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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we have BBC party's. Young and hung party's etc. Nights single guys aren't allowed into clubs. Guys only have to make a contribution party's.
Can you imagine party's for guys based on colour, age, dress size, bra size there would be a outrage.
Yes there are bbw nights. I've attended a few and slim ladies do attend.
There's lots of single guys on fab but I get the feeling that we are the rats of the swinging world. When really with how we get excluded were still here says volumes for them. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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It's not that single guys are rats at all - more that they're in the vast majority (saw a suggestion the other day that the ratio is about 10:1) and therefore it's about supply and demand, and have to work that bit harder to get anything out of the site.
You either accept it for what it is, or let it drive you to distraction. I know which I'd rather do!!
To be honest, since setting up this solo profile I've been surprised at the amount of interaction and possibilities of meets etc I've had, without actually putting too much effort in, and that's coming from a past it 51 year old who doesn't have a ripped Adonis like body or loads of veris etc.
Think it's about setting your expectations correctly, having a decent profile and pics and just being yourself without being overly pushy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not that single guys are rats at all - more that they're in the vast majority (saw a suggestion the other day that the ratio is about 10:1) and therefore it's about supply and demand, and have to work that bit harder to get anything out of the site.
You either accept it for what it is, or let it drive you to distraction.
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Think it's about setting your expectations correctly, having a decent profile and pics and just being yourself without being overly pushy."
Absolutely this, brilliant explanation.  |
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We don't meet single men,purely because the thrill for us is in swapping partners and watching each other.
However we don't bash them and know it's tough on here ,Jack did well as a single man here before we met.
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"So we have BBC party's. Young and hung party's etc. Nights single guys aren't allowed into clubs. Guys only have to make a contribution party's.
Can you imagine party's for guys based on colour, age, dress size, bra size there would be a outrage.
Yes there are bbw nights. I've attended a few and slim ladies do attend.
There's lots of single guys on fab but I get the feeling that we are the rats of the swinging world. When really with how we get excluded were still here says volumes for them."
But you've mentioned both sides of the coin, there are MILF Mondays, Cougars and Cubs, BBW etc as well as BBC, young and hung.
So it happens both ways?
Surely, the issue is there are just 10x as many single guys?
We aren't actively looking for single guys, but chat to them in clubs, some on here are dicks as are some couples and single fems. I don't think they should be thought of as second class in any way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think a lot of that is motivated by men themselves though. It's men (particularly the men in couples) who don't want too many other men at club nights, men who tend to depict themselves as BBC or young and hung. I find it all a bit crass and avoid all that stuff, but I'm not sure it's women who drive it anyway.
If anything, swinging is a couples world, which is understandable since it was originally just about couples. Women are welcomed to the extent that they will flounce about looking pretty in corsets and pretending to be bisexual to tittilate the male halves of couples. |
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If you are a normal, nice guy it is to your advantage that there are so many idiots on fab. Stick to your guns. Send nice messages and treat others with respect and it will work out for you - eventually. It wont happen overnight ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we have BBC party's. Young and hung party's etc. Nights single guys aren't allowed into clubs. Guys only have to make a contribution party's.
Can you imagine party's for guys based on colour, age, dress size, bra size there would be a outrage.
Yes there are bbw nights. I've attended a few and slim ladies do attend.
There's lots of single guys on fab but I get the feeling that we are the rats of the swinging world. When really with how we get excluded were still here says volumes for them."
Don't go to parties then. There are plenty of ladies who want to meet us solo.... stand out by being polite, interesting, funny and patient. Use your biggest strongest most wanted tool....your brain and everything else will follow. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"So we have BBC party's. Young and hung party's etc. Nights single guys aren't allowed into clubs. Guys only have to make a contribution party's.
Can you imagine party's for guys based on colour, age, dress size, bra size there would be a outrage.
Yes there are bbw nights. I've attended a few and slim ladies do attend.
There's lots of single guys on fab but I get the feeling that we are the rats of the swinging world. When really with how we get excluded were still here says volumes for them."
everything in your post is fairly accurate Clint but no one I've ever spoken to privately or met has ever made me feel anything but a valued human being .
my advice would be forget about the illusion of how things may seem because the reality is nothing like what you outline once contact and friendships has been established .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we have BBC party's. Young and hung party's etc. Nights single guys aren't allowed into clubs. Guys only have to make a contribution party's.
Can you imagine party's for guys based on colour, age, dress size, bra size there would be a outrage.
Yes there are bbw nights. I've attended a few and slim ladies do attend.
There's lots of single guys on fab but I get the feeling that we are the rats of the swinging world. When really with how we get excluded were still here says volumes for them."
or you could relax and enjoy yourself here..it's a lovely place for a bloke too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some single men put in lot's of effort to overcome the problems faced and to stand out.
