her "friend" that she was trying to organise fun for, could be wrong but it just didn't all add up
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Another negative thread started about single males.......
err ****Newsflash**** It isn't just single males who don't read profiles.
Leave the poor men alone, you might scare em off and we like to play with them |
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"Another negative thread started about single males.......
err ****Newsflash**** It isn't just single males who don't read profiles.
Leave the poor men alone, you might scare em off and we like to play with them "
No worries, some of us are here for the long haul and it takes more than that to scare us off! |
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Its always the same woman who jump on the 'lets kick single guys down' bandwagon. As if they are royalty and above everyone. These woman only have themselves to blame for being poor judges in thr man they choose to meet and expect all guys to act the same.
On the next thread knocking men it will still be the same ones moaning.
Yet they are free to leave at anytime but just love slagging people off |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Another negative thread started about single males.......
err ****Newsflash**** It isn't just single males who don't read profiles.
Leave the poor men alone, you might scare em off and we like to play with them
No worries, some of us are here for the long haul and it takes more than that to scare us off! "
At times on here I think it is just as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You can't tar all single men with the same brush. I choose who I reply to. Yes I get plenty of messages from guys who obviously haven't read my profile, but that doesn't mean all single guys are the same. I've met and chatted to some really great guys off here. Yes, there are some out there. Xx |
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Don't really think a few women confirming that shock horror some single guys don't read profiles is really single male bashing. Its a fact. As I stated....who cares! There are ways you can make your mail easier to deal with of course. Sometimes these littke things just get too picked over cos of the volume of people on here who say their bit. I only really talk about single males as they are the only ones we meet from fab! If we didn't think they were great we wouldn't meet them. Shame the pitch forks scared off the op. Hrr choice though. When she rejoins maybe she will remember a little of the practical advice given to her.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if she was pregnant why did did she not just hide her profile, till she is ready again, its that simple.
rather than have a go at us single guys.
or is this really she get more _iews on her profile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well I wasted my time mailing her...and I didnt even ask for a fuck...well not yesterday....but maybe when I was going down that way lol...ahhhh well, back to messaging those near that way again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lol talk about single guys not reading profiles...I had a few cpls befriending me only to discover i was a single male.....SHOCKKKKKkkkkkkkkk!-ah well i got to perv the wifes/gf fanny hahhaha"
I fking love u pmsl xx |
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"lol talk about single guys not reading profiles...I had a few cpls befriending me only to discover i was a single male.....SHOCKKKKKkkkkkkkkk!-ah well i got to perv the wifes/gf fanny hahhaha
I fking love u pmsl xx "
aye wheres my shag ffs xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not all babe honest
Some of us are half intelligent x
I think the trouble is that the more intelligent of us are only half intelligent!!!"
The trouble is their are many females up their own arses on here and many men who like to creep around these women...be yourself, if others dont like you they can block you...and yes men can read, but lets be fair, if you have your tits out in your profile pic, the mentality is a picture paints a thousand words ie...."i dont like men who are after one thing blah blah blah...oh here you all go, a picture of my big round tits!!!!!! Muwah xxx |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Op... maybe you should proof read your own profile and see what everyone else is seeing.
I am seeing an open invite for every man and woman on here to message you! I do not want to dissect your profile... but seriously think some of it needs attention because it is wreaking of "I'm gonna sleep with the lot of you when I'm good and ready".
Sorry mods if you think I have 'nit picked' but the op is moaning about floods of mail. I am just trying to point out that folk are reading the profile and thinking something along the lines of "cor blimey, she'll give out to anyone... I must message her" "
Said what I was thinking And the exact reason why I ran the other way, lol. |
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