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So called singles on Valentine's night ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight  "
There's football on tonight, that's much more important than meeting some stranger for sex  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i can't meet tonight, well i can but only trusted guys and i think the one i planned to spend tonight with can't get here anyway.
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I wasn't phishing for a meet it was a reality of swinging x |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i can't meet tonight, well i can but only trusted guys and i think the one i planned to spend tonight with can't get here anyway.
I wasn't phishing for a meet it was a reality of swinging x"
i know what you mean. plenty of liars on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
There's football on tonight, that's much more important than meeting some stranger for sex "
Pah football, I know what I'd rather be doing and it's not watching 20 odd blokes chase a ball ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight "
no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves 
these threads make great filters  |
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves
these threads make great filters "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm busy can't meet most nights.
You need to pre arrange in advance for most meets. Only a small percentage happen same day I'd imagine. "
I don't mean a meet now just a planned meet in general, the perfect filter but will have to wait till next year now, plan a meet for Valentine's night ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves
these threads make great filters "
Nooooo muppets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom."
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh."
Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom."
meeting a stranger for sex is hardly having an affair but i take your point, I just make a note on the profile and leave well alone  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom."
Just putting it out there that I don't judge it was just a topic about this specific day |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh.
Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!"
me neither.
so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This seems to be a common topic on the forum tonight. It's all a bit boring - and that's coming from someone who won't meet anyone who is cheating.
I mean, yeah it happens, obviously. And, so? Plus I'd imagine plenty of genuinely single people may have asked someone out for Valentine's day. Are we to assume they're all cheating as well? Ugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh.
Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!
me neither.
so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them."
You're not being dragged into anything - I've met people who were upfront about being attached - that's up to them, and has nothing to do with me or you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh."
Station 1 going to train of thought it has now left the platform |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"This seems to be a common topic on the forum tonight. It's all a bit boring - and that's coming from someone who won't meet anyone who is cheating.
I mean, yeah it happens, obviously. And, so? Plus I'd imagine plenty of genuinely single people may have asked someone out for Valentine's day. Are we to assume they're all cheating as well? Ugh."
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh.
Station 1 going to train of thought it has now left the platform "
my day has been buzzin', i'm chilled now. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh.
Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!
me neither.
so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them.
You're not being dragged into anything - I've met people who were upfront about being attached - that's up to them, and has nothing to do with me or you."
i didn't even fuck him and he was telling me all about his wife, so yeah it is dragging me into his marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who practice non-monogamy, which let's face it, is all of us, don't really have much room for preaching in my opinion.
It's just sex - it's not the precious be all & end all that the church, or societal convention would have you believe.
Recreational sex should be available to anyone that wants it, regardless of their situation, in my view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry if it's boring and been talked about before, I haven't read them and just thought I'd ask my own question "
Sorry, I get that you may not have looked at all the threads. Sometimes it can just feel like beating a dead horse.
Here's a similar thread in the lounge:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/603753 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry if it's boring and been talked about before, I haven't read them and just thought I'd ask my own question
Sorry, I get that you may not have looked at all the threads. Sometimes it can just feel like beating a dead horse.
Here's a similar thread in the lounge:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/603753"
I'm not really a forum guy but a thought popped into my head so out it came on the forum |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves
these threads make great filters "
Was thinking the very same thing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh.
Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!
me neither.
so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them.
You're not being dragged into anything - I've met people who were upfront about being attached - that's up to them, and has nothing to do with me or you."
I'd say knowing and partaking is involving myself. My opinion.
I choose to not involve myself in anything that can cause drama. Even simple things can turn into complicated.
That's not being judgemental. It's an opinion. Everyone has a choice. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"People who practice non-monogamy, which let's face it, is all of us, don't really have much room for preaching in my opinion.
It's just sex - it's not the precious be all & end all that the church, or societal convention would have you believe.
Recreational sex should be available to anyone that wants it, regardless of their situation, in my view."
I agree with your view, but you would have thought this should be the very place to be open and honest, unfortunately if it only reduced their chance of a fuck by half of one percent some would still lie about their relationship status.
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"I never understand the judgemental nature of some people on here - the Internet has obviously made it much easier for people to have affairs, but so what?
People are often in loveless, miserable, dull marriages and sex with a stranger is a way out of that - I'm single, and have been married, and was monogamous while married but I have no problem with people wanting to enjoy themselves and have some freedom.
meh...
dave at the market was looking after his disabled wife, hard job i'm sure.
he wanted an affair with me. i didn't even fancy him anyway, he used to give me freebies coz he 'liked' me, i took them.
not sure where i was going with this but meh.
Sorry but I have no idea what you're talking about!
me neither.
so what if people have crap marriages, no need to drag me into them.
You're not being dragged into anything - I've met people who were upfront about being attached - that's up to them, and has nothing to do with me or you.
I'd say knowing and partaking is involving myself. My opinion.
I choose to not involve myself in anything that can cause drama. Even simple things can turn into complicated.
That's not being judgemental. It's an opinion. Everyone has a choice. "
i agree.
he was also fucking one of my neighbours already, i used to have a brew with him but he really wasn't my type. for many reasons. |
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
How about the so called single males and females who are busy looking after their kids? "
Many people on here have to pre plan and it it's a 'special' night like valentines or Xmas eve, New Year's Eve etc the chances of child care decreases |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
no idea but its amazing how many of the so called 'single' people have said on threads today about what they got for their other halves
these threads make great filters "
threads can be very enlightening  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
How about the so called single males and females who are busy looking after their kids? "
I know i have those and a grandson |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
How about the so called single males and females who are busy looking after their kids? "
Yup. That's me. No midweek meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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This thread was based a little bit lighthearted and a little dig at the "why can't you do this or that", "face pic ?" brigade that I and countless others have to read as a reply to a message.
I'm of the age where I know life for whatever reason comes before playtime, your personal reason is your own if i was meeting you then we'd decide a date and not dictate one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wonder how many of the so called single male and females are "busy can't meet" tonight
You, it turns out. "
I'm not busy, I can jump in my car at any time except to go 200 miles to meet a single guy claiming to be a couple ha ha |
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"im single i didnt want to meet on valentines day, but i met last weekend and am meeting this weekend
spread the love  "
Hello Suzy - you been hibernating??? Not seen you around on the forums for a while |
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