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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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the site is growing at a fast rate but all we see is more single guys would any one else but us like a room for just varifide couples let us know thor thoughts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes i think thats a good idea ,be nice if the chat could be the same, we have nothing aainst single guys but going through all the names to find couples or fems gets a bit borring, as were not looking 4 single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definately not - there is enough segregation on the site as it is, what with Irish, Welsh, Scottish, London and whatever other rooms there are, then on top of that you have the folks fighting amongst each other ..
No No No - please no more segregation, lets just all live like the happy, tolerant family that we are supposed to be  |
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"We like to get to know people we swing with"
"This is a community"
"We've made some great friends on this site."
Just some of the things I've heard recently whilst on the site. If you go and potentially alienate a whole group of people ie, single men, single women (which, lets face it, a lot of you are looking for) what is that going to do, to your so called community?!?!?!?!?
Feck it, I'm in a post and be damned mood. |
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"the site is growing at a fast rate but all we see is more single guys would any one else but us like a room for just varifide couples let us know thor thoughts "
Would it be a couples room where you could absolutely guarantee both halves of the couple were there at the time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""We like to get to know people we swing with"
"This is a community"
"We've made some great friends on this site."
Just some of the things I've heard recently whilst on the site. If you go and potentially alienate a whole group of people ie, single men, single women (which, lets face it, a lot of you are looking for) what is that going to do, to your so called community?!?!?!?!?
Feck it, I'm in a post and be damned mood. "
And that's the best mood to be in 
You're right what you are saying, and we've said the same for a long time. We are all pissing in the same pot, so why does everyone want their own little corner to sit in ?
All it does is alienate groups of people from each other ...
Too may labels put onto groups of people we think ? We are all swingers and it's high time people got to grips with the fact and started to act as though they're swingers and not rival groups who want nothing to do with each other
We're in the same mood as you tonight - could be a bumpy ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how would you stop the fake cpls being there as well and where would all the singles go?
to some where they were welcome
we need each other wether you like it or not "
Oldgit - what you are saying is in keeping with our views - too much segregation is not good for a community, in fact too much segregation causes the community to cease to exist -then where would we all be ? |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
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just read the op`s profile
so single fems are ok on here
its just guys you want removed
what do you think the fems are here for? just for you to play with
I have been to parties where "superior" cpls were and refused to play with them due to ther attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A forum is for discussion, why is my opinion on a subject any less valid because I'm single?
If you want to search for couples use the browse function at the top of the page |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think its fun having couples and singles, i dont play with couples but am friends with lots of em and socialise with em, loads of couples in our room wales, nice to have variety in a room i think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"think its fun having couples and singles, i dont play with couples but am friends with lots of em and socialise with em, loads of couples in our room wales, nice to have variety in a room i think"
'Our room Wales'!!
OUR room ffs !
Sums up what I've said in the past too much segregation 'ours' and 'yours'
Sorry but we are swingers and do not, never have and never will subcribe to the 'us' and 'you' 'ours' and 'yours' scenario
As we've said before - we are all pissing in the same pot - so lets get get rid of the boundaries eh ? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I have to say I agree with the majority here.
We would be stuck in no mans land as we don't look for couples, but are a couple.
It is almost like the men are second class citizens, they are not, they are members too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mmmmmm let just leave the chat room like it is like its working to many people in room cant keep up with conversations and well wispers well thats a waste of time.
fab have seriously lost its way since site supporter silver and gold any tom dick and harry can support with a mobile phone giving him access to photos in larger format and veiws to all new pics downloaded turned in to a pervs timewasters site well the way its going there will be no real couples left to have a couples only room |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"think its fun having couples and singles, i dont play with couples but am friends with lots of em and socialise with em, loads of couples in our room wales, nice to have variety in a room i think
'Our room Wales'!!
OUR room ffs !
