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The Deep Slam or Pounding the cervix
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Here is the thing. Normally I avoid deep penetration. Often getting really deep can be extremely painful from what I have seen and it usually stops all the fun.
I recently met a girl however that got on top and from all the apparent signals she loved making her kidneys bounce.
Are there more like her here and is my methodology completely wrong, or is this a one off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here is the thing. Normally I avoid deep penetration. Often getting really deep can be extremely painful from what I have seen and it usually stops all the fun.
I recently met a girl however that got on top and from all the apparent signals she loved making her kidneys bounce.
Are there more like her here and is my methodology completely wrong, or is this a one off?"
I love it deep providing it's not done straight away...doesn't take long till I'm asking for it deeper and harder though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So literally nobody here gets hurt from it?  "
It depends on the angle, with hubby it can hurt as he has quite a curve. Fwb who is bigger but straighter can pound away and I love it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely love getting a long deep penetration - I love riding cock, getting on top and letting myself sink slowly onto it. I've got a 10 inch dildo I use a lot and I've used longer too, so I guess I'm used to it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you clatter my cervix you may as well just pull out and put the kettle on because I lose all enthusiasm, love to be stretched but that kind of pain is like a toothache  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you clatter my cervix you may as well just pull out and put the kettle on because I lose all enthusiasm, love to be stretched but that kind of pain is like a toothache "
So for you it feels like a bruise? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From a guys point of view, I find the pounding makes me lose any sensation which has its pros and cons.
Pro is I can then go and go
Con is self explanatory (and for those that didn't get it) I've lost the sensation so it doesn't feel like much of anything. |
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"So literally nobody here gets hurt from it? "
Oh it can bloody hurt if you aren't turned on enough. A womans vagina can lengthen a by about 1/2 to 1 inch when aroused, so pounding away at the start isn't a great idea, give her time to warm up a bit first. |
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"If you clatter my cervix you may as well just pull out and put the kettle on because I lose all enthusiasm, love to be stretched but that kind of pain is like a toothache
So for you it feels like a bruise?"
Yeah I surpose a bruise, it is a deep ache which can be there for a few hours before gradually wearing off. Plus you can make the cervix bleed as it only has a couple of very thin layers of skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone is different!
I don't like being relentlessly pounded as 1. It's what I consider to be a boring fuck & 2. it hurts my cervix & can make it bleed, not a pleasant experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is the thing. Normally I avoid deep penetration. Often getting really deep can be extremely painful from what I have seen and it usually stops all the fun.
I recently met a girl however that got on top and from all the apparent signals she loved making her kidneys bounce.
Are there more like her here and is my methodology completely wrong, or is this a one off?"
Seems like your Showing off fella X
It's V important
Though on a first meet
One size may fit all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone is different!
I don't like being relentlessly pounded as 1. It's what I consider to be a boring fuck & 2. it hurts my cervix & can make it bleed, not a pleasant experience."
Us too Mylady X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's all about context.
If you ram it straight in somewhere between help and may I take your coat, it's not going to feel good.
With plenty of foreplay, a build up of intimacy, slowly teasing it in, inch by inch, it's going to feel amazing.
And getting the angle just so.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It hurts. And makes me bleed, crampy and achy afterwards. I don't want to feel like that.
But there will sometimes be a need for MORE! the breathless... "now! Harder! Deeper!" comes.from.a place of deep desire, a primal urge to be taken. And then it takes something special to satisfy that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you clatter my cervix you may as well just pull out and put the kettle on because I lose all enthusiasm, love to be stretched but that kind of pain is like a toothache
So for you it feels like a bruise?"
More than just a bruised feeling, it can leave me with a dull niggling ache in my lower back for a couple of days, kind of like when you're getting a kidney infection. Not pleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I first met on of my exs she loved it and it would make her squirt without fail (she'd normally jump on top). After a while she hated it and I had to be very cautious.
