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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm currently talking to who seems to be a very nice guy. His preferences are for Cuckolding. Something I've never even thought about until talking to this guy. I find the whole scenario very interesting so would love to hear from anyone that plays this out, from "bulls" to the cuckoldress and cuckold. |
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I am very interested in whole dating / committed relationship and cuckolding part too .
I need the loyalty and commitment from a guy but still live some parts of my life as a single woman . It sounds selfish but it is possible only in true cuckolding relationship. |
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I've been a bull to more than one couple but perhaps the best experience was being a bull to a couple in Bournemouth for several years. They have since moved but it was an amazingly intense and fulfilling period.
I can honestly say that I watched them grow closer together every single time she and I spent time together (sometimes with him there, sometimes away from him but with a flow of texts and photos driving him spare).
If you're looking for someone to be a bull make certain he's done it before, isn't after a quick shag and understands (this is the most important bit) that he's there for the couple's sake, not just the woman. Took me a long time to realise that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been a bull to more than one couple but perhaps the best experience was being a bull to a couple in Bournemouth for several years. They have since moved but it was an amazingly intense and fulfilling period.
I can honestly say that I watched them grow closer together every single time she and I spent time together (sometimes with him there, sometimes away from him but with a flow of texts and photos driving him spare).
If you're looking for someone to be a bull make certain he's done it before, isn't after a quick shag and understands (this is the most important bit) that he's there for the couple's sake, not just the woman. Took me a long time to realise that."
Thank you. That's very insightful xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont really understand it. Thick i know "
It's very fascinating and I suppose you could argue ultimately about submission. So I do understand that most males would find it really hard to understand it's attraction. I mean how can a man that loves his partner, prepare her and take her to another man. Willingly leave her to have fun or watch if asked. Then leave without joining in. The fun for him starts after that. When I would have to describe in great detail my thoughts and feelings, the pleasure I had with the bull. That's the trigger for a cuckold. It's self denial with a deeply connective and loving love-making ending. That's if I'm understanding this right. Hence my post. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes this is our thing too, hubby isn't a sub though.. I'm married but live a single life too x"
Are you happy to explain how it works for you. Either here or privately? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It means different things to different people and couples will have their own ideas. Best for any particular encounter to check everyone understands how it is intended to work. "
I quite agree which is why I'm asking for other peoples experiences, both good and bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes this is our thing too, hubby isn't a sub though.. I'm married but live a single life too x"
This is almost exactly how it works for us as well. I've had several so called "bulls" message saying we should change our name as this isn't cuckolding but as has been said already its whatever works for you. All we can say is our relationship is stronger than ever, and we are having FUN!!!
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By *oinMan
over a year ago
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"It means different things to different people and couples will have their own ideas. Best for any particular encounter to check everyone understands how it is intended to work. "
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i've only done this NSA so far. i think it's good if the guy is reliable. there's not much point in fucking other guys and getting covered in cum for your cuck if your cuck is gonna let you down.
how it happened for us was the guy noticed i was fucking guys every day and a lot of guys, like more than one a day, and he'd come round after, be waiting for them to leave. and he wanted to fuck me after them.
so no chastity involved at all with us.
he started wanting me to fuck even more guys than i already was doing so it petered out from my end as i don't like being asked to do stuff.
i'd love to find someone reliable again, but wants to join in or at least be present while i'm being fucked. and do it that way. |
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I've been fortunate to play with two Couples where the hubby has been happy for me to have his wife either in front of him or when he couldn't be present and then got full details afterwards.
Exciting for all concerned and no sense that anyone was being taken advantage of |
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I think it only works if you're in a committed reationship or married.
I've been cuckolded a few times, sort of an extention of a threesome for us. Sue knows I find it tremendously erotic and horny to see her with another man and for her this is an added bonus.
Either watching her have sex or if she goes off on her own I can't think of a bigger turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it only works if you're in a committed reationship or married.
I've been cuckolded a few times, sort of an extention of a threesome for us. Sue knows I find it tremendously erotic and horny to see her with another man and for her this is an added bonus.
Either watching her have sex or if she goes off on her own I can't think of a bigger turn on."
