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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Apart from poo and extreme pain, I'm open minded as to what sexual experiences I will try.
Some people just refuse, point blank, even fairly vanilla experiences.
How can you make a decision that you don't like something when you haven't even tried it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not having a cucumber up my bum for anybody. No matter how hot they are  "
I wouldn't either as a cucumber is a bit big. How about a small carrot? |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"you won't try poo or pain so must have an idea why?
But those are very extremes. I'm talking more 'normal' (if I dare use that word) experiences."
i don't really know what normal is any more, lol.
i guess you can't truly say you don't like something if you haven't tried it. but if the idea doesn't appeal i'm not gonna seek it out.
i have tried some stuff that hasn't appealed to me when the opportunities arise, some was good and some wasn't that great but i'd never have sought them out in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With sex it's easy to know you're not going to like certain things without trying them. If the thought of doing something doesn't turn you on or even repulses you then I wouldn't try them. Personally. Anything else I'm open minded about and will try to see if it does anything for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can make a decision to say 'No I'm not doing that' based on how I feel about that particular subject.
For example, I might well enjoy a bukkake if I attended one but the thought of it turns my stomach and I cannot imagine it being a turn on.
Decision made based on my belief. |
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It's interesting how my time on Fab has challenged what I will and wont do.
Poo is still absolutely out and will never be considered. I understand the hygiene aspects too well and it's never gonna happen.
I said the same about watersports until a guy wanted me to consider it when Domme'ing him. Now I have pushed that boundary and will give, but not receive.
I'm sure there are other things I can rethink over time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With sex it's easy to know you're not going to like certain things without trying them. If the thought of doing something doesn't turn you on or even repulses you then I wouldn't try them. Personally. Anything else I'm open minded about and will try to see if it does anything for me. "
I've been in the situation where I thought something wasn't for me at all. The thought didn't turn me on. But I was encouraged to push my boundaries and I absolutely loved it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's good to experiment and push boundaries with someone you trust. 
Absolutely. Unfortunately some people won't even try."
I do like to try to push myself... I'm very much a 'don't knock it until you've tried it' sort of person x |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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Finding new experiences is the reason we got into swinging. So far, we've found it very difficult to find people who don't want anything more the basics, knickers off, f&ck, go. The hunt goes on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we first joined I'd have never even dreamt I'd have tried some of the things I have (with other people especially) but in the right mood, company and environment things just flow. There's only a few definite no no's I'd never participate in but other than those I'm open minded and will never say never
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Finding new experiences is the reason we got into swinging. So far, we've found it very difficult to find people who don't want anything more the basics, knickers off, f&ck, go. The hunt goes on."
Keep searching, we do exist |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding new experiences is the reason we got into swinging. So far, we've found it very difficult to find people who don't want anything more the basics, knickers off, f&ck, go. The hunt goes on.
Keep searching, we do exist "
Agreed - there's loads of us
That's the whole reason for my being on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my limits have moved waaaay past what they were a few years ago...i had my hard limits but seem to have pushed past those too. that's partly why i'm on here, to see what there is out there in my own time.
some people might just be happy occupying a space in their own sexuality that they're comfortable in and they know well. i can understand that too, it's comfortable and if that's what they're happy with then cool  |
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