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Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
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over a year ago
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?"
So you're admitting that you're timewasters. Weird. |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?"
so you like to waste other peoples time as well?  |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?
So you're admitting that you're timewasters. Weird. "
I thought that....the very definition of time Wasters! |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?"
Maybe this timewaster you're bating isn't really a timewaster at all but just someone who's sick of timewasters like you are? Maybe you're just stringing each other along. |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?"
No - life's too short |
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Why would you actually encourage them ?
It's hard enough picking through sometimes as it is especially as ghosting is so popular. This type of behaviour just makes it worse for those of us that do actually want to meet ! |
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Well, this is going well
Timewaster (for baiting purposes): Those whose profile pics we recognise from other places online/other profiles/porn. Those who claim to be hardened swingers, yet have a few profiles within a short space of time, and have contacted us trying to pretend to be different people but using the exact same messages (word for word) and send the exact same cock shots (despite claiming to be a single woman...)
Giving them what they want: Not quite - we always keep it rather vague and never send photos. Perhaps worded badly in our OP.
Timewasters ourselves: I suppose so, but strictly in the context of our OP! For real people, i.e. those with photos; veris; can string a sentence together; and will do an FF phonecall- we'd never waster their time. |
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"Why would you actually encourage them ?
It's hard enough picking through sometimes as it is especially as ghosting is so popular. This type of behaviour just makes it worse for those of us that do actually want to meet ! "
We do want to meet, do meet, and have met people on here 
Additionally, forgot to mention that once we have enough to go on for the admins, we do report. Usually the profiles are gone as quickly as they arrived. x |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?"
If they want to waste your time isn't you wasting your time in an attempt to wind them up actually just giving them what they want.... Your time?! Now they also know you think you're playing some kind of clever game when in reality it's just a sad way to waste your time that you didnt want wasted in the first place. |
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"Thought about it, don't think this is where you wanted it to go.then again kettle, black and pot often doesn't ."
Well, it's a thread on an online forum so it'll go where it goes! I believe you have the order wrong.,, it's pot, kettle, then black   |
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"Well, this is going well
Timewaster (for baiting purposes): Those whose profile pics we recognise from other places online/other profiles/porn. Those who claim to be hardened swingers, yet have a few profiles within a short space of time, and have contacted us trying to pretend to be different people but using the exact same messages (word for word) and send the exact same cock shots (despite claiming to be a single woman...)
Giving them what they want: Not quite - we always keep it rather vague and never send photos. Perhaps worded badly in our OP.
Timewasters ourselves: I suppose so, but strictly in the context of our OP! For real people, i.e. those with photos; veris; can string a sentence together; and will do an FF phonecall- we'd never waster their time."
I do know what you're saying and it's bloody tempting sometimes because they are so annoying. But if you piss them off they'll just go annoy someone else. Or come back on a new profile and do the same to you.
Hope you don't send them to non-existent addresses or anything like that. |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?
If they want to waste your time isn't you wasting your time in an attempt to wind them up actually just giving them what they want.... Your time?! Now they also know you think you're playing some kind of clever game when in reality it's just a sad way to waste your time that you didnt want wasted in the first place. "
Sometimes we have time to waste
Just like to add, in case it wasn't clear in our OP - this is every now and again. Which for us isn't every minute of the day! Just, perhaps once or twice a year. Guess our OP could have been clearer/more detailed! x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I can barely raise the effort to message those I want to meet...
Really? That's a shame because you're active a bit on the forums. "
Posting snarky comments on forum posts is a lot less time consuming than trying to arrange a meet. |
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"Why would you actually encourage them ?
It's hard enough picking through sometimes as it is especially as ghosting is so popular. This type of behaviour just makes it worse for those of us that do actually want to meet !
We do want to meet, do meet, and have met people on here
Additionally, forgot to mention that once we have enough to go on for the admins, we do report. Usually the profiles are gone as quickly as they arrived. x"
I've chatted to people to see if they give a certain response that admin can act on. Reportable. |
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"Well, this is going well
Timewaster (for baiting purposes): Those whose profile pics we recognise from other places online/other profiles/porn. Those who claim to be hardened swingers, yet have a few profiles within a short space of time, and have contacted us trying to pretend to be different people but using the exact same messages (word for word) and send the exact same cock shots (despite claiming to be a single woman...)
Giving them what they want: Not quite - we always keep it rather vague and never send photos. Perhaps worded badly in our OP.
Timewasters ourselves: I suppose so, but strictly in the context of our OP! For real people, i.e. those with photos; veris; can string a sentence together; and will do an FF phonecall- we'd never waster their time.
I do know what you're saying and it's bloody tempting sometimes because they are so annoying. But if you piss them off they'll just go annoy someone else. Or come back on a new profile and do the same to you.
Hope you don't send them to non-existent addresses or anything like that. "
We're glad someone gets it! But no, we never arrange meets with these types. Even if we did try to send them to non-existent addresses, we doubt they'd turn up! |
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"I can barely raise the effort to message those I want to meet...
Really? That's a shame because you're active a bit on the forums.
Posting snarky comments on forum posts is a lot less time consuming than trying to arrange a meet."
Haha! So true  |
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"Why would you actually encourage them ?
