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What does being a bi man mean?
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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I meet quite a few bi men and get on with them well, but there seems to be different types of bi. Some men are more or less 50/50 and all the time. Some guys seem to have phases of being bi - you don't hear from them for a while and then they are rampant to meet men. Any comments? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I have a preference for women in almost every aspect, but on a purely physical, sexual level, I also like a bit of cock....
I don't fancy men in general, I just like to mix things up..... So I'm probably greedy.  |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well I have a preference for women in almost every aspect, but on a purely physical, sexual level, I also like a bit of cock....
I don't fancy men in general, I just like to mix things up..... So I'm probably greedy. "
That figures - a number of men I've met say that they don't fancy men but they do like cocks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have a preference for women in almost every aspect, but on a purely physical, sexual level, I also like a bit of cock....
I don't fancy men in general, I just like to mix things up..... So I'm probably greedy.
That figures - a number of men I've met say that they don't fancy men but they do like cocks "
What are your thoughts? |
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"Phase guy" is an excellent expression - that's me. I don't find men physically attractive in the same way as women - but every now and again some mutual sucking with a nice guy is both very exciting and sexy.
Something to do with the phases of the moon perhaps? 
And to be brutally honest - as a married guy - it's far easier to find guys to have sex with than it is couples or single women. It's a simple question of ratios I suppose.
Far more men than women on here...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My guy is a phase guy...we have discussed it at length and when he wants cock he has to have it but, does not fancy men in the same way as women."
I'm like this  |
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I seem to be like lots of guys. I don't find men attractive but I do like cock. I love men looking at my cock, especially if it's sliding into a juicy cunt. I prefer to play with a guy's cock in MMF where it turns the lady on. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Can't say for sure but many bi men I meet enjoy sex with men when a woman is present but on their own won't seek out a guy. There are others who actually find men attractive.
As a bisexual woman, I fall into the "phasic" category - I mostly like to fuck men but at times really crave a woman. Only difference is that if I see a really attractive woman and get that "vibe" from her, I get breathless and wet. I don't think most bisexual men get that way with other men but I could be wrong |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I consider myself bi and like others have said don't "fancy" men in the same way I do women - that said there would have to be an attraction on some level for me to play with a guy. Not sure I can define what that attraction is beyond there being a connection or chemistry.
As for how bi I consider myself, I certainly don't think about sex with guys all the time but also wouldn't consider myself to be "phasic" as someone else put it - it just is what it is and I embrace it fully.
And whilst some of the hottest play sessions with my partner have been Bi MMF - I certainly wouldn't rule out playing with a guy one to one. In fact VA have just started doing male only nights once a month which I shall be interested to see how they pan out even though I'm not quite sure I'm ready to attend myself just yet. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"As we talking getting sucked off by a guy or kissing fucking ect? A lot of guys are happy to let another guy suck him off but that's as far as it goes."
I think that was the point of the thread - to understand how bi we consider ourselves - there are some that will only suck or be sucked, some that just want mutual masturbation and others that anything goes - so it's more about where each of us stands than anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to watch and chat in bi room never had bi fun with a man yet!!! But yes like block suck me off rim me and get me turned on to do same to him. Had woman play with me with toys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I go through phases too.
I don't find men attractive in the same way but I love to suck or sit on a nice cock.
I've tried kissing and just didn't enjoy it the way I do with women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oral both ways, no kissing , no bottom or top.
it also needs to be in the right circumstances.
I don't fancy men or have 1 on 1
phasic is the term for me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My guy is a phase guy...we have discussed it at length and when he wants cock he has to have it but, does not fancy men in the same way as women."
Same here, don't "fancy" men at all just like cock every now and then |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
I have never in my life seem a guy and thought "I fancy him". I couldn't possibly conceive having a relationship etc.
When I was younger, the thought of any contact was pretty repulsive - I didn't have a problem with gay/bi guys liking it of course, just it wasn't for me.
I started to get a bit curious as I got older though. I find it goes in phases - I'll go months without it crossing my mind, then have a patch when I think about it a lot.
When I'm not in that phase, it seems strange that I could ever feel differently.
Years ago, I did try a bit of very light fun, but didn't feel the urge to repeat it. The reality is somehow different to the little fantasy I sometimes get.