Are you able to explain to me why this has the effect it does for you. I see what I would get out of it but don't fully appreciate what the cuck gets. |
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By *anm2009Man
over a year ago
Barrow-in-Furness |
We absolutely agree my gf Gail and I have been in this lifestyle for over two years now I lovecwatching her I don't however need to be humiliated like some cucks the biggest turn on for us is her being "used" just our word by other men and my pleasure indeed our pleasure is me watching that sometimes with more than one man or men involved x |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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Hi.I have met couples in the past who genuinely thought they were into the cuckold scene where as it was mainly the guy who liked to watch.
One couple in particular and this takes time trust and getting to know that all involved enjoy the experience were your typical modern day stereotypes of what a couple into cuckolding is.
Wife enjoying herself with bull(me)whilst cuckold (hubby)was locked in chastity,made to serve drinks denied watching listening etc.also took her out on dates where friends of theirs would be so more humiliation for him.lots of other things went on between us.Hope that's helped a bit. |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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"I think it only works if you're in a committed reationship or married.
I've been cuckolded a few times, sort of an extention of a threesome for us. Sue knows I find it tremendously erotic and horny to see her with another man and for her this is an added bonus.
Either watching her have sex or if she goes off on her own I can't think of a bigger turn on.
Are you able to explain to me why this has the effect it does for you. I see what I would get out of it but don't fully appreciate what the cuck gets. "
pm me if you want to know anything.i have commented just to give you a brief insight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cuckold = to seed another mans wife
thats it plain and simple everything else is a add on's from the fetish scene or watching to much porn cuckolding is the same as hotwife no difference  |
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"Yes this is our thing too, hubby isn't a sub though.. I'm married but live a single life too x
This is almost exactly how it works for us as well. I've had several so called "bulls" message saying we should change our name as this isn't cuckolding but as has been said already its whatever works for you. All we can say is our relationship is stronger than ever, and we are having FUN!!!
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I don't see that submissiveness on behalf of the male is a requirement. It may be the case that the husband DOES want to be belittled and humiliated but there's a sliding scale all the way from caging and chastity to just being interested in what the wife did while with another man.
The key is for everyone concerned to know beforehand exactly what's required.
Then again, that would be a good mantra for ALL swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it only works if you're in a committed reationship or married.
I've been cuckolded a few times, sort of an extention of a threesome for us. Sue knows I find it tremendously erotic and horny to see her with another man and for her this is an added bonus.
Either watching her have sex or if she goes off on her own I can't think of a bigger turn on.
Are you able to explain to me why this has the effect it does for you. I see what I would get out of it but don't fully appreciate what the cuck gets. "
we have done this a few times over the years for us it has to b black guys .Both of us together and red on her own |
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"I think it only works if you're in a committed reationship or married.
I've been cuckolded a few times, sort of an extention of a threesome for us. Sue knows I find it tremendously erotic and horny to see her with another man and for her this is an added bonus.
Either watching her have sex or if she goes off on her own I can't think of a bigger turn on."
This is the only way it would work for me .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes this is our thing too, hubby isn't a sub though.. I'm married but live a single life too x
Are you happy to explain how it works for you. Either here or privately? "
Yes sure.. message me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few experts on this thread already. Basically anyone trying to impose a certain definition don't really know, beware of that advice if I were you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a few experts on this thread already. Basically anyone trying to impose a certain definition don't really know, beware of that advice if I were you "
Thank you. I think I'm getting the measure of cuckolding. It's a sliding scale isn't it? What works for one won't for another. Fundamentals are I suppose working out what works for the couple at the heart of it. |
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"I think it only works if you're in a committed reationship or married.
I've been cuckolded a few times, sort of an extention of a threesome for us. Sue knows I find it tremendously erotic and horny to see her with another man and for her this is an added bonus.
Either watching her have sex or if she goes off on her own I can't think of a bigger turn on.
Are you able to explain to me why this has the effect it does for you. I see what I would get out of it but don't fully appreciate what the cuck gets. pm me if you want to know anything.i have commented just to give you a brief insight."
Sent you a pm. |
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"There's a few experts on this thread already. Basically anyone trying to impose a certain definition don't really know, beware of that advice if I were you
Thank you. I think I'm getting the measure of cuckolding. It's a sliding scale isn't it? What works for one won't for another. Fundamentals are I suppose working out what works for the couple at the heart of it. "
Exactly...
The traditional definition of a cuckold is simply a word for the husband of a wife that has had sex with someone other than him.