I really don't think there is one rule. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you clatter my cervix you may as well just pull out and put the kettle on because I lose all enthusiasm, love to be stretched but that kind of pain is like a toothache
So for you it feels like a bruise?
More than just a bruised feeling, it can leave me with a dull niggling ache in my lower back for a couple of days, kind of like when you're getting a kidney infection. Not pleasant."
Exactly this |
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"Here is the thing. Normally I avoid deep penetration. Often getting really deep can be extremely painful from what I have seen and it usually stops all the fun.
I recently met a girl however that got on top and from all the apparent signals she loved making her kidneys bounce.
Are there more like her here and is my methodology completely wrong, or is this a one off?
I love it deep providing it's not done straight away...doesn't take long till I'm asking for it deeper and harder though "
Same here! As long as the guy doesn't start pounding straight away I LOVE hard, deep sex!
A tip for other ladies who love this but sometimes encounter period-type pain due to the pressure on the cervix - a couple of ibuprofen a few minutes before (if you know he's a big boy) works in the same way as it does for period pain! Certainly helps me anyway and let's me get on with loving the hard sex!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As stated earlier...as we become aroused we relax...it is a tube after all. How deep we are inside varies as much as Cocks do so...funnily enough...it will vary. A pounded cervix can be mildly exciting but underneath that is a definite fuck off that's hurting and I'm turned off now, thanks a bunch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a tilted cervix, so someone just banging away at me in certain positions is going to hurt!
If done properly, when properly aroused, I like it deep. Deep and slow is often better for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is the thing. Normally I avoid deep penetration. Often getting really deep can be extremely painful from what I have seen and it usually stops all the fun.
I recently met a girl however that got on top and from all the apparent signals she loved making her kidneys bounce.
Are there more like her here and is my methodology completely wrong, or is this a one off?
I love it deep providing it's not done straight away...doesn't take long till I'm asking for it deeper and harder though "
Me too but sometimes it makes the guy get too excited as well. Lol. Dreamcatcher Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I experience this pain quite often and even though I now don't have a cervix after a hysterectomy, I still experience pain if somebody goes too deep too quickly. In my opinion, if a woman is experiencing pain then it's because the partner has not taken time to make sure she is thoroughly turned on. I don't just mean a little wet, I mean she has been turned on enough for her to internally soften and relax. Many men think a bit of oral and she's wet enough for entry and that's good enough, it's not. When i'm really turned on though I can take a pounding and just want more and more! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always found it's easier to let the lady decide how deep and when ,rather than just ran it home and watch her hit the ceiling ....a lady knows what she can and can't take just follow her lead |
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"So literally nobody here gets hurt from it? "
I like deep penetration but it can hurt and occasionally makes me bleed a little which can be off-putting for the guy, even if it doesn't cause me any pain. For me it's a case of deep and slow so I can adjust. Also, going slowly makes rubbing my g spot more likely so it really is win-win |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love building up to deep and hard, but if a guy uses his cock as a battering ram he can hop off. I prefer to keep my cervix intact - pain and bleeding afterwards is not pleasant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I Like building up to it, not just starting off by going deep and hard or that hurts but I do really enjoy it with the right guy, my current partner is really good and he's quite big but I love a good hard cervix hitting session with him. I don't enjoy pain though so for me it's definitely not that that I enjoy but I don't find it painful if it's not done straight away  |
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"I like it, but then I like pain
That is one of the things I was wondering, do people that like it, just like pain?"
It takes all sorts, before you know it they may very well be demanding you spit in their face and call them a dirty cunt.  |
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Since my hysterectomy there is a limit I can take before it hurts too much
When it was all down there I could take it really deep when riding and it felt so good it would make me have vaginal orgasms......now sadly only clit ones happen!!
But no risk of Cervical Cancer or periods!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me it depends on the position. if I'm on top fantastic the deeper the better, if we're in doggy then if it's to deep it's not nice at all."