Others whinge in the forums, it gets them noticed but for all the wrong reasons.  "
Read below fella. Have a good day  |
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"Some single men put in lot's of effort to overcome the problems faced and to stand out.
Others whinge in the forums, it gets them noticed but for all the wrong reasons. "
Correct. I might bang on about clubs, but here are two recent examples of things I've seen.
1. Single guy comes in a club we were at. Average looking, shy-ish but 'normal' guy. His, first trip ever to a club. About an hour later, he was playing with a couple.
2. Recent trip to a club, mid-week evening, good looking single woman sat at bar all evening. Friendly, we chatted to her, bar staff chatted to her. After sitting there all night, she left frustrated from no single guys being available.
Moral of the story, either stay in the throng of thousands on here, or, get out there, chat, be nice and it will happen.
MrB
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some single men put in lot's of effort to overcome the problems faced and to stand out.
Others whinge in the forums, it gets them noticed but for all the wrong reasons.
Correct. I might bang on about clubs, but here are two recent examples of things I've seen.
1. Single guy comes in a club we were at. Average looking, shy-ish but 'normal' guy. His, first trip ever to a club. About an hour later, he was playing with a couple.
2. Recent trip to a club, mid-week evening, good looking single woman sat at bar all evening. Friendly, we chatted to her, bar staff chatted to her. After sitting there all night, she left frustrated from no single guys being available.
Moral of the story, either stay in the throng of thousands on here, or, get out there, chat, be nice and it will happen.
MrB
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This post wasn't a winge post. Or wow me post at all. The ones that have taken it that way just miss my point. Not surprised. It is the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There was a guest on Sky News at lunchtime, discussing the changing dynamics of relationships, which appears to be due to the changes in male/female ratio in the vanilla world.
There used to an excess of women, now there is an excess of men by 6%. She was discussing women now have opportunities to be the main bread winner etc, have more choice in choice of male partners etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet single males with one exception of a male half from a couple.
But I don't tar all single men with the same brush.
To be fair the majority of single guys are great guys and very respectful, but there is a few that are not. Hence they spoil it for the ones that are genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. "
If you're doing that well , why concern yourself with what other single men are up too ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But I don't tar all single men with the same brush.
To be fair the majority of single guys are great guys and very respectful, but there is a few that are not. Hence they spoil it for the ones that are genuine. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples.
If you're doing that well , why concern yourself with what other single men are up too ? "
I'm not concerned about other guys. Just some never give guys a chance. Though you of all ppl would understand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I only meet single males with one exception of a male half from a couple.
But I don't tar all single men with the same brush.
To be fair the majority of single guys are great guys and very respectful, but there is a few that are not. Hence they spoil it for the ones that are genuine. "
This. No matter how successful a guy is or polite etc there will always be fabbers that judge every guy as the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples.
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If you're doing that well , why concern yourself with what other single men are up too ?
I'm not concerned about other guys. Just some never give guys a chance. Though you of all ppl would understand"
Oh I do understand but you didn't give me a chance when I had a fab break due to a family loss |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples.
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If you're doing that well , why concern yourself with what other single men are up too ?
I'm not concerned about other guys. Just some never give guys a chance. Though you of all ppl would understand
Oh I do understand but you didn't give me a chance when I had a fab break due to a family loss "
If I'd known that I'd have handled things better. My loss for not staying in touch. Sorry to hear that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only meet single males with one exception of a male half from a couple.
But I don't tar all single men with the same brush.
To be fair the majority of single guys are great guys and very respectful, but there is a few that are not. Hence they spoil it for the ones that are genuine. "
I wouldn't want to associate with someone who thinks the behaviour of a few represents the behaviour of all ...if you replaced "single guys" in your sentence with black/gay people it would sound racist/homophobic....but because it's single guys it's somehow acceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only meet single males with one exception of a male half from a couple.
But I don't tar all single men with the same brush.
To be fair the majority of single guys are great guys and very respectful, but there is a few that are not. Hence they spoil it for the ones that are genuine.
This. No matter how successful a guy is or polite etc there will always be fabbers that judge every guy as the same "
So? Who cares if they do....why give them a platform to continue that....skip over them and surround yourself with those who don't. Focusing on the others only ends you up in the wrong place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only meet single males with one exception of a male half from a couple.
But I don't tar all single men with the same brush.
To be fair the majority of single guys are great guys and very respectful, but there is a few that are not. Hence they spoil it for the ones that are genuine.
I wouldn't want to associate with someone who thinks the behaviour of a few represents the behaviour of all ...if you replaced "single guys" in your sentence with black/gay people it would sound racist/homophobic....but because it's single guys it's somehow acceptable. "
Think from many of the responses in this post it certainly isn't acceptable lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love single guys, but given that we only have chance to do about one meet per month at the absolute max, and get lovely messages from;
very hot single guys,
ladies
and couples
every day...it would be impossible for us to meet everyone that we want to, especially factoring in doing a social first too.