Everything else mentioned in this thread is a meaning that has been layered onto the word by some people and which has no agreed definition.
All options are available to all couples according to whatever works for them and their 'bull'. |
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"All options are available to all couples according to whatever works for them and their 'bull'."
Totally agree. I've been lucky enough to have sex with several couples and there is no set behaviour. The sub, voyeur cuckhold you met the first time may have turned into an enthusiastic participant the next time you meet. It keeps it fun... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's a few experts on this thread already. Basically anyone trying to impose a certain definition don't really know, beware of that advice if I were you
Thank you. I think I'm getting the measure of cuckolding. It's a sliding scale isn't it? What works for one won't for another. Fundamentals are I suppose working out what works for the couple at the heart of it.
I do find it all very interesting. However grasping that I cannot pigeon hole the scenario.
Exactly...
The traditional definition of a cuckold is simply a word for the husband of a wife that has had sex with someone other than him.
Everything else mentioned in this thread is a meaning that has been layered onto the word by some people and which has no agreed definition.
All options are available to all couples according to whatever works for them and their 'bull'."
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"There's a few experts on this thread already. Basically anyone trying to impose a certain definition don't really know, beware of that advice if I were you
Thank you. I think I'm getting the measure of cuckolding. It's a sliding scale isn't it? What works for one won't for another. Fundamentals are I suppose working out what works for the couple at the heart of it. "
That's exactly it. Have you discussed it with your friend? Did he say what elements he wants to explore? Happy to chat in private if you'd prefer. J |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There's a few experts on this thread already. Basically anyone trying to impose a certain definition don't really know, beware of that advice if I were you
Thank you. I think I'm getting the measure of cuckolding. It's a sliding scale isn't it? What works for one won't for another. Fundamentals are I suppose working out what works for the couple at the heart of it. That's exactly it. Have you discussed it with your friend? Did he say what elements he wants to explore? Happy to chat in private if you'd prefer. J "
Thank you. If you have any in sight. Good or bad please feel free to message me. |
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I'm seeking a cuckold relationship but most who contact me live in the fantasy, porn version.
I'm not a performing monkey for someone else's kicks. It's all about me getting my rocks off as and when I feel like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a guy who likes to watch his wife, it turns into the most horny sex afterwards. The pre and post event is soooo good. I prefer her to cum home and wake me up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm seeking a cuckold relationship but most who contact me live in the fantasy, porn version.
I'm not a performing monkey for someone else's kicks. It's all about me getting my rocks off as and when I feel like it "
They are the best relationship. Problem is you're both constantly horny even the most inappropriate times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Played with couples into this & its been absolutely fantastic they live out their sexual fantasy, I get to live out my Alpha male caveman fantasy balls deep in wonderful pussy  everyone is a winner |
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As a male, observing your partner - female - fucking other guys can "switch on" something primal in your mind - crazy libido, physically enormous ejaculations, etc. Can't say about "cuckolding" specifically, but group sex in general introduces you to that effect. I have enjoyed having sex with and pleasuring a woman in front of her husband - makes you want to "perform" deliciously for her (and him - you want it to be special for both). |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"There's a few experts on this thread already. Basically anyone trying to impose a certain definition don't really know, beware of that advice if I were you
Thank you. I think I'm getting the measure of cuckolding. It's a sliding scale isn't it? What works for one won't for another. Fundamentals are I suppose working out what works for the couple at the heart of it. That's exactly it. Have you discussed it with your friend? Did he say what elements he wants to explore? Happy to chat in private if you'd prefer. J
Thank you. If you have any in sight. Good or bad please feel free to message me. "
I tried to message you but outside your age range. Message me if you would like to chat a bit more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you have a cheeky wank or a cheeky fiddle, you often fantasie a sex scene or someone. So you can either replace this with the image of your partner fucking a stranger in a hotel or watching them fucking.
To us, it's just an extension to that. |
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"As a guy who likes to watch his wife, it turns into the most horny sex afterwards. The pre and post event is soooo good. I prefer her to cum home and wake me up. "
I absolutely can not sleep when Wifey is out playing. With the adrenaline racing as fast as the imagination sleep just isn't possible. Even when she came home at 4 in the morning I was still wide awake and buzzing with anticipation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done this a few times now....sometimes he watches but other times he gets me ready and sends me off for the night. I phone him and leave the phone on the bedside table so he hears all that goes on and film the meets for him to watch the next day!
