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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I joined quite recently, thought I'd take a look at the forums.

I'm surprised to see women commenting on the messages they get off many men.

What is wrong with these 'men'?

Do they go about insulting people in their daily lives??

Surely a bit of respect is a minimum requirement!!!!

I have only sent 4 messages, and was very careful with each one...I find it hard, as I don't wish to appear pushy or disrespectful.

I just don't understand this...makes me wonder why women bother with any of us.

Feel better now...

Thanks to all that welcomed this 'newbie'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh welcome by the way

You'll see when you read the forums more that many women can more than handle themselves in fending off those disrespectul pesky chaps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ? "

There's plenty of us on here who appreciate the straight forward approach . When we are horny and looking for a meet , the 'fancy a fuck ' message is fine

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ? "

Give him a break, it's his first post.

Welcome OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's much harder for men

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No doubt they can, but I don't want them fending me off as well, collateral damage limitation..

Thanks for the welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If only more men were a bit clippety clop!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just one side of Fabs that in the big scheme of life really ain't that bad.

However, if said women find it really soooo bad then either filter up to the max or leave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ?

Give him a break, it's his first post.

Welcome OP

true.

though OP, try and be a firm believer that nobody else ruins your chances..if couples/women have decided that I belong in a group that should be ignored or rebuffed because of others behaviour then it is of no concern of mine if they fuck me or not..I'm certainly not going to beg them to be accepted because I'm 'different' from the other alleged 'arseholes' etc from the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

glosswingers, you are a couple, I was referring to comments by single women

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Sometimes it's hard to be a Fab woman, giving all your love to arsehole men. You'll have bad times and he'll have good times, doin' things that you don't understand. But if you love him you'll forgive him, even though he's hard to understand. And if you love him oh be proud of him, 'cause after all he's just a man.

Welcome OP. Enjoy your time on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

SweetNSalty,

Thanks for spelling clippety as I would..

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Sometimes it's hard to be a Fab woman, giving all your love to arsehole men. You'll have bad times and he'll have good times, doin' things that you don't understand. But if you love him you'll forgive him, even though he's hard to understand. And if you love him oh be proud of him, 'cause after all he's just a man.

Welcome OP. Enjoy your time on Fab

Good ole Dolly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all..

First post and I'm still alive...just

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"It's much harder for men

I bloody hope it's hard anyway!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ? "

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"Thank you all..

First post and I'm still alive...just

Howdy and welcome!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome OP. I appreciate a well worded message. 'Fancy a fuck' gets an instant delete, no matter how horny I'm feeling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

foxy minx..and should you still stand by your man??

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"foxy minx..and should you still stand by your man??

No lol I've given up on here for now

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By *radleywigginsMan over a year ago

northwest

"It's just one side of Fabs that in the big scheme of life really ain't that bad.

However, if said women find it really soooo bad then either filter up to the max or leave."

Or do the searching yourselves..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

wow...this site is great...going for a fry up now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ? "

No. The horse is still in the paddock. I think it's his balls jangling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ?

There's plenty of us on here who appreciate the straight forward approach . When we are horny and looking for a meet , the 'fancy a fuck ' message is fine

I thought you'd trademarked it?

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

"wow...this site is great...going for a fry up now

Yeah, we're not a bad bunch. We don't do fry ups though. Just the odd spitroast.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cool, welcome and all that but your sailing quite close to slagging off your peers here in order to make yourself look a little better. that rarely goes that well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"cool, welcome and all that but your sailing quite close to slagging off your peers here in order to make yourself look a little better. that rarely goes that well."

Especially because we're fantastic right Christos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"SweetNSalty,

Thanks for spelling clippety as I would.."

Anytime

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

before i go..christos, I'm sorry if thats how it appeared. don't mean to offend anyone, I was just giving my opinion on comments I had read on these forums...

I may have a lot to learn. Bacon and eggs is calling...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"wow...this site is great...going for a fry up now

Yeah, we're not a bad bunch. We don't do fry ups though. Just the odd spitroast."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"cool, welcome and all that but your sailing quite close to slagging off your peers here in order to make yourself look a little better. that rarely goes that well."

I wouldn't worry about sailing close to anything on the forums, every post you make will be hijacked by some guy trying to creep onto a woman so it's all fair game and all just opinions and banter after all. The ladies are quiet adapt at speaking their minds and can look after themselves rather well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"before i go..christos, I'm sorry if thats how it appeared. don't mean to offend anyone, I was just giving my opinion on comments I had read on these forums...

I may have a lot to learn. Bacon and eggs is calling..."

OP use the Reply & Quote button so we can see who you are referring too...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"cool, welcome and all that but your sailing quite close to slagging off your peers here in order to make yourself look a little better. that rarely goes that well.

