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What puts people off meeting you?
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I'm not bisexual or even curious.
And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever 
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Generally, my personality. |
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"Generally, my personality."
Would you like a biscuit? {offers chocolate hobnob} |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally the fact that I don't meet anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tattoos...
My fat rolls...
My love for clubs..
My love for mmf...
Me just being me and being really blunt. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With some it coz I dnt play straight away |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Generally, my personality.
Would you like a biscuit? {offers chocolate hobnob}"
I am partial to a hobnob. Thank you! |
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"Generally the fact that I don't meet anyone "
But Jesus, you're in everyone's heart  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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my tattoos probably, for some people, and that i'm not BBW and only fat. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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My weight, my skin colour and my bluntness/bitchiness. Oh and the fact I don't meet within a hour of receiving a message normally. |
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Its either,
My Face, Body, or Height
or all of the above
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I'm really surprised that you ladies have any issues with meets. I thought single fems were the unicorns of fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cos I'm picky
Cos I want a social with no play option
Cos I can't social on 10 mins notice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally the fact that I don't meet anyone
But Jesus, you're in everyone's heart "
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
We don't know. Could be that we are looking for a female to join us. Or maybe they don't like our profile or the way we look. Have to leave that for others to decide.  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm really surprised that you ladies have any issues with meets. I thought single fems were the unicorns of fab "
i don't, thought we was just giving opinions of why someone wouldn't wanna meet us?
my, lack of, grammar. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm really surprised that you ladies have any issues with meets. I thought single fems were the unicorns of fab "
Unicorns  .
People like different things and regardless of the imbalance of numbers on this site, they still like them and don't want to meet ones who don't fit what they want. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"My weight, my skin colour and my bluntness/bitchiness. Oh and the fact I don't meet within a hour of receiving a message normally."
How about two hours?
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
Probably because I don't have a lot of free time to meet, so might even be several weeks before I can even arrange a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That i can't accommodate. I like to be picked up. Play then dropped off home.. not to much to ask? ?? |
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No idea, though we prefer clubs and parties to long pm swaps or random "can you meet now" |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"My weight, my skin colour and my bluntness/bitchiness. Oh and the fact I don't meet within a hour of receiving a message normally.
How about two hours?
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That has happened once or twice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tattoos...
My fat rolls...
My love for clubs..
My love for mmf...
Me just being me and being really blunt. .."
I can relate, honesty is seen as a dirty word now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cos I'm picky and I think my profile comes across as a bit bitchy and negative |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I confess that I check male height very early on. I'm a tall woman and it's hard to feel feminine if the male is shorter than me  "
I got called shallow by a guy for that very reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To open and friendly, people just don't trust any body any more ... oh get the violins out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My aloofness. |
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I'm a tall woman, and I wonder if that's off putting sometimes. I'm fussy about height with men, so it works both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our very limited free time, people seem to think we're just messing them around when trying to pin us down for dates for meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably my age and size. (It's ok though, there's plenty who aren't put off). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I expect an effort, a little too much to ask apparently!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that I won't just meet any random person who messages me, and the fact I won't meet at the drop of a hat. |
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"I confess that I check male height very early on. I'm a tall woman and it's hard to feel feminine if the male is shorter than me
I got called shallow by a guy for that very reason"
Attraction often is shallow though, especially when you're not looking for forever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People I have met.
Not giving them sex talk or fantasy talk.
Having had too many sexual partners.
Other miscellaneous reasons I have no idea about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Refusing to send them naked photos. |
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The fact I'm male and live a long way from civilization doesn't help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....
It's a long list of potential reasons |
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By *imal75Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
The fact that I am Indian or I cannot accommodate. Most profiles state no asains these days... so colour of my skin I guess. It would be nice to meet someone willing to meet an indian. x |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
The more of the responses I read, I'm mentally agreeing with a lot of them... so perhaps it's a combination |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My age, not Bi-anything or interested in being a sub. |
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"I'm a tall woman, and I wonder if that's off putting sometimes. I'm fussy about height with men, so it works both ways."
It does for me and I can relate to your last comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably my age and size. (It's ok though, there's plenty who aren't put off). "
Neither nor anything would put me off a meet with you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....
It's a long list of potential reasons"
Oh and i'm 6ft 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not everyones/anyones type. Well thats how feel anyway x |
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"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....
It's a long list of potential reasons
Oh and i'm 6ft 2"
Wow! I achieve that in heels Getting trousers is a bastard, am I right? {Hob nob} |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm let me think  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....