We keep pushing our boundaries and going further with it.
We thought it was called hotwifing as no humiliation is included xx |
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We keep pushing our boundaries and going further with it.
We thought it was called hotwifing as no humiliation is included xx"
They do seem to be the two generally accepted terms so as to differentiate between the two areas of play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a guy who likes to watch his wife, it turns into the most horny sex afterwards. The pre and post event is soooo good. I prefer her to cum home and wake me up.
I absolutely can not sleep when Wifey is out playing. With the adrenaline racing as fast as the imagination sleep just isn't possible. Even when she came home at 4 in the morning I was still wide awake and buzzing with anticipation "
Me too, I'll often drop off then wake up super horny. She has woken me up before getting undressed next to me, then she went to sit on my face and said "look what I've brought home" her pussy was dripping. |
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""Me too, I'll often drop off then wake up super horny. She has woken me up before getting undressed next to me, then she went to sit on my face and said "look what I've brought home" her pussy was dripping. ""
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We've been a cuckold couple for most of our married life. We've never regretted it for a moment. I firmly believe it makes a great deal of sense for a great many couples provided the marriage is strong. Several have commented that it takes different forms for different people, which is surely true, although I'd add that the cuckold couple may themselves be on a journey, and a bull may meet them at different stages- and maybe take them further!
I'm certain that this lifestyle is only going to grow more common as it becomes recognised more widely, and husbands summon up the courage to share their fantasies with their wives. |
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By *ayla.aCouple
over a year ago
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We are a cuckold couple my husband has never slept with another women and stayed loving and loyal to me, whilst I get to sleep with whoever I want as long as I tell him about it or he gets to watch, we meet very young and have been married for 20 years now so we are in a secure and loving marriage, works for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fabulous thead - some gorgeous hotwives and couples that I've added to my hotlist! "
It's fascinating...... and not bad experiences. Only warnings of what to look out for. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So has your friend mentioned what elements of cuckolding he likes or how far he would like it to go? "
Only really touched the surface. I've firstly been gleaming as much information. Knowledge and other people's experiences are really appreciated. I full understand the role of a cuck. I fully understand my part to play. At the moment we've touched on the preparation, finding the right bull, the need to discuss inadequacy and humiliation. Faithfulness to my only. I'm sure there's lots more talking to do too xx |
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"So has your friend mentioned what elements of cuckolding he likes or how far he would like it to go?
Only really touched the surface. I've firstly been gleaming as much information. Knowledge and other people's experiences are really appreciated. I full understand the role of a cuck. I fully understand my part to play. At the moment we've touched on the preparation, finding the right bull, the need to discuss inadequacy and humiliation. Faithfulness to my only. I'm sure there's lots more talking to do too xx"
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
Sevenoaks |
"So has your friend mentioned what elements of cuckolding he likes or how far he would like it to go?
Only really touched the surface. I've firstly been gleaming as much information. Knowledge and other people's experiences are really appreciated. I full understand the role of a cuck. I fully understand my part to play. At the moment we've touched on the preparation, finding the right bull, the need to discuss inadequacy and humiliation. Faithfulness to my only. I'm sure there's lots more talking to do too xx"
I'm very much a cuck, if I could find a friend to cuck me!! But its less about humiliation for me, than seeing her derive pleasure. I need a woman that wants to see other guys and totally on her terms, when she wants regardless of my presence or not. She expects me to be loyal and we agree this from the outset.. The absolute pleasure for me is knowing and hearing about her pleasures and freedom..
I obviously want to get my lady friend to myself as well sometimes but even that should be on her terms
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been with a "hot wife" couple before that was fun.
Been "bull" to 2 cuck couples and both time i found the male half very weird nothing overt just something off putting about them.
Made things a bit awkward tbh |
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We have been on the scene for over 10 years now and we've never been stronger. We continue to push boundaries and now find we are at the more extreme end of the cuckold spectrum.
It works very well for us but as the scene seems to be evolving and a lot more people seem to be trying their hand at cuckolding it's becoming increasingly harder to find genuine bulls. It's almost as if it's the new fad and you get messages like 'I'll fuck you hard while you husband watches' or 'I'm a bull, I'll fuck you'.
