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Who plays with similar people to who they might date in 'real' life?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My husband loves to watch me with a young superfit muscle bound stud. In contrary to 'real' life, where these guys don't pass me a second glance on the beach, I find I can get that quite easily on Fab or in a club. But the funny thing is, my choice for regular sex partners are all very similar. Goodlooking and charming, but middle aged with a dad's bod. Exactly what I would go for if I were dating, and very similar to my husband. Do others go for the same type or different from their usual type?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My husband loves to watch me with a young superfit muscle bound stud. In contrary to 'real' life, where these guys don't pass me a second glance on the beach, I find I can get that quite easily on Fab or in a club. But the funny thing is, my choice for regular sex partners are all very similar. Goodlooking and charming, but middle aged with a dad's bod. Exactly what I would go for if I were dating, and very similar to my husband. Do others go for the same type or different from their usual type?
Mrs"
This is my 'real life'. I don't differentiate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel I would be going outside my comfort zone if met someone that wasn't similar to the type of person I would date..so I stick with tall, dark and kinky  |
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"I feel I would be going outside my comfort zone if met someone that wasn't similar to the type of person I would date..so I stick with tall, dark and kinky "
Tall dark and kinky reporting for duty!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope , yes , sometimes ...... from 18 year olds to much older , and from CDs , TVs , ts , women , groups , and pretty much anything you could think of , I've had so much fun with all of them .
But this is part of our real life too , we aren't very happy to state that swinging is a lifestyle choice for us . |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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I really don't have a type (other than being as tall or taller than me).
I'm much more attracted by character/personality than the physical. Outside of Fab the men I've dated/had relationships with are all different physically and it's the same here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With swinging I have to be physically attracted to someone and I also have to like their personality. That's pretty much as far as it goes. When I was dating I had to be attracted to them physically, I had to like their personality, their intelligence and education mattered, as did their work ethic.
Physically I have sex with the same type of person that I would have considered dating when I was single. But a lot more mattered to me when I was dating than in swinging. I've had sex with people who I wouldn't have considered dating. |
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This is tough one - and in all honesty the answer is 'yes and no'! I tend to go for younger guys - partly because it 'keeps things simple' (ie too big an age difference for a 'real' relationship so avoids hurt/misunderstandings!) - but in personality, looks etc they're the type of guys I dated when younger - and would do now if I were younger myself!
I tend to have very little in common with people my own age - so don't tend to meet them on fab or in the 'real world!' There are one or two notable exceptions though - largely on the forums!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont do dating, variety is a the spice of life
you can date different people, but you obviously need time for that, and you are always in the gym "
That is right as you need time for it and yes. I am too busy with the gym for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't feel comfortable going with guys who I know wouldn't give me a second glance on the street. I know the sex wouldn't be great as I'd feel uncomfortable. Therefore, I go for guys I'd date... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With swinging I have to be physically attracted to someone and I also have to like their personality. That's pretty much as far as it goes. When I was dating I had to be attracted to them physically, I had to like their personality, their intelligence and education mattered, as did their work ethic.
Physically I have sex with the same type of person that I would have considered dating when I was single. But a lot more mattered to me when I was dating than in swinging. I've had sex with people who I wouldn't have considered dating."
yes this completely goes for me too.  |
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I am sometimes deliberately meeting with someone I date. just for the experience. and to see if it really matters. goes without saying that I still have to be physically and mentally attached to them. |
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"I am sometimes deliberately meeting with someone I date. just for the experience. and to see if it really matters. goes without saying that I still have to be physically and mentally attached to them. "
ups. someone I wouldn't meet is what I wanted to say... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first embarked on this adventure I was after the young,ripped men who most likely wouldn't look twice at me in a bar.
I realised I needed more and now look for men I have things in common with too, so they do tend to be in their 40's+. |
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Mine are entirely intertwined - I have dated entirely unsuitable people and met top rate 'bf material' on fab. Oh I have my preferences here, and my criteria on dating sites, which is much more demanding - and yet it seems alchemy always comes from the quarter I least expect it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My husband loves to watch me with a young superfit muscle bound stud. In contrary to 'real' life, where these guys don't pass me a second glance on the beach, I find I can get that quite easily on Fab or in a club. But the funny thing is, my choice for regular sex partners are all very similar. Goodlooking and charming, but middle aged with a dad's bod. Exactly what I would go for if I were dating, and very similar to my husband. Do others go for the same type or different from their usual type?
Mrs"
For swinging I go for a wide variety of body types - personality and eye contact and tone of voice and imagination is more important than looks when it comes to turning me on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I pretty much only meet younger men, and I'd never date anyway. However, if any other circumstances changed I'd say mostly yes I'd date them, but not always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with all of the above....has to be a mental connection too as well as physical. So yes to the original question....what i have learned follwong this rule are a load of deviants things..which i never ever in my wildest dreama thought i would encounter. The person or persons have to be on the same wave length. |
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"When I first embarked on this adventure I was after the young,ripped men who most likely wouldn't look twice at me in a bar.
I realised I needed more and now look for men I have things in common with too, so they do tend to be in their 40's+."
Same here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My husband loves to watch me with a young superfit muscle bound stud. In contrary to 'real' life, where these guys don't pass me a second glance on the beach, I find I can get that quite easily on Fab or in a club. But the funny thing is, my choice for regular sex partners are all very similar. Goodlooking and charming, but middle aged with a dad's bod. Exactly what I would go for if I were dating, and very similar to my husband. Do others go for the same type or different from their usual type?
Mrs"
I have played with loads of women I would never dream of dating because of their age or circumstances. Looks and body though are similar to what I would date. |
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Ive noticed that i have a taste for petite women myself. And not stick thin, boob size isnt even considered. I think it essential that u find them attractive and they are ur type get more of a kick then. Maybe im just a little picky but thats just me. Mr n |
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