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who should cum first male or female
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the situation, who you're with and what round it is  "
This......one way or another it's a joint decision based on the participants/situation/mood etc.
Like most of these either/or posts there is no straight simple answer.
Though for me, most times...ladies first....and last! |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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"Female, as we can Cum over and over, most men lose interest once they have lol very true but I can cum more than once usally three to four times depends on how good the sex is "
Yeah but we don't need a rest in-between lol |
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By *amiano OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Female, as we can Cum over and over, most men lose interest once they have lol very true but I can cum more than once usally three to four times depends on how good the sex is
Yeah but we don't need a rest in-between lol"
rest I don't need a rest cat nap fag break thts for the weak  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been able to reload /repeat in the past.. But part of my sexual adventure or maybe even the mainstream school of thought heaven forbid on here has always been the lady cum s first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I rarely if ever come with anyone but Mr N so we'd be an awfully long time if we waited for me  "
haha Im the same.. only really cum with my partner. Unless im really enjoying sucking cock.. or Mr is making another lady orgasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same time in a perfect world, but if not always the lady. Cause once you know she is satisfied you can go into over drive and fuck like a randy dog up a leg. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think there should be a sort of this person comes first thing. And most of my sexual encounters have been with women so that's probably why I have that opinion; with two women there's not as much of a chance of one being 'too quick'. |
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" I rarely if ever come with anyone but Mr N so we'd be an awfully long time if we waited for me haha Im the same.. only really cum with my partner. Unless im really enjoying sucking cock.. or Mr is making another lady orgasm. "
We have a few things in common it seems. Some men see it as a challenge but most understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I rarely if ever come with anyone but Mr N so we'd be an awfully long time if we waited for me haha Im the same.. only really cum with my partner. Unless im really enjoying sucking cock.. or Mr is making another lady orgasm.
We have a few things in common it seems. Some men see it as a challenge but most understand."
Most men seem to see it as a challenge. I'm not a performing seal, I hate men like that so avoid them. I prefer mutual fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Female, as we can Cum over and over, most men lose interest once they have lol"
Ladies first. I don't lose interest but I need a bit of recovery time. I can always keep you occupied though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not the end of the world if a man comes first. If he came, rolled over and went to sleep, and left me hanging I probably wouldn't see him again.
If he came before me slept, woke up and carried on that would be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While there should be no rules for sex, I always try to make the lady cum first, especially in round 1. This is purely because while I can cum more than once, I need a little recovery time, whereas most women I've been with want more, immediately! After my first orgasm I tend to last longer anyway, so it's not really a case of "who cums first", it's more about "how many orgasms can I give her?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like a couple of others have said I normally only orgasm with my partner so it could be a long wait, however I do find it annoying and it has the complete opposite effect if men make too much fuss about me having an orgasm I can have great sex without a single orgasm.
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Years ago with a gf i always delayed cumming so I was sure that she cum first thinking I was doing the right thing
She then said several months later that she wanted me to cum first as she thought I didn't fancy her and it gave her a complex.
At that point I gave up but guess the answer is to talk and never assume you know what a woman wants |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like a couple of others have said I normally only orgasm with my partner so it could be a long wait, however I do find it annoying and it has the complete opposite effect if men make too much fuss about me having an orgasm I can have great sex without a single orgasm.
Ginger"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Years ago with a gf i always delayed cumming so I was sure that she cum first thinking I was doing the right thing
She then said several months later that she wanted me to cum first as she thought I didn't fancy her and it gave her a complex.
At that point I gave up but guess the answer is to talk and never assume you know what a woman wants"
x 1,000
Why don't people just talk and agree.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does it matter really, all about what's going on at the time for me, and I'm certainly not keeping track of who came first when.
If everyone has fun, is the order in which people came of any relevance?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really care who cums first as long as if it's the man, they don't then think that's it over."
It's usually me anyway. I'm very easily pleased - but hard to satisfy - so I tend to have multiple orgasms during foreplay while I keep my guy on edge.
The majority of my meets carry on for round 2, so both of us end up happy and I send him home shattered  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies always cum first "
I hate that phrase - it's an instant killer for me! It takes it for granted that I want that - and then puts pressure on me to cum.
I'd never meet anyone who said that to me...
Try asking me what I'd like to happen, instead!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies always cum first
I hate that phrase - it's an instant killer for me! It takes it for granted that I want that - and then puts pressure on me to cum.
I'd never meet anyone who said that to me...
Try asking me what I'd like to happen, instead!
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feel the same. X |
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