We have now turned our attention to other couples & ladies who enjoy assisting me in dominating and humiliating my cuck.
I rarely meet guys anymore unless they are well verified or actually read my profile and verifications and understand what I'm looking for. I can't be arsed meeting novices. :- |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"We have been on the scene for over 10 years now and we've never been stronger. We continue to push boundaries and now find we are at the more extreme end of the cuckold spectrum.
It works very well for us but as the scene seems to be evolving and a lot more people seem to be trying their hand at cuckolding it's becoming increasingly harder to find genuine bulls. It's almost as if it's the new fad and you get messages like 'I'll fuck you hard while you husband watches' or 'I'm a bull, I'll fuck you'.
We have now turned our attention to other couples & ladies who enjoy assisting me in dominating and humiliating my cuck.
I rarely meet guys anymore unless they are well verified or actually read my profile and verifications and understand what I'm looking for. I can't be arsed meeting novices. :-"
Do you or your cuck miss the dynamic you get from a bull or do you find meeting couples gives you the same thing? |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"So has your friend mentioned what elements of cuckolding he likes or how far he would like it to go?
Only really touched the surface. I've firstly been gleaming as much information. Knowledge and other people's experiences are really appreciated. I full understand the role of a cuck. I fully understand my part to play. At the moment we've touched on the preparation, finding the right bull, the need to discuss inadequacy and humiliation. Faithfulness to my only. I'm sure there's lots more talking to do too xx"
Sounds like a good plan. So him being sub and having some humiliation is something you both like or more so him? It can be hard to find that balance where you both want it. But it should be fun trying! |
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"We have been on the scene for over 10 years now and we've never been stronger. We continue to push boundaries and now find we are at the more extreme end of the cuckold spectrum.
It works very well for us but as the scene seems to be evolving and a lot more people seem to be trying their hand at cuckolding it's becoming increasingly harder to find genuine bulls. It's almost as if it's the new fad and you get messages like 'I'll fuck you hard while you husband watches' or 'I'm a bull, I'll fuck you'.
We have now turned our attention to other couples & ladies who enjoy assisting me in dominating and humiliating my cuck.
I rarely meet guys anymore unless they are well verified or actually read my profile and verifications and understand what I'm looking for. I can't be arsed meeting novices. :- Do you or your cuck miss the dynamic you get from a bull or do you find meeting couples gives you the same thing?"
Not really. The couples we are meeting at the moment seem to understand what we're looking for better than the so called Bulls. We are content. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"We have been on the scene for over 10 years now and we've never been stronger. We continue to push boundaries and now find we are at the more extreme end of the cuckold spectrum.
It works very well for us but as the scene seems to be evolving and a lot more people seem to be trying their hand at cuckolding it's becoming increasingly harder to find genuine bulls. It's almost as if it's the new fad and you get messages like 'I'll fuck you hard while you husband watches' or 'I'm a bull, I'll fuck you'.
We have now turned our attention to other couples & ladies who enjoy assisting me in dominating and humiliating my cuck.
I rarely meet guys anymore unless they are well verified or actually read my profile and verifications and understand what I'm looking for. I can't be arsed meeting novices. :- Do you or your cuck miss the dynamic you get from a bull or do you find meeting couples gives you the same thing?
Not really. The couples we are meeting at the moment seem to understand what we're looking for better than the so called Bulls. We are content. "
Excellent. That's what it's all about. |
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This is a very interesting thread and some wonderful comments and opinions. For me and it's only my humble opinion if my significant other chooses to play with others that is the critical element, it's her choice. When I was younger I was a terrible libertine and it's only as I have matured that I realise it was the thrill of the chase that turned me on. As soon as I got what my heart desired I lost interest. However now I realise that having a woman, who has the confidence to say, 'hey actually I want my cake and to be able to eat it' is what I desire. I think whatever you label it as it has to be driven by the woman for it to appeal to me as a cuck, partner etc. But the key is her infidelity is what draws us closer, the reconnect after she has been away, is key. Let's be honest the moment a woman says, I don't want you for the next few days as I am meeting my lover is only going to make you want her! As such she feels, desirable, wanted, lusted after by both her partner and the lover! |
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OK so I'm a guy who does enjoy being used as a cuckold/service helper haha. I recently split from my misses for cheating on me, but if I'm being honest the idea of it literally turns me on to the ridiculous level, but also leaves me with an incredible feeling of confusion and uncertainty. I have been realising as time has gone on that actually I really like the woman being banged while I'm either tied up in the next room, ready for her to come in and sit on my face and tell me how big he was and what he did to her. I'm discovering now this actually is a thing people do and I'm very willing to jump in and explore it. my question is where would one find a cuckoldress? Thanks for any help on this in advance |
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"OK so I'm a guy who does enjoy being used as a cuckold/service helper haha. I recently split from my misses for cheating on me "
You split from your wife for cheating on you, but think you're a cuckold? That does sound confused... |
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"I've been a bull to more than one couple but perhaps the best experience was being a bull to a couple in Bournemouth for several years. They have since moved but it was an amazingly intense and fulfilling period.
