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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some people love me for being me, some people hate me for my attitude.
But isn't that better than just someone thinking you're 'OK' ?
For me, life is about passion, so 'OK' doesn't cut it for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about the ones who love to hate you? They are my fave kinda people because they are so fucked up with their emotions.  it must be tougher for them. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people love me for being me, some people hate me for my attitude.
But isn't that better than just someone thinking you're 'OK' ?
For me, life is about passion, so 'OK' doesn't cut it for me."
Is it worse that people don't notice the attitude and still think you're just OK ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If anyone really loves or hates someone from the internet who they don't actually know in real life, they need to have a word with themselves."
Unfortunately it happens a lot on here. Some sad people on Fab. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"If anyone really loves or hates someone from the internet who they don't actually know in real life, they need to have a word with themselves."
 This. Honestly, I don't think people truly hate someone on here. They might think someone is a twunt but hate? Likewise, they may enjoy reading someone's posts but I doubt they love them unless they know them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If anyone really loves or hates someone from the internet who they don't actually know in real life, they need to have a word with themselves.
This. Honestly, I don't think people truly hate someone on here. They might think someone is a twunt but hate? Likewise, they may enjoy reading someone's posts but I doubt they love them unless they know them. "
I've had messages of hate, it happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people love me for being me, some people hate me for my attitude.
But isn't that better than just someone thinking you're 'OK' ?
For me, life is about passion, so 'OK' doesn't cut it for me."
On fab we would far rather be loved or hated , and being ok wouldn't cut it for us either .
In the real world , ok is fine , we prefer to be under the radar to be honest . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm just me in this world, some people like me, some don't. I can't and don't try to be all things to all people, it would exhausting."
Perfect attitude |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
"Some people love me for being me, some people hate me for my attitude.
But isn't that better than just someone thinking you're 'OK' ?
For me, life is about passion, so 'OK' doesn't cut it for me."
I'm fine if people think I'm ok. I'd rather be thought ok by people I do not know.On here there are people who need the attention whether positive or negative to measure their self worth. I am very passionate about some aspects in my life but none is fab related. |
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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago
not far from you.. |
I'm very Misunderstood in the "Vanilla world" because I'm openly averse about my sexual fantasies/desires ect people take a dim view (as most vanilla people do) not sure they hate me? Does it bother me, no it does not.
Most are envious I'm guessing..
Real friends" the very few I have understand me & love me for who iam that's all that matters to me
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know who the six or seven people who love me are. I don't care what anyone else thinks about me really. "
I wouldn't have sex with someone who hated me though so I do need to have some idea from the people I meet with on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know who the six or seven people who love me are. I don't care what anyone else thinks about me really.
I wouldn't have sex with someone who hated me though so I do need to have some idea from the people I meet with on here."
But if they hate you why would they want to have sex with you? That feels like an issue that deals with itself. I expect the vast majority of people to be completely indifferent to me, because that's the reality. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
We are all mere pixels on a screen dahling, for that reason I'm really not bothered what other pixels in the forums think.
Outside of here, friends and people we've met, see the real us,, our real fun personalities, and zest for life.
We are happy with our life, have great loving family, and very close lovely friends. That's all we need.  xxxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know who the six or seven people who love me are. I don't care what anyone else thinks about me really.
I wouldn't have sex with someone who hated me though so I do need to have some idea from the people I meet with on here.
But if they hate you why would they want to have sex with you? That feels like an issue that deals with itself. I expect the vast majority of people to be completely indifferent to me, because that's the reality."
Some might just think I'm ok. I don't settle for ok. I meet people who want me, not just half hearted about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we're talking on here I wouldn't expect anyone to have any adverse reactions to me one way or the other. That would be weird. "
You've never received abusive messages? Awww you're missing out on some great entertainment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't you think that love and hate can be confussed/denied? Xxx"
Very much so. There can be an extremely fine line between love and hate in the real world. However, on Fab its more clear cut to those that like or don't like me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we're talking on here I wouldn't expect anyone to have any adverse reactions to me one way or the other. That would be weird.
You've never received abusive messages? Awww you're missing out on some great entertainment."
I don't make a habit of it, no. But I really don't think that most people who send abusive messages actually hate the recipient either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know who the six or seven people who love me are. I don't care what anyone else thinks about me really.
I wouldn't have sex with someone who hated me though so I do need to have some idea from the people I meet with on here.
But if they hate you why would they want to have sex with you? That feels like an issue that deals with itself. I expect the vast majority of people to be completely indifferent to me, because that's the reality.
Some might just think I'm ok. I don't settle for ok. I meet people who want me, not just half hearted about it."