I've played with couples and never felt any great desire to play with the guy.
I can't quite figure it out really - and I'm ok with that!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet quite a few bi men and get on with them well, but there seems to be different types of bi. Some men are more or less 50/50 and all the time. Some guys seem to have phases of being bi - you don't hear from them for a while and then they are rampant to meet men. Any comments? "
Some don't like a label ....some are confused.... some won't accept. There are lots of reasons for having confusion over what was quite a simple term. We live in a Post Truth era. There is difficulty in acceptance of anything that might mean absolute. Even in court now there isno such thing as truth.... ttruth is anything that can be submitted and if got away with it then becomes truth....which it is actually.
It's only what they want the truth to be.
Does that make any sense? |
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If I want any man on man action I either text ma neighbour who lives over the hall from me, or I fuck off to CS2 in Nottm.
Sometimes ma neighbour, let's call him Brother Dave as that was the name given to him by a fab lady that came to stay with me a couple of years ago, stops over and sleeps in ma bed. We kiss, cuddle and more. I would never have a relationship with another man, as he wouldn't, but we both like cock and it's a kind of release and much more fun than a solitary wank  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think i will echo what others say, i do not find guys sexually attractive, i appreciated a good looking guy but for me its purely a sexual sensation thing. i like cock but would never date or get involved with a guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My guy is a phase guy...we have discussed it at length and when he wants cock he has to have it but, does not fancy men in the same way as women."
I agree with this,I'm not attracted to men at all but every now and then I gethought a massive urge to suck on a nice big cock or be fucked by one I have been having this urge again for about a week now but have been too busy at work  |
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I have to say this thread is fantastic!  I (Rob)think I've always had this low level, background fascination with dicks but have never once fancied a guy. It always left me feeling confused as to what it 'made' me. It's really comforting to see that I'm not alone, so thanks! |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"My guy is a phase guy...we have discussed it at length and when he wants cock he has to have it but, does not fancy men in the same way as women.I agree with this,I'm not attracted to men at all but every now and then I gethought a massive urge to suck on a nice big cock or be fucked by one I have been having this urge again for about a week now but have been too busy at work "
I sometimes have an urge to play with some very very large breasts, but I haven't relented as yet! Lol with u on the big cocks  |
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Yes, it's difficult for some people to understand. I adore girls first and foremost. Just have no attraction to guys, but love looking at a lovely thick cock on a man and the urge takes over. Please privately message me if you are similar or thinking of cock. Couples especially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is an awesome insight into how many bi guys class their sexuality. As a bi lady I'm almost the complete opposite, I am very attracted to beautiful women and love to flirt, kiss, touch but having sex with them doesn't really float my boat lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have a preference for women in almost every aspect, but on a purely physical, sexual level, I also like a bit of cock....
I don't fancy men in general, I just like to mix things up..... So I'm probably greedy. I "
That's me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was younger I was groomed by guys and it has left me curious now, but I would rather have a girl company than a guys. Although I would still like to try bi-gay experiences but I wouldn't go after a guy as I don't find them attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me to jump into bed with someone, there has to be an attraction.
These guys that are stating they are not attracted to guys but will have sex with them, that idea is just alien to me.
It just doesn't stack up in my head ... tho I can appreciate it might for others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I probably miss the point that so many of you refer to, but surely BI means you go both ways, whether part or full time????
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I think there are a few on zero hours contracts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i'm as bi as you like but never in a one to one situation, absolutely love playing with guys in mmf or bigger group situations but on their own, i just have no interest really. never felt the urge to meet a guy alone, but give me a cock to share or fuck me as i fuck my gf then yes please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In our opinion, bi is where you're attracted to the opposite sex but you have sex with both sexes.
Gay is where you're attracted to the opposite sex."
???...'same' sex did you mean? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"For me to jump into bed with someone, there has to be an attraction.
These guys that are stating they are not attracted to guys but will have sex with them, that idea is just alien to me.
It just doesn't stack up in my head ... tho I can appreciate it might for others"
I think there's a distinction between "fancying" and "attraction" that's being missed - as I said in my earlier post I don't "fancy" men in the same way I do women but by the same chalk I couldn't just go with any man (as some posters here seem to suggest they could) there has to be an "attraction" of sorts. Now what that "attraction" is doesn't have to be physical necessarily, although there may well be elements of that and it's definitely different from any attraction I might have to a female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the majority of average women attractive
i find a very small minority of men attractive mainly only those who are exceptionally handsome or in shape or cute (im a sucker for cuteness)
So simply based on stats i go for women more often than men.