I can honestly say that I watched them grow closer together every single time she and I spent time together (sometimes with him there, sometimes away from him but with a flow of texts and photos driving him spare).
If you're looking for someone to be a bull make certain he's done it before, isn't after a quick shag and understands (this is the most important bit) that he's there for the couple's sake, not just the woman. Took me a long time to realise that."
Absolutely fantastic post, I've been involved with cuck couples long-term, some of them wanted interaction between me and the husband, some wanted me to be a living vibrator... Point is is takes all sorts, understand the couple that have invited you into their lives, appreciate what they're after from the experience and make suggestions regarding their lifestyle.
Don't assume you know what people want without talking, and don't assume they've been utterly open about their desires.
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Fascinating thread on a subject important to me!
First thing I would say is that there are as many versions of cuckoldry as there are cuck couples - and whatever is right for them is right, full stop.
I had a long term relationship with a couple where all 3 of us just "suited" - he and I both straight and we all had a really fantastic time.
Cuckoldry is a wife-centric activity - the cuck husband is generous enough to want her satisfied in ways he cannot, the wifelover (not so keen on the term "bull") is an enabler, his job is to keep both halves of the couple happy. His role is to SERVE their needs - even if they want dom stuff!
What is in it for the cuck - well, I have thought about this quite a lot... I think that the cuck experiences an amazing rush of conflicting emotions - jealousy, anger, humiliation at the same time as arousal/lust, love for his wife, pleasure - all at the same time. This conflict leads to an incredible intensity of emotion - and that is the thing that hooks him into it... Just my opinion.
I must admit I found that having hubby watch makes the whole thing so much naughtier, so taboo that I find it wonderful.
If you are interested there is a specialist site I will refer you to but probably best not flag other sites here
Good luck, have fun - stay away from the guys who think it's all about shagging the mrs - it's so, so much more |
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"Fascinating thread on a subject important to me!
First thing I would say is that there are as many versions of cuckoldry as there are cuck couples - and whatever is right for them is right, full stop.
I had a long term relationship with a couple where all 3 of us just "suited" - he and I both straight and we all had a really fantastic time.
Thank you. That's so informative. Please private message me with the website. Xx
Cuckoldry is a wife-centric activity - the cuck husband is generous enough to want her satisfied in ways he cannot, the wifelover (not so keen on the term "bull") is an enabler, his job is to keep both halves of the couple happy. His role is to SERVE their needs - even if they want dom stuff!
What is in it for the cuck - well, I have thought about this quite a lot... I think that the cuck experiences an amazing rush of conflicting emotions - jealousy, anger, humiliation at the same time as arousal/lust, love for his wife, pleasure - all at the same time. This conflict leads to an incredible intensity of emotion - and that is the thing that hooks him into it... Just my opinion.
I must admit I found that having hubby watch makes the whole thing so much naughtier, so taboo that I find it wonderful.
If you are interested there is a specialist site I will refer you to but probably best not flag other sites here
Good luck, have fun - stay away from the guys who think it's all about shagging the mrs - it's so, so much more "
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I love cuckolding and it's definitely interesting. I just wish it was easier to find a cuckoldress as it seems near on impossible. My last relationship was cuckold which was great, but trying to find it again is proving to be rather difficult  |
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Hi,
Have been bull to several couples over the years. Some shorter term for varying reasons.
Several lasted multi year.
To work there has to be spark, interest, honesty, respect all round.
It has to work not just in the bedroom, but socially as well. |
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