That is another thing I have noticed, there is sometimes a hurting position and a non-hurting position where everything wraps so nicely around the penis. It may be due to how the internal curve women have matches the penis curve. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love it but it can hurt if it hits a certain spot..usually if I’ve got my legs over the guys shoulders when he’s on top..it hits my coil!!
But if it’s doggy I just love a guy grabbing my waist really hard and pounding as hard as he can...I don’t even care if it hurts..makes we wild! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it but it can hurt if it hits a certain spot..usually if I’ve got my legs over the guys shoulders when he’s on top..it hits my coil!!
But if it’s doggy I just love a guy grabbing my waist really hard and pounding as hard as he can...I don’t even care if it hurts..makes we wild!"
All about the angle. Most seem to like doggy for penetration but I have found some find it uncomfortable but other positions ok, tilted cervix and all.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's not deep, I'll assume it's broken"
Haha, in all fairness, an asshole has more space than a moo, or so it would seem using an abundance of anal toy porn as evidence, in which the toys are bigger than anything you'll see put in any girls foof
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"For me it depends on the position. if I'm on top fantastic the deeper the better, if we're in doggy then if it's to deep it's not nice at all.
That is another thing I have noticed, there is sometimes a hurting position and a non-hurting position where everything wraps so nicely around the penis. It may be due to how the internal curve women have matches the penis curve. "
I agree with this theory, it's why I'd avoid a man with a penis that curves downwards, been there been sore! |
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Deep penetration for me has to be built up to. I adore a large penis, but need to take it slow at first to allow my body to adjust. Once I am there though , let the fun begin!
That is not to say that I will want to be treated like you have as battering ram, I like my men with some refinement;-) |
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Depends on both the male and the female.
Asking others if it's enjoyable for them means nothing.
If a female says it hurts it hurts.
It may NOT hurt if she does it with another male.
Every lock doesn't fit every key.
Find someone that likes it if that's what you are after. |
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"So literally nobody here gets hurt from it? "
If the chap is over 8" then a deep pounding can and has made me bleed. This happened in a club. He was a big chap, I warned him, he went deep, I blead and had to leave. P'd off as he was the first of the night and only just paid £30 to get in.
I won't take any over 8" now. I do like balls deep, but not a cervix bashing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve been known to crash into a few cervix”s in my time and the saying seems to similar....Fuck me that’s deep!!! Ouch! Want me to stop?? Fuck noooooo!!! I’m gonna cummmmmm!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So literally nobody here gets hurt from it?
If the chap is over 8" then a deep pounding can and has made me bleed. This happened in a club. He was a big chap, I warned him, he went deep, I blead and had to leave. P'd off as he was the first of the night and only just paid £30 to get in.
I won't take any over 8" now. I do like balls deep, but not a cervix bashing. "
did you ask for the £30 back off him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love love love it and the pain is a satisfying pain but again it can and has on many occasions made my cervix bleed with anyone bigger than 7" I apparently have a small vagina
Miss s x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love love love it and the pain is a satisfying pain but again it can and has on many occasions made my cervix bleed with anyone bigger than 7" I apparently have a small vagina
Miss s x let’s see the pictures if not it it’s not real "
Haha those pics are private 
Miss s x |
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"I love love love it and the pain is a satisfying pain but again it can and has on many occasions made my cervix bleed with anyone bigger than 7" I apparently have a small vagina
Miss s x let’s see the pictures if not it it’s not real
Haha those pics are private
Miss s x"
well can I have a pass miss a as a early Xmas gift? |
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My advice is do it slowly and gently and work the lady towards a cervical orgasm. It can get very emotional for her and is a longer lasting complete orgasm. I’ve had two partners where we’ve achieved this, it takes time and trust to get there, but worth it for both of you. |
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"So literally nobody here gets hurt from it?
It depends on the angle, with hubby it can hurt as he has quite a curve. Fwb who is bigger but straighter can pound away and I love it xx"
I'm the opposite. My be has a curve and love it hard. But if the cock is dead straight it hurts . |
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And pain afterwards x