Theres very few guys on here i find attractive |
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You don't have to indulge in same-sex sex to be bi. Fantasising about it is enough. Being bi can be everything from indulging in exclusively opposite-sex sex while being attracted to same-sex sex to indulging in same-sex sex while still being attracted to opposite-sex sex. Everything in between is obviously also bi (very few are 50-50, it is a sliding scale). You are only really straight if you have only ever indulged in and/or been turned on by exclusively opposite-sex sex or gay if you have only indulged in and/or been turned on by exclusively same-sex sex. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm going to buck the overwhelming trend, as I find both men and women attractive and am also capable of falling in love with either. "
I've chatted with a guy who felt exactly the same and said he'd had relationships with men and women. The ideal for someone like that would be a ménage a trois. I wonder if anyone on Fabswingers is in such a relationship? I wonder if three people could be in love with each other? One-on-one is complicated enough in my estimation! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I have a preference for women in almost every aspect, but on a purely physical, sexual level, I also like a bit of cock....
I don't fancy men in general, I just like to mix things up..... So I'm probably greedy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you will kiss a man and do a 69 your bi sex if you only like your cock sucked your bi curious
Well that's that settled then!! "
I'm glad that's cleared up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My 'phase of bi'. I just love wabnking a hard cock . I just find it so much fun Making a guy shoot his load. Wouldn't do much say I am attracted to guys. although I appreciate a fit body. |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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" ... if you only like your cock sucked your bi curious
Or just selfish  "
Well I agree with that - there are lots of guys who just want suck and go with no reciprocation at all and no other physical contact. Bi curious tend not to want any affectionate contact. I think the fully bisexual person will do all those things that they would do with the opposite sex such as kissing and cuddling. I wonder what others think? |
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I'm bi and have been since I was 13. Last for men and women hasn't diminished over the years. I was just addicted to sucking cocks but that moved on to other things, the guys body and lips. Moved on to kissing some guys who I found attractive and some a dirty snog. After finally fucking a guy I found its near the same a doggy on women and near the same view. Love all sorts of women and have had quite a few over the years but sucking on a lovely hard cock I find is still the best. |
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On this site I refer to myself as bi curious and on a well known fetish site I have put myself down as het exible.
Although I am not particularly fussed by labels the latter does feel like a good fit for me.
A 1 on 1 meet with a guy or TV is unlikely to ever be of interest to me. But in an MMF or group situation I love the option of sucking or being sucked by other guys. As for getting my arse rimmed, oh boy does that feel good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" ... if you only like your cock sucked your bi curious
Or just selfish
Well I agree with that - there are lots of guys who just want suck and go with no reciprocation at all and no other physical contact. Bi curious tend not to want any affectionate contact. I think the fully bisexual person will do all those things that they would do with the opposite sex such as kissing and cuddling. I wonder what others think? "
It's about over stepping (your own) boundaries - becoming comfortable with things we are taught are 'not right'
Starting out with another guy can be a total head fuck for some and whilst baby steps work for some, others just won't deviate from their approach.
For example, I have met guys who said 'no kissing' and then did kiss and the whole meet dynamic changed. They relaxed more and enjoyed the whole experience rather than just picking from the buffet
When meeting curious guys though, the key for me was to conduct the meet at their pace and keep within their boundaries. I never expected any one to catch up to where I was at, further on up the road because like I say, for many their initial male on male contact can be a proper head fuck filled with excitement, eagerness, expectation, fear, disappointment in themselves, guilt and sometimes, disgust and revulsion.
