Popeye is home alone this weekend - absolutely no intention of swinging - we only swap as a couple
However, we keep finding couples profiles that say the bloke is free to swing alone or that he's on his own this weekend and looking for fun.
We reckon these are mostly single blokes, pretending to be couples - what do you think? |
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Swinging as a couple works for you both, some couples have a more, for want of a better word, "flexible" approach.
I daresay some of these "couples" profile will be single men, however, some will be genuine couples who do swing separately, doesn't mean they should all be viewed with suspicion! |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
We only swap as a couple too. We've met fems with their (subby) hubbys that play away and then come home and tell hubby the details much to hubby's delight but don't think its necessarily a sign of anything untoward, although at an initial get to know meet we would flag up concerns if only one partner of the couple showed up with excuses on behalf of the other
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By *zzy45Woman
over a year ago
a village near the suffolk/essex border |
"Popeye is home alone this weekend - absolutely no intention of swinging - we only swap as a couple
However, we keep finding couples profiles that say the bloke is free to swing alone or that he's on his own this weekend and looking for fun.
We reckon these are mostly single blokes, pretending to be couples - what do you think? "
I seem to get a lot of messages from the guy in a couple saying their wife/ partner are away for the weekend and would I like to play with them.
I always say as long as your other half is happy to confirm this by phone.
Amazing how quiet they go.....lol
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"Popeye is home alone this weekend - absolutely no intention of swinging - we only swap as a couple
However, we keep finding couples profiles that say the bloke is free to swing alone or that he's on his own this weekend and looking for fun.
We reckon these are mostly single blokes, pretending to be couples - what do you think?
I seem to get a lot of messages from the guy in a couple saying their wife/ partner are away for the weekend and would I like to play with them.
I always say as long as your other half is happy to confirm this by phone.
Amazing how quiet they go.....lol
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We often get that response when we ask to see pix of "him". Why is it that so many very sexy ladies, have guys who are so different. |
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"Popeye is home alone this weekend - absolutely no intention of swinging - we only swap as a couple
However, we keep finding couples profiles that say the bloke is free to swing alone or that he's on his own this weekend and looking for fun.
We reckon these are mostly single blokes, pretending to be couples - what do you think?
I seem to get a lot of messages from the guy in a couple saying their wife/ partner are away for the weekend and would I like to play with them.
I always say as long as your other half is happy to confirm this by phone.
Amazing how quiet they go.....lol
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We often get that response when we ask to see pix of "him". Why is it that so many very sexy ladies, have guys who are so different."
Women just take care of themselves more.... generally.
Mistress x |
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I have to agree about the pics of "him", it frustrates me to see more than 90% pics on here of her only. And I'm a guy! But I want to know what he is like as I want to make sure there is someone who my partner will like!
James XX |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"I have to agree about the pics of "him", it frustrates me to see more than 90% pics on here of her only. And I'm a guy! But I want to know what he is like as I want to make sure there is someone who my partner will like!
James XX"
my sentiments exactly
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"Popeye is home alone this weekend - absolutely no intention of swinging - we only swap as a couple
However, we keep finding couples profiles that say the bloke is free to swing alone or that he's on his own this weekend and looking for fun.
We reckon these are mostly single blokes, pretending to be couples - what do you think? "
That many couples do swing seperatly, if u think they are lying ask to speak to the wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Popeye is home alone this weekend - absolutely no intention of swinging - we only swap as a couple
However, we keep finding couples profiles that say the bloke is free to swing alone or that he's on his own this weekend and looking for fun.
We reckon these are mostly single blokes, pretending to be couples - what do you think? "
If you are intending on meeting them then contact them with a view to speak to both parties. If you have no intention of meeting or making friends then you should leave well alone and not try and psychoanalyse their profile. If you are unsure as to their legality as a couple then report them and move on. |
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If you are intending on meeting them then contact them with a view to speak to both parties. If you have no intention of meeting or making friends then you should leave well alone and not try and psychoanalyse their profile. If you are unsure as to their legality as a couple then report them and move on. "
This is a chatty fun forum to discuss anything related to swinging or the site.
Chill man |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Swinging as a couple works for you both, some couples have a more, for want of a better word, "flexible" approach.
I daresay some of these "couples" profile will be single men, however, some will be genuine couples who do swing separately, doesn't mean they should all be viewed with suspicion! "
Agrees
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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This is a chatty fun forum to discuss anything related to swinging or the site.
Chill man "
His post is near enough how I would have said it and although I can't speak for him, I wouldn't have been riled when posting it.
I would have just been answering your first question/post. |
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We tend to play as a couple only in clubs. I play solo outside of that - including with other married men who are part of couple profiles - and I have met the wife, so I know it's all 'legit'
IN response to someone else, I wouldn't say my hubby is 'subby' because I play solo and come home and tell him about it either. We treat it as a form of foreplay, I guess, to the main event when I get home - solo play has never -and will never - better what we have.
There are so many permutations in this lifestyle. No-one will understand or 'get' them all. However, if it works for people then fair enough - I try not to be judgemental if no-one is getting harmed in any way. |
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"try not to be judgemental if no-one is getting harmed in any way"
Good line!!
and try to be more openminded and accept that there will always be others more broadminded..
so we need to be Non-judgemental, Openminded and Broadminded...
we are such a bunch of NOB's!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my swinging relationships we have always had the option to swing separately
But i doesn't suit some
Personal choice at the end of the day and what feels comfortable for both xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does it really matter if your not going to meet them?
More than half of the 'single women' profiles I've seen are actually married women. No one seems to care about that as much.
Some people are going to bend rules in anything when it comes to promoting themselves, some more dishonest than others. You just have to do your 'due dilligence' and decide whether their story suits you or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There definitely will be single blokes pretending to be couples, there will be couples who still want to play behind their partners back without their knowledge, and there are couples who play separately with their partners consent. There really are all sorts and you just have to play with those you yourself are happy with.
If a guy messages and his partner is suddenly too ill to play or can't make it but he can, if you are happy then meet him. If you feel he's spinning the partner a line and feel uncomfortable then don't. If I knew a couple were on here but played separately then I'd probably want to check with their partner that all was ok but I'd play if I accepted the scenario |
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AS i the male often work away from home i am able to meet cpls. Firstly i would expect them to ring my other half for confirmation she knows whats going on. As for men pretending to be a cpl look at the verifactions LOL I think we have enough to let people know what we are lol Happy swinging xxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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