Intelligent single guys who aren't tossers are more than welcome, but unfortunately there are also a lot of tosssers that get on people's nerves. That being said, it's quite easy to differentiate between the polite and articulate and rude morons, regardless of gender or marital status
Ruby
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But how many of the 'single ' guys on here are here because they think they're gonna get a easy fuck rather than being a genuine swinger "
Is it just guys then that use this site just for sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But how many of the 'single ' guys on here are here because they think they're gonna get a easy fuck rather than being a genuine swinger
Is it just guys then that use this site just for sex?"
No its not
I'm only here for sex pretty much all of my meets are one offs because I prefer it that way
The sites here to use as you see fit
What makes you a genuine swingers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think so.e people like easy categories and generalisations.
I think that the money follows and so becomes a way to market according to whatever the current favoured labels are.
I think this site contains a lot of judgement and so people stick to what they know.
I think that there a lot of people that send out a bunch of ill thought out messages. The sheer number of single men mean there are more messages reveived from these. But i have had bad messages from all the categories that fab allows.
I also believe that it is still frowned upon for women to have a voracious sexual appetite. And i think finding a niche is almost like finding an explanation for "deviant" behaviour.
I've kind of lost where I was going with this.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think so.e people like easy categories and generalisations.
I think that the money follows and so becomes a way to market according to whatever the current favoured labels are.
I think this site contains a lot of judgement and so people stick to what they know.
I think that there a lot of people that send out a bunch of ill thought out messages. The sheer number of single men mean there are more messages reveived from these. But i have had bad messages from all the categories that fab allows.
I also believe that it is still frowned upon for women to have a voracious sexual appetite. And i think finding a niche is almost like finding an explanation for "deviant" behaviour.
I've kind of lost where I was going with this.... "
Haha a bit like the thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think so.e people like easy categories and generalisations.
I think that the money follows and so becomes a way to market according to whatever the current favoured labels are.
I think this site contains a lot of judgement and so people stick to what they know.
I think that there a lot of people that send out a bunch of ill thought out messages. The sheer number of single men mean there are more messages reveived from these. But i have had bad messages from all the categories that fab allows.
I also believe that it is still frowned upon for women to have a voracious sexual appetite. And i think finding a niche is almost like finding an explanation for "deviant" behaviour.
I've kind of lost where I was going with this....
Haha a bit like the thread "
If we just brainstorm over inequalities specifically in relation to fab we might get there |
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"There's lots of single guys on fab but I get the feeling that we are the rats of the swinging world. When really with how we get excluded were still here says volumes for them."
one of the funniest things is when guys block then moan about not meeting..  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. "
no never is there anything about us being good enough to fuck, not enough to date, moaning about not replying, moaning about us wanting 'connection', we are all bitches, and this is a free prostitute site and we wouldn't get anything in the real world as we are all so promiscuous, fat, ugly, mentally deranged and we should be grateful for any cock..blah blah blah..a certain percentage here act entitled, a certain amount act like victims, the majority have a great time, and dont moan that often..which category do you represent?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. no never is there anything about us being good enough to fuck, not enough to date, moaning about not replying, moaning about us wanting 'connection', we are all bitches, and this is a free prostitute site and we wouldn't get anything in the real world as we are all so promiscuous, fat, ugly, mentally deranged and we should be grateful for any cock..blah blah blah..a certain percentage here act entitled, a certain amount act like victims, the majority have a great time, and dont moan that often..which category do you represent? "
Having a great time. Read the whole thread then you would of got your answer |
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"There's lots of single guys on fab but I get the feeling that we are the rats of the swinging world. When really with how we get excluded were still here says volumes for them.
one of the funniest things is when guys block then moan about not meeting.. "
Once again read the whole thread |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. no never is there anything about us being good enough to fuck, not enough to date, moaning about not replying, moaning about us wanting 'connection', we are all bitches, and this is a free prostitute site and we wouldn't get anything in the real world as we are all so promiscuous, fat, ugly, mentally deranged and we should be grateful for any cock..blah blah blah..a certain percentage here act entitled, a certain amount act like victims, the majority have a great time, and dont moan that often..which category do you represent?
Having a great time. Read the whole thread then you would of got your answer "
i did read the thread, but then i have also read your posts before..i know the answer, do you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. no never is there anything about us being good enough to fuck, not enough to date, moaning about not replying, moaning about us wanting 'connection', we are all bitches, and this is a free prostitute site and we wouldn't get anything in the real world as we are all so promiscuous, fat, ugly, mentally deranged and we should be grateful for any cock..blah blah blah..a certain percentage here act entitled, a certain amount act like victims, the majority have a great time, and dont moan that often..which category do you represent?