By contrast, others just love it and take to it like a duck to water. No head fuck, just a great time |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm bi and have been since I was 13. Last for men and women hasn't diminished over the years. I was just addicted to sucking cocks but that moved on to other things, the guys body and lips. Moved on to kissing some guys who I found attractive and some a dirty snog. After finally fucking a guy I found its near the same a doggy on women and near the same view. Love all sorts of women and have had quite a few over the years but sucking on a lovely hard cock I find is still the best. "
Well I guess being bi does double your chances. Do bi guys flirt with everyone then - men and women? |
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"I'm bi and have been since I was 13. Last for men and women hasn't diminished over the years. I was just addicted to sucking cocks but that moved on to other things, the guys body and lips. Moved on to kissing some guys who I found attractive and some a dirty snog. After finally fucking a guy I found its near the same a doggy on women and near the same view. Love all sorts of women and have had quite a few over the years but sucking on a lovely hard cock I find is still the best.
Well I guess being bi does double your chances. Do bi guys flirt with everyone then - men and women?"
I have done and have had guys flirt with me, with and without their partners. All depends on situations that arise |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm bi and have been since I was 13. Last for men and women hasn't diminished over the years. I was just addicted to sucking cocks but that moved on to other things, the guys body and lips. Moved on to kissing some guys who I found attractive and some a dirty snog. After finally fucking a guy I found its near the same a doggy on women and near the same view. Love all sorts of women and have had quite a few over the years but sucking on a lovely hard cock I find is still the best.
Well I guess being bi does double your chances. Do bi guys flirt with everyone then - men and women?
I have done and have had guys flirt with me, with and without their partners. All depends on situations that arise"
A very handsome bi guy I knew used to stare at the woman of a MF couple and when she looked away with embarrassment he would wink and flirt with the man! |
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"In our opinion, bi is where you're attracted to the opposite sex but you have sex with both sexes.
Gay is where you're attracted to the opposite sex."
That's what I call 'fab bi' or bi playful. Lot's of women on here will play but wouldn't have a relationship with a woman. I am very definitely attracted to both sexes and have relationships with both men and women. R |
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"I'm going to buck the overwhelming trend, as I find both men and women attractive and am also capable of falling in love with either.
I've chatted with a guy who felt exactly the same and said he'd had relationships with men and women. The ideal for someone like that would be a ménage a trois. I wonder if anyone on Fabswingers is in such a relationship? I wonder if three people could be in love with each other? One-on-one is complicated enough in my estimation! "
Sort of. We are poly and as well as being with C, I am part of a triad with another couple so I'm not with them full time, for want of a better phrase, but it's wonderful when we do see each other. |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm going to buck the overwhelming trend, as I find both men and women attractive and am also capable of falling in love with either. "
heard there's a new name for this, pansexual . (Mrs) I absolutely hate labels though. I think fluid is the best description of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet quite a few bi men and get on with them well, but there seems to be different types of bi. Some men are more or less 50/50 and all the time. Some guys seem to have phases of being bi - you don't hear from them for a while and then they are rampant to meet men. Any comments? "
So what you're saying is:
- Some men like both men and women equally.
- Some men prefer women and only meet men occasionally.
- Some men go quiet for a while and then want to meet.
Yup. Sounds normal. I also know lots of straight men who are really into meeting and then go quiet and then meet again. Sexual desire isn't constant, it waxes and wanes. Sometimes you just want a load of fucks, other times life takes over or you have other priorities. It happens with women too - it's not just a man thing, it's a people thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm bi and have been since I was 13. Last for men and women hasn't diminished over the years. I was just addicted to sucking cocks but that moved on to other things, the guys body and lips. Moved on to kissing some guys who I found attractive and some a dirty snog. After finally fucking a guy I found its near the same a doggy on women and near the same view. Love all sorts of women and have had quite a few over the years but sucking on a lovely hard cock I find is still the best.
Well I guess being bi does double your chances. Do bi guys flirt with everyone then - men and women?"
You're a bisexual man - do you flirt with everyone? |
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By *ealgentMan
over a year ago
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I'm married and enjoy mmf with bi men. I like watching my wife with other men. I also like her to play on her own with men and tell me about it later.
I like 1 on 1 with men. They have to have a nice sized cock, preferably shaved or trimmed. If I find them good looking as well that's even better. I like to have full body naked contact, kissing, sucking and occasionally penetrative sex both ways.
I also find attractive slim women a turn on and enjoy sex with them but it's not as good unless another guy present.
I consider myself bisexual.
I don't want any more of a relationship with a man apart from sex. If I did want more, such as love, I would consider myself as Gay |
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I dont find men attractive. I would never kiss a guy or give and receive anal.