It's hard enough picking through sometimes as it is especially as ghosting is so popular. This type of behaviour just makes it worse for those of us that do actually want to meet !
We do want to meet, do meet, and have met people on here
Additionally, forgot to mention that once we have enough to go on for the admins, we do report. Usually the profiles are gone as quickly as they arrived. x
I've chatted to people to see if they give a certain response that admin can act on. Reportable."
Someone who gets what we're saying x |
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Anyway, whilst this has been a fun topic, Bridget Jones Baby is about to start, so we'll return to this later. And yes, we realise what people will infer from that
For those who think we might be timewasters in the non-baiting sense, take a look at our profile and other forums posts and decide for yourself xxx |
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I would say a time waster is someone who arranges a meet, time, place etc, you spend time getting ready, travel to the meet and its a no show with no contact from them. I don't class chatting on here as time wasting especially if you know they're not serious about a meet, you just leave them to it, well, that's what I do anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We must define time wasters very differently.
A time waster for us is someone who's arranged a meet and not turned up. Anything else is just time on the computer. We'd have been doing that anyway so no time wasted.
But, if it flicks your switch OP, carry on  |
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We sometimes like to wind up the idiots that either don't read our profile or choose to ignore it.
We often get messages from guys who want to meet in the UK tonight.
We usually ignore them but occasionally we will reply with a "if you can get to ours in the next hour she will fuck your brains out"
Where are you? they will ask.
Read the fucking profile we will reply.
We are in Germany BTW. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Thought about it, don't think this is where you wanted it to go.then again kettle, black and pot often doesn't .
Well, it's a thread on an online forum so it'll go where it goes! I believe you have the order wrong.,, it's pot, kettle, then black "
No screwed up is bettet |
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"I can barely raise the effort to message those I want to meet...
Really? That's a shame because you're active a bit on the forums. "
lots of people are active on the forums because they have no inclination to meet..
the two things are not mutually exclusive |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?
If they want to waste your time isn't you wasting your time in an attempt to wind them up actually just giving them what they want.... Your time?! Now they also know you think you're playing some kind of clever game when in reality it's just a sad way to waste your time that you didnt want wasted in the first place.
Sometimes we have time to waste
Just like to add, in case it wasn't clear in our OP - this is every now and again. Which for us isn't every minute of the day! Just, perhaps once or twice a year. Guess our OP could have been clearer/more detailed! x"
We quite like the sentence once or twice a year but four meets listed in your profile..  |
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Rather than define them as time wasters I prefer to think of them as fuckwits or cockwombles.
I'm afraid I have to admit to messing with them occasionally. However, I'm a bit like a cat, eventually I get bored of playing with my toys lol |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?"
I would be interested to know how you spot them, I can't until they start messing around. |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?
So you're admitting that you're timewasters. Weird. "
i was just thinking that, so its ok for you to piss people about? what if your wrong and some guy you talking to is actually genuine? |
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"They have no verifications ...... just saying
To busy wasting peoples time to actually meet no doubt "
From the same village as me, so I could come out with the cliches but I won't |
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"Most of the time, we ignore timewasters on here. They make it so obvious that's what they are and aren't worth the effort. You know the type!
But every now and again, we just can't resist winding them up. You know, talking about meets, what we'd like to do etc.
Does anyone else enjoy this sport?
So you're admitting that you're timewasters. Weird.
i was just thinking that, so its ok for you to piss people about? what if your wrong and some guy you talking to is actually genuine? "
We don't meet guys.
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"I can barely raise the effort to message those I want to meet...
Really? That's a shame because you're active a bit on the forums.
lots of people are active on the forums because they have no inclination to meet..
the two things are not mutually exclusive "
Never said they were. |
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"Rather than define them as time wasters I prefer to think of them as fuckwits or cockwombles.
I'm afraid I have to admit to messing with them occasionally. However, I'm a bit like a cat, eventually I get bored of playing with my toys lol "
Cockwombles!!! Love this!!!
I like the cat analogy too |
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"They have no verifications ...... just saying
To busy wasting peoples time to actually meet no doubt
From the same village as me, so I could come out with the cliches but I won't "
Erm... We don't live in a village |
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"Thought about it, don't think this is where you wanted it to go.then again kettle, black and pot often doesn't .
Well, it's a thread on an online forum so it'll go where it goes! I believe you have the order wrong.,, it's pot, kettle, then black
No screwed up is bettet"
Can't argue with that! |
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"We sometimes like to wind up the idiots that either don't read our profile or choose to ignore it.
We often get messages from guys who want to meet in the UK tonight.
We usually ignore them but occasionally we will reply with a "if you can get to ours in the next hour she will fuck your brains out"
Where are you? they will ask.
Read the fucking profile we will reply.
We are in Germany BTW."
Guten Morgen,
We get that too, but not often. Never can understand why people either don't read, or ignore, people's profiles. |
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"Why would you actually encourage them ?
It's hard enough picking through sometimes as it is especially as ghosting is so popular. This type of behaviour just makes it worse for those of us that do actually want to meet !
We do want to meet, do meet, and have met people on here
Additionally, forgot to mention that once we have enough to go on for the admins, we do report. Usually the profiles are gone as quickly as they arrived. x"
We'd suggest you have too much time on your hands.
M plus E |
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