Especially because we're fantastic right Christos"

i used to be brilliant! not so much any more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"before i go..christos, I'm sorry if thats how it appeared. don't mean to offend anyone, I was just giving my opinion on comments I had read on these forums...

I may have a lot to learn. Bacon and eggs is calling..."

i wasnt offended, just making an observation.

we all know there are some royal planks on here but putting a group down can seem like it's done to raise yourself up a little above them.

you seem decent enough though so sure you weren't

enjoy the grub!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"SweetNSalty,

Thanks for spelling clippety as I would.."

My was spelled with a Lancashire accent

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

I don't find it hard. It's just words that act as an additional filter. Women and couples can be just as blunt, so to take on any one gender is a little unfair.

Not all of us are delicate flowers that need defending, though I understand to someone new it's unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't find it hard. It's just words that act as an additional filter. Women and couples can be just as blunt, so to take on any one gender is a little unfair.

Not all of us are delicate flowers that need defending, though I understand to someone new it's unacceptable."

I like your delicate 'flower'

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By *aeriequeenWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"I don't find it hard. It's just words that act as an additional filter. Women and couples can be just as blunt, so to take on any one gender is a little unfair.

Not all of us are delicate flowers that need defending, though I understand to someone new it's unacceptable.

I like your delicate 'flower'

Perv

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By *rgoodnbadMan over a year ago

greenock

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ?

Give him a break, it's his first post.

Welcome OP

true.

Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ?

There's plenty of us on here who appreciate the straight forward approach . When we are horny and looking for a meet , the 'fancy a fuck ' message is fine

If only profiles came with a hornymeter function so we could tune or messages accordingly.

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By *ogerNesszonesMan over a year ago

Northern England

Welcome OP. Enjoy your time on Fab

Good ole Dolly

Yep Dolly is great - but these are Tammy Wynette's words.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I joined quite recently, thought I'd take a look at the forums.

I'm surprised to see women commenting on the messages they get off many men.

What is wrong with these 'men'?

Do they go about insulting people in their daily lives??

Surely a bit of respect is a minimum requirement!!!!

I have only sent 4 messages, and was very careful with each one...I find it hard, as I don't wish to appear pushy or disrespectful.

I just don't understand this...makes me wonder why women bother with any of us.

Feel better now...

Thanks to all that welcomed this 'newbie'

Welcome OP

Most men here are OK. The ones who use that 'strategy' keep getting their messages deleted and their profiles blocked. After a few months, they either alter their 'strategy' or go Gay, which ofcourse, is an alteration of the strategy too

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By *uslaffMan over a year ago

manchester

"I joined quite recently, thought I'd take a look at the forums.

I'm surprised to see women commenting on the messages they get off many men.

What is wrong with these 'men'?

Do they go about insulting people in their daily lives??

Surely a bit of respect is a minimum requirement!!!!

I have only sent 4 messages, and was very careful with each one...I find it hard, as I don't wish to appear pushy or disrespectful.

I just don't understand this...makes me wonder why women bother with any of us.

Feel better now...

Thanks to all that welcomed this 'newbie'

Utterly transparent white knightery lol !

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By *rgoodnbadMan over a year ago

greenock

"I joined quite recently, thought I'd take a look at the forums.

I'm surprised to see women commenting on the messages they get off many men.

What is wrong with these 'men'?

Do they go about insulting people in their daily lives??

Surely a bit of respect is a minimum requirement!!!!

I have only sent 4 messages, and was very careful with each one...I find it hard, as I don't wish to appear pushy or disrespectful.

I just don't understand this...makes me wonder why women bother with any of us.

Feel better now...

Thanks to all that welcomed this 'newbie'

Utterly transparent white knightery lol !"

Wonder if he'll still be as chivalrous after he's sent his 100th message without reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I joined quite recently, thought I'd take a look at the forums.

I'm surprised to see women commenting on the messages they get off many men.

What is wrong with these 'men'?

Do they go about insulting people in their daily lives??

Surely a bit of respect is a minimum requirement!!!!

I have only sent 4 messages, and was very careful with each one...I find it hard, as I don't wish to appear pushy or disrespectful.

I just don't understand this...makes me wonder why women bother with any of us.

Feel better now...

Thanks to all that welcomed this 'newbie'

Utterly transparent white knightery lol !

Wonder if he'll still be as chivalrous after he's sent his 100th message without reply

Were you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome OP, stick around the forums it's a good place to learn a bit about how this place works but remember it's only a small section of the fab community and not representative of the whole

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By *100Man over a year ago

Essex

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ?

There's plenty of us on here who appreciate the straight forward approach . When we are horny and looking for a meet , the 'fancy a fuck ' message is fine

So this is the best advice we have ever had from a lady just get straight to the point and ask FANCY a FUCK now get to it gent's.