I long,long time ago... I met with a couple,they played... I watched and wanted to join in.
I was given the opportunity to do so if I demonstrated how much I wanted too by sucking his cock.
I did it because I was so horny and my brains were now in my balls
I enjoyed it a lot... The whole meet was so great we kept going back for more... I would orally prepare them both,perform oral on her when they were fucking before joining in fully and enjoying the wife.
I had a phobia of spunk and stood well away when he was about to release.
Had a meeting on Fab and agreed that he could withdraw and cum over my face. Hhe did as per the script but his wife ad libbed... licking some of the cum off of me and using a finger to push a little bit into my mouth... she then kissed me... it was so hot,the hottest thing ever.
I could remember the taste of his precum and both the feeling of his hardon cock becoming rigid and his pulsating helmet becoming swelling in my mouth just before he withdrew.
My spunk phobia was now over and during our next meet... he didnt withdraw and fed me his load.
Im still bicurious in my mind... I wont give or receive anal or kiss a guy and Ive only had my cock sucked infront of a lady.
I now always seek bicurios MMFs... they are the best although Im happy to play straight and to clean up after hubby
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it interesting that most "Bi" men claim to need a woman around to justify their lust for another man - or " don't fancy the man just fancy the cock "
To me that sounds like denial.
But who am I to judge how anyone else feels - you feel the way you feel!
I'm bi and I don't feel like I need a man around when I'm with a women. - in fact I prefer it if a man isn't there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it interesting that most "Bi" men claim to need a woman around to justify their lust for another man - or " don't fancy the man just fancy the cock "
To me that sounds like denial.
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To be fair, I have thought the same
It's OK to suck a cock - as long as there's a fanny within 50 yards
It's not the slightest bit bi then
Social conditioning has so much to answer for
Too many generations taught it was 'wrong'
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By *hoot45 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I meet quite a few bi men and get on with them well, but there seems to be different types of bi. Some men are more or less 50/50 and all the time. Some guys seem to have phases of being bi - you don't hear from them for a while and then they are rampant to meet men. Any comments?
So what you're saying is:
- Some men like both men and women equally.
- Some men prefer women and only meet men occasionally.
- Some men go quiet for a while and then want to meet.
Yup. Sounds normal. I also know lots of straight men who are really into meeting and then go quiet and then meet again. Sexual desire isn't constant, it waxes and wanes. Sometimes you just want a load of fucks, other times life takes over or you have other priorities. It happens with women too - it's not just a man thing, it's a people thing."
My experience has been mostly with guys who are absolutely full on bi guys who then disappear for weeks and then resurface well horned up for man on man action. Guess there must be some kind of a build up tell they need to do something about it.
Recently I had almost daily chats with a young guy who said he was fully bi. We planned a meet but he deleted his profile before it happened. He was married but said his wife didn't know about his bisexuality and he was frightened he would lose her if she found out. So what seems like an opportunity to have double the fun can be very difficult for some. I found it difficult to advise him but from dealing with my own sexuality I told him that it's not a good idea to completely deny your sexuality. Luckily we live in a time where we don't have to repress ourselves and where we were told that masturbation made you blind! Now where are my glasses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Recently I had almost daily chats with a young guy who said he was fully bi. We planned a meet but he deleted his profile before it happened. He was married but said his wife didn't know about his bisexuality and he was frightened he would lose her if she found out. So what seems like an opportunity to have double the fun can be very difficult for some. "
Bisexuality isn't an excuse for infidelity
My ex Mrs knew I was bi before we got together
Her message was clear from the start 'cheating is cheating, whether it's with another woman or another man'
That said, if both parties are aware and they agree to extra marital play, then that is their decision.
The joint decision is, imho, the crucial part
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We guess we would describe ourselves as Bi-situational.
What we enjoy at one meet may not be the same as the next. It depends on the ambience how comfortable we feel and the chemistry.
There is a common theme most of the time and that is us sharing a cock and we do prefer a TV/CD, we just find them less pushy than the standard single male. We also love to see a cock in satin or lace.
However we also enjoy couples and the odd MMMF in a club situation.
He prefers to "play" with a cock rather then have his played with but nothing is ever cast in stone.