Sums up what I've said in the past too much segregation 'ours' and 'yours'
Sorry but we are swingers and do not, never have and never will subcribe to the 'us' and 'you' 'ours' and 'yours' scenario
As we've said before - we are all pissing in the same pot - so lets get get rid of the boundaries eh ?"
Kittenxx is one of the moderators for the wales room.
Segregation is never a good thing but everyone has personal preferences. In fact if somewhere is couples and single fems only I don't go, as although I get along with couples I generally only play with single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmmmm let just leave the chat room like it is like its working to many people in room cant keep up with conversations and well wispers well thats a waste of time.
fab have seriously lost its way since site supporter silver and gold any tom dick and harry can support with a mobile phone giving him access to photos in larger format and veiws to all new pics downloaded turned in to a pervs timewasters site well the way its going there will be no real couples left to have a couples only room "
Sorry, have to disagree with every single word that you say ... you are talking 100% tosh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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only meant "our room" cos thats where I mostly chat and meet from. Every room on the site is really "OUR ROOM". I think thats why we have the certain rooms for localities for easier meets, not to separate us. If we have too much segreation, where will it stop. It can be endless, bi or gay females only, males only, we could end up being ageist and as we know that would be breaking the law lol (cos i an oldie lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just an idea...how about rooms only for people who live in the same street as you. Now that could be quite interesting! Can see the net curtains twitching already! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmmmm let just leave the chat room like it is like its working to many people in room cant keep up with conversations and well wispers well thats a waste of time.
fab have seriously lost its way since site supporter silver and gold any tom dick and harry can support with a mobile phone giving him access to photos in larger format and veiws to all new pics downloaded turned in to a pervs timewasters site well the way its going there will be no real couples left to have a couples only room "
you can hardly look at foto's in larger format on a mobile fone, blimey, how big is yr mobile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmmmm let just leave the chat room like it is like its working to many people in room cant keep up with conversations and well wispers well thats a waste of time.
fab have seriously lost its way since site supporter silver and gold any tom dick and harry can support with a mobile phone giving him access to photos in larger format and veiws to all new pics downloaded turned in to a pervs timewasters site well the way its going there will be no real couples left to have a couples only room
you can hardly look at foto's in larger format on a mobile fone, blimey, how big is yr mobile "
I think she means paying for it by mobiel phone.
Although I'm not sure how any other means of payment is going to restrict people from signing up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mmmmmm let just leave the chat room like it is like its working to many people in room cant keep up with conversations and well wispers well thats a waste of time.
fab have seriously lost its way since site supporter silver and gold any tom dick and harry can support with a mobile phone giving him access to photos in larger format and veiws to all new pics downloaded turned in to a pervs timewasters site well the way its going there will be no real couples left to have a couples only room
you can hardly look at foto's in larger format on a mobile fone, blimey, how big is yr mobile "
It must be one of those new plasma screened mobile phones - probably carried around on a trailer behind their car  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just an idea...how about rooms only for people who live in the same street as you. Now that could be quite interesting! Can see the net curtains twitching already!"
wouldnt u no be better off just going
2 visit them then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'd think the original poster had said all room should be shut in order to just have one cpls only room by some of the reactions!
Were not for or against it! It'd be good for cpls to talk to cpls that are all verified! But then what huge difference will it make! Maybe once cpls are outnumbered 20 to 1 by the feared single male then it'd prob be a good idea!
For now we are more than happy with OUR Scottish room ha ha you can take our single males but you'll never take our freedom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol scottish xx
nice friendly room you have there, i pop in occasionally. lovely people mind u mostly lovely people in all the rooms, and we can filter out who can see or not see us which is good. lol have fun whichever room anyone is in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not having a go at the couples (God forbid!), but a couples only room would inevitably make it more difficult for us single guys. What I think WOULD be a good idea would be for a search facility, enabling those cpls who ARE looking to meet single men (or women) to be listed separately? Save an awful lot of reading through profiles, some of which CAN be unclear as to whether singles are welcomed. Any thoughts? |
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Were not for or against it! It'd be good for cpls to talk to cpls that are all verified! ............."