Having a great time. Read the whole thread then you would of got your answer i did read the thread, but then i have also read your posts before..i know the answer, do you?"
Well the green arrow will say it all. I'm glad that's cleared it up.
But said really I'd stayed away from the forums because of the amount of times ppl have taken comments,posts out of context. This just proves I was right to stay away. And I remember meeting you in person at jaydees  |
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. "
I was kinda with you. I love meeting single guys and they do get treated badly by some. But to say you've never seen anything bad about females or couples? Come on now, there are statuses slagging off women and couples on here every single day. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. no never is there anything about us being good enough to fuck, not enough to date, moaning about not replying, moaning about us wanting 'connection', we are all bitches, and this is a free prostitute site and we wouldn't get anything in the real world as we are all so promiscuous, fat, ugly, mentally deranged and we should be grateful for any cock..blah blah blah..a certain percentage here act entitled, a certain amount act like victims, the majority have a great time, and dont moan that often..which category do you represent?
Having a great time. Read the whole thread then you would of got your answer i did read the thread, but then i have also read your posts before..i know the answer, do you?
Well the green arrow will say it all. I'm glad that's cleared it up.
But said really I'd stayed away from the forums because of the amount of times ppl have taken comments,posts out of context. This just proves I was right to stay away. And I remember meeting you in person at jaydees "
and? expression in words is a tricky one, it needs to be worked at, like everything else in life, that or run away, its your choice x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. no never is there anything about us being good enough to fuck, not enough to date, moaning about not replying, moaning about us wanting 'connection', we are all bitches, and this is a free prostitute site and we wouldn't get anything in the real world as we are all so promiscuous, fat, ugly, mentally deranged and we should be grateful for any cock..blah blah blah..a certain percentage here act entitled, a certain amount act like victims, the majority have a great time, and dont moan that often..which category do you represent?
Having a great time. Read the whole thread then you would of got your answer i did read the thread, but then i have also read your posts before..i know the answer, do you?
Well the green arrow will say it all. I'm glad that's cleared it up.
But said really I'd stayed away from the forums because of the amount of times ppl have taken comments,posts out of context. This just proves I was right to stay away. And I remember meeting you in person at jaydees and? expression in words is a tricky one, it needs to be worked at, like everything else in life, that or run away, its your choice x"
I think the threads run it course. I could of worded things better and I'll remember that next time. But I'll think twice as a few times I've had ppl with personal issues discussing them on a open forum which I thought was against forum rules.
Wasn't a negative thread just was looking for input. But any chance to knock someone who is successful then lol fill there boots on here.
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I am successful. 17 meets in 8 weeks. I'm not complaining but I've still experienced negatively towards myself purely because I'm a single guy. At clubs, seen the status about single guys. Still to see anything bad about single females or couples. no never is there anything about us being good enough to fuck, not enough to date, moaning about not replying, moaning about us wanting 'connection', we are all bitches, and this is a free prostitute site and we wouldn't get anything in the real world as we are all so promiscuous, fat, ugly, mentally deranged and we should be grateful for any cock..blah blah blah..a certain percentage here act entitled, a certain amount act like victims, the majority have a great time, and dont moan that often..which category do you represent?
Having a great time. Read the whole thread then you would of got your answer i did read the thread, but then i have also read your posts before..i know the answer, do you?
Well the green arrow will say it all. I'm glad that's cleared it up.
But said really I'd stayed away from the forums because of the amount of times ppl have taken comments,posts out of context. This just proves I was right to stay away. And I remember meeting you in person at jaydees and? expression in words is a tricky one, it needs to be worked at, like everything else in life, that or run away, its your choice x
I think the threads run it course. I could of worded things better and I'll remember that next time. But I'll think twice as a few times I've had ppl with personal issues discussing them on a open forum which I thought was against forum rules.
Wasn't a negative thread just was looking for input. But any chance to knock someone who is successful then lol fill there boots on here.
Enjoy "
i gave you imput, you changed the subject..maybe you didnt like what i put, but i wasn't being negative, just honestly speaking from my point of view on here |
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If it weren't for single guys I wouldn't be here! Over 90% of my meets are with single guys!
I also thinks it sucks that most clubs in many areas - eg the West Midlands - don't allow guys on a Saturday night! I think it's completely unfair and certainly puts me off going!
Couples and single fems should NOT 'rule' the swinging world - it should be a place where we can all have fun, friendship and great sex! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Think to sum it up OP, single males here are no more rats than they make themselves, any more than there are couples and single females that do so.
Certainly don't think single males are excluded any more than they exclude themselves individually by having too high expectations or a sense of entitlement about the site or the swinging world in general.
We each make of the site what we put into it and so long as we each tailor our expectations accordingly then all is well with the world. |
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