... the number of guys who exchange a few words, send us a few pics of their dick and then expect to meet for sex, not having bothered to even find what we're looking for/offering. Yesterday we exchanged a few short messages with a guy who promised he'd read our profile and agreed to chat later on in the evening. When we caught up his first message was to ask for a face pic and when we declined he sent a message saying he was leaving the site because we're all time-wasters blah blah blah... What world do these guys live in I wonder?  |
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Easy, we did like the sound of him that's why we agreed to chat later. If we'd realised how he'd react we wouldn't have done that in the first place. So not the same world we live in at all really eh?... |
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"... the number of guys who exchange a few words, send us a few pics of their dick and then expect to meet for sex, not having bothered to even find what we're looking for/offering. Yesterday we exchanged a few short messages with a guy who promised he'd read our profile and agreed to chat later on in the evening. When we caught up his first message was to ask for a face pic and when we declined he sent a message saying he was leaving the site because we're all time-wasters blah blah blah... What world do these guys live in I wonder? "
Bloody single males  night mare aren't they |
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Of course it's the same world, you wanted him to dance to your tune and he wanted you to dance to his. The only difference is that he didn't put a thread up criticising you. |
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Really? You were there were you? lol He contacted us ans said he'd read our profile, we arranged to chat and then he spat his dummy because we don't have face pics here, despite the fact thatb I will always go on cam to prove we're genuine. We didn't contact him, he contacted us first and until his last message he seemed totally fine. You're clutching at straws you know. lol |
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We wouldn't accuse someone of being a timewaster, but if face pics are not exchanged then we don't see the point in continuing the conversation and would quietly retreat.
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The thing is anyone can post any pics they like as we found out very recently when we met a guy from another site. That's why I go on camera and expect the same. I'm not meeting anyone based on a pic that might be 10 years old or even of someone else.
We didn't have a problem with him asking, it was his response to our answer which led to this thread and since he's not named and isn;t any longer a member he won't be too upset.  |
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"Really? You were there were you? lol He contacted us ans said he'd read our profile, we arranged to chat and then he spat his dummy because we don't have face pics here, despite the fact thatb I will always go on cam to prove we're genuine. We didn't contact him, he contacted us first and until his last message he seemed totally fine. You're clutching at straws you know. lol"
I won't go on cam to verify myself. I don't want anyone knowing my Skype details, who may not be who they say they are. |
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"Of course it's the same world, you wanted him to dance to your tune and he wanted you to dance to his. The only difference is that he didn't put a thread up criticising you."
Here here !
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"Really? You were there were you? lol He contacted us ans said he'd read our profile, we arranged to chat and then he spat his dummy because we don't have face pics here, despite the fact thatb I will always go on cam to prove we're genuine. We didn't contact him, he contacted us first and until his last message he seemed totally fine. You're clutching at straws you know. lol
I won't go on cam to verify myself. I don't want anyone knowing my Skype details, who may not be who they say they are. "
I won't go on cam either. My mum used to push me to Skype with the kids. I would reluctantly hover in the background. Hate it. Feel hugely uncomfortable talking on cam. My husband doesn't mind so much, but I don't think he would be overly keen talking to a stranger on cam. We've never been asked to though, and face pics have always worked very well for us. |
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"Really? You were there were you? lol He contacted us ans said he'd read our profile, we arranged to chat and then he spat his dummy because we don't have face pics here, despite the fact thatb I will always go on cam to prove we're genuine. We didn't contact him, he contacted us first and until his last message he seemed totally fine. You're clutching at straws you know. lol"
I'm not clutching at straws, your opening post is clear and it's not a personal attack. I'm just highlighting how he may have perceived you.
You've only had one verification in 4 years and that was from a bloke on cam (that doesn't prove you meet people). You won't swop face pictures after a message exchange (not necessarily a deal breaker for me but I would suggest a deal breaker for the majority).
It's easy to attack single guys on here because many of them are not going to want to upset a couple, but I can see why he concluded that you were time wasters. I don't know if he came to the right conclusion.
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"... the number of guys who exchange a few words, send us a few pics of their dick and then expect to meet for sex, not having bothered to even find what we're looking for/offering. Yesterday we exchanged a few short messages with a guy who promised he'd read our profile and agreed to chat later on in the evening. When we caught up his first message was to ask for a face pic and when we declined he sent a message saying he was leaving the site because we're all time-wasters blah blah blah... What world do these guys live in I wonder? "
I expect to swap face pics straight away when I start chatting to someone. If you refused to send me a face pic I'd immediately lose interest too!
In the 'real world' people like to make sure they're attracted to someone before they have sex with them!
That's all he was doing! |
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The only thing he did wrong in my opinion was in his response calling you time wasters etc, but I can understand why he wouldn't be happy continuing to chat if no pics are exchanged. I wouldn't either. |
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"Really? You were there were you? lol He contacted us ans said he'd read our profile, we arranged to chat and then he spat his dummy because we don't have face pics here, despite the fact thatb I will always go on cam to prove we're genuine. We didn't contact him, he contacted us first and until his last message he seemed totally fine. You're clutching at straws you know. lol
I'm not clutching at straws, your opening post is clear and it's not a personal attack. I'm just highlighting how he may have perceived you.
You've only had one verification in 4 years and that was from a bloke on cam (that doesn't prove you meet people). You won't swop face pictures after a message exchange (not necessarily a deal breaker for me but I would suggest a deal breaker for the majority).
It's easy to attack single guys on here because many of them are not going to want to upset a couple, but I can see why he concluded that you were time wasters. I don't know if he came to the right conclusion.
It's not personal."
spot on!
It takes, at most, a few minutes to upload a pic from your phone onto 'private' pics! No-one will ever see it unless you choose to send it to them! Therefore there is NO excuse not to have a face pic on your fab account!
I've had people ask me to go on cam, kik, e-mail etc etc to see their faces!
No-one is that special - and if you can't be arsed to spend 2 minutes uploading a pic to private - then I can't be arsed to take the conversation any further!
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"The only thing he did wrong in my opinion was in his response calling you time wasters etc, but I can understand why he wouldn't be happy continuing to chat if no pics are exchanged. I wouldn't either. "
As they've got no face pics to show and one cam verification in 4 years on fab - some may think he had a salient point! |
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"The only thing he did wrong in my opinion was in his response calling you time wasters etc, but I can understand why he wouldn't be happy continuing to chat if no pics are exchanged. I wouldn't either.
As they've got no face pics to show and one cam verification in 4 years on fab - some may think he had a salient point! "
Well spotted!! 
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I wouldn't have called you timewasters, but if you don't have face pics and you're not prepared to swap them I would have politely declined any further contact.
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over a year ago
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To be honest I see his point. I'm sick of people asking for face pic with first message and then start chatting and refuse to send face pic back. I think it's rude and if your not willing to exchange face pics then you have something to hide, like the fact that your not what it says in your profile |
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We never cam,its not our thing ,I have to agree with the single guy,if we had sent our face pics first i would expect one in return if they said they was interested,although i wouldnt call anyone a timewaster,i would be thinking it , |
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We've met several very nice guys here over the years but they're not the subject of this thread. 