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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So recently me, the Mr noticed somone I know had a pic of me and them on ther face book account....
Nothing wrong with that at all accept when I looked closer I recognised that they had an account on here and we'd not noticed 
She's one of the more prolific female swingers on the site...
We don't know if we should mention it to her or let her go about her business? We're gonna bump into her at some point!!! Thought myself guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So recently me, the Mr noticed somone I know had a pic of me and them on ther face book account....
Nothing wrong with that at all accept when I looked closer I recognised that they had an account on here and we'd not noticed
She's one of the more prolific female swingers on the site...
We don't know if we should mention it to her or let her go about her business? We're gonna bump into her at some point!!! Thought myself guys"
If you mean should you mention you have seen her on here, then I,d say no. XXX |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Difficult one.
You only know your relationship with her. Maybe being open is the best option. You both I assume understand being discrete. You could be swinging friends as well. Maybe it would ruin your friendship.
What are the possibilities you will run into each other?
I would be inclined to drop hints and test the water.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to clarify, her Facebook pic has me in it..
We recognised her due to the fact she used the same pic... she's edited me out and the top of her face...
But it's deffo the same photo... Obviously we understand discretion...it's more a case of do we say something or do we just wait to bump into her?? Wouldn't want to spoil anyone's fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm confused (it doesn't take much!).
So you're friends in real life hence the Facebook photo but neither of you knew about the other being on Fabs until now? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm confused (it doesn't take much!).
So you're friends in real life hence the Facebook photo but neither of you knew about the other being on Fabs until now?"
Yeah you've got it!! She still doesn't know... We're just getting into the club scene side of things and she's at them nearly everyday from her fab status... So do we wait to bump into her.... her then knowing were in the same boat? Or do we just let her know?? Haha |
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
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You could always fab the pic and then message her to say something like "you cut the 2nd best part of that photo out, that part being me lol"
Reassure her you will be discreet but wanted to let her know you had seen her.
Not always a good thing to say hi to someone you know but you know the person and how she is likely to take it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it depends how close you are to this person....do you laugh together about most things ?
It could open up a whole new world for you both...and at the end of the day is a healthy sex life anything to be ashamed about.
Obviously trust and discretion values need to be weighed up before any approach on the subject is made....maybe a few hints wouldn't do any harm . Hope it works out whatever you choose to do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So recently me, the Mr noticed somone I know had a pic of me and them on ther face book account....
Nothing wrong with that at all accept when I looked closer I recognised that they had an account on here and we'd not noticed
She's one of the more prolific female swingers on the site...
We don't know if we should mention it to her or let her go about her business? We're gonna bump into her at some point!!! Thought myself guys
If you mean should you mention you have seen her on here, then I,d say no. XXX"
So you think we should just wait to bump into her at townhouse?? Atleast then she would know her secrets safe... we wonder with us being able to read her verifications that were sort of seeing a side of her life she's chosen not to share with us...
So we're now thinking wait for the invertible   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could always fab the pic and then message her to say something like "you cut the 2nd best part of that photo out, that part being me lol"
Reassure her you will be discreet but wanted to let her know you had seen her.
I do like this though. Bold!!!
Not always a good thing to say hi to someone you know but you know the person and how she is likely to take it. "
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
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"You could always fab the pic and then message her to say something like "you cut the 2nd best part of that photo out, that part being me lol"
Reassure her you will be discreet but wanted to let her know you had seen her.
I do like this though. Bold!!!
Not always a good thing to say hi to someone you know but you know the person and how she is likely to take it. "
Word of caution though, according to the wife im ussually wrong lmao. |
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I wouldn't message someone I know IRL and say 'hi I didn't know you were a swinger, I am too'. I wouldn't appreciate someone doing that to me either.
If we run into each other in a club, then so be it, but I would block them on here and let them get on with it. |
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By *objgukMan
over a year ago
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I messaged a couple on here and when I saw their private pics I realised we went to school and were FB friends. I explained I knew her, we're both here for the same thing and agreed a meeting was not a good idea. Simples. |
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