Well yes I want to meet people who want me too, but I'd be incredibly suspicious of anyone who claimed to either love or hate me before they'd even met me. They need to get out more. |
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"I know who the six or seven people who love me are. I don't care what anyone else thinks about me really.
I wouldn't have sex with someone who hated me though so I do need to have some idea from the people I meet with on here."
Oh yes, I don't mean to imply that I'm blithely unaware of people who dislike, hate or are indifferent to me, I just don't care. There's not a thing I can do to change their mind without compromising myself and I'm not doing that to win approval. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't you think that love and hate can be confussed/denied? Xxx
Very much so. There can be an extremely fine line between love and hate in the real world. However, on Fab its more clear cut to those that like or don't like me."
Yes but how do you know that they truly don't like you? They may actually want you but are masking their feelings with hate to save face. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm basing my answer on Fabs or any other group of people with whom I interact but dont really know, I'm quite happy with people thinking I'm okay, I don't need to be thought of in an extreme, which love / hate is.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If we're talking on here I wouldn't expect anyone to have any adverse reactions to me one way or the other. That would be weird.
You've never received abusive messages? Awww you're missing out on some great entertainment.
I don't make a habit of it, no. But I really don't think that most people who send abusive messages actually hate the recipient either. "
Well things I get sent come across as pure hatred. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't you think that love and hate can be confussed/denied? Xxx
Very much so. There can be an extremely fine line between love and hate in the real world. However, on Fab its more clear cut to those that like or don't like me.
Yes but how do you know that they truly don't like you? They may actually want you but are masking their feelings with hate to save face. Xxx"
In real life I think that could very easily happen, but I don't think that would happen on here as easily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we're talking on here I wouldn't expect anyone to have any adverse reactions to me one way or the other. That would be weird.
You've never received abusive messages? Awww you're missing out on some great entertainment.
I don't make a habit of it, no. But I really don't think that most people who send abusive messages actually hate the recipient either.
Well things I get sent come across as pure hatred."
Well I honestly can't see how that is better than people thinking you're ok.... |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Some people love me for being me, some people hate me for my attitude.
But isn't that better than just someone thinking you're 'OK' ?
For me, life is about passion, so 'OK' doesn't cut it for me."
Yep, On here I speak my mind and say what I think. If I think someone's being a cunt I try to tell them but without saying ot & without being too much of a cunt myself (but i'm not very good at it ).
If that means my posts put peeps off meeting us I can live with that, if they are put off by a difference of opinion that maybe is vociferously voiced at times then they are probably not for me anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't you think that love and hate can be confussed/denied? Xxx
Very much so. There can be an extremely fine line between love and hate in the real world. However, on Fab its more clear cut to those that like or don't like me.
Yes but how do you know that they truly don't like you? They may actually want you but are masking their feelings with hate to save face. Xxx
In real life I think that could very easily happen, but I don't think that would happen on here as easily."
I beg to differ... xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just me in this world, some people like me, some don't. I can't and don't try to be all things to all people, it would exhausting.
Perfect attitude "
Thanks Playful, forgot to compliment you on the Manolo's, hope there's a full pic set coming with just them *wolf whistles* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we're talking on here I wouldn't expect anyone to have any adverse reactions to me one way or the other. That would be weird.
You've never received abusive messages? Awww you're missing out on some great entertainment.
I don't make a habit of it, no. But I really don't think that most people who send abusive messages actually hate the recipient either.
Well things I get sent come across as pure hatred.
Well I honestly can't see how that is better than people thinking you're ok...."
Well it's a definite knowing where I stand. OK is medioka. A lot of people are happy with ok, and that's absoloutely fine, I'm speaking purely from a personal point of view. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm just me in this world, some people like me, some don't. I can't and don't try to be all things to all people, it would exhausting.
Perfect attitude
Thanks Playful, forgot to compliment you on the Manolo's, hope there's a full pic set coming with just them *wolf whistles* "
I may send you some privately, if you ask nicely  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't you think that love and hate can be confussed/denied? Xxx
Very much so. There can be an extremely fine line between love and hate in the real world. However, on Fab its more clear cut to those that like or don't like me.
Yes but how do you know that they truly don't like you? They may actually want you but are masking their feelings with hate to save face. Xxx
In real life I think that could very easily happen, but I don't think that would happen on here as easily.
I beg to differ... xxx "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people love me for being me, some people hate me for my attitude.
But isn't that better than just someone thinking you're 'OK' ?
For me, life is about passion, so 'OK' doesn't cut it for me.
Yep, On here I speak my mind and say what I think. If I think someone's being a cunt I try to tell them but without saying ot & without being too much of a cunt myself (but i'm not very good at it).
If that means my posts put peeps off meeting us I can live with that, if they are put off by a difference of opinion that maybe is vociferously voiced at times then they are probably not for me anyway.