That raises, yet again, the value of verifications. Would it be couples who have been verified by chatting on the phone? By webcam? What about verified couples who aren't a couple any more but haven't revised the profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes but alan if couples are NOT look for single men they can BLOCK so if single men are not BLOCKED they know couples are into single men.If ppl cant be bothered to use the BLOCK system then they have to put up with single men. I was told by one couple that single people should not be classed as SWINGERS huh so few of us have decided that we are SWINGLES. AT the end of the day everyone on the site is looking for SEX i THINK. lol enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only today I have seen 3 instances of xenophobia, albeit from the same member, who, in my opinion, was being rude to other members of our swinging and human society. We all breathe, sleep and poo the same what difference should it make whether you are single F, single M, MF cpl, FF cpl or MM cpl. If your thing is for any of the above categories, make sure you put it on your profile. We personally are not looking for single guys, but both my hubby and I look at lots of different profiles and send email and winks (if that profiles agrees to them) mainly just to comment on a good profile. There IS too much segregation on this site already (we even feel it as we are 'soft swingers' only and boy do we get frowned upon sometimes), so PLEASE don't spoil it by adding more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think she means paying for it by mobiel phone.
Although I'm not sure how any other means of payment is going to restrict people from signing up"
I presume because most cpls would be more likley to notice payments coming off each others cards or see each others statements at one time or another.
Therefore its easier for a: cheating singles b: pic collectors to pay on a mobile . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why only verified couples? what about the new couples, how are they supposed to get verified and known if noone wants to meet them?"
Thanks susiebabe yes that's what I mean but what do i know im speaking a 100% tosh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about having a room where only site supporters can enter.
And charge double for couples. Seems fair.
All that would happen is that you'd get a lot more fake couples with fake verifications.
Please stop trying to exclude single swingers. |
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"How about having a room where only site supporters can enter."
There is one. It's called supporters room.
"And charge double for couples. Seems fair."
Yep. That works for me.
" ............Please stop trying to exclude single swingers."
Something has to be done. They seem to be breeding out there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think she means paying for it by mobiel phone.
Although I'm not sure how any other means of payment is going to restrict people from signing up
I presume because most cpls would be more likley to notice payments coming off each others cards or see each others statements at one time or another.
Therefore its easier for a: cheating singles b: pic collectors to pay on a mobile ."
Nice idea, but sort of falls apart when you can buy pre-paid credit cards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples only room would not be much cop for couples looking for single males. Many couples do this and often they don't advertise this fact.
What would also help for couples stressed by being contacted by single males is to remove them from their search option and to stop them viewing their profile via the privacy settings. This also effects you when in the chatroom
Any further seperation would start to undermine the purpose of this site |
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"I have to say I agree with the majority here.
We would be stuck in no mans land as we don't look for couples, but are a couple.
It is almost like the men are second class citizens, they are not, they are members too "
Heeeeyyyyyyyyyy love it ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so where would single females fit in????
im not single any more but am still interested in where they would fit into the scheme of things because if you are going to exclude single men from a room surely all singles should be excluded and that includes the elusive single bi- female too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so where would single females fit in????
im not single any more but am still interested in where they would fit into the scheme of things because if you are going to exclude single men from a room surely all singles should be excluded and that includes the elusive single bi- female too?"
Lonely, I'm so lonelyyyyyy all on my ownnnnnnnn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"u know wot
one room for all
aint that better
at least i wudnt keep ending up in lobby
or one for perving i e directing n one othere for general chatter
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Joking aside - that's not such a bad idea....
