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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Purely asking peoples opinions on whether or not they would consider me attractive/goodlooking. I know this is a very vain thing to post and I will probably get a lot of stick for it. But I do honestly just want to know people's opinions.
I'm currently having a very long dry spell on fab and even when I go out. I know my hair is crazy and I'm probably not everyone's cup of tea. But it would be nice to know people's honest opinions about me and what they think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Purely asking peoples opinions on whether or not they would consider me attractive/goodlooking. I know this is a very vain thing to post and I will probably get a lot of stick for it. But I do honestly just want to know people's opinions.
I'm currently having a very long dry spell on fab and even when I go out. I know my hair is crazy and I'm probably not everyone's cup of tea. But it would be nice to know people's honest opinions about me and what they think. "
You're so vain you probably think this reply is about you  |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"To be honest, your pics could be improved...
What could I do to improve them? "
1.Too many cock pics.
2.You are always frowning. It would be great to see proper smiles or laughs.
3.The backgrounds in your pics are messy, at best...They detract from what should be the main focus (i.e you)... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry, I'm confused.
Is your hair *supposed* to look like you've been plugged into the mains on a windy day?
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That's what I generally get asked lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest, your pics could be improved...
What could I do to improve them?
1.Too many cock pics.
2.You are always frowning. It would be great to see proper smiles or laughs.
3.The backgrounds in your pics are messy, at best...They detract from what should be the main focus (i.e you)..."
Thanks I will work on some new ones and remove some cock photos |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"To be honest, your pics could be improved...
What could I do to improve them?
1.Too many cock pics.
2.You are always frowning. It would be great to see proper smiles or laughs.
3.The backgrounds in your pics are messy, at best...They detract from what should be the main focus (i.e you)...
Thanks I will work on some new ones and remove some cock photos "
And please delete the cock / remote control pic...PLEASE!!! |
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After scrolling down more than a few cock pics I found your face.
A decent face, but sort out that bloody hair because that is losing you points. Makes you look like a boy instead of a man.
So not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Purely asking peoples opinions on whether or not they would consider me attractive/goodlooking. I know this is a very vain thing to post and I will probably get a lot of stick for it. But I do honestly just want to know people's opinions.
I'm currently having a very long dry spell on fab and even when I go out. I know my hair is crazy and I'm probably not everyone's cup of tea. But it would be nice to know people's honest opinions about me and what they think. You're so vain you probably think this reply is about you "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP...listen properly to the comments and advice offered. We are your target audience, so pay attention to what we find attractive, and what turns us off...  "
I know, sorry if it sounds like I'm not listening. I really am taking everything you all say on board |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So get rid of the cock pics, do something about my hair and just have more pictures that attract attention to me? "
No!!!!! Just no!! You have your profile how you want it, not how some strangers on a forum tell you to have it.
Some women love cock pics. If you like showing off your cock then show it off. You will attract the type of people that like that. Would you really change your hair etc just for a shag?
I guess that's up to you.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So get rid of the cock pics, do something about my hair and just have more pictures that attract attention to me?
No!!!!! Just no!! You have your profile how you want it, not how some strangers on a forum tell you to have it.
Some women love cock pics. If you like showing off your cock then show it off. You will attract the type of people that like that. Would you really change your hair etc just for a shag?
I guess that's up to you. "
I totally understand what you mean, but with my hair I'm well overdue a haircut and have been planning to get it cut for a while. I tried messaging you privately for a chat my im outside you age range lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Too young/immature looking for me
You asked for honesty and that was it "
That's a shame because your stunning, but like you said I did ask for honest opinions lol |
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"Too young/immature looking for me
You asked for honesty and that was it
That's a shame because your stunning, but like you said I did ask for honest opinions lol "
Well thank you for the compliment and though not for me you will be for some you've just got to keep trying even though it's disheartening at times
Best of luck to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So get rid of the cock pics, do something about my hair and just have more pictures that attract attention to me?
No!!!!! Just no!! You have your profile how you want it, not how some strangers on a forum tell you to have it.
Some women love cock pics. If you like showing off your cock then show it off. You will attract the type of people that like that. Would you really change your hair etc just for a shag?
I guess that's up to you.