S"
Well said, and I second your words entirely. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
Only the opinions of my children really matter to me.
I'm sure in real life there are people who dislike me. There are also people who claim to think highly of me but their actions say different.
I've reached a point in my life where I truly believe that those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spend precisely zero time thinking or even worrying about who likes me and who doesn't etc.
Some people like me. Others don't. That's life.
The important thing is that I like me.
I am happy with who I am as a person.
I'm a nice guy. I'm considerate of others. Always willing to help out others if I can. I have integrity. All qualities that I consider important and am proud of.
If some people don't like that, it's their problem, not mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people love me for being me, some people hate me for my attitude.
But isn't that better than just someone thinking you're 'OK' ?
For me, life is about passion, so 'OK' doesn't cut it for me."
I love your arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just me in this world, some people like me, some don't. I can't and don't try to be all things to all people, it would exhausting.
Perfect attitude
Thanks Playful, forgot to compliment you on the Manolo's, hope there's a full pic set coming with just them *wolf whistles*
I may send you some privately, if you ask nicely "
Wow Playful, I can't think of anything I'd enjoy more or be honoured to recieve, the ones you have posted are fantastic. Will pop you a PM in a mo x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just me in this world, some people like me, some don't. I can't and don't try to be all things to all people, it would exhausting.
Perfect attitude
Thanks Playful, forgot to compliment you on the Manolo's, hope there's a full pic set coming with just them *wolf whistles*
I may send you some privately, if you ask nicely
Wow Playful, I can't think of anything I'd enjoy more or be honoured to recieve, the ones you have posted are fantastic. Will pop you a PM in a mo x"
A bankers draft for £3M would be more enjoyable. I'd use some of it to then travel north and collect the photos in person  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm good with people thinking I'm okay.
If people hated me, I'd probably be wondering what I'd done to provoke such strong feelings.
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Just being myself causes some people to send me messages insinuating they hate me. But hey ho, they are the ones with the issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm good with people thinking I'm okay.
If people hated me, I'd probably be wondering what I'd done to provoke such strong feelings.
Just being myself causes some people to send me messages insinuating they hate me. But hey ho, they are the ones with the issues. "
Personally, if there were a lot of people insinuating that they hated me, I'd wonder why. But if it really doesn't bother me, I probably wouldn't be starting threads about it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm good with people thinking I'm okay.
If people hated me, I'd probably be wondering what I'd done to provoke such strong feelings.
Just being myself causes some people to send me messages insinuating they hate me. But hey ho, they are the ones with the issues.
Personally, if there were a lot of people insinuating that they hated me, I'd wonder why. But if it really doesn't bother me, I probably wouldn't be starting threads about it..."
A lot of it is when I reject men. It certainly doesn't bother me, why would it. I enjoy the forums, that's my only reason I ever start threads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm good with people thinking I'm okay.
If people hated me, I'd probably be wondering what I'd done to provoke such strong feelings.
Just being myself causes some people to send me messages insinuating they hate me. But hey ho, they are the ones with the issues.
Personally, if there were a lot of people insinuating that they hated me, I'd wonder why. But if it really doesn't bother me, I probably wouldn't be starting threads about it...
A lot of it is when I reject men. It certainly doesn't bother me, why would it. I enjoy the forums, that's my only reason I ever start threads. "
Rejection 'hate' is very different. If that's the case, I doubt its hatred, just stupid people with a dented pride... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm good with people thinking I'm okay.
If people hated me, I'd probably be wondering what I'd done to provoke such strong feelings.
Just being myself causes some people to send me messages insinuating they hate me. But hey ho, they are the ones with the issues.
Personally, if there were a lot of people insinuating that they hated me, I'd wonder why. But if it really doesn't bother me, I probably wouldn't be starting threads about it...
A lot of it is when I reject men. It certainly doesn't bother me, why would it. I enjoy the forums, that's my only reason I ever start threads. "
Don't no about hating but I do love your shoes |
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"Some people love me for being me, some people hate me for my attitude.
But isn't that better than just someone thinking you're 'OK' ?
For me, life is about passion, so 'OK' doesn't cut it for me."
As long as your online attitude reflects your true personality I suppose it's fine.
I think most people have met someone from here who is completely different in real life and uses their 'profile' persona to either represent the way they would rather be received, or as an excuse to act in a manner they themselves would not find acceptable face to face.
'Sassy'
'Says it like it is'
'Calls a spade a spade'
Or profiles with long lists of 'do not contact me ifs..' May be a clue here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I call a spade a spade in real life as well as on here. What you see is what you get with me. Why be anything different.
Then it sounds like the answers to your post are unlikely to concern you."
Nothing anyone says on my posts concern me. It's not real life, it's strangers on a sex site |
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