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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey ladies
Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?"
most of our playtimes with guys i dont even get a name... and prefer one offs with guys |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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When we are looking for a single male, it's not looking for Mr Right (I've found him) it's looking for Mr Right now, with a very specific task in mind, no matter how good you are once it's done, you are gone, that's the nature of our game.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey ladies
Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?
Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex
Mrs
Oh really?  "
Yes really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey ladies
Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?
Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex
Mrs
Oh really?
Yes really "
Brizzles not that far... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously different ways work for different people, in truth I (hot wife) never stick to a certain way in that I have " not even known his name" done the social before fun, and been in a fwb relationship and found ALL a turn on in their own ways.
It is all about fun after all and happy swinging to you all xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spontaneous and no messing about, straight to sex, always works best for me.
I have to be in the mood, and if I am then I want it and I want it now! So if I dcide to meet then I've already decided that I'm ready for sex, unless something drastic goes wrong...
I've tried the "social first" thing and it bores me - I've never had a social develop into a second meet - even with people that I really like and get on with. If I've met you for a social then we've probably become friends, and I don't want casual sex with my friends...!
But I also quickly loose interest in anyone who keeps messaging, especially the ones who ask if I'm free to do something spontaneous in three weeks time, on Thursday afternoon...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey ladies
Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?
Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex
Mrs
Oh really?
Yes really
Brizzles not that far..."
We are actually about 10 miles southwest so might be closer than you think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey ladies
Wondering how many like spontaneous meets with sex first meet or not ?
Most of our meets are one offs and straight to sex
Mrs
Oh really?
Yes really
Brizzles not that far...
We are actually about 10 miles southwest so might be closer than you think "
Sound better and better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a social first. I got fed up of getting "meet ready" only to find that I didn't click with the guy. Or having a spontaneous meet with someone who turned out to be a dickhead.
Now for time and safety reasons I do lots of vetting and prefer regular guys. Parties are my outlet for spontaneous/anonymous action. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have tried both (social and spontaneous) I prefer a social first because the spontaneous felt a little awkward (not that I wouldn't do it again though haha) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy clubs so yes! !...by the time I'm up for meeting guys on here we're pretty sure we've got a click going on so sex on the first meeting is very likely but not expected |
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By *ansterCouple
over a year ago
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Prefer the meet prior to a sexual encounter! Then when it comes to the sex, it is more suited to either the level of fantasy or role play! Or the meet is more meaningful because of chemistry and taste...
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It's not usually an instant meet now meet - I'm generally busy and slow. Too quick and I find it reduces the potential for getting a high level of compatibility. But I like both quicker to shag as well as slower paced thoroughness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually chat for quite a while before I meet so by that point, yes, I'm pretty damn certain theres going to be sex Hopefully the "cant wait to rip your bloody clothes off" Kind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"rarely now. built up a nice collection of men over the years.  "
You're my hero,I swear.
What do people class as a social? I know straightaway when I meet someone in person if I want anything to happen. Normally chat happens before that cus I don't like to presume and often can't tell whether the guy feels the same way. If the guy indicates he does, I'm all over that. But I'll chat as long as it takes to happen (has been 10 minutes, has been 2 hours). |
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