I totally understand what you mean, but with my hair I'm well overdue a haircut and have been planning to get it cut for a while. I tried messaging you privately for a chat my im outside you age range lol "
Me? I don't have any mail filters. You're a sweetie, you paid attention to my profile.  |
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"To be honest, your pics could be improved...
What could I do to improve them?
1.Too many cock pics.
2.You are always frowning. It would be great to see proper smiles or laughs.
3.The backgrounds in your pics are messy, at best...They detract from what should be the main focus (i.e you)..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So get rid of the cock pics, do something about my hair and just have more pictures that attract attention to me?
No!!!!! Just no!! You have your profile how you want it, not how some strangers on a forum tell you to have it.
Some women love cock pics. If you like showing off your cock then show it off. You will attract the type of people that like that. Would you really change your hair etc just for a shag?
I guess that's up to you. "
I agree with this. Although I still think your mattress should have a sheet on it  |
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Is that a wig ?
Well you are not my type but you can def Change your style .
Cut your hair very short .
If you have nice teeth keep them white and smile more .
Get a nice white shirt and roll the sleeves up , faded jeans and leather belt with nice leather shoes .
Take some nice photos and filter them black and white .
No cock photos .
Sort the mess in the bedroom .
Make more effort to impress yourself and others .
Once you have done all this send me your new images to check it out .
I might sound awful but you just need a little push to make yourself more presentable .
Good luck sweetie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I think your hair is fucking awesome!!
At least you have a uniqueness to you that sets you apart from the ocean of other naked guys throttling their cocks...You're a naked guy throttling you cock with epic hair!
Seriously though, lose some of the pics of you holding your cock.
Your profile could do with some tweaking to make you sound a bit more intriguing but if you put those lips as your profile pic I'm sure you'll get a lot more attention. Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is that a wig ?
Well you are not my type but you can def Change your style .
Cut your hair very short .
If you have nice teeth keep them white and smile more .
Get a nice white shirt and roll the sleeves up , faded jeans and leather belt with nice leather shoes .
Take some nice photos and filter them black and white .
No cock photos .
Sort the mess in the bedroom .
Make more effort to impress yourself and others .
Once you have done all this send me your new images to check it out .
I might sound awful but you just need a little push to make yourself more presentable .
Good luck sweetie "
Nope, not a wig all my natural hair, as you can tell I have a lot |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think you should change your appearance. You're a good looking guy. Be yourself and you'll attract the right people for you. Take the advice though about some of the photos and be more mindful of the clutter in the background 
Good luck OP
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think you should change your appearance. You're a good looking guy. Be yourself and you'll attract the right people for you. Take the advice though about some of the photos and be more mindful of the clutter in the background
Good luck OP
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Thanks Jamie, I will make sure to listen to the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gotta laugh at everyone telling the poor guy to change his appearance to suit their tastes when they wouldn't be interested anyway!!
I agree with Jamie ^^
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You change your name a lot OP!!
Personally speaking you're not my type, too much hair and a beard..
And too many cock pics on yr profile..
but I'm sure someone out there will go for you..
Just keep at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Things that stand out to me are as already stated you have no bedding on your bed, the background is very untidy and why have you got a packet of tobacco on your bed if your a none smoker?
Maybe it's not your personal looks that are putting people off
Things like this will matter to a lot of people you one man amongst thousands on here you need to stand out for the right reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks I will work on some new ones and remove some cock photos
Just some? Read old Profile Advice threads in the forums "
For example, either your own profile advice one or the other 'am I attractive' one you started up OP.
But, as I'm here, I would echo the comments above regarding the number of cock pictures and overall composure and presentation of pictures. As for your hair, your choice what you have atop your head, go with your own style how you want it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hairs cool ....put cock pics on yo private m send if asked .....Dont get so fucking stoned before taking face pics n posting.....thought you wad Chinese for a minute lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So get rid of the cock pics, do something about my hair and just have more pictures that attract attention to me?
....and tidy your bedroom "
That'll also get you brownie points from your mum |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
From a guys point of view. Lose the mention of 420, lose the repetition of experienced (and mention of; you are only 24), lose the description of skin colour (it's obvious by your pics). Your pics are fine, drop a couple that repeat, take some in some different clothes as they all seem to be in the same white shirt. Say what you are looking for. My deed for the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Purely asking peoples opinions on whether or not they would consider me attractive/goodlooking. I know this is a very vain thing to post and I will probably get a lot of stick for it. But I do honestly just want to know people's opinions.
