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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more you think about it, the worse it will become in your head.
Don't think, just go ahead and do it.
I'm sure you will be fine OP   "
What she said! |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Don't think just do it.
Walk in go to the bar get a drink and take in the scene. Act as if you belong there and then approach couples to talk to if nobody approaches you first.
What is the worst that can happen they will say a few words to you and move on but you might just hit the jackpot and either way you will have a great night. |
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Us too, we really want to go to a club or party but worry about just waking in, so many people seem to know eachother and we may be just left there not knowing what to do hubby says let's just go for it, but I'm very low in confidence and courage and the amount of Dutch courage I would need I'd be banned from going in for being d*unk lol |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"Us too, we really want to go to a club or party but worry about just waking in, so many people seem to know eachother and we may be just left there not knowing what to do hubby says let's just go for it, but I'm very low in confidence and courage and the amount of Dutch courage I would need I'd be banned from going in for being d*unk lol"
We have been to many clubs now and trust us it is easier when you are part of a couple. Think of it was a night out on the town together if nobody talks to you then you have each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever."
if I was near I'd definitely accompany you .. as I was hoping to go tonight but got cancelled. and like you I can't just go on my own |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't think just do it.
Walk in go to the bar get a drink and take in the scene. Act as if you belong there and then approach couples to talk to if nobody approaches you first.
What is the worst that can happen they will say a few words to you and move on but you might just hit the jackpot and either way you will have a great night."
Or I could be sat alone all night  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.
what advice would you give someone in your situation?"
It easier giving advice than taking your own. |
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.
what advice would you give someone in your situation?
It easier giving advice than taking your own."
ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.
what advice would you give someone in your situation?
It easier giving advice than taking your own.
ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude "
I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different. |
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.
what advice would you give someone in your situation?
It easier giving advice than taking your own.
ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude
I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different."
Your comment above about being sat alone all night is negative.
I hope you enjoy your evening, I'm pretty confident you wont be alone all evening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.
what advice would you give someone in your situation?
It easier giving advice than taking your own.
ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude
I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different.
Your comment above about being sat alone all night is negative.
I hope you enjoy your evening, I'm pretty confident you wont be alone all evening. "
It's not negative. It's realistic. I've seen it happen to others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.. A ct like a school teacher,your mainly be amongst kids"
Age wise or behaviour? |
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.
what advice would you give someone in your situation?
It easier giving advice than taking your own.
ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude
I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different.
Your comment above about being sat alone all night is negative.
I hope you enjoy your evening, I'm pretty confident you wont be alone all evening.
It's not negative. It's realistic. I've seen it happen to others."
ok.
Enjoy yourself anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I want to go to Quesr but I'm bottling it. It's the while scenario of waking in a room and not knowing anyone whatsoever.
what advice would you give someone in your situation?
It easier giving advice than taking your own.
ok. Well. I've seen you wax lyrical about a positive attitude
I have a totally positive attitude. Nerves are different.
Your comment above about being sat alone all night is negative.
I hope you enjoy your evening, I'm pretty confident you wont be alone all evening.
It's not negative. It's realistic. I've seen it happen to others.
ok.
Enjoy yourself anyway."
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