It's a long list of potential reasons"
Keep listing you've not mentioned anything to put me off yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I confess that I check male height very early on. I'm a tall woman and it's hard to feel feminine if the male is shorter than me
I got called shallow by a guy for that very reason
Attraction often is shallow though, especially when you're not looking for forever "
Lots of guys I've turned down couldn't see why I have to be attracted to them. Glad it's not just me that can see it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Availability. |
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"Hmm let me think "
I like the way you're trying to lure people in with sweeties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hair envy |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
Probably because I'm a fussy bugger who hasn't met the right man to take it further than soft play |
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"Probably because I'm a fussy bugger who hasn't met the right man to take it further than soft play"
Nowt wrong with fussy  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Because I don't meet at the drop of a hat and like to get to know them on here first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmm let me think
I like the way you're trying to lure people in with sweeties."
It's not working |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hair envy "
*swish swish |
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I guessing age, that I'm a choosey, and most of all, being a male..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....
It's a long list of potential reasons
Oh and i'm 6ft 2
Wow! I achieve that in heels Getting trousers is a bastard, am I right? {Hob nob}"
Yep! Total nightmare! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hair envy
*swish swish "
Because we're worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....
It's a long list of potential reasons
Keep listing you've not mentioned anything to put me off yet "
i like licking lollipops |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My body, my shyness, my inability to meet at times to suit them, i'm Welsh, i have a hairy Mary....
It's a long list of potential reasons
Keep listing you've not mentioned anything to put me off yet
i like licking lollipops "
Shall we share one? You lick one side and I lick the other? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My tattoos
My face
My wife jokes she's ace!!
And my massive.. thighs
Adam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take your pick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because we can't meet at the drop of a hat, and can only do daytimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My moodiness, my individual patch of crazy, my inability to pronounce Antarctica.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What puts people off meeting me? - if I knew that, then I could do something to fix it.
I'm guessing either my photos, or profile, or both. (Answers on a postcard?...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My moodiness, my individual patch of crazy, my inability to pronounce Antarctica.
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The poor pronunciation of the chillier of the continents is a deal breaker for me |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I think some guys think I'm a bit demanding!
The fact I don't want to meet in a hotel.
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I'be no idea what puts people off me and I don't really care to be honest. I'm more interested in the ones who do want to meet me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My moodiness, my individual patch of crazy, my inability to pronounce Antarctica.
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Do you have an obsession with flegs? If not I can look past all of those |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my face is like a smashed up vauxhall nova, my body looks like leftover fondue and my mind is just a bit of a shithole.
otherwise i'm flawless...so close! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not bisexual or even curious.
And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever
Over to you "
I dont have that problem
The other way round though is rudness, Im not a fan of the rude self important people! Some times I can find people very patronising which turns me off no matter how nice they are in their profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Location comes up a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I,m all podgy XXX |
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I would expect age or just I'm not for them! Don't really give much thought, I'm an optimist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have never cared enough to ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I,m all podgy XXX"
hello! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect age or just I'm not for them! Don't really give much thought, I'm an optimist "
are you? that's handy, i need my eyes looking at |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our lack of free time to be able to meet at the drop of a hat or should that be knickers lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My moodiness, my individual patch of crazy, my inability to pronounce Antarctica.
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I can't pronounce sardonicism. I usually can't spell it either. |
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The male half, wiggles gets plenty of offers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who am I kidding.
No one ever turns me down |
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"I would expect age or just I'm not for them! Don't really give much thought, I'm an optimist
are you? that's handy, i need my eyes looking at "
I'll guess the prescription and hope I get it right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They're either intimidated by our raw unbridled sex power, have noticed that everyone we meet mysteriously falls off a cliff 3 days later, or they just can't be arsed |
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Because I like to meet at clubs socially before play ... and I don't mean when hosting before anyone thinks I'm plugging Haha
I mean on nights off to party x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That we love outdoors , and we don't seem to models ?? Who are successful and good looking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apart from the fact I'm not meeting and have cleared my profile text ... It would be the fact I don't suffer fools gladly and say it exactly how it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect age or just I'm not for them! Don't really give much thought, I'm an optimist
are you? that's handy, i need my eyes looking at
I'll guess the prescription and hope I get it right"
yes mate, it's ten to eight |
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Being new....
Not having much free time...
Wanting a social first....
Not being sure where our limits are yet....
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"I'm not bisexual or even curious.
And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever
Over to you
I dont have that problem
The other way round though is rudness, Im not a fan of the rude self important people! Some times I can find people very patronising which turns me off no matter how nice they are in their profiles. "
Very, very true. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
As one off our friends list might say "Its cos you're a cunt!".
That and the fact we won't do the "chase" thing probably doesn't help. Loads of other reasons like availability, height, age difference is a biggy as H is rarely attracted to others nearer my age & those around her age are rarely attracted to me..