I'm currently having a very long dry spell on fab and even when I go out. I know my hair is crazy and I'm probably not everyone's cup of tea. But it would be nice to know people's honest opinions about me and what they think. You're so vain you probably think this reply is about you "
Don't you, don't you |
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When you understand that nobody is attractive to everybody, you'll be fine.
One person will think you are revolting another, the most handsome man in the world. How you feel about yourself is far more important. |
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"From a guys point of view. Lose the mention of 420, lose the repetition of experienced (and mention of; you are only 24), lose the description of skin colour (it's obvious by your pics). Your pics are fine, drop a couple that repeat, take some in some different clothes as they all seem to be in the same white shirt. Say what you are looking for. My deed for the day. "
Please leave the 420 reference in. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!  "
The guy is having a dry patch. He asked if we thought he was attractive. We are giving forum answers. We don't want or need forum answers on our profiles and besides, he's taking some on board as we're not sat here behind silhouette profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!
Guess irony is lost you then"
I wasn't bitching about his profile.  |
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"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!
Guess irony is lost you then
I wasn't bitching about his profile. "
Just everyone else's that doesn't have much to say or look at instead as I said irony is clearly lost on you, hypocrisy also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!
Guess irony is lost you then
I wasn't bitching about his profile.
Just everyone else's that doesn't have much to say or look at instead as I said irony is clearly lost on you, hypocrisy also "
What on earth are you going on about woman?? Your post doesn't make sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So get rid of the cock pics, do something about my hair and just have more pictures that attract attention to me?
Put a sheet on the bed and tidy up
And get some razors "
I like the cut of your jib
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"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!
Guess irony is lost you then
I wasn't bitching about his profile.
Just everyone else's that doesn't have much to say or look at instead as I said irony is clearly lost on you, hypocrisy also
What on earth are you going on about woman?? Your post doesn't make sense. "
Well that's t would to someone that can't see the irony and hypocrisy of their own post
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't read all the replies but I like your hair, in all its places lol. I am attracted to people who are a little bit different. Cock pics don't bother me either way. I did notice you don't say anything about yourself.
I agree with the people who have said you just need to be yourself. If you are yourself you'll come across more authentic and confident and that is attractive. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!
The guy is having a dry patch. He asked if we thought he was attractive. We are giving forum answers. We don't want or need forum answers on our profiles and besides, he's taking some on board as we're not sat here behind silhouette profiles "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!
The guy is having a dry patch. He asked if we thought he was attractive. We are giving forum answers. We don't want or need forum answers on our profiles and besides, he's taking some on board as we're not sat here behind silhouette profiles "
He's also not a ken doll.
Wear this, lick that, sit there and roll over... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is that a wig ?
Well you are not my type but you can def Change your style .
Cut your hair very short .
If you have nice teeth keep them white and smile more .
Get a nice white shirt and roll the sleeves up , faded jeans and leather belt with nice leather shoes .
Take some nice photos and filter them black and white .
No cock photos .
Sort the mess in the bedroom .
Make more effort to impress yourself and others .
Once you have done all this send me your new images to check it out .
I might sound awful but you just need a little push to make yourself more presentable .
Good luck sweetie "
He asked if he was good looking not to be told what to wear think this reply is way over the top and out of order. Also if he filters the photos black and white what difference is the colour of the shirt and faded jeans going to make as your not going to know the colour or if there faded. Cut your hair very short. Were you trying to make him your ideal. Yes his hair may look a bit wild but really telling him what clothes to buy and how to have his hair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!
The guy is having a dry patch. He asked if we thought he was attractive. We are giving forum answers. We don't want or need forum answers on our profiles and besides, he's taking some on board as we're not sat here behind silhouette profiles
He's also not a ken doll.
Wear this, lick that, sit there and roll over... "
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Best thread ever!! People bitching about aspects of the OP's profile yet when you look at THEIR profiles.....!!
Bloody hell!
The guy is having a dry patch. He asked if we thought he was attractive. We are giving forum answers. We don't want or need forum answers on our profiles and besides, he's taking some on board as we're not sat here behind silhouette profiles
He's also not a ken doll.
Wear this, lick that, sit there and roll over... "
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