I have and always have been comfortable with my sexuality and I've been toying with the idea of going to a gay sauna ... mainly because if confidence issues
Am slightly weird? Because obviously people will be looking but because I've no interest it doesn't bother me ? |
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I know it's easy to say, but I really wouldn't worry about it. Everyone is different and there are all sorts of shapes and sizes of people. Go somewhere like Kestrels and you will see all body types - in fact, there's probably a tendency towards the "fuller figure" types there. Really relaxed environment. Great place to go if you want to dip your toe, so to speak. |
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"Well I used to be a tad chubby so I don't like being around women unclothed...
It's not the fact of a gay sauna helping confidence issues more being able to relax in a comfortable environment "
Gay men can be far more critical than women and far more vocal about it
The dynamic in a gay sauna is VERY different to in a swinging club
You can pretty much expect unsolicited touching and groping without introduction for a start
You cannot be clothed either once you are in. It is a towel or nudity, nothing else. |
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