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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So after being on here a while we're finally getting some good conversations going with woman and some are looking good for a social meet and to see where it goes from there.

Thing is I worry that my pics are quite Deceiving, I look rather slim in my photos and get told I look sexy which without sounding big headed I agree problem is underneath is a whole different story. I do have saggy bits, a wobbly belly and serious stretch marks from having a child and losing loads of weight. I just don't want a meet happening seeing me undressed and being put off.

So question is do I let them know in advance my body imperfections or just hope my personality and how we click they can see past all that?

For those woman who have stretch marks have you found it an issue?

And to bi-woman do they put you off?

Sorry for the long post people, funnily enough I've never had confidence issues with my body when Going with men in the past, it just seems to be now that I'm looking to experience my bi-curious side.

L x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am large, wobbly, old, have scars and stretch marks and it's never been a problem x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a woman but l don't think most would bother at all.

Don't worry about them; lt's commonplace. l have them too, and so do many women and men.

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"So after being on here a while we're finally getting some good conversations going with woman and some are looking good for a social meet and to see where it goes from there.

So question is do I let them know in advance my body imperfections or just hope my personality and how we click they can see past all that?

For those woman who have stretch marks have you found it an issue?

And to bi-woman do they put you off?

L x

Personally I'd prefer honesty from the start , wouldn't bother me , I do prefer the personality , the body etc is secondary to me , xxx

I always state I. Bigger fan I look in my pics xxx

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By *iz78Woman over a year ago

wirral

"So after being on here a while we're finally getting some good conversations going with woman and some are looking good for a social meet and to see where it goes from there.

So question is do I let them know in advance my body imperfections or just hope my personality and how we click they can see past all that?

For those woman who have stretch marks have you found it an issue?

And to bi-woman do they put you off?

L x

Id shag ya haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So after being on here a while we're finally getting some good conversations going with woman and some are looking good for a social meet and to see where it goes from there.

So question is do I let them know in advance my body imperfections or just hope my personality and how we click they can see past all that?

For those woman who have stretch marks have you found it an issue?

And to bi-woman do they put you off?

L x

I never mention my stretch marks, not sure if they can be seen on my photos. Everyone puts their best photos on, a bit of stretching and good lighting works wonders!

Fortunately the fellas that I've met think my photos are accurate

I think it's because you are comparing your body to the lady that yr going to meet. Pre meet nerves I would say

You'll be fine

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

No, 'body imperfections' don't put me off. Several of my long term girlfriends have had stretch marks - they are actually a lot more common than you think. I have stretch marks on my boobs, tummy and thighs (fairly pale but you can see them in my photos) and no one has cowered in horror as a result of them.

I think if you accept the fact that everyone finds fault in themselves and if they didn't want to fuck you, they wouldn't, you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It has never been the slightest problem for me. Women understand these sort of things better than men so dodon't let it worry you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't worry about it love we're all the same.

Someone who is normal (body wise) and enjoying Themselves in bed and is uninhibited is much more attractive and fun to fuck than someone that isn't with a perfect body.

Bollocks to your flaws, everyone has them and no one cares, you look amazing in your pics, I'm sure it's not half as bad as you think

Remember we are all our own worse critics.

Lose the niggly thoughts and go forth and enjoy yourself!

Ruby

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

It's a funny old world eh? I think these self same things. Other people ask the question and I think " don't be daft, it's just skin you wally"

Maybe we should both try applying that thought to ourselves?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No one puts less that flattering pics on here , us included . But to worry about saggy bits etc is so not necessary . Profiles looking for perfection are obvious , and unless that's all you are after , they can be avoided .

You will soon find that people on here are totally happy with imperfections , and you are worrying about nothing

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"So after being on here a while we're finally getting some good conversations going with woman and some are looking good for a social meet and to see where it goes from there.

So question is do I let them know in advance my body imperfections or just hope my personality and how we click they can see past all that?

For those woman who have stretch marks have you found it an issue?

And to bi-woman do they put you off?

L x

Personally I'd prefer honesty from the start , wouldn't bother me , I do prefer the personality , the body etc is secondary to me , xxx

I always state I. Bigger fan I look in my pics xxx "

I look bigger than I look in my pics , !!!

Good Knows what happened there !!! Xxx

Anyhow Just be yourself and you'll be fine xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No, 'body imperfections' don't put me off. Several of my long term girlfriends have had stretch marks - they are actually a lot more common than you think. I have stretch marks on my boobs, tummy and thighs (fairly pale but you can see them in my photos) and no one has cowered in horror as a result of them.

I think if you accept the fact that everyone finds fault in themselves and if they didn't want to fuck you, they wouldn't, you'll be fine."

lt's more common in men than people realise too. l think some families get it worse because my sister got them real bad and l got them fairly bad just from growing and putting on weight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So after being on here a while we're finally getting some good conversations going with woman and some are looking good for a social meet and to see where it goes from there.

So question is do I let them know in advance my body imperfections or just hope my personality and how we click they can see past all that?

For those woman who have stretch marks have you found it an issue?

And to bi-woman do they put you off?

L x

Id shag ya haha

Shame you don't live closer lol

Thanks everyone feeling a lot better, my fiance loves me and all my imperfections and that's all that matters really.

L x

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"So after being on here a while we're finally getting some good conversations going with woman and some are looking good for a social meet and to see where it goes from there.

So question is do I let them know in advance my body imperfections or just hope my personality and how we click they can see past all that?

For those woman who have stretch marks have you found it an issue?

And to bi-woman do they put you off?

L x

Id shag ya haha

Shame you don't live closer lol

Thanks everyone feeling a lot better, my fiance loves me and all my imperfections and that's all that matters really.

L x "

Yes it is , he's the most important person xxx you just hold your head up high and shake that booty and enjoy your body xxx

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By *at1sevCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Don't worry too much! Nobody is perfect

I got few stretchmarks after pregnancy, breast isn't super perky like it used to be. But i still feel sexy and attractive!

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By *anillaguyMan over a year ago

Kingston

You look fantastic to me. It's just a fact that very few people are perfect, but hey, that's what makes us interesting

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