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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ???"
They're not interested. Don't worry about it and just move on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ???
They're not interested. Don't worry about it and just move on "
Thats the confusing but..
They were both interested ...
Just very confused lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like they were polite to your face and then rather than tell you straight up in a message they blocked you "
I get what your saying but we been messaging for a week after ?
If that was the case I would have thought it would have happened asap not a week later ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're overthinking it and you can't contact the only people who can give you a frank answer.
Chalk it down to experience "
when did you start talking sense?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Possibly they only want one guy to play with, They had a few socials, you weren't the first choice, we've been there.
All you can do is shrugg your shoulders & move on.
S"
Thank you
I am it's just upsetting when there was a connection?
Anyway ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like they were polite to your face and then rather than tell you straight up in a message they blocked you
I get what your saying but we been messaging for a week after ?
If that was the case I would have thought it would have happened asap not a week later ?
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Not really no. They were clearly not sure about you and were trying to get to know you through messaging. They've obviously found you unappealing, didn't want you asking why so saved the awkwardness and blocked you instead. Just move on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're overthinking it and you can't contact the only people who can give you a frank answer.
Chalk it down to experience
when did you start talking sense? "
Since LONG before you started trying it on with me  |
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Dude there are a load of wankers on here both literally and figuratively,I wouldn't stress too much about it maybe the female was more excited than the male and he got cold feet?? seems like a logical explanation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds like they were polite to your face and then rather than tell you straight up in a message they blocked you
I get what your saying but we been messaging for a week after ?
Ouch....
If that was the case I would have thought it would have happened asap not a week later ?
Not really no. They were clearly not sure about you and were trying to get to know you through messaging. They've obviously found you unappealing, didn't want you asking why so saved the awkwardness and blocked you instead. Just move on! "
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People's lives are bigger than swinging and so much else can alter plans for people.
Irrespective of the stage that things have reached, from tentative first message, through to having spent time together, blocking is an acceptable way for people to end any further interaction.
We need to just accept that we're not going further with them and move on. If you're always yourself, not limiting your options to one possible partnership, then you're fine. It's how things are here and only relates to their choices, not your offer. |
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ???"
Amazing for you, it would seem, but not for them.
Next. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be the same as you! I overthink everything & id be most irritated by the fact that I wasn't able to get an honest answer.
But as the saying goes 'they're just not that into you'
Crappy to hear, but so often true.
Regardless, I totally get how you feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dude there are a load of wankers on here both literally and figuratively,I wouldn't stress too much about it maybe the female was more excited than the male and he got cold feet?? seems like a logical explanation"
I was thinking the same, or visa versa. I had a guy cancel on me, send me a really horrid message & block me. Then his girlfriend messaged me privately to say he'd done it to hurt her after an argument, because she'd really fancied me. Lucky escape for me in the end I feel, I'm not interested in all that bloody drama!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Could be one of a hundred reasons but to just block you is very rude. Maybe you had a lucky escape  "
Maybe your right it was rude but they have there reasons xx
Thank-you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe they left the site? Xx
There still here but like many have said they have there reasons and it's OK
Xx bit un called for though the could have text u after the meet"
It's OK after starting this chat i now realise they have there reasons and it's cool xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
I'm having a similar time get all the green lights then !!!!! Gone !!!
Confused.Com ???"
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ???"
You'll soon find someone else!  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Maybe they left the site? Xx
There still here but like many have said they have there reasons and it's OK
Xx bit un called for though the could have text u after the meet
It's OK after starting this chat i now realise they have there reasons and it's cool xx"
Oh good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe they left the site? Xx
There still here but like many have said they have there reasons and it's OK
Xx bit un called for though the could have text u after the meet
It's OK after starting this chat i now realise they have there reasons and it's cool xx
Oh good "
Mwah xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ???"
There's nothing as queer as folk!
They will have had a reason on their part, albeit a puzzling one. Liklies down to their immaturity. Just have to move on or the odd bobs in life will grind you down. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Maybe they left the site? Xx
There still here but like many have said they have there reasons and it's OK
Xx bit un called for though the could have text u after the meet
It's OK after starting this chat i now realise they have there reasons and it's cool xx
Oh good
Mwah xxx"
Mwah to you too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a pity that people chose to block instead of - quick message to say what they think.
Don't try and second guess others motives it ain't worth the time of day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe they left the site? Xx
There still here but like many have said they have there reasons and it's OK
Xx bit un called for though the could have text u after the meet
It's OK after starting this chat i now realise they have there reasons and it's cool xx
Oh good
Mwah xxx
Mwah to you too xx"
Double mwah with little tassles on them hehe xxxxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ???"
Guessing they didn't find it as amazing as you did. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Maybe they left the site? Xx
There still here but like many have said they have there reasons and it's OK
Xx bit un called for though the could have text u after the meet
It's OK after starting this chat i now realise they have there reasons and it's cool xx
Oh good
Mwah xxx
Mwah to you too xx
Double mwah with little tassles on them hehe xxxxx "
Hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly they only want one guy to play with, They had a few socials, you weren't the first choice, we've been there.
All you can do is shrugg your shoulders & move on.
S
Thank you
I am it's just upsetting when there was a connection?
Anyway ... "
We are sure you are a lovely guy and all, but with having to dealing with stalker-ish behaviour in the past, if it was us and we seen you posting threads and comments like this after a social meet, it would make us glad we blocked you.
Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ???"
They are no longer interested in you fot reasons only they will know.
Dont take it personally and forget it and move on. |
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"So I'm wondering if anyone can shed some light on a odd situation I have just found myself in ?
Amazing social meet with a lovely couple ?
Now blocked for no reason ???
Confused.Com ???"
Nowt's as queer as folk mate, they changed their mind that's all, there'll be others don't worry |
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