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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I go thru fits and starts with the lifestyle. I find there's a few things that appeal to me.
Mainly as a single female I think it's the safer option to meet people. Especially by making meets in public and at clubs.
However after a recent life event I realised it's the escapism I find comforting. By meeting someone either socially, sexually or whatever the effort involved voids the emotions I don't want to feel. Of course they don't just disappear but they slide down the hill rather than random falling if you get my meaning.
Plus a good meet where your both, clean, efforts made and that first smile you pass holds that endorphin you get from exercise or great sex.
What are your thoughts. I don't suppose it really is a question. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i just like a lot of sex, mainly.
when i split with my ex, of course not having to deal with feelings was perfect, especially as i have avoidant issues already.
i did spend plenty of 2016 working on myself, and understanding myself more.
i'm becoming the person i was before that ex fucked my head right up, and i'm finding this a lot less appealing and looking to meet men elsewhere who are looking for something more substantial than the BS they feed me on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I go thru fits and starts with the lifestyle. I find there's a few things that appeal to me.
Mainly as a single female I think it's the safer option to meet people. Especially by making meets in public and at clubs.
However after a recent life event I realised it's the escapism I find comforting. By meeting someone either socially, sexually or whatever the effort involved voids the emotions I don't want to feel. Of course they don't just disappear but they slide down the hill rather than random falling if you get my meaning.
Plus a good meet where your both, clean, efforts made and that first smile you pass holds that endorphin you get from exercise or great sex.
What are your thoughts. I don't suppose it really is a question. "
I get this. At this stage in my life I'd rather avoid emotional attachments and everything that goes with them. I'm not saying that might not change in the future, but I have kids and an ex wife. The kids are my main focus in life, and the ex probably kept part of my soul in the settlement  |
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