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By *rgoodnbadMan over a year ago

greenock

"I joined quite recently, thought I'd take a look at the forums.

I'm surprised to see women commenting on the messages they get off many men.

What is wrong with these 'men'?

Do they go about insulting people in their daily lives??

Surely a bit of respect is a minimum requirement!!!!

I have only sent 4 messages, and was very careful with each one...I find it hard, as I don't wish to appear pushy or disrespectful.

I just don't understand this...makes me wonder why women bother with any of us.

Feel better now...

Thanks to all that welcomed this 'newbie'

Utterly transparent white knightery lol !

Wonder if he'll still be as chivalrous after he's sent his 100th message without reply

Were you?"

Nope, what bout you?

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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i don't bother with a lot of guys and that list is shrinking all the time.

not because i'm getting insulted, as nobody really does that too me. just finding most men tedious in the way they approach me for sex, and i go off plenty of guys after i've met them and get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well said that man .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I joined quite recently, thought I'd take a look at the forums.

I'm surprised to see women commenting on the messages they get off many men.

What is wrong with these 'men'?

Do they go about insulting people in their daily lives??

Surely a bit of respect is a minimum requirement!!!!

I have only sent 4 messages, and was very careful with each one...I find it hard, as I don't wish to appear pushy or disrespectful.

I just don't understand this...makes me wonder why women bother with any of us.

Feel better now...

Thanks to all that welcomed this 'newbie'

Utterly transparent white knightery lol !

Wonder if he'll still be as chivalrous after he's sent his 100th message without reply

Were you?

Nope, what bout you?"

I stopped sending unsolicited messages and chose a different tack

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Clipperty clop

Clipperty clop

Is that the sound of a white knight we hear entering the room ?

There's plenty of us on here who appreciate the straight forward approach . When we are horny and looking for a meet , the 'fancy a fuck ' message is fine

fancy a coffee i cant be arse to fuck at this moment in time

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Have you observed the way some women behave, interact and represent themselves....,

Like attracts like in some cases.

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I don't find it hard. It's just words that act as an additional filter. Women and couples can be just as blunt, so to take on any one gender is a little unfair.

Not all of us are delicate flowers that need defending, though I understand to someone new it's unacceptable."

delicate flower i like that . oh yes your all delicate flowers until a guy crosses the line them your inner cactus from hell puts in a appearance

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Well said OP. Hope you do well on this site and the ladies you message appreciate it and respond

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

just came back to this post...

Seems half agree with me, half don't, and half...s**t, too many halves..can't drive now...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't find it hard. It's just words that act as an additional filter. Women and couples can be just as blunt, so to take on any one gender is a little unfair.

Not all of us are delicate flowers that need defending, though I understand to someone new it's unacceptable."

Fancy a happy meal?

And maybe a fuck afterwards

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"I don't find it hard. It's just words that act as an additional filter. Women and couples can be just as blunt, so to take on any one gender is a little unfair.

Not all of us are delicate flowers that need defending, though I understand to someone new it's unacceptable.

Fancy a happy meal?

And maybe a fuck afterwards

Fuck in the drive thru?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't find it hard. It's just words that act as an additional filter. Women and couples can be just as blunt, so to take on any one gender is a little unfair.

Not all of us are delicate flowers that need defending, though I understand to someone new it's unacceptable.

Fancy a happy meal?

And maybe a fuck afterwards

Fuck in the drive thru?

Sounds perfect

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"I don't find it hard. It's just words that act as an additional filter. Women and couples can be just as blunt, so to take on any one gender is a little unfair.

Not all of us are delicate flowers that need defending, though I understand to someone new it's unacceptable.

Fancy a happy meal?

And maybe a fuck afterwards

Fuck in the drive thru?

Sounds perfect

I'll go large

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By *rgoodnbadMan over a year ago

greenock

"I joined quite recently, thought I'd take a look at the forums.

I'm surprised to see women commenting on the messages they get off many men.

What is wrong with these 'men'?

Do they go about insulting people in their daily lives??

Surely a bit of respect is a minimum requirement!!!!

I have only sent 4 messages, and was very careful with each one...I find it hard, as I don't wish to appear pushy or disrespectful.

I just don't understand this...makes me wonder why women bother with any of us.

Feel better now...

Thanks to all that welcomed this 'newbie'

Utterly transparent white knightery lol !

Wonder if he'll still be as chivalrous after he's sent his 100th message without reply

Were you?

Nope, what bout you?

I stopped sending unsolicited messages and chose a different tack"

unsolicited messages??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You will find on here you cannot please everyone and some folk take offence very easily at things others would not. Lots of touchy folk and divas on fab sadly who love themselves

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