Que Sera Sera
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that we are so anal with our diaries and plans meets 3 or 4 weeks in advance. Being restricted to Saturday nights doesn't help either.
Also the fact that we like to go for drinks and socialise with our playmates prior to a play session is a turnoff for a lot of men who just want to fuck.
Can't help our diary problems, it's just the way our life is. Wish we could be more flexible as we have missed out at times. Don't care however if we put off the guys who don't want to socialise - that's a good filter. |
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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago
West Midlands |
Probably because I look after my daughter alot so I can't accommodate atm.
I prefer daytime meets for the same reason.
I'm happy to bide my time.
I'm having fun just chatting to a few new friends.
My waistline ain't what it used to be either, but I'm working on that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Him - being overly hirsute doesn't help.
Her - no that confidently chatty initially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't imagine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All sorts of things I imagine. Just as well really. I like not being inundated |
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"As one off our friends list might say "Its cos you're a cunt!".
That and the fact we won't do the "chase" thing probably doesn't help. Loads of other reasons like availability, height, age difference is a biggy as H is rarely attracted to others nearer my age & those around her age are rarely attracted to me..
Que Sera Sera
S"
Mine is because I am a cunt |
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I'm shy! Lol
Actually, we've not met anyone yet.... Just taking it step by step. I think that will put lots off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because we are too old, perceived as too hardcore, have too many verifications.....
Who knows |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"As one off our friends list might say "Its cos you're a cunt!".
That and the fact we won't do the "chase" thing probably doesn't help. Loads of other reasons like availability, height, age difference is a biggy as H is rarely attracted to others nearer my age & those around her age are rarely attracted to me..
Que Sera Sera
S
Mine is because I am a cunt "
Talk of the devil & they are bound to arrive as they say
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"I'm not bisexual or even curious.
And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever
Over to you "
My spotty arse! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not bisexual or even curious.
And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever
Over to you "
Couldn't say. We seem to do pretty well on meets, so it has never really come up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're either intimidated by our raw unbridled sex power, have noticed that everyone we meet mysteriously falls off a cliff 3 days later, or they just can't be arsed "
Way too scary...lol |
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"Cos I'm picky
Cos I want a social with no play option
Cos I can't social on 10 mins notice"
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"I'm shy! Lol
Actually, we've not met anyone yet.... Just taking it step by step. I think that will put lots off "
Everyone has to start somewhere x |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
Could be many reasons, but age has to be up there! Didn't have a problem before we got old! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My weight, probably. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My weight, probably. "
You can stop that when you like Miss  |
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"As one off our friends list might say "Its cos you're a cunt!".
That and the fact we won't do the "chase" thing probably doesn't help. Loads of other reasons like availability, height, age difference is a biggy as H is rarely attracted to others nearer my age & those around her age are rarely attracted to me..
Que Sera Sera
S
Mine is because I am a cunt
Talk of the devil & they are bound to arrive as they say
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Always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My weight, probably.
You can stop that when you like Miss "
What, being fat!? Nah, I'm too lazy... |
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"I'm not bisexual or even curious.
And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever
Over to you "
Because I'm a minger! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My weight, probably.
You can stop that when you like Miss
What, being fat!? Nah, I'm too lazy... "
You know what I mean... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prob my height and weight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because it says am not looking to meet on my profile.
Have to be very special to get into my undies ladies |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Because it says am not looking to meet on my profile.
Have to be very special to get into my undies ladies "
The old reverse psychology trick. |
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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago
Wrexham |
Because our photos and profile are a bit naff and we're only free when most people are not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With some it coz I dnt play straight away "
Same |
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over a year ago
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Because we state we are gay
Because we are quite specific in what we want
Because we have a profile that seems to cut down on chancers |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Generally, my personality."
Ironic that, as it's your personality that attracts me you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it says am not looking to meet on my profile.
Have to be very special to get into my undies ladies
The old reverse psychology trick. "
Hasn't worked me mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wont meet couples alone - but the fact they keep asking when ive said no already means they get blocked |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"I'm not bisexual or even curious.
And we're not looking for full swap. Probably ever
Over to you
Because I'm a minger! X"
A ging-er minger! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not as attractive as most of the women on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My weight, my face, the fact that I actually want to get to know people before I waste both of our time meeting, the fact that I won't meet without a social, I'm awful at planning meets cause I'm so busy all the time, the fact that I'm a hardcore socialist, I'm constantly on my phone so I get grumpy when people don't reply to my messages quick enough... I'm a picky bugger |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
our good looks charm and personality .our massive house .the fact we have servants .drink pink champers .[ok we just fibbers but we get lots meets and plenty chats .] just being us .and we chat to any fabbers that are good enough to text us . |
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We sometimes get side stepped because Kim is a well known porn star & I have been shooting / starring in hardcore porn for 20 years, when people do finally meet us they then realise we're a normal friendly down to earth couple that's the complete opposite to what they were expecting.
