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By *LCC OP Couple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else? "
Thank God someone said it! It does my head in. Why bother making yourself noticed by winking, when I can't even see them? Even if I ask for a photo from them, they just don't reply. I just don't take notice of the blank profiles now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's a shy wink...to shy to put pics up...you know the guts on here are really shy   "
It's not just no pics most of them don't even have any text written on the profile. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else? "
Not really that, what does though is looking, seeing you might like to know more, send a nice message, you know thanks for wink yada yada, leave them an open..To get back "Hi, yeah, you OK?" In the early days we'd keep trying, now its "Oh ffs, bugger off if you can't make the effort, we are not doing all the bloody work"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else? "
Occasionally but I just don't delete the wink though as that way they can't wink again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a wink off someone went to look and their profile was hidden now that's pointless"
Yep had them as well they get blocked straight away as really don't see why they would hide there profile unless it's fake |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else? "
How about those winks from a hidden profile?? I scratch my head at that |
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"I don't let anything frustrate me on here because it's meant to all be about fun.
Try not to let it bother you."
Fab is not fun in our experience. It is anything but.
The fun part is the actual meet itself. Not the interminable exchanges of messages with fantasists, timewasters, abusive sociopaths and the mentally disturbed.
All to be encountered and discarded like kissing so many frogs before finding a very rare Prince.
Sadly that is often a unavoidable part of the fab "experience".
The op definitely has a point but on the scale of irritations that are encountered on fab that I feel is low on the scale. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing frustrates me in here or any internet site.
I have a life outside to live so refuse to let what happens in a virtual world vex me.
Its just a bit of a light hearted fun in my opinion. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else? "
They may be shy. Just really shy hence why nothing on their profile as well. Not ready for any actual contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else?
They may be shy. Just really shy hence why nothing on their profile as well. Not ready for any actual contact. "
If that's the case why wink isn't that sort of asking for contact? If I didn't want contact I wouldn't bring people's attention to me or my profile. Just my thoughts on that though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't let anything frustrate me on here because it's meant to all be about fun.
Try not to let it bother you.
Fab is not fun in our experience. It is anything but.
The fun part is the actual meet itself. Not the interminable exchanges of messages with fantasists, timewasters, abusive sociopaths and the mentally disturbed.
All to be encountered and discarded like kissing so many frogs before finding a very rare Prince.
Sadly that is often a unavoidable part of the fab "experience".
The op definitely has a point but on the scale of irritations that are encountered on fab that I feel is low on the scale."
So if you feel that bad about fab why have a profile on here? Surly if it's that bad for you it's not worth being on here. |
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"Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else? "
For me a wink, is me saying I like your profile. I find it a time saving thing. It saves me writing a message, you deleting the message. |
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"I don't let anything frustrate me on here because it's meant to all be about fun.
Try not to let it bother you.
Fab is not fun in our experience. It is anything but.
The fun part is the actual meet itself. Not the interminable exchanges of messages with fantasists, timewasters, abusive sociopaths and the mentally disturbed.
All to be encountered and discarded like kissing so many frogs before finding a very rare Prince.
Sadly that is often a unavoidable part of the fab "experience".
The op definitely has a point but on the scale of irritations that are encountered on fab that I feel is low on the scale.
So if you feel that bad about fab why have a profile on here? Surly if it's that bad for you it's not worth being on here. "
Simply because as we have yet to find a better way to hook up with other swingers.
Trust me if there was we would not waste any more time dealing with the many wasters who proliferate on fab
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I'm from the above profiles same area and can agree with what they surmise about our area!
I find it extremely hard to meet on here as well, but I do live in hope, and in answer to the original question, I do not look at my winks, so they are wasted on me  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Of winking at someone, and then when you check out their profile, they don't have any pictures and usually no text either?
When we wink we usually mean "check out our profile and let us know if you like what you see" so when people wink us, but dont have anything for us to see, I just think "what's the point"
Does this frustrate anyone else? "
Doesn't frustrate me, I just delete and block them |
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