I think the more labels that are put onto rooms, the more people will feel excluded and won't go into those rooms. I for one, and yes I've said this before, won't go into any of the regional rooms because I feel that they are exactly as they say - for Scottish, Welsh, Irish ... bal bla bla. I know without doubt that I would me made welcome in there, however because it is labeled - I feel that I would be intruding by going into 'their' room when I am not one of 'them' And I'm a chatroom moderator ffs! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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didnt think it would be such a diverse reaction but im glad it brought ppl together to talk the reason the directing is so popular is it is cam directing! the other rooms are not if all had the directing allowed would that change the amount of ppl in one room? similar if cpls who were varifide by fab had a difrent coloured name then ppl looking 4 cpls would know who to chat to without looking through profiles and that would not disturb the whisper group also would it not work having the last answer first on a forum instead of last just a thought! ty for your comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can see the point that having a couples only room would bring up many issues since the chat rooms seem to be only used for general chat like any other kind of chat room, or for those whom like to watch and be watched. A room for those whom wish to arrange a meet would be good, I know there is the meet today listings but when ur in chat its much easier to get the gist of a persons or couples personality. However you wish to use the chat room I do see that they are limited as it can be hard to keep up with a conversation when the room is full and its very hard if ppl are trying to talk to u in whisper as well. I am a reasonably fast typer and i struggle sometimes and miss a lot, it would be much easier if when whispering if u could just click on the persons name rather than have to type it in or have the whisper come up in a separate box altogether. I think its the way that room is hard to follow when full which makes ppl turn to the ideas of segregation as that would reduce the numbers in room. and therefore make it easier to chat with the kind of ppl your looking to hopefully meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so where would single females fit in????
im not single any more but am still interested in where they would fit into the scheme of things because if you are going to exclude single men from a room surely all singles should be excluded and that includes the elusive single bi- female too?
Lonely, I'm so lonelyyyyyy all on my ownnnnnnnn "
Cone and stay with us hun u wont be lonely then xxxxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so where would single females fit in????
im not single any more but am still interested in where they would fit into the scheme of things because if you are going to exclude single men from a room surely all singles should be excluded and that includes the elusive single bi- female too?
Lonely, I'm so lonelyyyyyy all on my ownnnnnnnn
Cone and stay with us hun u wont be lonely then xxxxxxxxxx"
Think they'd mind if we asked for a threesomes room? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just an idea...how about rooms only for people who live in the same street as you. Now that could be quite interesting! Can see the net curtains twitching already!
wouldnt u no be better off just going
2 visit them then "
Tried that Stunna and all we got was a sherry and digestive biscuit LoL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The original post said a chatroom for VERIFIED couples, we think its a good idea and we'd actually like the opportunity to go in one if we wanted to, not all the time because we are happy to chat to anyone.
Couples who wish to chat and/or meet single guys or ladies have the opportunity already to mix so why shouldn't people who feel differently be denied that opportunity, it also helps keep the rooms a little smaller and more managible?
Its ok saying we are all swingers but why should we all mix if we dont want to, we don't all go to coffee and cream, greedy girls or Bi nights at swingers clubs but we don't deny those who want to the opportunity, to us its about choice and thats all the original post was about.
K&T |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The original post said a chatroom for VERIFIED couples, we think its a good idea and we'd actually like the opportunity to go in one if we wanted to, not all the time because we are happy to chat to anyone.
Couples who wish to chat and/or meet single guys or ladies have the opportunity already to mix so why shouldn't people who feel differently be denied that opportunity, it also helps keep the rooms a little smaller and more managible?
Its ok saying we are all swingers but why should we all mix if we dont want to, we don't all go to coffee and cream, greedy girls or Bi nights at swingers clubs but we don't deny those who want to the opportunity, to us its about choice and thats all the original post was about.
K&T"
Good point, but then you may find all the sections of the swinging comunity would want a room of their own
Thus using a lot more server space and also segregation surely ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the site is growing at a fast rate but all we see is more single guys would any one else but us like a room for just varifide couples let us know thor thoughts "
we would love a couples room and the only members saying no to it are all the single men in most of the room we go in ,it is full of 95%single men so why do we have to go right down the list to find a couples profile |
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