Never judge a book by it cover lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos I'm picky
Cos I want a social with no play option
Cos I can't social on 10 mins notice"
This,
plus...I don't play with more than two regulars
....only meet single ladies.
....too far away from most on my list....
but when I do ifs always fucking good ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My age.
cut off for most seems to be 55.
Hey-ho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My body and my bluntness most likely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age, bisexuality, single bloke, picky, no face pic unless I 'trust' you.... availability...
Fucking hell, I'm amazed I get any at all!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno...apparently being old fat and ugly doesn't help xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno maybe hairier men that look like a teddy bear?  |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"My age.
cut off for most seems to be 55.
Hey-ho "
fuck you still gotta use a crow bar and 2 big men to get me off a young 55 year old .age dont mean nothing .being a player male or female does . |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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the fact that i go through hating men stages scares some guys off, i'm sure of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos I'm picky and I think my profile comes across as a bit bitchy and negative "
lol |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
Torfaen/Gwent |
I don't swap pictures. There's enough on here as far as I'm concerned.
I don't like facials or cum in my mouth.
I'm not into women.
I'm blunt.
I'm sure the list is endless haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I eat my hair, is that off putting? |
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My male pattern baldness, my lack of height, the fact I'm over 45, I don't live in a bustling metropolis, I'm married and playing away |
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My big tummy
My bluntness
They're scared |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I eat my hair, is that off putting?"
Only if you cough up hairballs |
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My insistence on a social
My lack of trust
I'm picky
And being willing to rearrange to suit us both makes me seem easy I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno...apparently being old fat and ugly doesn't help xx"
You have a lovely bum. From what i can see anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably because we only meet at a club and work commitments and we're not for them,who knows |
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our age,
lack of confidence (not had a meet for a while).
xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a slut
I have pics of meets on my profile
I'm not black enough,nor white enough
I'm a geek
I look like a brown mr bean
I'm skinny
no interest in 'manly' things really(cars,sport)
I meet larger people,I meet slim people
I have too many verifications
I have cock pics
I dont pander
I dont listen to music
I drink
I smoke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some wench is going around telling people I have a dodgy coat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm overly fussy...I insist on a social meet first...I refuse to show explicit pics...I have a sharp tongue...and apparently I'm intimidating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont respond to all my messages
I talk myself out of meets
I get bored very easily and have a very demanding and time consuming job.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be a grumpy bugger now and then
I am prone to over flirting at times
I get carried away and frequently catch foot in mouth syndrome
I completely miss the fact that I might be affecting someone else's feelings with the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not as attractive as most of the women on here."
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What puts ppl off...I know this one,confidence,ppl stuck in there comfort zone,ppl keep doing the same things going clubs.
Ppl fantazie but sayimg n.doing it is 2 different things.
Tbh u can keep going on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What puts ppl off...I know this one,confidence,ppl stuck in there comfort zone,ppl keep doing the same things going clubs.
Ppl fantazie but sayimg n.doing it is 2 different things.
Tbh u can keep going on here lol"
None of those are anything to do with you putting them off though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the strap on scared a few
Apparently two women can be intimidating but we are pussy cats really |
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We have had social meets , and people who just message and say want to meet.but cant meet at the drop of a hat or the fact we haven't been on that long dont know. Would have to check our profile maybe its not very good any advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The wheelchair.
The fact I can't meet instantly.
The fact I don't like loads of chat before a meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not as attractive as most of the women on here.
This! "
Not true for either of you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The wheelchair.
The fact I can't meet instantly.
The fact I don't like loads of chat before a meet.
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No.... it's the fact I don't drive and you're some way away.... (and probably have too much taste to say yes x) |
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Cos I never reply to messages probably |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact I won't meet someone ten minutes after they messaged me, just cos they asked politely or directly. Also the fact that I stress socials and conversations that don't involve cock shots. |
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Being open to actual meets with real couples, as opposed to keyboard warrioring and double click- hand on dick. |
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My lack of interest in nsa mostly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos I'm picky
Cos I want a social with no play option
Cos I can't social on 10 mins notice
This,
plus...I don't play with more than two regulars
....only meet single ladies.
....too far away from most on my list....
but when I do ifs always fucking good ! "
Being 100% straight ...not even fab straight.
Blocking those who don't reply.... Saves wasting both our time in future searches. |
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Because I'm
Old
Fat
Ugly
A minger |
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Plenty!
But there's more that persuades them they want to... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We really don't know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We really don't know"
I don't either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably tattoos and I'm a guy |
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