Reading this back it sounds as if we want the best of both worlds and we think that`s about right  |
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By *hoot45 OP Man
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Recently I had almost daily chats with a young guy who said he was fully bi. We planned a meet but he deleted his profile before it happened. He was married but said his wife didn't know about his bisexuality and he was frightened he would lose her if she found out. So what seems like an opportunity to have double the fun can be very difficult for some.
Bisexuality isn't an excuse for infidelity
My ex Mrs knew I was bi before we got together
Her message was clear from the start 'cheating is cheating, whether it's with another woman or another man'
That said, if both parties are aware and they agree to extra marital play, then that is their decision.
The joint decision is, imho, the crucial part
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I agree that cheating is cheating and this is avoided when both partners are involved I guess. You don't often hear of men leaving their wives/girlfriends for another man or women leaving their husbands/boyfriends for another woman although I guess it must happen.
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As someone else said I think Bi equals sexually fluid.
I like a Bi mmf and the nightmare I have is matching the guys up as some only suck, some are bottom, some are top, some kiss, some don't.
It is a lot easier when they are versatile and are open to everything fully Bi.
I also find some guys will see on my profile that I play with Bi guys and will say they are bi just to get to me and then not really interested in the other guy when it comes to it  |
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"We guess we would describe ourselves as Bi-situational.
What we enjoy at one meet may not be the same as the next. It depends on the ambience how comfortable we feel and the chemistry.
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Yeah, but that's true of anything.
You could be straight, and only sleep with the opposite sex, and still say "What we enjoy at one meet may not be the same as the next. It depends on the ambience how comfortable we feel and the chemistry."
That doesn't make you straight-situational, it makes you human. |
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"As someone else said I think Bi equals sexually fluid.
I like a Bi mmf and the nightmare I have is matching the guys up as some only suck, some are bottom, some are top, some kiss, some don't.
It is a lot easier when they are versatile and are open to everything fully Bi.
I also find some guys will see on my profile that I play with Bi guys and will say they are bi just to get to me and then not really interested in the other guy when it comes to it "
That's very frustrating for the bi guy |
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I don't fancy cock at all but I have had guys sucking me off and it's an amazing and sexually fulfilling experience.I don't find men attractive and I don't go out looking,an occasional MMF works for me. |
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"As someone else said I think Bi equals sexually fluid.
I like a Bi mmf and the nightmare I have is matching the guys up as some only suck, some are bottom, some are top, some kiss, some don't.
It is a lot easier when they are versatile and are open to everything fully Bi.
I also find some guys will see on my profile that I play with Bi guys and will say they are bi just to get to me and then not really interested in the other guy when it comes to it
That's very frustrating for the bi guy "
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"I don't think we need labels anymore you do who and what you like whenever the mood takes you......too much focus on labels these days.
I go through phases "
Is there any pattern to the phases? |
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"I don't fancy cock at all but I have had guys sucking me off and it's an amazing and sexually fulfilling experience.I don't find men attractive and I don't go out looking,an occasional MMF works for me."
Some guys seem to have a talent for giving toe-curling blowjobs |
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"I don't fancy cock at all but I have had guys sucking me off and it's an amazing and sexually fulfilling experience.I don't find men attractive and I don't go out looking,an occasional MMF works for me.
Some guys seem to have a talent for giving toe-curling blowjobs "
yeah I'm one of them  |
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"I don't fancy cock at all but I have had guys sucking me off and it's an amazing and sexually fulfilling experience.I don't find men attractive and I don't go out looking,an occasional MMF works for me.
Some guys seem to have a talent for giving toe-curling blowjobs yeah I'm one of them "
A man of talent then! ,-) |
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Bi......both
Sexual......do I need to explain?
It means you have/enjoy sex with men AND women.
It's not actually rocket science. You can find the word in a dictionary.
You may go through "phases" of preference....but there you are!
b??'s?k???l/
adjective
1.
sexually attracted to both men and women.
synonyms: ambisexual; More
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"Bi......both
Sexual......do I need to explain?
It means you have/enjoy sex with men AND women.
It's not actually rocket science. You can find the word in a dictionary.
You may go through "phases" of preference....but there you are!
b??'s?k???l/
adjective
1.
sexually attracted to both men and women.
synonyms: ambisexual; More
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And bicurious? |
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